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PoliticsRe: Have Your Say: Is Nigeria Worth Living In? by madamkoko: 2:50pm On Aug 03, 2008
WHAT HAVE WE ALL CONTRIBUTED TOWARDS MOVING THE NATION FOWARD ?


I feel like I keep hearing the same questions over and over again. over and over again.

The only meaningful contribution you can have in Nigeria is to start your own business (reduce unemployment by hiring people and actually paying them a salary and have them pump money back into the economy) or start your own church and (exploit people's stupidity)

OR you can join the corrupt government.

REAL CHANGE can only begin when the masses, the people (BEGIN TO HOLD THIER GOVERNMENT ACCOUNTABLE) this means riots, radical activism, and maybe the death of a few heros for our freedom.

Nigeria needs the IRON HAND.  grin grin grin grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Have Your Say: Is Nigeria Worth Living In? by madamkoko: 2:44pm On Aug 03, 2008
Omereni:
Nigeria is a great country. [b]The problem is human greed.[/b]recovery for the country will begin when we look out for the well being of others rather than our own
Its extremely easy to label "greeed" as Nigeria's problem. Don't forget that every government is corrupt.  Nigeria's problem is that the PEOPLE DO NOT HOLD THIER GOVERNMENT ACCOUTABLE FOR ANYTHING. 'Wé'd rather run abroad. (I blame the lack of accountability on the strong influence of RELIGION)

Look at the riots that took place in America in the 1960s: radical action or the recent riots that took place in South Africa: radical action, or the Labor riots that took place in China (in 1999, I believe) it caught the attention of the government that they wanted change. No ONE IN NIGERIA is willing to die for freedom. We'would rather RUN. As long as we keep running CHANGE WILL NEVER HAPPEN.

Is Nigeria worth living in? NO.

I like good health care
I like electricity
I like  my basic ammenities that the country may not be able to provide.

Is Nigeria worth visiting? Yes, Yes, Yes!!!!   grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Should Nigeria Change Her Name? by madamkoko(op): 3:36am On Aug 03, 2008
Nigeria should change her name. The name Nigeria represents regression. It may not be the main issue that Nigeria faces but its important that Nigeria does not retain and maintain the name that a slave owner gave to her.
Christianity EtcLilleth Is Adam's First Wife. by madamkoko(op): 3:32am On Aug 03, 2008
Lilleth is Adam's first wife and NOT eve.

The English version of the bible makes no reference of this.



Midrash: A jewish word which means to leave out.   Jewish scholars created (editions and additions) to make sense of information in the English version of the Bible
Christianity EtcI Highly Recommend by madamkoko(op): 3:26am On Aug 03, 2008
I highly recommend that people (espcially Nigerians) read ALL versions of the bible before blindly choosing the Christian religion.

I highly recommend that they READ and UNDERSTAND, the Aramaic version, Hebrew version, Greek version, and the BANNED chapters of the bible before they can make a comprehensive decision regarding christianity.

I highly recommend that people also explore the Jewish religion before choosing to blindly choose and follow the Christian religion.

I highly recommend that people understand the ancient greek and ancients cultures before making an informed decision regarding Christianity.

Until this occurs, I do not believe that one is a christian, but rather a follower of brainwashed ideas and ideals.
PoliticsShould Nigeria Change Her Name? by madamkoko(op): 7:25pm On Aug 01, 2008
Should Nigeria change her name considering that the name was given to Nigeria by a (Female) Slave Owner? Maybe this name symbolizes regression ?


What do you all think ?
RomanceRe: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by madamkoko: 6:43pm On Jul 31, 2008
@ ehie

Keep on fooling yourself. I know of people who would do anything for thier men and the men still LEFT them. Women nowadays have to be sharp. One step ahead, not backward like ur ideas.  

Relationship is about partnership like someone state previously.

