₦airaland Forum

deeva2:
THEY ARE ALL THE SAME.. NO RESPECT FOR OTHER TRIBES..


NORTHERNERS GO REMIND THEM LESSON BY FEB

Yes because northerners do not behave like human beings. They kill people over religious intolerance, is that what you call a human?

obembet:
Only foolish Yoruba will vote for Obi leader of unknown gunmen. Igbot never support or like YORUBA for once even though no tribe support them like yourba in Nigeria.

You go just die ontop igbo matter this woman.

We know you guys don't like us and the energy/feeling is mutual, rest nau.

Chee59:
Your mum did.

I do not insult the elderly nor do i insult people's parent, but to be sincere you look ugly and thin, and this isn't even a joke fr.

SugarGirl44:
Some woke people are against marriage and having kids, my advice is for them to check how miserable old people who refused to get married and have kids are.
There’s no need for long talks.

Doesn't it sound selfish that the only reason you want a family is because of old age? If old people could care for themselves, you won't need kids.

Jakumo:
It is baffling to see history repeat itself with new generations of Nigerians whose parents lived during the Biafran war era. Today's angry young men of southern Nigeria's roaring '20s era, whose ancestral traditions are proudly agrarian, find themselves under siege by swarms of armed nomadic cattle herders from Africa's arid Sahel region migrating ever southward each passing year in response to vanished northern Nigerian grazing pasture, wielding military grade weaponry furnished by Islamic terror groups with strong ties to Middle Eastern terror networks.

Climate change-induced desertification and territorial annexation agendas admixed with cutthroat regional politics combine to loom large as a growing existential threat to all nations of the West African seaboard, from Mali and Senegal, right across the subregion to Nigeria, and from the desert to shores of the restless Atlantic Ocean common to all contiguous nations that lie south of the Sahara Desert.

The concepts of a Yoruba Nation and of Neo-Biafra can never be imposed on Nigeria by force of arms because history is replete with instances of doomed insurrections launched with much passion, idealism, fervor, and fanfare worldwide. Testing the military might of ANY federal government, as is most regrettably being witnessed in the east of Nigeria, inevitably touches off the sort of unrestrained wanton anarchy that ravages Igboland today, pitting brother against brother in tit-for-tat orchestrated massacres, while the true power brokers calmly observe the unfolding genocidal game of divide-and-rule from afar.

This police shooting of Yoruba Nation agitators in the streets of Lagos today January 9th, 2023 will hopefully sound a timely warning to southern Nigeria's professional rioters-for-hire that even if armed with military weapons and hurriedly trained, they would not stand a chance against battle-tested Nigerian troops kitted for combat or even against riot police detachments with orders to administer deadly force on protesters.

The January 9th, 2023 police shootings of Yoruba Nation rioters in Lagos ought to serve as a sobering reality check that will HOPEFULLY nudge anyone seeking change in Nigeria to forgo seditious and inciteful jingoism in favor of seeking their envisioned political metamorphosis via the wise expedience of voting peacefully at the ballot box on polling day. Boycotting the right to vote is an implicitly counterproductive form of protest that only serves to disenfranchise the person who refrained from voting, which is after all an OPTIONAL civic duty available to all law-abiding citizens of any true democracy.

There'll always be people who support the evils of the government, i am not surprised. Is it a crime wanting a different country and if no, what's the most peaceful way to go about it?

ouzo1:
E be like EFCC no dey work again o, which level na? Where una dey see dis kind money cook all this Oscrubosis.

Lol

pocohantas:
Your wife should cut that woman off first.
There is no woman that doesn’t like to be pampered, but it shouldn’t be coerced or gotten via tricks. In this case, it took your wife lying for you to send her money. Haven’t you been seeing her hair?

Take care of your wife to the extent that you can without you guys playing stupid games with one “small girl”.

I love when “he” does things without me asking. Even if I have to ask, don’t make me repeat myself 1000 times.

What do women do with their money that a man has to give her money to make her hair? Nawa.

pretydiva:
I just hope and pray the guy is not using her

Do you say this when women follow wealthy men?

safarifarms:
Depends. If it's the first time I believe a verbal expression of displeasure should do. Considering she's generally a good wife. If it's reoccurring that's when you should consider other measures and that also depends on your wife. What works in for one person may not work for another. I have a good wife too but she can also be stubborn at times and get on my nerves. My wife will ignore your silent treatment and act as though she is not bothered.

