ERF:
Your logic is cool, and I get your point.

But the issue ( Waste of time and money) is scarcely with the "White wedding" itself. The bulk of the craze is with the "couples", the trend and the Nigerian mentality.

The typical "White Wedding" is not cost.

After all the traditional rites have been carried out, the wedding is mainly for priestly blessing. Whatever comes before, and after is mainly the addition of "man" (the religious institution) and the couples to spice their day up.


Some church wedding takes less that 2hours, some even An Hour and 30mins maximum.

While others spend alot of time in dancing, preaching and other activities to make the event a memorable one..

Most churches don't carry out "Item seven" which means wasting your money for all those stuffs is strictly your CHOICE.

Mind you, the reception has nothing to do with the "White Wedding"

The reception is strictly controlled by the couple, and many invest heavily for their pride and also a means to "cash out" too. So, you won't hold that to "White Wedding" too.

So, my person..

I know it's a normal logic which I agree that you have a very good point looking at the way it has turned to..

If you decide to go along the craze of the wedding show, it's up to you and your bride to decide. You should care more about what your decisions are with the person you want to spend the "forever" with more than what the world thinks..

The WHITE WEDDING is not the problem, it is the CHEAPEST for anybody who wants to be reasonable and cut cost. Except your religious organization is strangely burdensome and hard on you. Of course you won't hold the world responsible for you(or your fiance) attending a church that wants to sift you as wheat..

That's your own fault..

White wedding is cheap, but many people want to do the talk of town wedding, hence the craze..

After the Traditional Wedding (which to an extend you can't control the spendings no matter how hard you try), you are strictly in control of all your spendings from there..

UncompletedBuil:

This is mere formality. They already have the final list...

Just a minute few if any will the scholarship without connection...


This con3 don rotten, take it or leave it.


NO APOLOGIES

thorpido:
I have thought about this many times.Why should the burden of caring for the kids be on the woman in cases like this?
Maternal instincts maybe but if the man had to be left with the child/children sometimes,I guess they won't think of sending mother and kids away everytime.

Gptech:

Have you updated your phone to the latest version? Screenshot your about phone let's see.

Mayeldah:
Hustle O! make them no kpai you on top family land wey no fit change your life.

Poverty na bastard.

Pregift:

The fetching money is not now. while in school and after school. something that he can do for people while in school and he will get paid and after school while waiting for white collar job.

Lexusgs430:



WiFi card is either faulty or loosely connected....... Get your screwdrivers out..........

Lexusgs430:



What is missing?......

Lexusgs430:




Your driver is missing......

Go to HP's website, look for the driver and install......

OR

Search for type of hardware installed online, download drivers and install.......

Meister:


I'm not a fan of 3gb devices especially at that price range. Why don't you come and collect my 6/128 Mi 9t that'll be coming in on friday

genius43:


Get the 4/64GB RN9s

FM19addict:
it's better you get the 4gb ram variant. its quite capable although lots of people might not agree

jboixxx:
That's the best you can get except if 87k (RN9s 64) is still considered as "tight budget".

NoToPile:
I know women that are having it good very goodactually and I know those that are having it very bad and regret every single day.

I know those who are faking it to be good

I know those who carefully selected their spouse with all the due diligence and all they still have it bad.

I know those that despite the fact that their spouses had very glaring flaws they still married and are even having it better than some with all the due diligence.

One size doesn't fit all, Life happens, its only on NL I see you didn't do this that's why this is happening and I always smile at such comments.

Marriage is a huge sacrifice on both ends (its supposed to be) both spouses will have to sacrifice some things however little at some point. Most times when sane spouses want to take a decision the first thing that pops up is how will this affect my spouse and by extension the children but then lots of upside down marriages nowadays,

crazy husband crazy wife and then crazy marriage.

Sane husband, sane wife and then sane marriage

Once one of the spouses is not sane problems happen.
Simple.

Bolaji26:



Thank for this.

Should i save up and get xs max 64gb at 250k
Or what's your view please.

Akanimoh113:


Why?

luminouz:



Funny how you skipped the wife's part again and discounted every sacrifice the husband made. Damn gurl, you is a sly mudafucker!!!

Bond, Bond, Bond...that's all you care about!!! Bugs Bond