There is no argument about this, when aman love/treats a woman very well submission come naturally
I CONCUR!!!!
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: I Need A Babe For Serious Relationship by madamkoko: 6:41pm On Jul 31, 2008
Awon yahooze boyz, keeps searching. shocked shocked shocked shocked
RomanceRe: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by madamkoko: 6:40pm On Jul 31, 2008
I will save your punishment for the bedroom. We shall see who is dictating in our home
Yeeepa!@!!! grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Cant U Say No! by madamkoko: 6:39pm On Jul 31, 2008
LOL

Speaking of pit latrines Gonorrhea , I thot you were having dinner.
RomanceRe: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by madamkoko: 6:16pm On Jul 31, 2008
I have an aunt, who is 50 has lived in Nigeria all her life. She's been divorced twice, rich, comfortable not married for a while, I mean I don't understand this false notion that just because someone lives somewhere makes them less or more of a human.
RomanceRe: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by madamkoko: 6:14pm On Jul 31, 2008
Its so easy to get divorced in America, "our marriage isnt working" so it ends,its like people don't put their hearts in it.
Nigerian culture knocks into u that u should stay a virgin and stay with your husband till u die,
bottom line is that the reason most guys marry Nigerian girls is that they are more patient,more in tune with their positions as wives and not as rivals.don't oversate their independence ie i earn a million dollars, blal bla bla,
Husband,  first,Kids Second Yourself third, even if u are the president, u go home and cook for your husband
so far it has worked the divorce rate in most african countries is far less that those in the  west,
ANOTHER STEREOTYPE AND BLATANT LIE.

I know Nigerian women who have lived in Nigeria all thier lives still end up getting divorced.
Many Nigerian women who have lived in Nigeria all thier lives and are NOT VIRGINS. Living in a specific place all your life does not mean that you understand or live out the culture.

Anyways sha, I'm off to pupu, grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by madamkoko: 6:00pm On Jul 31, 2008
AAAAHHHH AKATA. LOL

No Comment!! grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: How To Talk To Beautiful Women by madamkoko: 5:56pm On Jul 31, 2008
but the only language women understand is the language of money
LOL!!!! TRUE TO AN EXTENT. LOL.

Not just money but be successful

Legitimate money. : i think that the legitimacy of the money matters a lot.

Job
Nice car
House/nice apt
Be kind
RomanceRe: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by madamkoko: 5:51pm On Jul 31, 2008
so you agree with me that it's a question of compatibility.  if a man's preference is to marry from home because he feels more comfortable with that, why should you think he's intimidated?  What's wrong with playing ti safe?
Yes, its a question of choosing to be compatible with someone. Yes, I agree with you.


BUT i think its intimidation, when it becomes a conscious decision when one purposefully opts not to date someone abroad just because they're abroad (at least try them out. give them a chance.) don't assume they're any less Nigerian,  ,  there's no difference in a WELL MANNERED, EDUCATed Niger babe abroad and a well mannered educated babe in Niger.  no difference. same lessons. same manners.
RomanceRe: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by madamkoko: 5:44pm On Jul 31, 2008
Thats not true, there are many, several, many OLDER NIGERIANS WHO GREW UP and LIVED IN NIGERIA ALL THIER LIVES AND ARE DIVORCED, married, remarried, divorced, have cheated, and the list goes on, 

I don't where many of you are getting all these assumptions from.

People just need to understand the fact that Marriage is a choice and both partners have to work and put in equivalant time and effort to make things work.  Marriage is NOT a bed of roses,  if u're in india, japan, Nigeria, America,  understand this and you won't go into marriage dreaming of perfection. You will be prepared.

Marriage is about partnership and compromise.
RomanceRe: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by madamkoko: 5:40pm On Jul 31, 2008
@ chi-baby  meaning I dont comprehend what you have posted.


Unless its not that important.  grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by madamkoko: 5:36pm On Jul 31, 2008
people jus say stuff without being perfectly sure n in da process, givin oda people a bad name. actually nigerian guys abroad jus use da girls, whether white, black or whatever 2 get what they want not realli because the want to b wid them or they love them so please there's absolutely nuin wrong wid girls abroad n moreova, errbdy gat diff. preferences n sum guys will prefer a girl straight from hme.

What is this ooh? ABeg complete sentences jare, which one is this na?
RomanceRe: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by madamkoko: 5:34pm On Jul 31, 2008
In my entire time abroad, I have NEVER sent money to any human being back home.

I don't know where these stereotypes are coming from or rather the notion of "hustler mentality",


undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
RomanceRe: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by madamkoko: 5:31pm On Jul 31, 2008
Men who are not up to PAR are the ones the do most of the complaining.
RomanceRe: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by madamkoko: 5:30pm On Jul 31, 2008
Yeah and i have tried the whole natural thing too. But it got to the point that i was breaking combs and it was just yuck.
LoL @ breaking combs.
RomanceRe: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by madamkoko: 5:08pm On Jul 31, 2008
I'm proud of my hair to but, kinky. . . well that i can't have. I'm sorry but i like my hair nice and permed.
Good for you.

