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@Cheasystickylov

Sorry I haven't reached out yet. I am not indifferent to your ordeal, I have just been a little bit busy. I will reach out to you later this evening so that we can set time to talk at length tomorrow.

Too bad this thread is cold. Is anyone following the 2022 Fide Candidates Tournament?

Nepomniachtchi and Caruana are moving strongly. They didn't disappoint me. I had high hopes for Ding Liren and I was hoping he would get his chances to challenge Magnus Carlsen, but his chance is slipping. Let's see how it goes.

Firouzja showed promise at the start, but it seems he can't eat the meat meant for his elders. The youngster will have to wait. As for Hikaru, I am impressed, especially with how he squeezed out a draw from Firouzja with perfect play.

STANDINGS AFTER ROUND 6.

Kipaji:
It's not the act itself that surprises me (not at all), it is how common it is.

Okay, I have always understood your point but I worded that sentence in my post imprecisely. My point still stands. It is not uncommon.

Anyway, I will give more replies tomorrow or on Saturday. I am tired and in need of sleep. Good night.

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Kipaji:
Indeed, women show their nature to guys that turn them on; especially if they are in a "safe, secret, non-judgemental" setting.

You said that women do not really attach morality to sex and mostly see it as a fun activity. I agree with that. But I'm really surprised by the treesom part.

I get that you are surprised. However, threesòme, with two guys, is actually not uncommon. It is not an extreme or reprobate stuff as far as females are concerned. If such threesòme surprises you then you are in for more surprises and shock when you start finding out the fantasies and sexual cravings of your average girl, even the one you consider a good girl.

Kipaji:
Yes, virgins are undoubtedly the better choice. I never questioned that. As a matter of fact, sometimes I wonder how it can even be a debate. It's crazy. There are women out there who try to convince men that there's no advantage choosing a virgin over a non-virgin. Mostly it is to comfort themselves, rationalize their past, prevent blue-pilled simp of realizing the truth, and make them feel better. That's another reason why women must not be taken seriously in these matters.

Nice post!

I want to add something for the sake of contribution. The reasons pro-marriage redpillers like marrying sexually pure virgins or are advised to marry sexually pure virgins isn't because redpillers think a virgin's female nature is different. Of course we know AWALT is the case even for virgins and females emotionally change easily and rapidly with time. However, virgins are required by pro-marriage redpillers for the following reasons:

(1) sexually pure virgins women are the least "evils" in mate selection and choosing them will prevent you from certain unnecessary headaches that come with a woman's past baggages and embarrassing situations resulting from her sordid sexual past. I can explain further if you want.

(2) it's a red pill rule to go for the best you can. Why commit to and provide for a used pusśy when you can get a fresh used and pure one? Why commit to and go for an aged used pusśy when you can go for a young unused one?

(3) Why commit to and provide for something that other men have gotten for free without much effort? Why should you be treated treated differently?

(4) It is a red pill rule to get a woman at her best years. If she won't give you her best years or you didn't have her at her best years, don't take her at her decline. Put yourself first, go for the best and have some self-respect. If you are not yet established to marry a particular female at her best years, let her go to who is ready. When you are ready and established later, pick the one that is in her best years and makes a decent human being.

(5) If you will follow tradition to pay bride price for a woman, let her follow tradition to qualify for your bride price by being a young virgin who is sexually pure, among other things. Traditionalism works both ways. Don't partake in the nonsense of paying full price for hòe. Let simps and blue pill men rot in their stupidity.

(6) men must set good standards and not come cheap. Besides, women would go for the best and wouldn't settle if given the option. Why should yours be different? Men setting good standards and not compromising on it will incentivise more females to sit up to meet up (if they can't find their way around it and exploit loopholes). Though they won't change on the inside and will put in more effort to cover up their shenanigans so they can compete to meet men's standard.

(7) add yours (cc Ubunja, LordAdam16, Skepticus, JESHAL, CaveAdullam , etc)

Kipaji:
That's the thing. If you look at sex workers, yes, extreme practices are very common. But, if you look at the average girl you would meet in your neighborhood, though it happens, group sex and other porn-level practices are not that common. What about "sucking d!cks and doing what the average blue pill guy (or even a redpiller who is yet to see the dark/wild side) considers wild and naughty"? Well, I agree they are indeed "very much common".

