₦airaland Forum

Tembebe:
Do you know that married couple do it too?
They record their f*uck sessions and watch it later together for the fun of it.
They claim it's a way of adding spice to their marriage.
Can you believe that?

Tembebe:
I meant the mistake of recording the smashing and getting leaked to the public

Tembebe:
As much as we know what the girl did is wrong
I want to agree with Kemi Adetibah
Let's show the girl in question love
Don't add to her embarrassment
Many a young girls who made similar mistake
have resorted to suicide because of public ridicule
Let's be sensitive, bikonu

Flexherbal:
Life can give you what you did not bargain for.

5 minutes adventure has turned into something else.

Hoephase:
I will give you an example that is unrelated just to point out the problem with adhering to such values. Today must of our young people cannot speak up for themselves in the face of oppression, because our value system forbids us to challenge our elders. We are both aware where this has landed us as a nation.

dominique:
I don't do back and forths so this will be my last response to you.

I don't agree to the racial profiling by racist Caucasians of Africans but you shouldn't complain too much of being labelled as animals when in reality most of you behave worse than animals.

I asked if as a parent you will be okay with your child being dragged around like that REGARDLESS the offense, but you're so fixated on eye lashes as if that's the biggest offense a teenager can commit. You probably would have spoken against the assault if she stole or destroyed school property (which are worse offenses by the way) since your biggest problem is fixing eye lashes.

As long as a physical assault and infringement of human rights took place, the affected is within their legal rights of sue. Anybody can file a civil suit, it's left to the court to decide.

dominique:
Are you saying that the ONLY way the security and school staff can handle the situation is by dragging her head around and putting her on video? Why then do we take offense when Caucasians use derogatory terms on us like monkeys, shithole etc? Are we not animalistic in nature if majority of us believe it is justifiable to publicly humiliate a teenager because she broke rules? Couldn't there have been other ways to punish her? If you were a parent, you would have been ok with your child's head being dragged around like that regardless what she did?

If Queens College does not release a statement distancing itself from this show of shame, they are at risk of law suit. The whole fracas happened within it's premises, carried out by it's employees so they are 100% culpable.

mrvitalis:
Are you shamed to post them here ? I dare u post Oshogbo pics if its better than aba u win

mrvitalis:
Can we compare the two towns ?

Igbo's complain with respect to its potential and other Igbo towns its bad but with respect to nigeria its very very OK

Here is the pics of aba ...I dare you to show pics of Oshogbo town that beats this

Victorclean1:
Still finding it very difficult to understand this food program . In Ibo land, is very very difficult to see such because every family know the important of education.

mrvitalis:
U mean the same osun I served ? Or another one If u call place like ede and the rest town then every Igbo village is a city

akoraye:
Other governors are commissioning roads and other social amenities while governor Oyetola is busy commissioning Food warmer and iron pots(apeerin) God!

Oyetola inaugurates 228.5km rural roads, grants LGAs autonomy

Osun State governor, Adegboyega Oyetola, on Thursday, said the provision of good road networks is central to the agenda of his administration.

He said his administration will continue to build and develop infrastructure in the state.

Oyetola spoke at the commissioning of the 228.5km rural roads, rehabilitated and reconstructed under the Osun Rural Access and Mobility Project, at Akeredolu town, along Onikoko-Osi Sooko road, Ile-Ife, Ife-South Local Government......

https://thenationonlineng.net/oyetola-inaugurates-228-5km-rural-roads-grants-lgas-autonomy/

mrvitalis:
Firstly omeal is not his program where is the infrastructural development ...Oshogbo is like a village compared to aba yet we won't hear world

dominique:
So manhandling and humiliating her on video was the way to go about it? If you watch th video, the woman was saying "I told them to leave my daughter alone let me take her home". Meaning this mess would have been averted of she had been turned back at the gate but the staff wanted to humiliate the girl. Insisting she must be recorded on video is a violation of her rights and a case the school will not win if the woman decides to sue

brainhgeek:
Very well said. I wanted to avoid the error of assumptions. The 40sec video is not sufficient evidence for me to judge the entire scene that played out.
I thought in a school with over 500 boarders and we still do security check before any child reports back to the hostel from home. These kids still find a way of reshaping their skirts and slim-fitting their trousers. Kids will at one time try to be wayward. It is who they are, who we were and who they will be. Our approach at addressing issues such as these goes a long way in instilling discipline or condemning and totally loosing them to their wayward life. I am neither supporting the mother nor the girl. They were both very wrong and deserved to be sent back home or given whatever disciplinary measure the school deemed fit. However, my point is that the girl was judged according to the laws of the school but it corrected. What is judgement without correction? It shouldn't have degenerated into a public scene with videos going on the internet. That is judgement without correction.
I am so sure the girl will not change but look for a safer Haven where she can do what she feels like. You can never judge her emotions from that video. From the look of things, the weight of the public condemnation might just make her and her.mum get determined not to stop or change their mindset. The security guys cut the tree of indicency but didn't address the root. The tree will still sprout.
I can blame the school management for not waging in and correcting the error, not just judging it.
Once again, no one knows the entire narrative of this story. It's hard to totally believe what you see on the internet these days until you see or hear the other half-truth. I just felt it will be fair to think otherwise.