Perm, straight, whatever: you are free to do whatever you want. As long as you look good.

I've done perm and all that jazz, didn't work too well for me.
RomanceRe: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by madamkoko: 5:07pm On Jul 31, 2008
madamkoko, what are you on about?  Are you implying that Nigerians men abroad are intimidated by y'all?
No i'm saying that Men who think similar to those referred in the post are intimidated. Why would should a human being say, I'm not dating this person because they've been abroad for more than 5 years, it is someone's fault that they came abroad for thier education. I don't know. (examining Nigeria's bad educational structure)

How come its ok for the Men to be abroad and not the women? such nonsense

Point being: as long as you keep your values and acknowledge the importance of your culture. Being abroad and or not being abroad doesn't make you more or less Nigerian.
RomanceRe: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by madamkoko: 4:58pm On Jul 31, 2008
@ onyinye2

Trust me, you are an exception.
RomanceRe: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by madamkoko: 4:57pm On Jul 31, 2008
I went to an Ayefele concert not too long ago, NO WOMAN had thier real hair on thier head. It was disgusting.

hahahahahahahaha.

I wear dreads so no troubles.  grin grin grin grin grin

I'm proud of my kinky, black, natural hair. It works will in bed.  tongue tongue tongue tongue
RomanceRe: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by madamkoko: 4:56pm On Jul 31, 2008
@ $$Rhino I agree, Naija babes (abroad and in naija) wear too much WIGS AND WEAVES, ITS JUST TOO MUCH ITS DISGUSTING.
RomanceRe: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by madamkoko: 4:55pm On Jul 31, 2008
@ lidbb2  Make you tell them jare, like some girls in Naija don't engage in illicit behaviors like pornography.

Such nonsense. BUT @ POSTER, I think that u're right to an extent, I remember I met this guy and we knew we both liked each other but then after a while thinking that something would work out, he says "oh, I'd rather be with a REAL Nigerian woman" I was like, what does that mean?  he was like someone raised and bred in naija. I'm like yea, I was RAISED and Bred in Naija, and then he's like, but you've been abroad a bit too long, you don't fit my criteria.

In essence, I think that men who think like this, are INITIMATED. Majority (note I didn't say all) of Nigerian women abroad are hardworking and educated. If you don't live up to your responsibilities as a MAN, they freedom they have expereince will make them kick you to the CURB immediately. No lele.
RomanceRe: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by madamkoko: 4:49pm On Jul 31, 2008
HUMAN BEINGS SHOULD BE FREE TO MARRY WHOEVER THEY WANT.

WHITE
BLACK
INDIAN
SOUTH AFRICAN
CANADIAN,
blah, blah, blah.
PoliticsRe: Nudity Bill Nigeria's Worst Moment At The Un. by madamkoko: 2:33pm On Jul 31, 2008
Yeeepa, now u're insulting women. undecided undecided undecided


What happened to insulting the ignorant nonentities (both ignorant men and women) who represent us abroad but don't know what the F$%3k they're talking about,
RomanceRe: How Long Can One Stay A Virgin And Still Stay Sane? by madamkoko: 8:34pm On Jul 30, 2008
Forever. Being a virgin or choosing to remain celibate has to be a choice.

Its when its no longer a choice that you can begin to question one's in sanity.

hahahahaha.  Funnny poster.
Christianity EtcRe: Why The Exponential Increase In Number Of Churches by madamkoko: 8:10pm On Jul 30, 2008
Catholic

Anglican

Menthodist

Baptist

Pentecostal

K AND S

Cele

Redeemed

Oyedepo corporation

Foursqure

C.A.C.

Light is money ministries

Money is light ministries

Reformed Anglican

Reformed Dutch church

Reformed Catholic

Reformed church

and the list goes on and on,  I don't even understand.
Christianity EtcRe: Why The Exponential Increase In Number Of Churches by madamkoko: 8:08pm On Jul 30, 2008
Exactly!!!!

If christians worship the same God, why soo many denominations, aren't we all going to the same place in the end. Heaven or Hell

I think that in the end, everyone wants tithes, hahaha (the more members, the money)

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