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Romance › Re: Catfish Faming to table level by Martinez39(m): 6:08pm On Feb 05, 2019
What about those that started small but are still small or even worse? Seems you left these set of people because they don't fit into the narrative. grin
Romance › Re: Why Do Broke Couples And Irresponsible Individuals Do This? by Martinez39(op): 5:47pm On Feb 05, 2019
Elmojiid:
sex is the only thing that give them joy....as money no they them go enjoy themself now, money no they and prick stand.
grin

Romance › Re: Nigerian Man Proposes To His Girlfriend With 3 Diamond Rings by Martinez39(m): 5:42pm On Feb 05, 2019
Preshy561:
Broke guys are already angry. grin
Congrats babe.
Tiger dey sleep, go dey wake am. You are shaking tables. grin
Christianity Etc › Re: What If Christians Ruled The World ? by Martinez39(m): 5:16pm On Feb 05, 2019
If sincere christians ruled the world using today's bible, we will experience socialism, the limiting and censorship of certain scientific fields (evolutionary biology, carbon dating of the earth's age and certain aspects of cosmology) and suppression of freedom of speech and expression.
Romance › Re: Don't Limit Yourself To Signs And Signals. Girls Get In Here. by Martinez39(op):
ubunja:
Not anymore. Things change. That's why women now have rights that equal your own. Keep up with the times
Thanks jare. Don't mind that beta dude. TimiRume is desperately hunting for my downfall in this argument so that he can label me a beta male.
Romance › Re: Why Do Broke Couples And Irresponsible Individuals Do This? by Martinez39(op): 5:05pm On Feb 05, 2019
Twizzy30:
There should be some kind of law guiding this kind of things, but i don't just know for Africa, especially Nigeria.
As in. When there are many children in poverty, why wouldn't crime rate and prostitution increase? angry
Romance › Re: Why Do Broke Couples And Irresponsible Individuals Do This? by Martinez39(op): 4:52pm On Feb 05, 2019
ImaIma1:
Just like an older friend that stays in a 2 room face me i face you. She is not having it easy at all but she just had her 4th child. Her reason is that she is looking for a female child.
grin trying to cash on bride price or what?

