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What about those that started small but are still small or even worse? Seems you left these set of people because they don't fit into the narrative. ![]() |
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Preshy561:Tiger dey sleep, go dey wake am. You are shaking tables. ![]() |
If sincere christians ruled the world using today's bible, we will experience socialism, the limiting and censorship of certain scientific fields (evolutionary biology, carbon dating of the earth's age and certain aspects of cosmology) and suppression of freedom of speech and expression. |
ubunja:Thanks jare. Don't mind that beta dude. TimiRume is desperately hunting for my downfall in this argument so that he can label me a beta male. |
Twizzy30:As in. When there are many children in poverty, why wouldn't crime rate and prostitution increase? ![]() |
ImaIma1: trying to cash on bride price or what?
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Lol. The idea of curses and spells are for the gullible to believe in. ![]() |
Randy100:Well, if a girl approaching you makes you uncomfortable, no problem. If you think approaching a woman makes you a man, no problem. All I am just saying is that a girl approaching you should make you uncomfortable and it should not be a bad thing. Also, I am arguing that a girl approaching you doesn't make you less of a man and that so called male pride is what society gave men not that men were born with it. Shikena. |
Tonyprisca:Okay I agree but how does that relate to the topic? |
Which one is all this Sala this, Sala that. Is he the only one that died in the air crash? People die everyday and that's part of life. |
solasoulmusic:God doesn't exist. |
Ishilove:Assuming you asked for Benz, ferrari, porsche etc. I would have given you. Anyway, my windows of favour has closed. I am not doing again. ![]() |
Tonyprisca:Explain. |
catwalq:Hahahahahaha. |
MajorJeffery:People can celebrate February 14th anyhow they like. Who saint Valentine epp? |
catwalq:You won't find those boys here, try next door. |
Ishilove:I am sorry, I can only buy Benz. Besides the Holy Spirit told me to beware of Rolls Royce girls so I am not doing again. Bye bye. ![]()
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catwalq:Where are all those girls who don't think it's right to spend money on their boyfriends? |
What I would have done for ishilove if only she gree marry me. |
![]() This thing pains me and makes my blood boil. This is not funny. Why do broke couples and irresponsible individuals give birth to children that they can't take care of? I think it's immoral and people should cut their coat according to their size. Is it a good thing to bring a child to this world to suffer? Despite the fact that no one owes anybody anything, broke fools still go ahead to give birth to children that they can't take care of and more annoying is that they go begging people for money to pay school fees, hospital bill, food, clothes etc. for these children. Did they give anyone money to keep for them? Many of them don't even give birth to one or two, it's five to six. Wetin? ![]() Harsh truth is that this habit of giving birth to many children is one of the root causes of poverty and suffering in this world. In developed countries, these set of people after giving birth to many children will think capitalism is their problem and the reason they couldn't afford hospital bills for their children . They then start looking for socialism, dreamers. How can you give birth to children that you cant take care of and expect doctors to deliver your baby for free. Are you mad? Are the doctors your father? Did you train them in school? So doctors will not eat because it's your baby? The money you refuse to pay would have been used to keep the hospital running and provide quality health care for others. Doctors are not wicked when they detain your wife and child or demand payment before treatment instead you are wicked for giving birth to children that you couldn't take care of. ![]() Some of them can't even send their children to school but send them to learn trade and business. I am not saying that business and trading is bad but what if your child has passion for academics? What if that's what the child is only good at? Trading and business is not for everyone. Make money so that you can give your children many options and if at the end of the day they desire business or trade, let them. If you say "well the children wouldn't be lazy and they would work to train themselves in school," why are you poor then if it is easy to raise money and meet your needs? Mtewwwww. ![]() I am not saying that you must be rich as Otedola or Dangote but at least, have that stable means to meet your child/children needs. You can be living in one room but if you have the means to take care of your children and give them options then carry go. So boys and girls, this nonsense must stop. Marriage and childbearing are not do or die affairs and does not mean you have achieved and arrived. I am sure that my great grandfather married and gave birth to children but where is he? Who remembers him? Who he epp? Let's discuss. |
Gweedorian:Nabeel Qureshi died of stomach cancer. Funny how no one thought of healing him not even Ravi Zacharias . I was happy when he died because when an elderly woman asked him why god wouldn't cure her multiple sclerosis despite praying for 30 years, the foolish apologist said that these things happen for a divine reason because we take many things for granted and don't really appreciate god. Qureshi said it was a test and that the woman should take heart. Now that he has had a taste of his medicine, Qureshi can appreciate god and not take things for granted in the world beyond ![]()
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Stargurl20:Lol. Even desperate guys are taken advantage of too. Though I can't speak for other guys, I would say a girl is to be seen as desperate if she keeps on persisting frequently despite the guy saying "no" over and over. Once someone says "no," it's advised to move on or else you give room of be taken advantage of. ![]() |
TimiRume:Tah! That technique of shaming the supposed ignorance of the opponent rather than addressing his/her point. Now, I dare you to answer the following : 1) What objectively makes wooing a spouse a gender role? 2) How does asking someone out automatically gives you position of authority in the relationship? 3) How does a woman asking you out makes you less of a man? 4) Which authority made it so that the man must be the one to woo a woman? 5) Aren't traditions man made? 6) is anyone obliged to follow tradition? Answer these set of questions and let's see who speaks without reasoning. Beta cuck, see his head like "so you don't know it's your job to ask a woman out." Did your father give me the job? Or perhaps your grandpa is the authority that determined that boys must always ask girls out and it's forbidden for girls to ask boys out. Try answering my questions. A beta testes desperately trying to label an alpha like me a beta male so he can feel good about himself. I am sorry, I won't give you that safety in numbers that you are looking for. Pussylain jar.