What is really extreme? What is really porn level? To females, it is subjective in many cases. Either they like it or they don't; most things we men consider extreme, perverted, ungodly and "hoè-like" are not seen the same way by females. Besides, thanks to the ubiquity of porn and the perversive reach of social media, many of our girls know many styles and they have discovered styles/kinks that turn them on and want to try out. Not being a professional prostitute/hook up chick doesn't make a females sexual exploration less "perverted."

As I have said

"with women, there is nothing like sex styles and kinks for hoès/bad chicks/prostitutes/ slay queens and sex styles and kinks for good girls. Such distinction and classification don't exist with females, they only exist in the minds of naive men due to society upbringing. With females it is either they enjoy it or not, shikena!"

From the female perspective and psyche, having sex with two guys as seen in heartofcity12's picture isn't extreme.

Don't let outward appearance beguile us or make us think otherwise. As I have said, it is not written on the face. It happens that there are guys in churches or mosques who think the Lord is leading them to a particular female, but they don't know the female is doing sex stuffs that they deem very ungodly. Because they are unaware and they conclude on the outward appearance (her decent dressing, good manners in public, background, outward spiritual devotion etc.), the impression persists. It is not written on the face.

Kipaji:
"Having sex and doing wild things are very much common"... Yep that is true, with one man and one woman. But certain practices are not that widespread.

Kipaji:
I'm not instagram so I can't check that page unless I log in. But I can see some of their posts on sweetagram.
It is true that many women out there, even innocent-looking ones, did some of the filthiest things imaginable. My point was that people want to say that this concerns almost every single woman and that's where the exaggeration is. No woman (expect maybe some virgins) is pure yet that doesn't mean that they have had porn-level experiences. It's there but it's not that much common.

Though we can end up agreeing to disagree, but it is good that we air our views and compare notes and experiences.

That being said, I will like you to note that the way women and the conventional male mind look at sex are different. Men are the ones that associate morality and ethics with sex and they project this on women due to ignorance.

To women, sex and having their fun is just like drinking water from a tap and there are no shame, morality or ethics females associate with sex; it is strictly enjoyment. Being the solipsistic, emotional and self-centered gender in the intersexual dynamics, they follow their emotions and "wonderful" experiences which they like when it comes to sex, especially when they think they won't get caught.

What is doggy to a female? What is sucking d!ck to a female? What is threesòme with two guys and double penetration to a female? Absolutely nothing! As long as she likes it, she knows can take it, and the secret opportunity is there, she has no problem. It is strictly enjoyment. Morals, ethics, upbringing or religion won't stop her from doing with the sharp guy what turns her on, the only that will stop her in such scenario is if she is not interested (ie. turned on) in the style and doesn't have the kink.

With women, there is nothing like sex styles and kinks for hoès/bad chicks/prostitutes/ slay queens and sex styles and kinks for good girls. Such distinction and classification don't exist with females, they only exist in the minds of naive men due to society upbringing. With females it is either they enjoy it or not, shikena!

This is why all girls are sexual freaks to the guys that turn them on and apply game. That's why as a married man if your wife is forming holy holy and refuses to give you doggy claiming it is the stuff of hoès and she picks offence, know that you are being scammed because she will giving it to the guy who turns her on and unleashes the inner hoè.

heartofcity12:
Exactly.. With the rate a lot of women are even into hookups lately and those that repentant hos too.. This is enough reason for people not to underestimate what women are capable of anymore in sex affairs.. Many females will do anything for the right price or any other thing that drives them. That innocent looking young girl you see everyday has done unimaginable things like anal, party, bleeped in public toilet, etc.

The picture you posted might be of a girl doing hook up, porn or giving it for free to two sharp guys as she is exploring and indulging her cravings. Whatever way it is, taking and sucking d!cks and doing what the average blue pill guy (or even a redpiller who is yet to see the dark/wild side) considers wild and naughty are very much common, especially in this free generation; however, most guys are unaware.

