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RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 4:00pm On May 18, 2021
SOZINN:
What guys have been saying in the past pages are inspired by the red pill. The obscurity I think some of us have is assimilating interpretation. That's why we think they are bitter. Even those coaches on YouTube, the MGTOW group, and other platforms that have been used to push this truth are animated by the red pill. There is no red or redder pill. Each individual has crafted his own words from his own apprehension. In the end, we are all saying the same thing in our own way.

Like someone said, maybe those making claims should point out those bitter comments so that we can peruse it and confirm if it is pure misogyny.
@emboldened
This is nice. If someone can take up the task, we will have a productive and wonderful new discussion that will benefit us immensely.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 3:56pm On May 18, 2021
SOZINN:
Are you kidding me?
I was patiently waiting for you to come online to defend his lordship.
I wasn't wrong.
Dear, nobody is above questioning. grin
I don't disappoint, do I? grin
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 3:48pm On May 18, 2021
SOZINN:
Are you kidding me?
I was patiently waiting for you to come online to defend his lordship.
I wasn't wrong.
Dear, nobody is above questioning. grin
It is one thing to question somebody; it's another thing to call names, misrepresent his point, and imply that he is not really redpilled. If you observe, I am very civil in the way I discuss here, and I try to reduce everything to discussions where we can edify ourselves, mediate and come to sound conclusions. If it were you or anyone else, I would have defended you or that person the same way I defended Ubunja. I remember when someone outrightly said women can't cheat on the redpiller they are in a committed relationship with because they adore the redpiller; this was very disappointing and shocking from a supposed redpiller, but I didn't call him names or questioning his red-pill awareness, I explicated the error of his ways and pointed out his hubris and delusion.

I always try to ensure that my actions are congenial and productive to the aim of this group. Name calling and hastily questioning one's red-pill awareness are not productive to the aim of this group, and we don't benefit from unnecessary dissensions.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 3:15pm On May 18, 2021
Ubunja wasn't here when I disclosed the identity of the tròll. However, Ubunja is more of a free spirit and he will quote anyone he wants; this is not me supporting him, it's just who he is. Finally, I don't like the way some people are talking to Ubunja and almost calling him names or questioning his red-pill awareness without understanding his post. Let's be calming down.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Martinez39s(m): 10:40am On May 18, 2021
ecomalchemist:
Hope is not an action plan in a country like Nigeria. It worked for you don't me it will work for others.
Loud it!

Jobs/VacanciesRe: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Martinez39s(m): 8:52am On May 18, 2021
Femzaremz:
excellent bro! Ironically this habit can be found more with poor people than the rich! I currently work in a low paying company where d salary is less than 40k and some of my colleagues so called 'family men' always come to meet me for financial assistance!maybe because they know im single,i become a target!me dat im still struggling to make ends meet with such useless salary in dis harsh economy! Ive promised myself not to 'borrow' anybody anything again!if u like tell me ur child is about to die! Its not my business! Afterall i was not there when u were pumping ur wife up with series of children!
Don't mind them. Don't give them anything. Let them take responsibility for their actions. If one chooses to carry heavy financial burden, the burden is his alone and let him not inconvenience others with the burden. Funny enough, some of the people begging you are planning to add another child to their family despite their abject financial condition; some have wives that are already pregnant.

In economics there is a term called cycle of poverty,this is it!
Gbam!

