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Omar09:
Those who tried it, didn't make it. It's sad, but they were overwhelmed by their girls. A minute of silence.

kunletexs:
Wow! Mo like è. That what I told her but they are the type that make me give ladies arm lenght treatment. I can't still see any as my wife due to the fact that I want to adopt but but putting a woman in can turn the children into second citizens which I can stomach.

Thanks for letting me know there are still men with brains.

On the lighter note, if not for Coro and you live in lagos, we could have met over soya and Malta. Sorry mi no dey do alcoholic drink. Lol

pocohantas:
Your dad should take her back to her mother.

Men should stop bringing in kids/relatives that they won’t care for, because the welfare of that child would rest mainly on the woman and if she isn’t interested- you know how it goes.

Most men do not want the responsibility of training another man’s child (marrying single mothers). I don’t know why over and over, they try putting their wives in same position they so dread. While it is VERY wrong for your mum to maltreat a child. Your dad is no saint for bringing in the child to an environment where she isn’t wanted.

If you want peace in a home on such matters, appeal to the wife. If the wife is happy, everybody will be happy. Take the girl somewhere else.

aminusodiq:
Ok... Previous thread justified

Miracle5720:
Pls nairalanders i need your advice...
my girlfriend is really offending me, is it bcuz she know i truly love her or what, just early this year, i caught her cheating on me and i ask her about it, she denied it, but due to the prove with me, she surrender and promise not to do so again, she do distribute her number to people she know and dont know online like a harlot, i have warned her severaly but she kept begging me, this is the 6th times we are having misunderstanding this year, but due to the love i have for her, i do forgive her, so yesterday i caught her again doing the same thing, she was even asking a guy if he have a girlfriend or not, i was like what is wrong with this girl gan, i confronted her yesterday evening and she cant deny because she knows i will show her my prove, she have been asking for last chance since the third quarel btw me and her, this is the 7th times for this year only and she is still asking for one more chance again...
Pls nairalanders what should i do oo, come to my aid...

Paul8000:
I am the breadwinner ... I make more money than her

RonaldoVido:
This one happened recently o.

I just dodge the girl. I no do.

Gracealone:
The main issue that may make your wife disrespect you is your lack of money. If you are the breadwinner, it cannot be this bad.

NwaforIgbo:
If GreatResearcher1, The Simp Slayer, Conquer of the Simpdom, The Alpha Lunatic catch u!!
I laugh..

Giwoni:
Really. I never knew before. thanks

Descorts:
[s]i'm not surprised. anything wey consyn woman you no dey ever support am [/s]

sylvez:
[s]It is usually difficult to match cause with effects like the matching principle in accounting.[/s]

[s]Humans generally run away from whatever that is beyond their comprehension hence, one of the limitations of law where sometimes evidence even lie.[/s]

[s]People should be held responsible for their actions and inactions says the law, where the law can not match cause and effect someone innocent suffers for it.[/s]

[s]In other words, the Op may not have completely caused the behavior of his wife but he caused it and should be held responsible for it.[/s]

[s]Nobody should quote me again on this issue please![/s]

sylvez:
What Op did not tell us is that:
1. He use to abuse his wife
2. He also cheats on her
3. He no sabi Bleep
4. He doesn’t take care of his wife
5. The wife always feel used and lonely
6. He doesn’t respect his wife
7. He doesn’t help to take care of their baby
8. He’s always away
9. He doesn’t allow his wife to go out
10. He beats his wife

Now the wife had to resort to finding solace from anyone willing to give it to her.

This does not justify the wife’s cheating but there’s always cause and effect.

I assumed the above because Op did not provide complete info about everything.

SweetCunt97:
What gave you d idea that her heart is in the convo. She may simply be catching cruise with d chats and nothing therein.

Is this how people easily dump their marriages these days? Nawaoo

emmaodet:
And when has losing a woman to another man been unfortunate?
Abi na even best thing to happen to a man.
A cheating wife runs away from her hubby to an Ex or side bobo and you call the hubby unfortunate?
Instead of him to go to church for Thanksgiving.
So you actually think feeding, housing, clothing etc a woman in marriage is to the man advantage? That the woman is doing the man a favour for doing that? I think you overestimate you women's value in marriage.
Let the side bobo carry the liability for 2 months now weda him eye no go clear and gets tired of an Unproductive Liability that has all the time in the world to look for what to do to support the home rather using such precious time to hook up and chat with a side bobo.
I blame guys a lot. If we say make men no marry now so that the Unfortunate woman will be on the street now running up and down on how to survive and pay her bills, they will say we are crazy.
If the job of the man is to make sure another man doesn't get my woman, then pls tell what is the work of the woman too?
A consumer? Financial drainage? Liability? Sex object? Unproductive, unrepentant serial cheating liability?
Spits*

LedRock:
Abeg make we leave them. Dey no dey tell person, after 20years in the marriage and he discovers that all his supposed children from his wife are not his but from the dude she was chatting up, by then he would have sense. Let him continue to listen to simps and women, let them push him to his doom, it's his life.