You may not have to deal with every occasion of disobedience if you have a generally respectful wife. You have to also learn tolerance. But should it be persistent you may consider denying or canceling something that she values so well. Like not subscribing to DSTV on time if she's so into it and you are not. You don't need to spell it out as it's punishment for that but just be nonchalant about it till she complains and you find a way to subtly get her to realize that displeasing you can make you not to care about pleasing her. But be sure not to deny her an essential that is usually your responsibility. If she has to use her money to subscribe it and act as though she wasn't bothered then you may need to do something more serious which I won't want to be the one suggesting one for you. But even if she subscribes and acts as if not bothered it's likely just a facade. Trust me, most Nigerian women would rather keep their money for Jewels & clothing, so spending it on the sub will definitely get to her.

I once took an action that shocked my wife after about a week of cold treatment which she was ignoring. Since then (3yrs +) we've not had a major issue. There's been minor issues that I'm able to ignore but generally we are good. My wife is generally a good wife by the way.

Whatever it is, avoid inviting a 3rd party.

You're smart, unlike me that gets angry lol

theredaddy:
I laugh anytime i see these "sit her down and talk" comment, for a r/ship that is over 15yrs do guyz think the man have not done that, what if he as sat her down n talk n talk, women respect men with actions over men that talk talk n talk, is like a woman married a woman.

Generally people tend to show respect for two reasons, what they stand to gain from you or consequences they feared.

Naturally when it comes to r/ship just two things will make a woman respect a man; what she stands to benefit from the man or Love.
if a woman have a reason to believe the man is above her, intelligent wise, financial or in exposure asides just age she go show respect.

In Op's case i strongly believe, he holds no leverage, most especially in finances cos the wife seems independent and what could have save the day is "LOve" which i doubt if it exist anymore from her side, apparently she is either daring OP for the worst to happen or she knows nothing will happen.

OP is left with two options, either he works on himself to re-earn her respect or ... no be my mouth that one go comot

Thank you; you've said it all. The first thing that came to my mind was that the man is lacking financially.

descarado:
There are lots of things wrong with the @op post.

You don't set the rule in a marriage. It's called partnership for a reason. That tradi6ionally man is bestowed the head doesn't mean he dictates what happen in the home.
Secondly, you don't cage an adult. You have no right. She wanna travel, she travels. As long as house is in other, why wont she go and have good time if thats what makes her happy? We cone tk this world once. Men over the years keep on dishing out unwritten rules for women to follow cos they feel its their effing right. She don't stop you from traveling or having boys night out with guys.

Marriage has gone past what happened during our parents time so never use that as yardstick. It's 50/50 union this time around whether she is a housewife or not.

50 50 whether or not she is a housewife, you're a jonser. Make i just meet your type God.

Chee59:
Wheel barrow pushers, people who operate local grinding machine in the market, shoe shiner, farmer, primary school teacher, bolt driver, you'll see married men in all these occupation. But on social media you have to build a mansion and have a couple of cars before you can marry, because Nigerian girls are greedy.
No be woman marry the man collecting 35k monthly?

Why didn't you marry a wheel barrow pusher? You could have set an example

sgtponzihater1:
I am not against this at all. What I am against is people pretending to be in favour of Nigeria because they want their brother to be president. This is hypocrisy.

They are still Nigerians for now, so what are you saying? Do economic policies of the country not affect them?

IbadeHQ:
Truth is bitter.

Simple question! Biafra or Nigeria? which one do you want? that is just what Brymo is saying.

If you will give us biafra today today, i am sure a lot of us will be willing to go.

sgtponzihater1:
Igbos will not like this truth. You can't use Obi's presidency as second choice for Biafra, it will not work. We either want to work to fix Nigeria together or we want to go our separate ways, there are no in-betweens.

Then let us go, simple. Hold referendum and let's vote. How hard is that?

slickgirl:
As usual, nobody is talking about the petrol pump prices across the country and the hardship that is driving hunger into homes in Nigeria.

It's always about tribe, region and religion. It was same before independence and it's still same now.
Think again people, you have the capacity to think, pls think.

Thank you so much, as if economic policies doesn't affect everyone.

VTJN:
Hahahahaha

Your AfghanEastern region is barren and unproductive.

