₦airaland Forum

derecho:
When he decides to look for his father is immaterial.

The issue here is, what is the truth?
If sanwo-olu is a man of integrity, he should be man enough to clear his name.

As per Tinubu, that crook is capable of anything. I'd rather believe the devil than vouch for Tinubu.

If sanwo was a nobody, would the son have looked for him?

He seems to me like an opportunist, a mere glance at his picture shows that he is broke.

sisisioge:
They are already wearing it under dresses in party in naija o. All those figure 8 hugging dresses on women that were otherwise figure 1 .

If it were like tops 10k, I could buy it specially for party dresses

So you're flat?

Chee59:
In a society where some women are shamed for not having big bum.

And men are shamed for not having money, both are balanced.

BRATISLAVA:
Very different advice to that given to the guy who wanted to kill his cousin for raping all his junior sisters.

And the woman whose male relative raped her two sons.

Behold, a woman to the slaughter!

BTW, a lot of users are rapists and have raped girls and women in the past...

You are always biased, you hate men and it's just obvious.

All the time gender wars, abeg treat the matter at hand fucking misandrist

SocialJustice:
You can't correct without being abusive? Typical. Common sense couldn't tell you that was a mistake of omission. That the girl is even 2 is more reason this matter should die without further chaos. Let him tell the world that his daughter was raped. The world will remember and taunt her with it until she leaves this earth.

You're an idiot, a big one at that.

Glowqueen3:
I will advice you calm down Sir,Even your wife is more hurt than you in this situation but She is only trying her best to be a good mother,good daughter to her parents and still be a good wife to you hence the reason why she could not bring herself to tell you about the ugly incident that happened to her own daughter where her parents stays.
She is just trying to protect the image of her family which she did in the wrong way.l wouldn't advice you to divorce her because she isn't the one that rape your daughter instead you should find that pedophile and have him arrested and totured,if you arrest and divorce her people will still blame you
and you might not be lucky to find a good woman like her again.l will leave you with this Yoruba proverb that says "ori bibe ko no ogun Ori fifo" Cutting the head is not the solution to the headache.it is well.

Very nonesense advice from you. Who knows if her brother raped the little girl more than once.

Moh247:
Your brother in-law commited a crime and your wife and mother in-law covered it up

That's a crime and they are both guilty of conspiracy

Even to make matters worse, the truth was hidden from you her supposed life partner

If Nigeria continue protecting criminals, crime won't end

Just as you protect tinubu, ewu.

Ulunne777:
The burden placed on women.A woman leaves her home to go take care of her mother because the male ones are immature or can't take care of her properly.
But the immature one knows how to find a hole but can't take care of his mother.

Anybody who knows the hole is matured to take care of his mother.
The evil that happens in Africa.look what it has brought on this woman who must have been guilt tripped because of blood not to divulge.

Mtcheeew

My friend shut it, women are meant to take care of the children, which one is burden?

Lekan239:
lol. So A73 256gb ram of 520k is cheaper and more average than S10 of 200k. Lol

What samsung meant about flagship and midrange is, if you can't afford the latest S22 ultra of 800k-1m, go for latest A73 of 500k.

They do release A series and S series simultaneously.

Toyota camry and Toyota corolla are both from Toyota. Comparing S10 with A73 is like comparing corolla 2010 with camry 2014.

Small guys just talking rubbish in this nairaland. You want to compare 2019 technology with latest research and from same brand. You think the white are stagnant like we Africans

How can you be so ignorant and proud while at it?

Check the rating for snapdragon 855 vs 778g.

S10+ is a better phone than that rubbish you mentioned

seanwilliam:
What of note series vs S series? Which is better ?

Note is.

Ara21:
OP never see anything he wan go court.

Good luck.

Things you will settle within the family you want to take to court.

He has a valid point, she has to prove to the court how his family poisoned her food and that of her brother.

Foodqueen:
U wan go tell your parent wetin she talk

Go ahead

If na me, i go tell them. Make the marriage scatter, such a careless and useless statement.

I can't imagine going to bed with someone like that ever again.

NigeriaIsGreat:
She doesn't need to have money before she can make a choice

Hundreds of thousands of women get married every Saturday to comfortable guys if not rich without having one naira in their bank account

Real men do not need woman's money. What they need is respect and peace of mind

That's hypocrisy. Setting standards you haven't attained.
Are promiscuous men right to ask for virgins?