Romance › Re: Before I Get Married, He Must Swear That Anyone Who Cheats Dies - Nigerian Lady by Martinez39(m): 4:48pm On Feb 05, 2019
Lol. The idea of curses and spells are for the gullible to believe in. grin
Romance › Re: Don't Limit Yourself To Signs And Signals. Girls Get In Here. by Martinez39(op): 4:37pm On Feb 05, 2019
Randy100:
To put this argument to rest, I know I won't be comfortable with a girl approaching me to tell me how she feels about me and I know I am speaking the mind of at least 99percent of the guys leaving the remainin 1percent to guys like you which is infinitesimal. You may call it ego or pride, it is what makes us men. We tell this stories when we gather. Finally, every mallam with his kettle. Obrigado for the time.
Well, if a girl approaching you makes you uncomfortable, no problem. If you think approaching a woman makes you a man, no problem. All I am just saying is that a girl approaching you should make you uncomfortable and it should not be a bad thing. Also, I am arguing that a girl approaching you doesn't make you less of a man and that so called male pride is what society gave men not that men were born with it. Shikena.
Romance › Re: Why Do Broke Couples And Irresponsible Individuals Do This? by Martinez39(op): 4:29pm On Feb 05, 2019
Tonyprisca:
focus on making yourself better,not on thinking that you are better
Okay I agree but how does that relate to the topic?
Celebrities › Re: PHOTOS: Emiliano Sala’s Dog Seen Waiting For His Return by Martinez39(m): 4:27pm On Feb 05, 2019
Which one is all this Sala this, Sala that. Is he the only one that died in the air crash? People die everyday and that's part of life.
Romance › Re: Why Do Broke Couples And Irresponsible Individuals Do This? by Martinez39(op): 4:23pm On Feb 05, 2019
solasoulmusic:
God knows what he is doing
God doesn't exist.
Romance › Re: Man Buys Girlfriend A Red Mercedes Benz Ahead Of Valentine (photos) by Martinez39(m): 4:19pm On Feb 05, 2019
Ishilove:
You see Rolls Royce you run. You pussy! tongue cheesy
Assuming you asked for Benz, ferrari, porsche etc. I would have given you. Anyway, my windows of favour has closed. I am not doing again. grin
Romance › Re: Why Do Broke Couples And Irresponsible Individuals Do This? by Martinez39(op): 4:09pm On Feb 05, 2019
Tonyprisca:
Because what goes around comes around
Explain.
Romance › Re: Man Buys Girlfriend A Red Mercedes Benz Ahead Of Valentine (photos) by Martinez39(m): 4:06pm On Feb 05, 2019
catwalq:
Hahahahahaha.
Hahahahahaha.
Romance › Re: Man Buys Girlfriend A Red Mercedes Benz Ahead Of Valentine (photos) by Martinez39(m): 4:00pm On Feb 05, 2019
MajorJeffery:
Just imagine how people abuse a holy saint. Valentine's day should be a day set aside to commemorate saint Valentine and reflect on our lives. As for me, that's exactly what I will do on that day. No Benz for any lady, I'm heaven bound.
People can celebrate February 14th anyhow they like. Who saint Valentine epp?
Romance › Re: Man Buys Girlfriend A Red Mercedes Benz Ahead Of Valentine (photos) by Martinez39(m): 3:58pm On Feb 05, 2019
catwalq:
You won't find them here. Try next door
You won't find those boys here, try next door.
Romance › Re: Man Buys Girlfriend A Red Mercedes Benz Ahead Of Valentine (photos) by Martinez39(m): 3:45pm On Feb 05, 2019
Ishilove:
Buy me this and I will marry you
I am sorry, I can only buy Benz. Besides the Holy Spirit told me to beware of Rolls Royce girls so I am not doing again. Bye bye. grin

Romance › Re: Man Buys Girlfriend A Red Mercedes Benz Ahead Of Valentine (photos) by Martinez39(m): 3:43pm On Feb 05, 2019
catwalq:
Where are all those boys who don't think its right to spend money on their girlfriends??
Where are all those girls who don't think it's right to spend money on their boyfriends?
Romance › Re: Man Buys Girlfriend A Red Mercedes Benz Ahead Of Valentine (photos) by Martinez39(m): 3:37pm On Feb 05, 2019
What I would have done for ishilove if only she gree marry me.
Romance › Why Do Broke Couples And Irresponsible Individuals Do This? by Martinez39(op): 3:33pm On Feb 05, 2019
angry angry angry angry angry

This thing pains me and makes my blood boil. This is not funny. Why do broke couples and irresponsible individuals give birth to children that they can't take care of? I think it's immoral and people should cut their coat according to their size. Is it a good thing to bring a child to this world to suffer? Despite the fact that no one owes anybody anything, broke fools still go ahead to give birth to children that they can't take care of and more annoying is that they go begging people for money to pay school fees, hospital bill, food, clothes etc. for these children. Did they give anyone money to keep for them? Many of them don't even give birth to one or two, it's five to six. angry Wetin? angry

Harsh truth is that this habit of giving birth to many children is one of the root causes of poverty and suffering in this world. In developed countries, these set of people after giving birth to many children will think capitalism is their problem and the reason they couldn't afford hospital bills for their children grin. They then start looking for socialism, dreamers. How can you give birth to children that you cant take care of and expect doctors to deliver your baby for free. Are you mad? angry Are the doctors your father? Did you train them in school? So doctors will not eat because it's your baby? The money you refuse to pay would have been used to keep the hospital running and provide quality health care for others. Doctors are not wicked when they detain your wife and child or demand payment before treatment instead you are wicked for giving birth to children that you couldn't take care of. undecided