It is not by seeing her speaking in tongues, doing evangelism, dressing decently, having good manners, rendering a spirit-filled song in the choir, and having a traditional background because guys who have applied the red pill and gone deep in their sexual journey know that it is common for a girl to fùck and suck your diçk on a Saturday and go speak in tongues on Sunday and roll on the floor during ministration and post scriptures and progress in her spiritual walk on WhatsApp. Even hijab wearing muslims and girls of other religions are not left out. A female is first a female before she is religious, same with men.

The main point in your post is that even the hoès and depraved women will still spin such rationalisation and blue pill crap to urge men to ignore their sordid past and take them seriously for relationships. This is a reality.

Kipaji:
I get the message, but let's be realistic guys. I think that we tend to exaggerate things sometimes. How many girls have had such experiences? 1 in 100 000? You're making it seem more common than it actually is.

It is not an exaggeration. It doesn't seem common because most guys are unaware and the shenanigans of females are usually well hidden. After all, it is not written on the face.

Maybe all females might not have the same kinks and opportunities to explore their hòe side without consequences, but having sex and doing the wild things are very much common. As I have it is not written on the face.

Kipaji:
The following part particularly triggered my attention: "And than then post a picture of their bf right after to make themselves not feel guilty."
This emphasizes the fact that with women, it's all about their feelings. If she cheats on you, she can become the best possible wife the following days, get you gifts, do that thing you always asked her to do, post extensively about you on social media, so that in her head she can tell herself that it's her apology/compensation for cheating and feel less bad.
That's another reason why it's important to not project our logical reasoning on women; we must incorporate that it's mostly about their feelings as we analyse women behavior.

Valid take.

MJBOLT:

A very dangerous past

▪︎ "Only strong men can overlook a woman's past."

▪︎"It takes a strong and brave man to mend a heart he didn't break and raise a child he didn't birth."

▪︎"If you are not a virgin as a man, you don't have the grounds to seek a virgin and chaste bride."

▪︎"Everyone has a past. Don't judge a girl by her past. (What an oloriburuku)."

▪︎"Nothing wrong in paying bride price for nonvirgins."

▪︎"Nonvirgins have more experience and maturity, so they make a good match."

▪︎"Virgins will cheat because they want to explore later, but nonvirgins have seen it all and will be more faithful."

Princeadebayo11:
So last Ramadan festival I asked my girlfriend what she will give me as Sallah gift, she said NOTHING without even thinking about it. I said no problem, Last week I was just going through her Facebook messenger and I discovered a chat of my girlfriend and this guy her course mate. This guy asked my girlfriend for Sallah gift and my girlfriend got him a pack of chocolate and chicken despite the fact he said she has nothing for me o. When I confronted her today about the chat she told me the boy was just a student that I am even richer than the boy. That me o I am bigger than chocolate and chicken. That it's nothing I should please forget about it that she is going to get me something this coming Sallah.
She has been calling me since and I won't even bother myself to pick the call. The thing shock me o.
Imagine

How you haven't broken up the relationship confounds me. Maybe you still need more red pill knowledge and harsher lessons.

Emmy417:
Thanks bro!
I think this simp of a thing could be as a result of been trained by my mom alone. No man in my life to scold me etc. Well, she really tried in training me. She did a very very good job. It wasn't easy then at all!! But I ve come to realise in this life, that been too sissy in life, people wouldal always takeadvantage.

Growing up with a mother alone makes you bluepilled, simpish, less assertive, nice and very decent to a fault (especially to women, most dangerously), less disciplined, less able to put your logic above your emotions, and a conformist who likely hops on the less risky/hard path and societal bandwagon, etc. This also applies if you have both parents, but your mum rules the house or your father is not always around and you spend much of the time with your mum.

A (single) mother might take care of you and try to provide your needs, but she can't make a man out of you no matter how much she tries for the following reasons:

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(1) she has never been a man,

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(2) a mother's way of caring is different from a father's way of caring. In general, a mother cares for the most part by trying to make you comfortable and keep you away from discomforts that trouble you, pampering in others word; her care is genuine, but it is short-sighted and gratifies instantly. She won't stress you too much.

