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Romance / Re: This Is Why I See White Wedding As A Waste Of Time And Money In Africa. by lovelybugs(f): 10:20pm On Oct 28, 2021
ERF:
Your logic is cool, and I get your point.

But the issue ( Waste of time and money) is scarcely with the "White wedding" itself. The bulk of the craze is with the "couples", the trend and the Nigerian mentality.

The typical "White Wedding" is not cost.

After all the traditional rites have been carried out, the wedding is mainly for priestly blessing. Whatever comes before, and after is mainly the addition of "man" (the religious institution) and the couples to spice their day up.


Some church wedding takes less that 2hours, some even An Hour and 30mins maximum.

While others spend alot of time in dancing, preaching and other activities to make the event a memorable one..

Most churches don't carry out "Item seven" which means wasting your money for all those stuffs is strictly your CHOICE.

Mind you, the reception has nothing to do with the "White Wedding"

The reception is strictly controlled by the couple, and many invest heavily for their pride and also a means to "cash out" too. So, you won't hold that to "White Wedding" too.

So, my person..

I know it's a normal logic which I agree that you have a very good point looking at the way it has turned to..

If you decide to go along the craze of the wedding show, it's up to you and your bride to decide. You should care more about what your decisions are with the person you want to spend the "forever" with more than what the world thinks..

The WHITE WEDDING is not the problem, it is the CHEAPEST for anybody who wants to be reasonable and cut cost. Except your religious organization is strangely burdensome and hard on you. Of course you won't hold the world responsible for you(or your fiance) attending a church that wants to sift you as wheat..

That's your own fault..

White wedding is cheap, but many people want to do the talk of town wedding, hence the craze..

After the Traditional Wedding (which to an extend you can't control the spendings no matter how hard you try), you are strictly in control of all your spendings from there..

Exactly. I'm really confused with what everyone is writing. From what I know, white weddings don't cost much. Unless you decide to spend.

You don't even have to wear an expensive wedding gown. A long white dress will do.

I think their problem is actually the reception which isn't even part of the white wedding.

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Family / Re: Should He Go Or Not, Whats The Worst That Could Happen If He Does Either?? by lovelybugs(f): 7:43pm On Oct 24, 2021
I'd never get how people can sit and watch their children suffer pain that could have been avoided.
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by lovelybugs(f): 10:41pm On Sep 08, 2021
Hello. Please where can someone get a Redmi note 10 pro 6gb 128gb version in Lagos?

I noticed it's quite scarce.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Who Has Applied For PTDF Scholarship,what Are Your Challenges? by lovelybugs(f): 10:45am On Jul 07, 2021
UncompletedBuil:

This is mere formality. They already have the final list...

Just a minute few if any will the scholarship without connection...


This con3 don rotten, take it or leave it.


NO APOLOGIES


The country isn't that bad. I know quite a lot of people who have gotten it on merit. You just need a high CGPA >4.3 if you're from the south.
And make sure you meet the requirements.
Family / Re: Confused! by lovelybugs(f): 4:27pm On Jul 04, 2021
thorpido:
I have thought about this many times.Why should the burden of caring for the kids be on the woman in cases like this?
Maternal instincts maybe but if the man had to be left with the child/children sometimes,I guess they won't think of sending mother and kids away everytime.

As nice as this sounds, a lot of men can't be trusted with their own kids. They'll end up dumping them at relatives homes as unpaid house boys and girls, to be molested by whoever pleases. A mother who loves her children would never leave them to go through that. That's why most women are at a disadvantage. Na who care pass dey loose for marriage matter.

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Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by lovelybugs(f): 8:12pm On May 22, 2021
Gptech:

Have you updated your phone to the latest version? Screenshot your about phone let's see.

Yes I've updated it to the latest version

Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by lovelybugs(f): 10:30pm On May 21, 2021
Hello, good evening. I got the redmi note 9 last month from jumia and so far I've been enjoying the phone. The issue I'm having is that anytime I open the camera app to take an image, it sometimes hangs. Like I'll take an image and the app freezes. I've downloaded some other camera apps and I don't have this same problem. I've restarted my phone multiple times and even updated the system apps. Please is there any solution?

I've also cleared the cache and all the data multiple times but there's been no improvement. It gets even worse when I try to take portrait shots
Crime / Re: I Watched Helplessly As My Husband’s Siblings Beat Him To Death Over Inheritance by lovelybugs(f): 1:05pm On Apr 24, 2021
Mayeldah:
Hustle O! make them no kpai you on top family land wey no fit change your life.

Poverty na bastard.