Some of them can't even send their children to school but send them to learn trade and business. I am not saying that business and trading is bad but what if your child has passion for academics? What if that's what the child is only good at? Trading and business is not for everyone. Make money so that you can give your children many options and if at the end of the day they desire business or trade, let them. If you say "well the children wouldn't be lazy and they would work to train themselves in school," why are you poor then if it is easy to raise money and meet your needs? Mtewwwww. angry

I am not saying that you must be rich as Otedola or Dangote but at least, have that stable means to meet your child/children needs. You can be living in one room but if you have the means to take care of your children and give them options then carry go. So boys and girls, this nonsense must stop. Marriage and childbearing are not do or die affairs and does not mean you have achieved and arrived. I am sure that my great grandfather married and gave birth to children but where is he? Who remembers him? Who he epp?

Let's discuss.
Christianity Etc › Re: Where Will Mad People Go To When They Die: Heaven Or Hell? by Martinez39(m): 1:27pm On Feb 05, 2019
Gweedorian:
That your claim that a Christian cannot be mad is false.
Illnesses can affect any human. And they are not always physical injuries or biological parasites. Disease of the mind exist too and they have little to nothing to do with spiritual attacks.
In the Bible verse I quoted,Jesus didn't display this erroneous correlation many of us humans make between sickness and demons/sins. He rather loved the man and gave him his healing. Yet many modern day Christians who have no single healing anointing arrogantly pontificate that no Christian can run mad. I'm a doctor and I see people of all faiths, works and class come down with diseases of all sorts everyday.
Let me briefly ask you a question......if your pastor's wife was diagnosed with Cancer tomorrow, would you say she's no longer a Christian? Ever heard of Nabeel Qureshi, an ex Muslim who labored heavily in the vineyard of Christ to reach many Muslims with the gospel message. Do you know how he died?
This is why Nigerian Christianity is dead and has little to no social impact cos we act based on our African superstition seeking miracles and acting superhuman when we are just still actually humans. We don't react based on love but based on judgement.
The unique thing about Christ wasn't really his miracles but his love even for undeserving faithless people. So stop this formulaic myopic understanding of Christianity being fed to you by modern day Pentecostal pastors many of whom are just clever crooks.
Nabeel Qureshi died of stomach cancer. Funny how no one thought of healing him not even Ravi Zacharias grin. I was happy when he died because when an elderly woman asked him why god wouldn't cure her multiple sclerosis despite praying for 30 years, the foolish apologist said that these things happen for a divine reason because we take many things for granted and don't really appreciate god. Qureshi said it was a test and that the woman should take heart.
Now that he has had a taste of his medicine, Qureshi can appreciate god and not take things for granted in the world beyond grin grin

Romance › Re: Don't Limit Yourself To Signs And Signals. Girls Get In Here. by Martinez39(op): 10:46am On Feb 05, 2019
Stargurl20:
I won't even gv signals let alone....approaching,aw suppress d feeling....if forever sef....I cannur let one guy tag me as desperate n take advantage of d so called feelings.
Lol. Even desperate guys are taken advantage of too. Though I can't speak for other guys, I would say a girl is to be seen as desperate if she keeps on persisting frequently despite the guy saying "no" over and over. Once someone says "no," it's advised to move on or else you give room of be taken advantage of. smiley
Romance › Re: Don't Limit Yourself To Signs And Signals. Girls Get In Here. by Martinez39(op): 10:39am On Feb 05, 2019
TimiRume:
So you don't know huh When we say some people should be restricted from posting on this forum as it is obvious that many of them... simpletons are far gone in their delusions. So you truly don't know it is your role to ask a woman out. shocked Your backwardness has no place in our society,stop sticking your fat neck out of your cave niche. grin weak, weaker, weak ass.
Tah! That technique of shaming the supposed ignorance of the opponent rather than addressing his/her point. Now, I dare you to answer the following :

1) What objectively makes wooing a spouse a gender role?
2) How does asking someone out automatically gives you position of authority in the relationship?
3) How does a woman asking you out makes you less of a man?
4) Which authority made it so that the man must be the one to woo a woman?
5) Aren't traditions man made?
6) is anyone obliged to follow tradition?