A father's care is centered on long-term benefits and seeing what's ultimately good for you. He won't shield you from the discomfort, toughness, need for self-control/ delay of instant gratification, and discipline that will help you in life; these are what you need to thrive in life. This is one of the reasons why children are closer to their mothers because it's a human tendency to seek comfort and the path of least resistance; children don't know any better so they flow along because they know that the father's hands are harsher even though both parents want the best for the kids. Mothers show you as a child what the world should be, but a good father shows you how it should be and tries to prepare and set you up for it even if it hurts your feelings or makes you hate him at the moment.

Your mother will try to help you do your homework if it is too difficult for you or give it to someone that can, but your father will insist you do it by yourself even if you fail. You as a child and your mum won't like this because they are looking at the short-term rewards (a bad grade), but your father is trying to help you by engaging you and giving you the muscles to learn, fail, and improve. Also, in most cases, not all, when fathers want the child to go to boarding school, the mother doesn't prefer it because she wants you in sight where she can be there to nuture you and step in to protect you from the kind of hardship as seen in boarding school.

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(3) Good fathers will teach you that actions have consequences and you must hold yourself responsible for your actions; this makes you mature, manly, and makes you successful. Fathers are better teachers of this because children learn when you lead by example. Women are usually not the best at leading by example when it comes to accountability and taking blame for their actions.

Your mother can't make you a man. Highest, she provides for you and comfort you then when you come or age, she might pile pressure on you by nagging and harsh treatment for you to start making it even though she didn't prepare you or give you the discipline, mindset and attitude a father. They think things will just drop down from heaven magically... women's thinking. It is the same way they keep nagging and pile pressure (by harsh treatments) on their husbands who just lost their jobs thinking it will push them and make a job magically appear. Most don't even pile pressure on their sons. They let them become sons and mama's boys even in their late 20s.

Truvelisback:
The lady i am talking abt is Slim and fit and in good Shape.

Being slim and in good shape don't fall from heaven; she puts in the work. One can be slim naturally and still be in bad shape and accumulate some unnecessary fat due to bad diet and lack of exercise. No matter where one falls, one has no excuse avoid weight loss and being in good shape.

It is good that the men went for their best interests and desires. Men have the right to change their minds. If dem no wan do, make dem no do; it is not by force to continue.

Weight loss, exercising and eating healthily are choices for people who discipline themselves and persevere. People are full of excuses, love to indulge their cravings, and love wallow in their comfort zone.

Man or woman, no matter your age and number of kids, if you want to be slim and fit, you will achieve it. Just say you like your comfort zone and don't want to put in the work; many even add excuses.

It pays to take the red pill. You are a simp and blue pill fellow; this is why you made many silly decisions. Hope you take the red pill.

Alhabaze:
Just like being fit is attractive, keeping beard looks good on most men. Women don't like sharing their men. An attractive man would attract them girls which the wife won't be okay with. In short, she's trying to ensure her husband doesn't look so attractive (trying to averse your comment) to have other potential chicks at his beck & call.

True.

luminouz:
Mice? That's nothing na!!

Today makes it two weeks since I visited a girl and we found a snake in their living room. Very nice house in a nice estate but I guess snakes just go where they must. She shouted 'Holy Spirit', ran to the kitchen(which has a backdoor that leads outside the house) and left me to deal with the snake. While she was scabashing upandan and shivering (I actually thought she was gonna faint), I killed that little fuqer and threw it over the fence ,to the road.

I got calls from almost everyone in their family about how I saved their daughter and what a brave nigga I am..bla bla blaaaaa. The girl in question kept saying 'God sent you to me. You are my hero. Now I know you are a man bla bla bla bla.

N.B: But I wasn't fooled. I knew the accolades came because of my usefulness as a snake killer. If I had run off and left her to deal with it, no one would even give a fuq about me. I'm a man, and so I deserve the trickiest, most dangerous tasks as my lot in life and I must not complain or I'm a little biitch. I wonder why women talk of gender equality then.
I didn't run because it was a small snake but that girl had better pray we don't ever meet a lion because I'm gonna run dafuq off and leave her ass to that big cat. I'm a redpiller and so I protect myself first.