Some are even borrowing money to do their wedding. How can a man be ready for marriage if he has to borrow to do his wedding? Why do people like unnecessary suffering? angry
FamilyRe: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by Martinez39s(m): 8:41pm On May 17, 2021
Ishilove:
Continue shouting simp upandan, Martin, meanwhile na your fellow redpiller put hin guyman inside wheelchair over pussy
ChumáZ and his friends are simps and a shame to the world. They are not redpillers; redpillers don't waste the life of any man because of a woman.
FamilyRe: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by Martinez39s(m): 8:05pm On May 17, 2021
sokkatua:
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... loves him right in front of me . I lost my cool and I ended up in jail for 3 days . Right now I m not allowed to go back to the house or contact my daughter whom she now claims is not mine .I have decided to return to Nigeria with the 25k left in my account,i cant go back to prison again because PRISONERS OFTEN TARGETS ANYONE ACCUSED OF HARMING A WOMAN OR A CHILD. I'm appealing to anyone to please hook me up with a job or any hustle in Nigeria.
Even prisoners who are supposed to be hard men are simps and slaves of the plantation.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Martinez39s(m): 6:44pm On May 17, 2021
oluwasegun007:
Wickedness....N80k is not enough for only you not too talk of another man pikin.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Martinez39s(m): 6:43pm On May 17, 2021
lordatkinson07:
I remembered I married a few year back immediately after my MSc., programme. While I was preparing for the wedding my salary was just 30k. Imagine!

But

Immediately after my wedding, things turned around and the door of breakthrough opened. Today, I earn nothing less than 200k every month.

Meaning of this is that, pray and work hard. Be strategic at the same time. I'm sure, God will crown your efforts with divine elevation and success
What if things turned for the worse?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Martinez39s(m): 6:42pm On May 17, 2021
SMH. A man with 80k per month shouldn't be thinking of marriage. How people bring children into this world without any huge inheritance for the children and money to afford them options and comfort is beyond me? Why do most men like perpetuating suffering? Most men will just marry and start families at their own financial detriment just to feel they have achieved something in life, even when it's not advisable to do so. They excuse this vanity with "I just have to spread my genes" and "I just want to continue my legacy and family name." See how OP is contemplating whether he should weigh himself down financially and perpetuate poverty to the next generation. What nonsense is this? undecided

Look around you, no one cares about your genes and family name. If a disaster wiped out your entire bloodline, as it did others, hence putting an end to your family name, the world will move on and heaven won't fall. Also, what legacy are you leaving with 80k/month and suffering in the new generation? Most men that are rushing to marriage to "continue their legacy" can't even take their children to a good secondary school or give them three good meals per day, yet they are talking about legacy. undecided

Hustle and establish yourself. 80k is too small. Marriage is not by force. If you die single or get married, the universe doesn't care and the world will move on whether or not you continue your family name. So take it easy and hustle for more money per month.

Almajiris everywhere, economic hardship everywhere, an overwhelming population, so much competition and vices, yet people are still giving birth without restraint when they are struggling financially.
RomanceRe: Most Of This Rape Stories Are Lies by Martinez39s(m): 4:32pm On May 17, 2021
Lilpen3758:
if I say some girls wicked now the go say I just hate women
Women's hearts are cold in their manipulative ways.
RomanceRe: Most Of This Rape Stories Are Lies by Martinez39s(m): 4:17pm On May 17, 2021
Lilpen3758:
first hand experience my brother sad
The case the guy witnessed is very common. You and a girl can have consensual sex, but when her strict parents or pastors find out, she has no problem destroying your life with false rape allegations and lengthy prison sentences just to maintain her reputation. grin grin
RomanceRe: Most Of This Rape Stories Are Lies by Martinez39s(m): 4:14pm On May 17, 2021
Kriss216:
The guy for just slap that girl immediately she said the boy was raping her!


I'll so beat the spirit of deception and lies out from that young demon of a vagina!
How can you exorcise Lucifer from Lucifer? grin grin
RomanceRe: Most Of This Rape Stories Are Lies by Martinez39s(m): 3:50pm On May 17, 2021
Finally, a first-hand experience taught him the wisdom of being sceptical of what comes out of a female's mouth.
BusinessRe: Bill Gates Had An Affair With A Microsoft Staff, Asked 2 Others Out by Martinez39s(m): 3:10pm On May 17, 2021
They will do anything to spoil Bill Gates's image and attribute sole blame to him for the divorce. I get it: Bill bad, Melinda good. Mtewww!
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 10:25pm On May 16, 2021
luminouz:
Why are you this wicked naaaa?

Why u go do laugh am naaaa? He is in a bad place o.

