₦airaland Forum

idu1:
You are a bad human being.

Okay, good human being.

Dont lower your standard @ op, you could always meet another educated and well brought up woman.
There are thousands of them around.

slimjohn2k5:
Take beauty and body aside
Do you want to marry a non graduate?

I am not against marrying one but u will start having issues because u will always think your ideas or opinions supercede hers, making her feel inferior. That time you not go see beauty again, u go see say she dey make grammatical errors etc the option of sending her to school is another major issue.

Think with your head and not your penis.

A lot of men don't think straight. It's as if their thinking ability flies out of the window once they fall in love.

Thank you for reminding him the consequences.

BlaqJosh:
Bro na wa for you,
To Me "Certificate dose not matter ooh" Just be good and hard working girl then you are good to go..
Being a graduate Or Under Graduate shouldn't be on your list of worry,

You know say wife matti don finish for market

You say what? Certificate doesn't matter? Nawa.

ImaIma1:
Whoever is handling the bills should not determine who is in charge. By your reasoning, that would mean that if things were to change and the woman is handling most of the bills, she will be in charge also. She can wake up by 8am and expect her husband to have made her breakfast.

For the husband to come on Nairaland for something his wife explained to him which happens just once a week, means he is not supportive or he's just a nag

So osinachi's husband was right in every sense to control his wife's finances after all, even when she earned higher. I learn new things on nairaland everyday, people seem to change the narrative when it doesn't suits them.

Madam, who provides for the family calls the shots E.O.D.

tensazangetsu20:
I did some basic discrete mathematics when I started last year. Been on this since November 2021.

I need your opinion on something, I'll be moving to the UK by january to study machine learning and big data, i want to pick up a skill that can easily get me gigs on upwork. What would you suggest?

Powersurge:
I thank God that blacks and Arabians are not the only humans on earth.

Omo see self hate. You're so horrible.

Ibkhaleel01:
IS HE ALSO A CULTIST LIKE SOYINKA SNR?

Are pyrate confraternity cultists?

Stop saying what you don't know.

Onyi22:
He is due for a second wife oo, he needs a baby girl too

He won't look at you twice.

Mindlog:
Your delusions are your are your truth.

My parents decided to marry each other, my father went with his kinsmen to my mother's family to seek her hand in marriage, provided what my tradition requires of a groom and his family and when the traditional marital rites were completed, they had their Church wedding a month later after which they began living together.

Over the decades, my father is still warmly welcomed and highly regarded by my mother's family, that is not what is accorded a "buyer"...a buyer is pay and disappear.

He asked you a simple question and you're here writing epistles.

tensazangetsu20:
The most important thing to crack the interviews at these companies is a solid understanding of data structures and algorithms and systems design. They are taught in computer science at undergraduate level. I dont want to derail the thread. Check through my topics I have a guide do research online and then make your choice. Its not an easy journey its long, brutal and unforgiving.

This data structures, are you taking the maths route?
Like studying discrete maths and all or are studying how it's applied through programming languages?

airsaylongcome:
You are lucky na. I close at 1am. Nothing on earth will allow me study when I close. I'm often dead tired by then.

Remote job?

Igbofam:
How was Obiano a mistake when he built infrastructure Peter Obi never even attempted?

What infrastructure?

That substandard airport that is already falling apart?

Crixxx:
I just thought of that

Obiano was a mistake, really!

deepwater:
Did I say she was from the North
Do u have comprehension problems or what exactly ?
Abeg carry ur frustrated live comot my mention make ogun no go kill u o!

You were caught in your ignorance, unless tell me how two southerners would be president and vice at the same time.

Na you get comprehension issues jorr.

NOETHNICITY:
Both are from south. VP isn't possible and I think she knows that. All that said, Obi just dey waste time and resources

Why do you people keep saying this, does it mean that votes don't count or what?

If votes don't count, then whats the need for elections?

If they do, then he stands a chance.

Cholls:
My brothers and sisters another drama on the way. But, some region will no learn the kind of political game the northerners are playing....they keep strategizing on how to take more seat in the new administration..... while one region is there hating instead of them to humble themselves to play the game so win more seat in the new administration so that their region can have a say.

Your region that has had a say for over a decade, how has it bettered your life personally?

Ibkhaleel:
Shameless people opening their dirty mouth against Muslim Muslim ticket


Is their Justice to Muslims in any of the xtians dominated states in Nigeria?

The Muslim Muslim ticket is giving them
sleepless night.
As if they are in APC.
The two northern Christian states are anti Muslims.
Benue and Plateau strangled Muslim
minorites out of politics since 1999.

The Minority Muslims experience what lgbo Muslim face in many areas.
Also, Plateau that is APC in Governorship
election is always PDP in presidential. This means, APC has always lose there.
Benue is PDP in both course. And APC lose like pack of cards in presidential election.
In fact, these two states and their Christians have the worse PROPAGANDA against
Muslims in Nigeria.

The south east is a Christian zone and
Muslims or APC aren't welcomed. APC alway lose all South East states in presidential elections.

These are places where Christian dominates wholesomely in Nigeria.
Why should APC zone a ticket to a people that will never vote for you to win?
Even with a pastor, they didn't vote you onto victory.