Good post. It is our way to always put ourselves first. Don't confront a snake that is known to be dangerous, or whose specie is unfamiliar to you, because you want to show that you are a man; if you die in the process, life will move on and she will move on to other d!cks and see you as a memory... a simpish one because you risked your life for her.

If you and a girl are walking on the road at night and a tiger or a group of armed men accost you guys from nowhere, leave her and run. Make everyone find their way.

However, don't let cockroaches, grasshoppers and earthworms make you scared and send you running like someone who is being chased by a tiger.

cococandy:
Just off the top of my head;

He’s a greedy hegemonic hypocrite who will and is preying on people’s biases/bigotry to propel himself to power? Much like Trump. Only slimier.

SMH.

Ignore them.

satandeterrible:
Fair points.
However, a Redpill man knows to prioritise himself.

It is not always about what a woman wants.
It should first and foremost be about who you are, and what you want.

Unnessecarily endangering yourself for the sake of cheap validation from women is dangerous simping that can lead to death.
Every wise man should avoid that.

Both of you made good red pill points. However, AntichristXXX isn't saying you should seek female validation or put yourself through too much stress to appear attractive to a woman; there was no indication of exhorting men to endanger themselves to please women.

That being said, what women find attractive, how they are wired and how they perceive things are part of the discussions here. They are part of the red pill. Receive the report for what it is.

You are a finished man. I don’t have strength to type.

AntichristXXX:
Among many other qualities, a woman wants the “killer” in her man. She is turned off if her man is afraid and wants her to kill the cockroach or the mouse while he stands on a chair and watches. She is turned off if her man wants her to get out of bed in order to check out the strange sounds in the house to find out if a burglar made the noise. Fearlessness, or the capacity to transcend the fear of death for the sake of love, is a quintessential form of the ultimate masculine gift.

The way of the superior man

True. I remember something that happened when I was a very little kid. One night, I got scared and jerked away when a flying cockroach came out of nowhere and landed on my left arm; it happened so fast. My mum solemnly and lightly hit me on my elbow and said "you better stop that nonsense. How can you be scared of a cockroach? Don't you know you are a man?" She was obviously serious.

The encounter impacted me profoundly. It was refreshing to see as a kid what my own mum considered a manly quality.

I have another tale, but I will pocket it because of time and energy. Your post is valid, not because of the event with my mum, but I have seen and heard things that informed me of truthfulness of your post. Kudos!

@Adambeatz

Terry is a lucky dude.

MadarasBlade:
Men are eternally stupid, i don't know why they can't see through women.

Ever i kept love far from my eyes, i have been able to make rational decisions no matter how "wicked".

That's the way, bro. Always remove love and pity from the equation and put your best interests first.

Men are really stupid.

If you are earning millions, they want a joint account.
If they are earning millions, they don't want to have a joint account with you.

If you are earning millions, they don't want a prenup.
If they are earning millions, they want a prenup.

Lesson: when it benefits them, they keep it strictly business. When it doesn't, they want you to do it for love. They know what they are doing.

Calibrator:
Like my two elder sisters always say "calibrator, the woman that will marry will try, you are almost impossible to manipulate"


As an orphan, If the two females who are standing in as my mother can't manipulate me, I will like to see a stranger turn lover try

They said that because they know they've tried to manipulate you, but you no gree. Androgens too must have faced cunning and manipulation from his sisters.

Androgens:
Let me drop this "BOMBSHELL" I have "8 Sisters" Plus my Mum making 9" I'm at the lower bottom In positioning. So now you see why I knew so much about the gender. I noticed most Men who didn't grew up around Ladies usually suffer In the hands of the Female Gender..

There are some attitudes growing up around many sisters will teach you even without swallowing the red pill eg. taking a female's sobs and tears with a grain of salt. I am sure you have this attitude from childhood because you have seen how they can manipulate and lie greatly while appearing to cry seriously. They will even swear on top to convince you, meanwhile they are lying and trying to manipulate you.

Man City!