Romance › Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by marcopollo(m): 11:26am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: You just repeated Op's point of view only with a different tone.  Yeah, but you see ehn, people talk about women being "taken care of" as if they are helpless and as if the men too don't need to be "taken care of." With this mentality I wouldn't want to be a woman especially in Nigeria. My brother, financial stability is important o. Not saying until you are mega rich you can't start a family. The key word there is STABILITY. Whatever that comes in from both couple, they can plan together with it and move on from there. But then OP, anything can happen even to a rich man, so what happens  Quit the marriage cuz you needed to be "taken care of?" When women have this mentality of "I should be taken care of' it breeds marital instability. The future is not sure for anyone. When one is down, the other one would help him up. |
Romance › Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by marcopollo(m): 10:08am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: 1. Your very culture, and traditional laws, reason the same way, and since most of you hold Culture high, it means you also reason pretty much like the OP does, only you don't openly admit it. So doesn't that then mean you are also psychologically wrong? 
2. You think by accepting and opening admitting the truth of your culture, she is somehow worse than you lot who pretend you don't accept it yet pretty much every aspect of your lives is colored by it?  I don't even understand what you are trying to say. Okay let me put it this way: Don't sound like women are like some pet dogs that are helpless but need to be taken care of as if they can't make their own money to take care of themselves. Why not rather say that men especially should be financially stable to some reasonable extent before thinking of starting a family. |
Romance › Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by marcopollo(m): 1:02am On Mar 12, 2023 |
There's something psychologically wrong with people who reason like the OP like women are like pets for men waiting to be "taken care of." Like women can't make their own money and they must look up to a man to take care of them. Even though there are truths to what the OP is saying, but that's the kinda vibe I get. |
Investment › Re: A Week Earnings On Picoworker. (pic) by marcopollo(m): 5:43pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
Simplecity: switch to kiwi ....and run on desktop mode....i use glo weekly 1500- 7gb , and i collect$ 7-$10 per week...seems fair Wow, thanks for your response. I really appreciate 🙏 Please may I have your WhatsApp number ?🙏 Mine is 09071043449 and my name is Mark. 🙏 |
Investment › Re: Freelancer!!!!!!!!!!! by marcopollo(m): 2:12pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
How's your data plan like doing these SEO jobs? |
Investment › Re: A Week Earnings On Picoworker. (pic) by marcopollo(m): 2:06pm On Feb 11, 2023 |
AlphaMale666 and to anyone making some profit on Sproutgigs, please how do you guys manage your data doing these SEO jobs. What's your data plan like and on what network? I use Firefox to do these SEO jobs but it seems the cost of data to run it is kinda much. Help, please 🙏 |
Politics › Re: El-Rufai: We Will Unmask Aso Villa Cabal Working Against Tinubu (Video) by marcopollo(m): 7:07am On Feb 03, 2023 |
Carencaima: Rubbish people. God will use una broom to sweep all of you out of aso rock Don't mind them. Witches use brooms to fly. APC is the party of witches. |
Politics › Re: Osun: Not All Data Was Transmitted When APC Obtained BVAS Server Report – INEC by marcopollo(m): 5:24pm On Jan 30, 2023 |
Is the BVAS not supposed to be transferring the data real-time? If not, then what's the use of BVAS  Why are we like this in this country. This is only Osun o!!! Things are like this. What then is the hope of a national election in one day  |
Politics › Re: Fuel Scarcity, Naira Redesign Are Plans To Scuttle Elections – Tinubu by marcopollo(m): 7:51pm On Jan 25, 2023 |
Ebubu: isn’t his party the one in charge of fuel and naira? Thank you o. Help me ask him o! |
Family › Re: "Churches Should Add "Let Me Die The Day I Cheat On You" To Marriage Vow" by marcopollo(m): 8:28pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
After cheating and the cheat didn't die, so the cheat could claim that he didn't cheat since he didn't die. Abi? |
Romance › Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by marcopollo(m): 12:22pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Your suspicion is legit. But who is your wife not to listen to you? Why are some men like this? Who married who? Or did she pay your groom price? You don't need to involve any third party. Be very decisive with what you want and take a definite stand on this matter. Let her know the consequences of disobeying you which might lead to separation. Yes, it's that serious. Who born monkey?
