₦airaland Forum

DrLevi:
It's not an upwork thing, freelancing is saturated.

You have to hustle against a lot of Nigerians and Asians.

Web development doesn't make it any better, as 8/10 devs I know are web developers and more are coming to join the pack

My advice:
Keep applying, eventually one go click
Try others e.g fiverr and pepperperhour
Focus local also. the 100k - 200k Nigerians will pay for their business website is still a lot of money.
Niche down, be it Wordpress, shopify or even less popular frameworks like Svelte, Go/Gin etc. React/Node/php has way too many developers.
Finally, just build experience as much as you can. Experience/Skill is everything!

Please bro, what would you advise that i learn, front end or back end development?

I want to be a free lancer.

qtguru:
There are other technical roles not just programming, QA has little programming.

Bro, but this QA Engineers, how easy is it to get gigs on upwork?

NaBanga:
Forget all this man na man and woman na woman. The person who has the money has the power. Money is power. It's best if both parties are contributing their fair share if you want to avoid resentment. Once one person is giving more than the other, there are going to be problems. This is why Nigerian women show their husbands pepper when they move abroad. No one wants to live under the "reign" of another human being in their own home.

Very good, and the solution is to leave your wife back in Nigeria.

Shameful religion.

Brendaniel:
Jesus Christ of Nazareth...

You're a joker.

HealerH:
Blah blah blah.
I hate it when illiterates try to flex their mediocre views on my lines.

I'm a believer and I live an immoral life. But are we talking about believers here?

When a believer does things that contradict common sense or his religion, he/she can be accused of ignorance or hypocrisy.

There's no true Atheist that doesn't make use of his brain. So you can't actually accuse a true atheist of ignorance (I know why I said True Atheist... I used that expression so that empty-brained wannabe atheists [like you] don't mistake yourself for an authentic breed). And you can't also accuse a true atheist of hypocrisy because he doesn't adhere to any metaphysical principle. (Hypocrisy is when you accept a principle and still act against the principle..

You can only accuse an atheist of intellectual laziness because atheism is fundamentally borne out of man's intellectual limit. That person knows something. But not all he's supposed to know before making a conclusion.
You don't believe in God, not because you have a proof that he doesn't exist, but because you were able to prove someone's else's argument of God's existence to be wrong.

I said 3 + 3 = 12. You say I'm wrong.
Yet you're incapable of telling me the correct answer. That's what happens in atheism.
I said God exists and I give my arguments. You proved my argument to be wrong but you're incapable of proving that God doesn't exist.

The existence of things is not conditioned by our arguments or opinions of the things. Things exists/or do not exist and remain what they are independently of our opinion.

So I repeat. Atheism is a lazy man's excuse for not wanting to be morally responsible.
Now get lost.

I hate when fools think they are wise.

Brendaniel:
No one is begging anyone to believe in God, however I believe there is God, after watching and listening to all the explanations of the big bang theory I reconfirmed there is God.

The source of Life is from God

Which God exactly?

Lexusgs430:
When you can't beat them, you join them .........

What use is a good egg, in the midst of 500 dozen rotten eggs........

My bro, morning.

Would love to speak personally to you about something.

Nothing serious.

LilMissFavvy:
I didn't read the nonsense'you typed. , why should I read through such mass of stupidityyy . If you really wish to train a bastard' son, then don't take time to pick a wife, pick carelessly and you will surely end with the type that will give your nonsense'to you bumper to bumper , . Your life, your business.

Only broke people raise bastard children though, how much come be dna again?

descarado:
Member of church of Satan.

And yeah, he hasn't been called to order cos the powers be are members too.

Anytime he comes out like this, its ritual that's going on.

Where's your proof?

SerikiFulani:
Some men do fvck up big time

How can you leave your wife here in nigeria and travel out of the country ...No wonder a lotta married women are fucking around.

OP , your husband's sister is there to monitor you...They know you might want to fvck around and they put her there to keep an eye on you.

If you get hot now,how would you handle such situations?Would you cheat ? Or would you get intimacy gadgets?

I'll love to know @OP

Won't you rather leave your wife here and secure your properties and money abroad?

I know of a man who lives in the US, his friends sends him evidence of his cheating wife almost every week, baba no send.

I'll glady choose my property and money over women anyday anytime. Make she stay for Nigeria, nothing spoil.

