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Nice one, your head oil full am

Mom007:
My biggest tip is that one should be happy as a single person. Enjoy your own company, not every time hang out, hang out. If you are happy single, you will he happier married because you won't be too needy and clingy when your spouse is not around.
Spend your own money on yourself! Not every time beggi beggi. It will help you appreciate the value of money and appreciate gifts if someone is kind enough to give you any.
Take yourself out. I learnt that from my big sis. Do nice things for yourself. That 2k u will spend on sharwama or pepper chicken and icecream for yourself will not kill you.
Have at least 3 days in the month where you just switch off your phone and toss it under your pillow and just go about your day! It may seem like the world will end if you do but its a lie. You will not miss anything and nobody will miss you. It helps us know that rush rush life is not it. Nothing is that important.
Finally, seek God and have a personal relationship with Him when you are still single! Its easier to maintain a relationship you have already started than starting one when you are married as too many distractions! You see some people, they become born again after marriage, its because marriage is not a bed of roses o... You really need the grace of God and the spirit of wisdom and understanding to be successful in marriage but its hard to find the time to commit to God, read your bible, pray etc when you are married and having so many added responsibilities but when you have started it since your single years, its easier to manage.

God bless you, more wisdom

Munzy14:
Satisfying you say For two novice? Super story.


Anyways to your question..They said marriage is an Institution you will never graduate from...Just prepare your mindset and have good understanding, develope ability to listen more than you talk.

Pray for wisdom to make critical decisions and lead the home as the man with equity and fairness.

I laf when he said the bed creak and the height of the wife noise

Oga nor be small thing una dey do ooo see enjoyment

Anyway back to the matter, since you know that the bed make noise when you and your wife make out, i suggest you carry the bed down or find solutions to the noise, cos I don't know the kind of bed you are using, it reminds of my great father spring bed cos modern bed don't make noise, except something is wrong with the leg or the balancing leg

And her shout I guess that is the thing that high your mora abi but for now let reduce it, cos adult is in the house that knows or understand the meaning of the sound

Another suggestion but since grandma is there with the children in their room, I guess you both lock your door when the march want to start and when is over you open it back especially if the children is fast asleep

oh my goodness I nor fit laf oooo

It is well with Nigeria ��

Am not, never cos I know what I xperience

Juliusmomoh2:
He will not regret it.
For you to remember this, that show you are regretting

Am sure you are the perfect one abi

MOVIC6:
Mine was anger but she stubborn die, your own doesn't count men

Yes ooo he is so arrogant
Bad mouthing and Ego

I try to talk ot correct him but he head dey up

Yeye sombori

I'm sure he go dey regret himself for not having a sweet and teachable girl like me

Congratulation �
May God continue to bless your family
More blessings and grace

because of respect, priority heritage,linage

some personally want to have a male child

a real man will not look at the pocket of a woman before getting marry to her
it is the right of a man to provide for the family,if the woman doesn't have business,it is the right of the man to establish her

why most guys of now how days need a woman who has money is because of how the country is

the bottom line is marry a good/hardworking man or woman who has understanding of marriage,family and life

a beautiful marriage doesn't determine that a woman most have her own money

GOD PLEASE SAFE THIS COUNTRY
WE ARE TIRED OF THIS BANDIT OR TERRORIST ATTACK

WHY SHE WAS LIVING IN NIGERIA SHE CALL FOR HELP
EVEN AT POINT OF DEATH SHE CALL FOR HELP
HER DEATH IS SO SADDEN
THE GOVERNMENT HAS FAIL US
INSECURITY IS KILLING

who care

yeyeye instead of you to pray for your son to have a good name so no one will make joke at him

Na wa ooo
God please untie that innocent soul, let him or her be free spiritually and physically

It is well

Why do guys like to see a girl past as a big thing, some even use it against the girl on a longrun.

Well braah follow your mind, if you don't want or love her again let her go

If you still love her, then bury that her past from your mind

Mind you there is nobody without past, either relationship, religion, family and societal past

And if you know that past can change your thoughts or mind, don't ask even if she is saying it on her own, at that point tell to stop

What is really going on in Nigeria

No where is safe especially now elections is around the corner

This is coming from someone that always lie so it not new thing

Na God go judge una

Who is Kenya in English compare to Nigeria[b][/b]are you m*d or something

wishing Nigeria straight winning tomorrow

photograper your camera lens nor go break
olopa more roja to your pocket

i haven't but most people sees me and always say i look like their sister,friend or someone they know

one lady saw me on the road and hug me because i look like her friend she has seen for long and thought it was she but after the hug she realize she is not the one,she was like oh you really look like my friend with a great smile on her face that tell at least someone look like someone dear to her

just days ago i went to buy something instend of the woman to attend to me she was just smiling and the smile is that kind of smile where you think of something and it made you cry, she just say i look so much like her sister

one guy has even slap me as in a friendly slap sha but after he realize himself that am someone else for it not to look as if he did it purposely he has to call two of his friend to look at me and he call the lady name that i look like and which they confirm to it

nothing all this leaders nor fit do
their mata nor dey surprise me again

congratulation to him
with election campaign on ground and the heat wey dey naija he get mind go marry two

all of them hurt and pain

number 2 is hurtful but you see that number 4 sha na the most hurtful and painful thing ever

may i not go through that number 4 in life again

my boss is cool handsome and calm boss ever
he is my divine helper
the one god sent to favor me
he doesn't hold salary no matter what the country or business is saying
he is god fearing boss
i believe he the best boss
nairalanders help me appreciate him

chris rock is very wrong how will you joke about someone wife especially about what she did

will smith is wrong he wouldn't give him public slap

but this serve a lesson to many who say something offensive and tag it joke

wike wike wike wike the ones wey you do as govonor is ok for you

they want to produce part two of the suffering they have produce before

nigerians shine your eyes ooooo

congratulations
nairalanders rejoice with your family

omg wtf na person pikin na this idiot design like this