In all (and this is very important), stop eating her food and don't sleep with her till she comes back to her senses. Be spiritually alert, also. Make spiritual consultations to know what she's up to. Women can do anything to get what they want, before she turn you to mumu. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Convince My Boyfriend To Save In My Bank? by marcopollo(m): 5:29am On Jan 13, 2023 |
You're already talking as if you're his wife and that's not too good for you. If you are not comfortable about his lifestyle of taking alcohol often or that he's careless with the way he spends his money, you may consider backing out of the relationship. Don't let love becloud your senses. |
Romance › Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by marcopollo(m): 12:42pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Summary: she's not ready and she see say you no dey decisive in your actions. Halt every marriage proceedings. See her as your baby mama and nothing else, that's if you are sure she's carrying your baby. She must not be living in the house with you. What nonsense! |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Will Be In Trouble If Obi Is Not Elected President – Adebanjo by marcopollo(m): 2:50pm On Jan 02, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: I Find It Hard To Ejaculate by marcopollo(m): 6:02am On Dec 27, 2022 |
Any sexual problem in Nairaland is caused by masturbation. Nawa! |
Travel › Re: What Exactly Does One Enjoy In Nigeria As A Rich Person? by marcopollo(m): 11:56am On Dec 26, 2022 |
Insecurity with all the money in the world means nothing. That's why the number one priority of any reasonable government is security of lives and property. Today it's someone affected by insecurity, tomorrow,no matter how tight you think your personal security is,it might be your turn. |
Romance › Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by marcopollo(m): 10:21am On Dec 19, 2022 |
In the deepest parts of your mind, did you do evil to her  Only you can answer this. If you did, then by all means, look for a way to appease her, if not....... But if you didn't, then no wahala. Nothing evil will befall you. Her curse on you, if any, won't fly. If she's threatening you like that publicly, then report the matter to the police. |
Family › Re: Marrying A Masturbator! by marcopollo(m): 1:25pm On Dec 14, 2022 |
@ fakum , I feel you, Bro. But you know what? My wife also masturbates, though I'm also good in oral s*x. She's not a s*x freak like myself. It's good we're on the same level of s*x drive. The thing is, when she masturbates, that's not the best time to have s*x. I allow her do her thing. At least if need be we'll do it like the next day or any other day. But in your case, your wife's s*x drive has dwindled. I wonder what could be the cause? Have you guys discussed on that? If so, what did she say? Denying you s*x is not good. Please you guys should talk about it and find a middle ground or some compromise. |
Politics › Re: APC Or Labour Party Presidency, A Threat To Nigeria's Unity - Harry Ariko by marcopollo(m): 1:42pm On Dec 13, 2022 |
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Programming › Re: Quiting My Job To Venture Into Tech At 28 - Advice Needed. by marcopollo(m): 5:52am On Dec 13, 2022 |
Danyl: @OP, you really tried to have decided to make this plunge however I would give you these few advice. I'm close to 40 but I feel life still holds more for me so reaching or getting to 40 should push you to do some tough stuffs so you dont regret later. I'm a web software dev but I have realized that the business side of tech is more glamorous if you can climax around there. take this seriously: You can either keep doing the work AND use your evenings to read/code. Start with C and more to python and specialize on backend, you can easily port to data analysis with that stack. You may start with freecodecamp.org.
OR
Save 3 months of your salary and resign but ensure that you are going for a stack that can get you a job in 8-10 months. Both tech fields will give you a good start but this 2nd option may be tough prior to getting a job o. Hi, please I'm in my early forties. I desperately want to go into being a web software developer like you, too, but really confused on how to Kickstart this journey. I'd really like to have us contact on WhatsApp. This is my number: 09071043449. Thanks. |
Programming › Re: I Will Mentor/ Teach Coding For Free by marcopollo(m): 5:21am On Dec 13, 2022 |
I'm seriously interested. Add me up, please: 09071043449 . |
Programming › Re: I Want To Learn Programming. Which Language Should I Start With? by marcopollo(m): 8:22pm On Dec 12, 2022 |
Hi, House! Please I'm new in this programming thing and brimming with passion to go into it as a web application developer. I want to go into solving problems in the educational sector and making their jobs easier. Please I need the full list of the coding language to learn in that field. Thanks. @ Javian |
Programming › Re: First Step On How To Be An App Developer by marcopollo(m): 4:35pm On Dec 12, 2022*. Modified: 4:57am On Dec 13, 2022 |
Fedrick100: @ Lalami3232 Please let me also drop my number for the same request: 09071043449. I'd greatly appreciate your help. Thanks so much. |
Programming › Re: First Step On How To Be An App Developer by marcopollo(m): 4:31pm On Dec 12, 2022 |
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Webmasters › Re: Why Do People See Having A Website For Their Business A Waste Of Money?? by marcopollo(m): 12:39pm On Dec 11, 2022 |
Having a website is not a waste of money if only Web Designers, IT Consultants and so-called Web Developers and Gurus will FOR ONCE think about the Business Side of Information Technology. not everything is about the latest code or widget or App. it is about the following .pointedly, how does this website 1: Add Value to my Brand - Get me more customers or spread the word on my Goods and Services (Follow The Money) 2: How does it demonstrate better TOC (Total Cost of Ownership) 3: How does it save me costs
All web designers are interested in is building a fine-faced with all sorts of useless widgets and features and scrolling thingy-bobs that the Company does not need and will never appreciate. all these at some exorbitant maintenance fees when ever the company wants to dot an I or cross a T.
They have made the profession or business of building websites a case of painful value-fraud and annoying arrogant ignorant IT people who call themselves business-men.
Until IT Consultants start thinking like real business-men instead of crafty-shafters.. companies will continue to ignore them or ship the business outside.
my 5cents Hi! Are you still there? So what do you suggest these web designers do or know or learn so their clients can have value for their money? Wishing to get your valuable feedback. Thanks. |
Family › Re: How Do I Forgive Him? by marcopollo(m): 7:41am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Fahvvy: How do you forgive him? By forgiving him na ...