No sensible human invest in a lose.
Muslims of the north are waiting for Tinubu to show that political unity between Muslims
of the south and north will be reciprocated
with picking of Muslim from the North. Any attempt to pick who isn't a northern Muslim is a win for Atiku and his PDP. It is like somebody getting to gate of heaven then decided to commit adultery.
(1 am constrained to write this because I see blunders from people on this and CAN who equally never wanted Muslim as governor or deputy in Benue and Plateau, in South East and south South states are opening their gallon mouths over something they never worked for and will never do for Muslims if
muslims were minority in Nigeria. Politics is numerical

So why do christians vote for the pdp?

Didnt they vote for Atiku the last time?

Victor468:
What has that ever done for us in the past? Is that what is important now? As if we care anyways.
What we are craving for is someone who will bring Nigeria back to a prosperous country. We should stop flying the kite of religion, it only decides us the more.

But we can fly the kite of tribe?

Umahi's house looks so distasteful.

tensazangetsu20:
Yeah February 2020 to be exact. Got my first job in August of the same year.

When you mean job, do you mean remote or a tech company here in naija?

Gamesmart:
The GDP discussions are above your rat brain?

You're just a loser.

Look at a fool supporting buhari.

Get lost, my last mention to you.

TheStakeHolder:
Not peculiar to Nigeria alone.

The decline is due to the global economic recession ocassioned by the pandemic.

Before the pandemic nko?

Gamesmart:
This is foolish!

Which the structure of Nigeria's economy, our GDP is more dependent on international/external factors than government policies.

Most poorly educated, low-IQ "yoots" will not know this.

My friend shut it.

LeoDeKing:
Sometimes I wonder what is wrong with this Buhari.

How will you appoint igbo to head an organisation located in Lagos? What nonsense is this?

Has any Westerner ever been appointed to lead Alaigbo?

I don begin dey hate this man.

Who dominates trade fair?

Be honest to yourself.

ViceGovernor:
So na true
I pity that guy when Bello finally get him time stay away from married women them no go hear
Bello is a known gangster an ebira man for that matter they are one of the most brutal tribes in this country.
Somebody that sent thugs to burn a whole family alive

Bello did this?

Emdebby2:
It depends on how the money is being given. Giving your husband money when the need arises is not bad. But in a situation whereby the husband expects the wife to be giving him money like as if she's working for him is not supported. Both of them should have their source of income.

Any circumstances with which the money was given, I'll definitely return it back to her when i am bouyant enought to pay. It'll always be in my debt book

I try to avoid see finish of any kind.

As a guy, please always do well to return every kobo you collect from your wife.
It'd be preferable if you borrow from a trusted male friend sef, thats why you should always have a sure guy/pally, they don't have to be many, trust me.

Let everything be on your terms, every decision in the house. Buy what you can afford, if your wife wants something more grand, stand your ground and buy what you had in mind in the first place.

Please don't discuss financial dealings with women, let her imagine how much you're worth through the way you live, both the ups and downs.

43Ronin:
NBM una no dey try at all. How una go allow una confraternity cast anyhow. Una no see as PC & Bucca be. Even when Bucca been wan dey cast like aye, naso their leadership quickly change matters. But una wan dey use una smallies dey run electoral thugs etc. Everytine una go dey price oda frats so so war with oda frats ah ah. Una dey jonze oo. Una suppose don big pass school and street matters una don old for the game nau.

Respect to pyrate and Nyben them, but buccaneers still dey run street ones ones.

qtguru:
Some niche field are devOps, QA Engineer you'll get a job asap. Mobile Devs is still a niche. Don't jump into web dev like React, jump into platforms built with React like Shopify, Airtable. Platforms bring money e.g WordPress Themes. Integration like the sort of Airtable, Softr and Zapier.

There's Chrome Extension, there's even Webflow gigs.

You can set yourself as a consultant and be earning money. That's the route I'm taking until bigger projects come, sometimes you might even think of a product the more you do platform gigs.

This was what i wanted to discuss with you earlier bro.

qtguru:
I have been participating in the community so I can be a recognized member and I assisted someone with an Airtable Problem

Hello bro, good day!

Please i nees to talk privately with you about something, nothing serious though.

Channah1:
What's lazy in being tired and wanting to rest? is the woman a machine of some sort? Meanwhile, the girlfriend may not be working or having other responsibilities that his wife carries alongside tending for the kid and the big head himself, that's why its easy for her to cook pepper soup at any time of the day she's called upon.

On top of it all, that's not enough reason for the man to become a cheat. Issues like that can be resolved through communication, dialog. Not cheating on her. That's arrant nonsense and not justifiable enough.

A cheat will always be a cheat whether the woman is perfect or not. He's only looking for flimsy excuses to exhibit a character trait that is naturally in him and most men.

I don't know where cheating is a penalty for a womans refusal to prepare a dish for her husband.

No where in the story suggests that the man cheated on her, he only went to eat his meal outside from who could prepare it, or you're just triggered because another woman cooked his meal?

My uncle has numerous numbers of joints we hang out at, he tells them to prepare something before we come, perhaps that was what happened.