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Family / Re: I Need Your Opinion by lovelybugs(f): 9:24am On Apr 17, 2021
Pregift:

The fetching money is not now. while in school and after school. something that he can do for people while in school and he will get paid and after school while waiting for white collar job.

Good morning. I think it'd be best if he did something he's interested in.
Can he draw? If he likes to draw he can try learning how to draw. On paper and digitally.

For coding he can try using an app called Sololearn. He might find a language he likes.

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Phones / Re: Xiaomi Oversensitive Screen by lovelybugs(f): 7:04pm On Apr 01, 2021
Try this and let me know how it goes.

You can also search "pointer speed"

•Tap settings.
•Tap Language and Input.
•Scroll to the very bottom of these settings and tap pointer speed.
•I have seen several default speeds, none over %50. •Increase the slider to make the touch screen more sensitive and easier to tab. Decrease the slider to make your touch screen less sensitive and more difficult to tap.
•Tap OK and then experiment with the results

Family / Re: Please Help Me Get Her Back by lovelybugs(f): 9:11am On Mar 10, 2021
Copy what you've written here and send it to her.
Simple.

DO NOT SEND HER THE LINK TO THIS THREAD.

If she's still available and has any feelings for you she'll let you know.

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Computers / Re: Windows 10 Problems And Solutions (official Microsoft Windows 10 links added) by lovelybugs(f): 6:53am On Mar 08, 2021
Lexusgs430:



WiFi card is either faulty or loosely connected....... Get your screwdrivers out.......... cheesy

Ok. Thank you very much.
Computers / Re: Windows 10 Problems And Solutions (official Microsoft Windows 10 links added) by lovelybugs(f): 6:45am On Mar 08, 2021
The hardware. It says the hardware is missing or not connected. That's the wifi card.
Lexusgs430:



What is missing?......
Computers / Re: Windows 10 Problems And Solutions (official Microsoft Windows 10 links added) by lovelybugs(f): 7:27pm On Mar 07, 2021
Lexusgs430:




Your driver is missing......

Go to HP's website, look for the driver and install......

OR

Search for type of hardware installed online, download drivers and install.......

Good evening. I did this but when I try to install it says it's missing.
Computers / Re: Windows 10 Problems And Solutions (official Microsoft Windows 10 links added) by lovelybugs(f): 9:08am On Mar 06, 2021
Good morning.
Please I am having an issue with my laptop.
The model is HP Probook 4540s.

I cannot connect to the Internet the Wi-Fi option has completely disappeared and when I went to network settings, I cannot find any adaptor.

I went to device manager and it's saying the hardware is not connected.
I was using this laptop to browse when the Wi-Fi suddenly disconnected.
Computers / Re: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by lovelybugs(f): 9:06am On Mar 06, 2021
Good morning. Please I have an issue with my pc.
It's a HP probook 4540s
I was using my laptop to browse the internet when my connection suddenly went off.

The WiFi option has completed disappeared and it says media disconnected.

I can't switch on the WiFi antenna with the physical keyboard either. The light remains orange.
Family / Re: Am I About To Make A Wrong Marital Choice by lovelybugs(f): 10:01pm On Feb 25, 2021
Anything you see now just multiply it ×3 cause that's what you're going to see in marriage with that man.
Funny how everyone is crying about cohabiting and leaving the main issue.

You don't know how lucky you are to get to see this before you married him.
A lot of people are married to worse people but can't leave because they only found out after marriage.
Family / Re: 9 Nigerian Men Share Why They Regret Getting Married by lovelybugs(f): 6:16pm On Feb 24, 2021
Ehya.
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by lovelybugs(f): 1:23pm On Feb 20, 2021
Meister:


I'm not a fan of 3gb devices especially at that price range. Why don't you come and collect my 6/128 Mi 9t that'll be coming in on friday

Thank you but it might be out of my budget and I'd rather get a new device.
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by lovelybugs(f): 1:21pm On Feb 20, 2021
genius43:


Get the 4/64GB RN9s

Yes. I think I'll save a little more and get that instead. Thank you.
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by lovelybugs(f): 1:20pm On Feb 20, 2021
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FM19addict:
it's better you get the 4gb ram variant. its quite capable although lots of people might not agree

Yes I he. Thank you.
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by lovelybugs(f): 1:20pm On Feb 20, 2021
jboixxx:
That's the best you can get except if 87k (RN9s 64) is still considered as "tight budget".