J111333:
Leadership is not a skill you learn or develop, it's inborn.
My advice is that every leader has a style so use yours and don't join the crowd.

dominique:
Both the mother and teachers are wrong! Why would the mum allow her child go to school like that? The teacher should have sent her home or to principal's office for appropriate disciplinary action to be taken instead of manhandling and humiliating her like that and even videoed. No mother would stand back and watch her child manhandled regardless what the child did.

Thegoodone13:
please, don't judge. Its one side story. The school authority mishandle the situation. If they try such things with my daughter, I will make sure I jail them. There is nothing bad in correct her but not rough handle like this. She is still a Minor and they need to correct her with love. Why not take her to principal office?

Born2Breed:
That child probably went for an event during the weekend and couldn't remove the lashes before Monday morning.

They would have simply send her back home not trying to pull her back to the school which to me is assault and the video is very wrong.

She made a mistake, send her home or discipline her after the parent must have vacated the school premises not assaulting her in presence of her mother,no woman will take that .

Imagine that silly teacher saying goodbye to queens college,na your papa build the school. You wey dem go transfer soon go ikorodu or ijanikin.

ZlatanIbile:
So, you’re justifying the rough handling and the unprofessional attitude of the school staff? There are better ways to go about things like this without it getting out of hands. And for me, if any idiot lays his hands on my daughter like the security man did to raise her face, he’s ready to bleed.

brainhgeek:
Yes, she was very wrong to be dressed that way to school and she deserved to be turned back but I think the security guys didn't handle the situation well. She should have been corrected without a public disgrace. That probably made the woman lose her senses and wanted to show she is not a weakling

naptu2:

naptu2:
All the people in that video are wrong, of course.

1) The Queens College staff that held the girl's hands, held her face up for the camera and recorded the video should never work in any school again. The girl is a child and they are meant to protect the rights of the child, not to try and humiliate her in this way. - Unfortunately, this is Nigeria where we bring gun to a knife fight at-time to make strong statements. I must confess, I had near similar situation on my hands when I took my daughter to school for extension classes (JSS 3 ) during holidays. She still had the attachment-hairdo on; which she did for the holidays. School SIMPLY told us it was unacceptable and wont allow her in school. Myself and my niece had to become "hair-dresser" at a corner, removed the damn-thing. I got home and told wifey that we should NEVER be found that "wanting" again. SIMPLE

2) The child should also be punished for fixing fake eye lashes if they are against the rules. - I believe even as a child, she should be well acquainted with school rules and regulations; and should have duly informed the mother. Yes she deserves to be punished.... but judging by the mother's show of shame fighting security and teachers, I am persuaded to believe that this is all on the mother.

3) The mother should be punished for going back to fight the Queens College staff. There are better and legal ways to handle the situation, rather than assaulting the staff.The mother has turned this into a police case already. QC should go to all length to make her an example

Jasen1:
See that teacher shouting that's the end don't come to queens collage Shey them go refund the woman her money



But why the woman go allow her daughter fix eye lashes go school I hate that shit like mad

partnerbizn5:

mrgreen4real: :
They should be expelled not suspended. Their offence is a sign that they are/potential cultists.

Expelled?

That's too much abeg.

Maybe suspended for 2- 3 years. And maybe prosecution by the police for assault..

AllenSpencer:
Punishment is too light.

They should be handed over to the state police and made to face the law.

Few years imprisonment won't be a bad idea.

Asifiwe:
This constant posting of northern to Lagos is strategically aimed at killing us in the south west. They have been doing this for so long

...... even as Acting CP Odumosu H Olusegun heads Lagos Command.

ojun50:
So wetin be the koko of wetin you write now

Racoon:
Senseless policy somersult by the Buhari govt.Another negative for Nigeria.Recession loading.Meanwhile away with oil.

knowledgeable:

SarkinYarki: The ECOWAS country's should ignore this Nonsense .. Borders are similar to filters in reality a border is put in place to filter what come into a country and what leaves but the Buhari govt is trying to blame the filtering efficiency of it's borders on other countries which is total Balderdash !!!!! Border cost millions of dollars to maintain and they are not built for ceremonial purpose but to act as filter that filters out unwanted goods and allow what is wanted come . When your water filter is bad at home you don't go about blaming your neighbors for the dirty water coming into your home but you instead fix the filter and get it working properly

Why is it that we Nigerians are incapable of reasoning out of the box most of the time?. You are seeming asking too much, He's even struggling with reasoning "within the box"

I support Buhari on this one. For those of us who oppose this (strategically thought out policy implements) policy, please think deeply & think out of the box as well.

Could it be that, there are two strategic policy components to this?. Absolutely yes. We regain control of trade inflows and properly complete on outflow

Could the first component seek to position Nigeria, for some sectors to witness increase in productivity/revenue generation and etc?. Even much more. We have the capacity and scale to be a net exporter

Could the second component seek to early test the modus operandi of the newly signed Africa Free Trade Area & regional body like Ecowas engaging them to the seriousness of these treaties & how these treaties can sink some African economies while uplifting others. Thank God, that Nigeria have fired the first shot aimed at this complexities..... which I believe the outcome must be a stronger institution/regime to oversight the efficient running of these treaties to the benefit of all African economies while keeping the powerful predators guessing. chop knuckle

Enough said.

MelesZenawi:
When Government hasn't told us the actual deposit, they are fighting over it.



Nigeria unity is defined as living together because of Oil.

Oil is the unity of Nigeria.

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