Answer these set of questions and let's see who speaks without reasoning. Beta cuck, see his head like "so you don't know it's your job to ask a woman out." Did your father give me the job? Or perhaps your grandpa is the authority that determined that boys must always ask girls out and it's forbidden for girls to ask boys out. Try answering my questions. A beta testes desperately trying to label an alpha like me a beta male so he can feel good about himself. I am sorry, I won't give you that safety in numbers that you are looking for. Pussylain jar.

Romance › Re: Don't Limit Yourself To Signs And Signals. Girls Get In Here. by Martinez39(op): 10:21am On Feb 05, 2019
Randy100:
Eloquently written but it won't sway me to your side. First of all you brush off my own argument and according to you they are logical fallacies. Let it be know to you that Man is an animal, and we are referred as higher animals. The only difference between us and those lower animals is because of our technological advancement. I strongly disagree with you when you said that men and women could define their roles. Nature gives us our role in the society, women were given the role of pregnancy, childbirth and breastfeeding of the baby and nature provided the basic body part for this function, you can't tell a man to fill this role because nature didn't favour a man to do such. Secondly, you claimed that no woman should think about what men think about them, my brother you are wrong again. We all live to impress the opposite sex so we should be worried about what they think about you. Women rub mary-k, design their hairs, wear fine cloths. Why do they do that? To impress the guys and vice versa for the guys too. Thirdly, it is define by our culture that it is the man who goes to look for a woman and when he finds, he calls his kinsmen and they all go to the girls place and seek for her hand in marriage. I hope you will allow a girl to come and ask your hand in marriage after all to you we define our role in the society . Finally, we are Africans not Europeans. It won't work here at least for now maybe in the year 3000.
I like you. Even though you disagree, you still argue maturely. Obviously man is an animal but he is not like other animals. I never said that there are not biological differences between both sexes. The women's role of pregnancy, breast feeding and childbirth are biological differences and it doesn't in any way stop them for asking a man out, does it? These biological differences also doesn't mean that women can't define their roles and determine their destinies. While there are biological differences between both sexes, there are a lot of aspects where both sexes can embrace equality and wooing a spouse is one of those aspects.

When I said women shouldn't care about what boys think, I meant women should be themselves and define themselves. They shouldn't put themselves under pressure to please everyone. A life lived trying to please everyone is a miserable one. Would you try to please all ladies? Are you trying to indirectly imply that if women be themselves and defined themselves rather than trying to please boys they would find at least one person interested in them? If no then what are you telling me?

@bold
Lol. Thanks for this admission. This is what I said in my previous post. No one is obliged to follow traditional rules just as no one is obliged to follow any religion.

@red
Of course, there is no shame in that. Women too are human beings with needs and desires. If a girl proposes to me and I like her, I will definitely marry her as long as she if wife material. A woman proposing to me doesn't make less of a man or makes me miserable. That male ego of being the one to ask a woman out is something society gave you. You were not born with it.

@blue
I know that in this part of the world, many are strongly bound to their traditions and that's why I made the this thread. The fact that you admit that things may change in many years to come shows that which gender woos a spouse is not naturally given. Anyway, in your defence, you did point out the role of tradition in determining who woos a spouse. wink
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I hate this thing called notch.

Romance › Re: Don't Limit Yourself To Signs And Signals. Girls Get In Here. by Martinez39(op): 11:42pm On Feb 04, 2019
TimiRume:
Feminism is not reversing gender roles, it is creating equal opportunities for men and women. And giving women all the rights they need. Women are not fighting to ask men out, they are fighting for themselves.
So asking someone out is a gender role? grin 5thElement is that you? Who the hell are you to tell women that it's not in their place to express their feelings to the one they love?