Ok, thank you very much.
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by lovelybugs(f): 6:55pm On Feb 17, 2021
Good evening. Please is the redmi note 9 3/64 phone a good phone for someone on a tight budget or are there better phones for that price range? The person plans to use it for the next 3 years or so. Thank you.
Family / Re: 5 Nigerian Women Share Why They Regret Getting Married by lovelybugs(f): 2:35pm On Feb 13, 2021
NoToPile:
I know women that are having it good very goodactually and I know those that are having it very bad and regret every single day.

I know those who are faking it to be good

I know those who carefully selected their spouse with all the due diligence and all they still have it bad.

I know those that despite the fact that their spouses had very glaring flaws they still married and are even having it better than some with all the due diligence.

One size doesn't fit all, Life happens, its only on NL I see you didn't do this that's why this is happening and I always smile at such comments.

Marriage is a huge sacrifice on both ends (its supposed to be) both spouses will have to sacrifice some things however little at some point. Most times when sane spouses want to take a decision the first thing that pops up is how will this affect my spouse and by extension the children but then lots of upside down marriages nowadays,

crazy husband crazy wife and then crazy marriage.

Sane husband, sane wife and then sane marriage

Once one of the spouses is not sane problems happen.
Simple.


This sums everything.
Perfect

Life is just too unpredictable.
Anything can happen. Your partner can change into someone totally brand new.
Phones / Re: My First Iphone; Which One Should I Go For Between Iphone 7+ And 8+ by lovelybugs(f): 9:59am On Feb 13, 2021
Bolaji26:



Thank for this.

Should i save up and get xs max 64gb at 250k
Or what's your view please.


I'm not an Apple person so I really don't know.
Hopefully someone who has more knowledge on Apple phones would be able to guide you.

I just wanted to inform you that new iPhone 7 and 8 aren't in the market so someone won't sell you a refurbished one as brand new.
Phones / Re: My First Iphone; Which One Should I Go For Between Iphone 7+ And 8+ by lovelybugs(f): 8:26am On Feb 13, 2021
Akanimoh113:


Why?

Phone manufactures typically stop phone production after 8-12 months of release.

Then circulation typically lasts another 6 months.

If an Iphone was released more than 2 years ago, you cannot get a brand new one of it. Except in unique circumstances.

If you're hell bent on getting a 'new' one then one fraudster will just sell you a packaged refurbished one and sell it to you brand new.

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Phones / Re: My First Iphone; Which One Should I Go For Between Iphone 7+ And 8+ by lovelybugs(f): 6:41am On Feb 13, 2021
You cannot get a new iPhone 8 or 7 in 2021.

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Family / Re: Mother In Law Won't Allow Me To Meet My Twins Babies by lovelybugs(f): 1:55pm On Feb 03, 2021
1)No one has the right to take away your children unless it is proven beyond reasonable doubt that your presence is detrimental to their health and well-being.

What your wife's family has done is kidnapping.
You waiting this long before seeking legal redress will not be in your favour sha.

2) After you collect your children back what next? Where will they stay?
Children (especially toddlers and most especially female children) are not toys and properties to own. They require a lot of effort and work to take care of them.
Can you put in that time and effort? Or do you want to collect them back only to throw and distribute them amongst your own extended family?

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Romance / Re: A Letter To My Future Wife by lovelybugs(f): 6:05pm On Jan 29, 2021
This is so sweet. I hope you find a good partner.
Family / Re: What Will You Do If Your Son Turns Gay? by lovelybugs(f): 2:24pm On Jan 24, 2021
I've never understood questions like this. What will you do? What can you do?

If the son is an adult there's actually nothing you can do but pray for him.

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Family / Re: Your Advice Could Save A Life Because I'm Dying by lovelybugs(f): 3:32am On Jan 20, 2021
Marry then both grin

On a more serious note, did you write this to get bashed? Cause that's what's going to happen in 3, 2, 1.....

Are the two women aware of each other?

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Family / Re: My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse. by lovelybugs(f): 1:13am On Jan 20, 2021
luminouz:



Funny how you skipped the wife's part again and discounted every sacrifice the husband made. Damn gurl, you is a sly mudafucker!!!

Bond, Bond, Bond...that's all you care about!!! Bugs Bond undecided

You're being very emotional about this.

First of, taking care of your children is not a sacrifice it is a responsibility.
He actually tried in putting them in a relatively expensive school and he should be commended because he didn't have to.

This issue on ground is something that will only get worse as those children get older

He needs to rectify it now.
Those boys are way to old to use force on.
So he needs to tackle the issue from another point.

As for the wife, I really don't see her as an issue.
Like I said, his children doesn't respect him and it's something he needs to fix. With time they would be the ones pestering him to help him do things and that comes from a place of love.

I honestly don't care if you don't feel the need to have a bond with your children. That is your choice.

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