NigeriaIsGreat:
She didn't chose her father

She has every right to chose her husband

But hope she has money herself?

A botched car for 34 million? Lol

The interior of this car sucks.

dalass:
Good luck to all the black guys dating white women.

That's what you get, a cheat, hoe and money guzzler, both in and out of wedlock

But I know that they won't listen... Colonial mentality dey worry them...

And black women are any diferent?

meobizy:
Fine girl no dey Nairaland.

I swear.

gr8ofnnetwork:
What your brothers couldn't do is what that young man is doing effortlessly

And you haven't done anything with your life as well.

bobo65:
Nope
Call 09091275328

Thanks.

bobo65:
Yeah sure

Bro, do you have lg v40 pouch?

Franciscabless:
Mind your business, do you know how many women her husband is also sleeping with when he's out there. Better focus on your life let your aunty enjoy her life with her brother in peace

I can see why your husband starves you and your child. You gave him a bastard.

Obavoh:
I always put my wife before myself and my life.

Sometimes I get so angry that I shout at her. But when she starts crying , I will go on my knees and beg her. I even go as far as buying her 2 big bottles of KUNU KWAKWA (her favorite drink) just to console her.

If a woman cries and curses you, your life will never been the same.

Women are our mini gods. They are our creators and life bringers here on earth. Respect them and your life will be blessed.


My wife above everything. I love you

Why are you so senseless?

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olabrinks:
The first girl could’ve just been an introvert. Maybe she doesn’t like phone calls or texts and unnecessary small talk. It’s very draining to some people.

Then he did well to leave her alone, he shouldn't go about convincing people to pick up their phone, should he?

FashionCookie:
Please don't let me laugh...Men don't enjoy sex you say? I'll leave that matter 4 another day.
But you see that spending aspect? Just forget it bros...it's here to stay.
Na normal thing. Man no dey wise(let me not use sense)for where women dey.

If men no dey wise where women dey, why una dey vex if we cheat?

LordReed:
And how does that negate what I wrote? If she invited him out is she not responsible for the bills?

It negates everything you wrote because you implied that the guy asked for a date and decided to go dutch. Your first and second paragraph contradicts one another.

LordReed:
I think if you invite somebody out you should be responsible for the bills. You can't invite someone out and then go dutch on them without first informing them prior to having anything.

She asked for the date, abeg read.

SugarGirl44:
You need to see a therapist, this isn’t normal.

Some people are meant to be alone. I do not enjoy peoples company for long, man or woman.

kurlz:
True! But African men especially Nigerians don't reason like this. The woman is made the beast of burden, and even supports financially also, and all some men do is bring money nothing more, yet she's seen as a liability that adds no value.
She changes her name, her body, bares you children all for you, takes care of your home and support the house's upkeep financially, and everyway, yet she is not appreciated. The Nigerian man galivants and frolics outside the marriage, lives like a king and subjects the woman to a slave and a nonentity yet he claims it's only women that benefits from marriage.
African/Nigerian men are clowns.

In the real sense, Who should be scared and tired of marriage? Is it not women?

Then women shouldn't marry, simple.

okoroemeka:
I am now married for 23 years and if given the opportunity to choose I will still take my current wife,she is a very beautiful tall,sexy and smart woman that reads human minds like an open book,she gave me beautiful children including twins that are also smart and intelligent rarely falling sick,my wife will not hesitate to tell you the truth whether you like it or not and she has a good heart and capacity to forgive which was sorely needed the year I stupidly fell for her junior sister the last born in their family and got the beautiful seductress witch pregnant,that was the lowest point I could ever desend as a man with my inlaws, but my wife stayed strong with me,she forgived but not without some real drama and tongue lashing.that was very close to be listed in 1000 ways to die.

Oga you no try at all, men dey play away match, no be for wife family. Haba.

Exodora:
I have learnt to mind my business these days.
My brother’s babe that he just met this year is planing same, me looking at him like a mumu e go soon clear for him eyes.
Just the hall for the wedding is close to 3m. My mum told them to do it over there ‘USA’ but she insists that it must be in Nigeria that she wants her friends to be there.
Today she is in Dubai to visit one of her uncle or tomorrow in Canada to visit her brother and yet she is a student wonder how she study her books
The funny part is that her parents are long separated. My own na to pray for him since he is not working with his brain.

Oga, speak to your brother. What the heck is wrong with you?