Funny thing is, he messed up too. Both of them are guilty
BOTH OF THEM ARE A SHAME TO THE WORLD.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 9:56pm On May 16, 2021
Two simps in the romance section are fùcking themselves up because of a woman.

https://www.nairaland.com/6554268/it-brutal-fight-me-best#101710730
RomanceRe: It Was A Brutal Fight Between Me And My Best Friend Now (enemy) Over A Girl by Martinez39s(m): 9:07pm On May 16, 2021
Ishilove:
Anyone who puts my sibling in hospital with griveous injuries because of a woman will not rest in this life as long as I'm alive. Only in death will you be able to escape my wrath and vengeance.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 8:02pm On May 15, 2021
Goddys:
I met a runs girl and she fell for me instantly because of my charming personality. During sex, she tried different tricks to make me remove condom and blatantly refused to continue at the heat of intercourse cuz I was taking time to cum.

I stopped and took a deep breath ten times and wore my trousers without ejaculating. She was surprised I could do that and started pleading I continued.

I wore a fresh condom and continued.

If you can control your sexual urge, you have solved 50% of your problem. Some men would be lost at the heat of intercourse and destroy their life by removing condom.

Mg mindset when with any girl is that "No girl is free from STD even if she's a Reverend sister"

Learn to say no to a woman and walk away.
NICE! Someone who gets it.
RomanceRe: I Feel Like Commiting Murder Right Now by Martinez39s(m): 2:17pm On May 15, 2021
What happened?
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 1:51pm On May 15, 2021
Some people have fòolishly spent huge money and given away their properties "in the heat of the moment" just because they wanted to release, thanks to konji. grin It took post-nut clarity for them to realise their mistakes, which are things they would never support or condone from another person.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 1:46pm On May 15, 2021
nwaezeemmanuel:
Sexual discipline. I'm doing all I can to master it from now on because IT IS WHY YOU HEAR STORIES OF SEEMINGLY MASCULINE MEN SIMPING OUT OF THE BLUES.
Exactly!

I've made humiliating mistakes because of this, and sure many here have done same.
A particular redpiller of YouTube once told a story of how he lost his job back then because during break, he drove all the way to fuçk a particular girl and arrived late at work. It is sexual incontinence that will make a lecturer put himself in a sex-for-mark scandal and tarnish his image all because of five-minute pleasure. Let's not talk about how many pastors it has put in trouble. I could write much more, but let me stop here.

Please, tame your penis before anything. If you see a lady that is an 8 or 9, think: She's not all that, I'd pass.
It will always pass. Most times a lady is sexy and hot to a man just because the man is heavily barraged by konji. It after the sexual encounter that he experiences post-nut clarity and he realizes what a foòl he has been. Most times, the fantasy you have built up in your head about a lady and the assumptions you've made about how good you will enjoy her in bed is never met in reality; it is then men think "it wasn't as good as I hoped", "her puśsy stinks", "she is actually lazy in bed", "her pùssy isn't as tight as I thought", etc.

If you don't work on this, you'd always be at the mercy of all sorts of women.
No one should be fooled that a man must release. No one should be fooled that it is impossible to effortlessly subdue your urges. I used to think like this, but I have proven myself wrong with practice. There is nothing there, the urges come and go.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 1:26pm On May 15, 2021
Imagine having a test the next day in a degree course that could shape your future, you wasted three hours desperately trying to get some pùssy. Control your sexual urges. If you have control of your sexual urges, you won't let your urges misplace your priorities.

The common sense of not being desperate or persuading someone who is not interested would have been with you from the onset if you were above your sexual urges.

I will write more on this matter.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m):
Kellzzyy:
I've been friends with a certain girl for for quite some time. I invited her over yesterday evening. I initiated sex, she refused. I then had to recourse to 'lamba', telling her all sorts of romantic rubbish and how I loved her more than any other thing in the world. I tried convincing here that I loved her and wasn't just looking for sex.

We were at it for over three hours before I regained my senses. By then she was already conforming to my lies and looked really receptive. She was looking for more assurances of love and commitment from my side and how I will always be there in her financial distress.