Thomasankara:
His thought emits evil, he once said his next plan is to buy Coca-Cola and add cocaine content into it

He's just being sarcastic.

Coca cola contained cocaine in the early 1900's. You can google it.

CHoccolaTE:
That's because the whole story is a lie
.

I wonder why people can't see that the op is being sarcastic.

Its just a way to gauage opinions about stay at home moms too, who do nothing all day except for house chores, of which i am sure he does too.

LedRock:
If I tell you would that add anything to your bank account?

Says someone who says a billion dollars is small money.

People sef. Even Americans won't call 2 million dollars "just".

LedRock:
To be worth a billion naira is not so much of a big deal these days, less than $2m . Too many naira billionaires in Nigeria.

How much do you have?

LordReed:
I don't know about good person or not but Elon initially appeared to be a progressive until his real values started coming to the fore and he is not what he appears to be. The man has a mean streak you wouldn't expect from someone that appears so chill.

Beacause he changed his political view from being liberal to far right?

I get that you don't like republicans, but everyone is entitled to his or her political views.

Flacko225:
But she doesn't have yansh and or nice tiddies abeg abeg. Id rather stick with my "ugly" black women

Black women are beautiful.

cococandy:
it’s a choice and a responsibility (your choice and responsibility ) to stay updated.

Don't say what you're ignorant of. you made a statement, i asked for facts and you're here saying rubbish.

Minjim:
I give up.

Even Soludo too is defending this inexcusable behaviour?

Under no circumstances should a public servant overeact in the manner I just read.
All these politicians just pretend to have our interest when they want power but actually, they're all birds of a feather.

Soludo fit dey useless after all.

cococandy:
Elon musk is not a good person.

Regardless of how you feel about gay/transgender issues, don’t let it be the reason you root for him.
Even if he raised and army of nuns and priests who never go against what’s considered traditionally normal, he will still not be a person to root for.

And how do you know that Elon isn't a good person?

Martinez39s:
If you are earning millions, they want a joint account.
If they are earning millions, they don't want to have a joint account with you.

If you are earning millions, they don't want a prenup.
If they are earning millions, they want a prenup.

Lesson: when it benefits them, they keep it strictly business. When it doesn't, they want you to do it for love. They know what they are doing.

Men are eternally stupid, i don't know why they can't see through women.

Ever since i kept love far from my eyes, i have been able to make rational decisions no matter how "wicked".

ivolt:
Get a lawyer.
If he wants to be a partner draw up a contract where he will have to invest certain amount for
a percentage of your business say 20%. In this case, he will be an investor with a stake while
you run everything and share profits.
Also, have a clause that will ensure you can buy him out at anytime you want.

NEVER agree to a blank joint account!
It is a trap.

Very good idea.

I won't blame the OP because i can't trust any woman with my finances either and i don't expect any woman to trust me too, everybody should keep their money abeg.

Leoleo1:
Olodo. This is 100 meters Hurdles

You're right, thanks for the correction.

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Na to dey experiment like this from now o.

tensazangetsu20:
I was just experimenting o. Nna men any man about to marry in Nigeria should hide his true self. You will be shocked like mad

Who looks for love in Nigeria, probably a neophyte?

You are supposed to have heard the mantra " better to cry in a Benz than a napep", meaning they can stomach even the meanest of abuse so long as the money flows.

Reality isn't really that different from nairaland.

And she no know sey you be Boss.

It's a shame on Nigerian girls though, everything seems to be about money, no wonder a lot of guys do not rate them at all.

moses93:
3 years

Wow, i have been drinking longer than that. I was trying to get over something bad that happened to me till it became a habit. But i hope you drink moderately?

I drink moderately but if i don't drink anyday, my body wouldn't let me rest

moses93:
ALCOHOL

How long have you been drinking?

blazingblender:
Matter long ooh
But I think the first answer is 10 yrs
His mother was 30 yrs then
He will be 25 when his mum is 50
She was 25 when he was born
And the difference between their age is 25

You know book.

idu1:
How many graduates knows their onion in this our current dispension?

Especially the females. How many can hold a reason conversation about their course of study in the university? How many knows Nigeria has 6 geopolitical zones?

If women you know are dumb, then that is on you.

You can as well not send your daughters to school.