Your terrorist region is avoided by any sane person

Your cannibalism is second to none

You can troll all you want but you know it's the truth i am saying, we come to Lagos and after some few years own properties.
You've had an head start for years and still have nothing to show for it.

Lazy set of men who wait for their father to die just to inherit his properties, omo una no work.

Olatara:
Brymo is actually right! You can have Agitate for Biafra and still want Presidency. Don't sit on the fence, choose a cause and build not burn bridges.

When kanu asked for a referendum, was it granted?

Let us go, you guys say no, oya give us presidency, you guys wouldn't oblige.

Isn't that witchcraft?

VTJN:
yet Your entire ancestors and kindred cannot live nor survive without running to the West? Lol

Keep disgracing your ancestors in public forum

And yet when they come to the west, they make you and your likes tenants, how shameful.

namikaze:
Agree, it's too theoretical

Every book has a target audience, it was written for phd students from maths background.

KrazyDave16:
Book recommendation
Mostly pseudocode (implement in any lang you comfy with)

https://mega.nz/file/0ldUlCyQ
key: rjpHFIhD7IlPQNGx-HxeyWkgL2oFKhNqPRyMMHwPPkk

Please don't waste your time reading this book, unless you know how to read and write maths proofs. It isn't for everyone.

SlavaUkraini:
The Pussy Juice is no longer sweet again...

Guy Man eyez don clear...

You get it.

Chee59:
He messed up "she doesn't deserve a man like me". Probably decided to out himself before blogs outed him.

Line that guymen use to chase women away and not feel bad about themselves

You're new to the game.

joyousever:
If he wasn't attracted to her, why did he propose to her? Didn't he see the "flat chest and flat ass" before befriending her for 5 years? And when did she ever mention that he cheated on her with curvy women?
Since you knew Alex in the media space, has he ever been linked with any woman?
For 5 years, he had never been intimate with her and you think this is normal? Alex is gay!! And this is common knowledge! Know this and rest!!

If men want to have sex with women, you guys complain, if they do not want to, they still get bashed. Abeg what do you guys want??

Eastcoastboy:
"Polo" you said. And I know of other clubs like Gulf course club et al... Which is the aim is for Sport.

But these guys didn't exactly state what their main aim is other than fostering brotherhood and developing the society.

By swearing oath of allegiance or is it member ship self. I don't know.



Them dey swear oath of allegiance or membership for Ikoyi club?

Why not, they swear an oath of allegiance at all clubs, this is done during induction.

Eastcoastboy:
No be everybody money go dirty nah. What I find fishy is the forming of a club thing and reading oath of allegiance. Seems more like a fraternity thingy.

And what's bad about forming a club? Aren't ikoyi club and lagos polo club made up of billionaires?

brandsoncharlie:
They are not clean, there is this man from my state, he has aluminum company, pure water company, large fish farm etc hold a top post in one university in my state.
He has only one child, a male who in UK as medical doctor, he joined pdp recently as politician, they told him to bring human as sacrifice it falled on his only child in UK, he refused he died instead.
He was sick all of sudden, he traveled to UK gave his son every property had and died.
This is true life story, I don't want to mention his name just for security reasons.

Was the ritual related to politics or his business?

brandsoncharlie:
Occultic people money, not pure.

And what's your proof?

legionISproteus:
How is oil from pork a.k.a Lard bad or harmful?

Pork fat contains a lot of vitamins A, B and D. These are vitamins and minerals that are very good for human health. Vitamin A helps prevent eye diseases, while vitamin D helps promote calcium absorption in the body

Don't mind these dumb folks that are already blinded by religion.

derecho:
It doesn't work that way.
The guy just wants to know the truth. Abi na Sanwo-olu dey feed am for the past 27years?

I believe Sanwo-olu would have been confronted many years ago but refused to take responsibility.
The guy decided to strike now that the iron is hot.

Responsibility for what?

A full grown adult at 28?

The guy is just a jester and opportunist, if your dad doesn't want you, you let him be.

derecho:
If you value your father,you'd understand that his wealth means little or nothing to you.

So you've never seen successful men/women who went in search of their real father who may be "nobody"?

Sanwo-olu should clear his name except he is afraid his recklessness of the past may have resulted in the birth of the young man.

Sanwo has sublty suggested that he doesn't want the guy, i think the guyman should move on.