Anyways, like I said, I came back to my senses, I told her that I wasn't interested any longer and that she could go. I also told her that this marked the end of our friendship.
Even though she hesitated and said use would think about it and give me a reply tomorrow, I told her not to bother anymore.

The truth is, I am at the moment not interested in being in a relationship of any kind with anybody. I was only telling her all that to make her compliant to my sexual advances.

In retrospect, I feel very foolish for spending such amount of time (three hours) on an unproductive venture and for basically begging her to be with me (even though I didn't mean it). The time would have also been better utilized my me in preparing for the pharmacognosy test I just finished writing this morning.

I have read time and time again from caveadullam and others here how it was foolish to prioritize women over your goals or place them on a pedestal. Also on how self respect, self control etc were very important for a man.
I spent time yesterday telling her a lot of rubbish that I shouldn't have said. Even when I had a test to prepare for, my urge for sex trumped my seemingly RedPill nature.

I feel so sad, does it mean that all the stuff I've been reading here are not impacting on me? Why did they all fly through the window yesterday? I pray I do well in the test. That'll be my only recompense. cry
All I can say is konji is a bastàrd. One thing most people don't know is that being ignorant of the red pill is not the only thing that can make a man simp. You can be very vast in red pill knowledge and alpha mindset, but if your sexual urges are always getting the better of you, you will find yourself simping big time, and you will become an easy prey to women who can manipulate your sexual incontinence. Control your sex urges, you won't die if you do so; the ability to be above your sexual urges is a super power that many people underestimate. If you can achieve this, you will be able to "see" more clearly and it will automatically occur to you when someone is trying to exploit your sexual desires for their benefit. It won't work on you, and you will never act needy or desperate for sex because you are above your sexual urges and you will not die if you abstain.

That's why I always encourage everyone to go monk mode for at least one or two years; practice saying "no" to sex even from very enticing and hot ladies and let it master you, and at the same time channel ALL your time, energy, and money on improving yourself or learning something. After that, if you want relationships, no problem; if you still want to remain a monk, no problem.

Edit: growing up, men are never taught or encouraged to learn the useful skill of mastering and taming their sexual urges. Instead, men are praised for having many body counts, and they see such as a glorious pursuit. It is not necessarily bad, but neglecting the useful skill of sexual self-control, which is very important for men to learn, is what is bad. Not only will it prevent simping big time, it will also avoid terrible and embarrassing situations for men.
RomanceRe: Is Mouth Odour Enough Reason To Leave A Relationship? by Martinez39s(m): 10:49am On May 15, 2021
Yes! If your partner has repeatedly failed to do something about the mouth odour, it's okay to leave the relationship.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 9:30am On May 15, 2021
Kellzzyy:
Father forgive me for I have sinned, and fallen short of thy RedPill cry
Confess your sins and own up to them, and ye shall be redeemed.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 11:18pm On May 14, 2021
emmaodet:
grin grin grin grin grin

Country hard reach your side too?
Na wa ooo bcus me i no dey feel am at all oo
Things are going well; I was just speaking in general.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 8:43pm On May 14, 2021
emmaodet:
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
grin If to say I wan use "enjoy," I go use am, but na "like" dey my mind that time. Country is too hard to know or be thinking which one is for suya and fanta or which one is for La Liga. Make I go sleep. cheesy
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m):
emmaodet:
Yea, you are right. ''Like'' is the right word to use than ''Enjoy''
In that statement, 'Like is more appropriate to ''Enjoy'' because ''Enjoy'' is best used for eating food or a drink if am right.
huh huh huh huh
All dis no reach my mind when I dey type. I no be English expert. I like La Liga na hin be say I like La Liga. If I wan use enjoy, I go use am.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:23am On May 14, 2021
emmaodet:
Bro, seems you enjoy laliga.
I like La Liga.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 12:33am On May 14, 2021
luminouz:
grin grin
*In DJ Khalid's voice* "Another one".

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