Marriage is not relationship o that you can brezz in and out as you wish ... Marriage will test and stretch you farther than anything else will ..
On a more serious note... It's clear and glaring that you don't consider yourself as a team? ...
Let's look at your write up ...
I have always helped him in his house projects,might not be much 100k,50k,20k when need be,I never siphoned my money to myself,as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head,(3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)
Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that "we" should buy it together,I told him no,I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it,( just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller."we" did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.
So even when "two have become one" you still act as if you guys are not a team ...
The only time the word "we" appeared there, it was because it was suggested by your hubby ...
So while he sees you guys as a team, you see yourself as competitors ...
Until you change your mindset, it's best you don't go back ...
I'm not trying to excuse your hubby's actions, however, if you intend to go back with this mindset of unforgiveness, disunity and distrust, just be prepared for everyday quarrel ...
And that too will affect your kids ... Best advice. Listen here. |
Politics › Re: Pictures From The Launch Of APC Manifesto "Renewed Hope 2023" by marcopollo(m): 4:42am On Oct 22, 2022 |
Xscape1993: Any living thing still supporting 'old creature' as president of this country after the 2015 deadly political mistake deserves death sentence by hanging. Oil dey your head. God bless you. |
Politics › Re: Wike Says Rent Seekers Frustrating Peace Efforts In PDP by marcopollo(m): 8:11am On Oct 14, 2022 |
Yureyes: He hasn’t taken anything too far. It’s only PdP folks that will say this. Wike and co removed Secondus and supported Ayu because they expected PDP presidential ticket to come to the south and he knows that it wouldn’t be possible with Secondus as chairman. It was the same period southern governors resolved that the ticket should come to the south. So it was only normal to change the national chairman if that was going to be an obstacle.
To tell you that PDP is a party of fraudulent people, they refused to zone the presidential ticket after they moved the national chairman to the north. They weren’t brave enough to tell Nigerians they want to field a northern candidate. They knew with Ayu as chairman, if they had zoned like they always did in the past, they would be forced to zone the ticket to the south. The party’s northern elites ensured they kept the ticket open and forced Tambuwal to resign for Atiku on the convention day. Smart move, yh? No doubt, that was a political move but you can’t f***king have your cake and eat it. You can’t be so insincere and all of a sudden expect peace when you have gotten what you want, all in the name of the party comes first. Are others fools? If Wike and co had known PDP will not zone their ticket, I’m sure they’d have allowed Secondus or another Southerner continue as national chairman.
Now you have all key party positions going to the North and you want leaders from the other region to work and deliver votes to you.
That said, APC just made matter worse with the same faith ticket. First, PDP has a candidate that is not trustworthy. Secondly, they have played political games to alienate the section of the country that kept them relevant after their 2015 loss. I’m sure many people would have happily voted for APC if they had presented a balanced ticket. Because at the end of the day both parties are the same and if you have only two options, you want to pick the lesser devil. Atiku can never be the lesser devil.
Why do you think so many people have jumped on the Obi bandwagon? They see him as a better alternative to the candidates of the top two parties. Thanks for your analysis. You have a better understanding of the issue than most people here. Some people here just like typing nonsense without understanding what's up. |
Politics › Re: 73-Year-Old Woman Challenges Tinubu And Atiku To A Walk In Abuja by marcopollo(m): 4:57am On Sep 25, 2022 |
RZArecta: Why do you bloggers like talking too much in your videos ? It's too disgusting  Aswear, it's disgusting!!! Thought I was alone on this. |
Politics › Re: Why I’m Encouraged About Peter Obi Movement – Charlyboy by marcopollo(m): 4:46am On Sep 25, 2022 |
yemmit90: What makes you believes he is the best among them?
Note: I am not Tinubu or Atiku supporter o, just asking you a logical question we should all ask ourselves before we make our choice. Be frank with yourself, if you were an employee, who among Atiku, Tinubu and Obi would you employ to your company? |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Live Interview On CNN (Video link and Picture) by marcopollo(m): 7:38pm On Sep 16, 2022 |
OscarJaden: I thought Reno said it was impossible I will deactivate my Nairaland account if Emilo kan can go on CNN for interview Haba na!!! CNN is too much na!!! Let him secure an interview in his own TV station, TVC fes. |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Meets With EU Ambassadors (pictures) by marcopollo(m): 2:55pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
descarado: It is very uncouth when you guys make statements like this. Do you know what yoruba people who support obi pass through daily? Or you think obi has no yoruba supporters?
This is inclusive election like obi said. Instead of making provoking statements like this, don't comment at all. Obi is a Nigerian course. Don't make him a tribal politician. He said that too. If we should get it right, we should start by doing the right thing. Forget. That nin.compoop is most likely not an Igbo, but a supporter of Tinuhu. He wants to create Yoruba hatred for Peter Obi in favor of BAT. I know their type. |