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Randy100:I like you. Even though you disagree, you still argue maturely. Obviously man is an animal but he is not like other animals. I never said that there are not biological differences between both sexes. The women's role of pregnancy, breast feeding and childbirth are biological differences and it doesn't in any way stop them for asking a man out, does it? These biological differences also doesn't mean that women can't define their roles and determine their destinies. While there are biological differences between both sexes, there are a lot of aspects where both sexes can embrace equality and wooing a spouse is one of those aspects. When I said women shouldn't care about what boys think, I meant women should be themselves and define themselves. They shouldn't put themselves under pressure to please everyone. A life lived trying to please everyone is a miserable one. Would you try to please all ladies? Are you trying to indirectly imply that if women be themselves and defined themselves rather than trying to please boys they would find at least one person interested in them? If no then what are you telling me? @bold Lol. Thanks for this admission. This is what I said in my previous post. No one is obliged to follow traditional rules just as no one is obliged to follow any religion. @red Of course, there is no shame in that. Women too are human beings with needs and desires. If a girl proposes to me and I like her, I will definitely marry her as long as she if wife material. A woman proposing to me doesn't make less of a man or makes me miserable. That male ego of being the one to ask a woman out is something society gave you. You were not born with it. @blue I know that in this part of the world, many are strongly bound to their traditions and that's why I made the this thread. The fact that you admit that things may change in many years to come shows that which gender woos a spouse is not naturally given. Anyway, in your defence, you did point out the role of tradition in determining who woos a spouse. ![]() |
I hate this thing called notch.
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TimiRume:So asking someone out is a gender role? 5thElement is that you? Who the hell are you to tell women that it's not in their place to express their feelings to the one they love?Don't go and have sense. Keep trying to forcefully label me a beta male by misrepresenting my point. Yeye dey smell. ![]() |
TimiRume:I don't have your time. Your are desperately looking for that "I got him" moment but you just can't see your strawmanning and inability to comprehend my point. Seems my points in my last topic struck nerves . There is no point giving insight to a mind bent on irrationality. Only shameless beta cucklings like you think getting a woman or being the centre of their attraction is an achievement. With this mentality, you are the h0es' mugu. Trying to force the beta label on me won't work, you've got nothing on me. ![]()
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Randy100:No need to insult, we are cool. There are many logical fallacies, non sequiturs, assumptions and false equivalences in your write up. First of all, human beings are not chickens and goats. We have a highly intelligent brain that makes us masters of our own destinies and endows us with the immense ability to adapt and define our roles. While other animals may be governed by instincts, man is mainly governed by his rationality and ability to learn. Men and women can both define their roles. The idea that it is shameful for a woman to approach a man is a subjective nonsense that no one is obliged to follow. No woman should be concern about what men choose to think about them. It's not their business what boys choose to think about them and women can't please everyone. Who told you that wooing is meant for men alone? Your culture? Your tradition? Who told you that it's a man's thing? That's a load of assumptions. Testosterone helps in the secondary sexual characteristics of males not enable them to woo women. Wooing a spouse comes from the desire to form a relationship and guess what? both men and women have that desire and why shouldn't they go for what they want? Who the hell is any man to tell a woman that she can't go for what she wants? Women should be themselves and not give a damn about what boys think they should be. It's not a boys duty to determine what makes a real woman instead it's the woman's job. Finally, in this age of equality, the role both spouses shall have in a relationship shall be discussed and agreed upon by them. A woman asking a man out doesn't mean that she automatically takes up certain roles in the relationship and asking someone out does not, by any means, give you the position of authority. Relationship is by love and mutual agreement. As for the following up stuffs you talked about, who pays for the food, taxi or whatever depends on the voluntary decision of any of them. The woman may ask a man out but the man may insist on paying and vice versa. ![]() |
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TimiRume:Seems my posts in my last topic struck nerves . Strawmanning is for losers and id1ots. Telling women to break away from tradition and fully embrace their equality is a good thing. Now, tell me what is objectively wrong in a woman asking a man out? I dare you to tell me without saying rubbish. Beta cuck.
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Biglittlelois:wetin?
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When we say some people should be restricted from posting on this forum as it is obvious that many of them... simpletons are far gone in their delusions. So you truly don't know it is your role to ask a woman out. 