Don't go and have sense. Keep trying to forcefully label me a beta male by misrepresenting my point. Yeye dey smell. grin
Romance › Re: Don't Limit Yourself To Signs And Signals. Girls Get In Here. by Martinez39(op): 11:35pm On Feb 04, 2019
TimiRume:
Beta loser, grow some back bone and ask a girl out...see? very easy. Don't belabour women into playing your role in courtship. Do the man stuff and save us this salty beta tears... everyday, haba angry
Misery loves company, gtfo of my face with your failed career in winning women over. Women don't want you, what are you going to do about it? bully them into misery, gtfoh grin
I don't have your time. Your are desperately looking for that "I got him" moment but you just can't see your strawmanning and inability to comprehend my point. Seems my points in my last topic struck nerves grin. There is no point giving insight to a mind bent on irrationality.

Only shameless beta cucklings like you think getting a woman or being the centre of their attraction is an achievement. With this mentality, you are the h0es' mugu. Trying to force the beta label on me won't work, you've got nothing on me. grin

Romance › Re: Don't Limit Yourself To Signs And Signals. Girls Get In Here. by Martinez39(op): 10:25pm On Feb 04, 2019
Randy100:
Ok, I won't insult you cos you are not Buhari that is destabilizing my country. I have a questions for you. Is the girl ready to continue with the thing involve in wooing like taking the guy on a date(which means she is paying for the food, pay for the taxi and all those stuff we do for women) and she got to be consistent with it as the relationship goes on. Now my reason are 1. The lady who does that is tagged desperate by guys like you. 2. Leave men to be men. It takes enough testosterone in men to woo. Any lady who does that could be termed aggressive. 3. Pushy women tends to have the characteristic of wooing men. 4. Is the guy into the lady, which will result in the guy using and dumping such lady. And finally it is against nature. A coc.k will chase the hen, the he goat will go after the she goat. Thank you.
No need to insult, we are cool. There are many logical fallacies, non sequiturs, assumptions and false equivalences in your write up. First of all, human beings are not chickens and goats. We have a highly intelligent brain that makes us masters of our own destinies and endows us with the immense ability to adapt and define our roles. While other animals may be governed by instincts, man is mainly governed by his rationality and ability to learn. Men and women can both define their roles. The idea that it is shameful for a woman to approach a man is a subjective nonsense that no one is obliged to follow.

No woman should be concern about what men choose to think about them. It's not their business what boys choose to think about them and women can't please everyone. Who told you that wooing is meant for men alone? Your culture? Your tradition? Who told you that it's a man's thing? That's a load of assumptions. Testosterone helps in the secondary sexual characteristics of males not enable them to woo women. Wooing a spouse comes from the desire to form a relationship and guess what? both men and women have that desire and why shouldn't they go for what they want? Who the hell is any man to tell a woman that she can't go for what she wants? Women should be themselves and not give a damn about what boys think they should be. It's not a boys duty to determine what makes a real woman instead it's the woman's job.

Finally, in this age of equality, the role both spouses shall have in a relationship shall be discussed and agreed upon by them. A woman asking a man out doesn't mean that she automatically takes up certain roles in the relationship and asking someone out does not, by any means, give you the position of authority. Relationship is by love and mutual agreement. As for the following up stuffs you talked about, who pays for the food, taxi or whatever depends on the voluntary decision of any of them. The woman may ask a man out but the man may insist on paying and vice versa.

wink
Romance › Re: Don't Limit Yourself To Signs And Signals. Girls Get In Here. by Martinez39(op): 9:43pm On Feb 04, 2019
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Romance › Re: Don't Limit Yourself To Signs And Signals. Girls Get In Here. by Martinez39(op): 9:10pm On Feb 04, 2019
TimiRume:
Beta weaklings at it, this time begging women to approach them cheesy gosh i love to see how shameless some men can be grin
Seems my posts in my last topic struck nerves grin . Strawmanning is for losers and id1ots. Telling women to break away from tradition and fully embrace their equality is a good thing. Now, tell me what is objectively wrong in a woman asking a man out? I dare you to tell me without saying rubbish. Beta cuck.

Romance › Re: Don't Limit Yourself To Signs And Signals. Girls Get In Here. by Martinez39(op): 8:17pm On Feb 04, 2019

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