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Danhoys:
My son is 17 years, and I got him a smartphone not too long ago during his birthday.

We're now in the tech era, and I was hoping to get him exposed to tech, and consequently stimulate his interest in programming.

However, I was going through his phone this morning and found some hardcore porn videos.

He's currently in school now, and I want to seek the advice of NLders before taking any action when he returns.

Is 17 years too young to own a smartphone? I sincerely doubt. What's the best way to handle this situation?

Thanks!

Exactly what COVID19 came in with when children were given phones for online classes

Wittyglam:
Just imagine what a teacher is telling a child he is supposed to guide. The brain washing is something else.

What's new now? Since the Coronavirus the entire school system went into digital

Mikester:
The definition of masculinity and manhood is ever-changing and evolving with the times. Gone are the days when only males who drove rugged cars and were eager to square up and fight were considered strong men. And with this steadily shifting narrative on what strength in men entails, there are naturally people who are unable to deal with it.

Strong men make amazing partners. They are fantastic friends, family members and more. But some women may have difficulty accepting the new trend of masculinity and all the things that make men so strong.

Here are the 10 traits of strong men that women can't handle

1. They prefer to promote peace over violence

Violence is seldom the answer, and a strong man knows that he doesn’t have to use his muscles to showcase his problem-solving skills. When faced with an awkward situation, he uses his mind and heart to overcome it instead of turning to aggression.

Of course, some women may be unused to this approach to problems from men. It may cause them to perceive these men as weak which is a very misguided view of the situation. Regardless, a strong man knows that there is wisdom in picking battles, finding compromises and promoting understanding and peace.

2. Strong men are ambitious

A strong man is highly ambitious. This ambition can often mean putting their careers and goals above any romantic attachments. It’s a highly respectable and positive decision, but it’s one that some women may take issue with, as it automatically lowers their position on the ladder of priority.

Of course, strong men know the value of balance too so are happy to balance their ambitions and family life once a relationship is more committed. But it is unlikely that the relationship will be anything more than of equal priority to their other goals, which is something that some women may dislike.

3. They know what they want

Being wishy is a historically weak quality no matter which gender is performing it. That’s why a strong man knows what it is that he wants and have no qualms about going for it without hesitation.

A strong man analyzes his wants and needs, reflecting on his wishes and actions to discover what he wants. This doesn’t mean that he has everything figured out. Instead, it shows that he is aware of his direction in life and he knows what the heart of his desires are.

On top of that, a man’s strength will not let anything stand between him and his goals. His positive thinking has no room for pessimism. Someone who slows him down or stops him from getting where he wants to be isn’t going to be kept around for long.

4. Strong men demand and provide honesty

A strong man doesn’t see any point in beating around the bush. He wants clear communication at all times. He sees no point in obscuring the truth with buttery, flowery speech. This is because he wants the honest constructive truth quickly and he believes that others would benefit from receiving such honesty.

It’s not unusual for women to occasionally desire a gentler type of speech from their partners. As such, the blunt directness of a strong man may be off-putting to them. But at the heart of it all, this is a man who wants clear communication and easy understanding and that is a positive thing for any relationship in the long run.

5. They take the lead

A strong man does not shy away from leadership roles. They are more than happy to take the reins and all the responsibility that comes with it. They can take the initiative and put in all the effort needed for it to work unlike the simps who wants their women to mother them.

But lots of women have bad experiences with being wrongfully mansplained to, or being treated as incompetent. As such, some women may misinterpret a strong man’s natural leadership abilities and command as an act of sexism.

But hang around him more and you’ll realize that he merely has a desire to take the initiative, regardless of the genders of everyone else in the room. All you need is positive thinking.

6. They know what they are worthy of

Many times, men are reduced to having to be “grateful” for the women they date. They have to express that they feel “lucky” and as though they should be thankful for a woman to want to date them at all.

But a strong man doesn’t have time for this type of self-deprecation. They know what they are worth and they know what they deserve. They refuse to stand for adverse treatment and will not settle for less than what is fair for them.

Sure, a strong man will feel lucky to have found his significant other but will also realistically know that they are valuable to the relationship too. They have something to offer just as their partner does. It is this type of positive thinking that keeps their self-esteem healthy and balanced.

7. They value their time alone

These types of men genuinely see the importance of being comfortable with being alone for their self-improvement. This means that a man of strength will always want a little time to himself once in a while.

In this time alone, he can meditate, reflect and be his person and that’s very important to a strong man. They want to be free to explore their hobbies and interests and they also want to have time to explore themselves. If someone takes his desire to be alone personally, he will cut them off.

8. Strong men are fiercely independent.

They don’t need anyone to tell them what to do. They know how to care for themselves and don’t wish reliant on anyone neither do they want anyone to be excessively reliant on them, nor do they want to be controlled. Independence is essential to them.



Strong men have much to offer, whether to relationships, to their workplace, or to themselves. Women who can’t handle them are certainly missing out but these men don’t care about that. Instead, they’re happy waiting until the right person comes along.

If you’re a man who aspires to emanate these qualities, don’t let the fear of women being unable to keep up stop you. Your strength comes from within, not from the people around you. Besides, do you want a partner who doesn’t want you to be strong?

Being strong is something to be celebrated and appreciated and you’ll find that this strength propels you through life in ways no external person can do for you. So take that strength, nurture it and wear it proudly.



HOPE I'M MAKING SENSE

Cc ubunja, Martinez39, GLYCOLYSIS

This applicable in 1876

osejie17:
why is the belle looking like DAT?

It's beauty secrets to rub charcoal after delivery

That's not enough reasons to take life.

[quote author=Powerfly post=95113526]You're very loyal.
you attach serious importance to family.
You're very intuitive, you can be moody at times.
You're generous and kind to your loved ones, but you don't joke with money(like dashing people money).
When you don't get a reciprocated act of kindness and attention, it becomes a great turn-off to you.
You're mind readers, so it's easy for you to figure out when someone is lieing to you.
You also do not like keeping a large group of friends. Your instincts are always right, for instance, if you have a strong feeling that something is wrong somewhere, you're usually right.
You prefer being indoors cuddling a loved one and chatting away than having fun at the club or pool side.
You always have the back of your family, and sometimes can go an extra mile for them to be happy, even if it's against your interest.
The tory long sha mek i stop here.[/quote
You prefer being indoors cuddling a loved one and chatting away than having fun at the club or pool side" This one na lie. I am in love with a cancer babe, wey no dey give hid about cuddling talk more of intimate talk. She's so after cash than love making. In fact na Igbo girl]

[quote author=Powerfly post=95113526]You're very loyal.
you attach serious importance to family.
You're very intuitive, you can be moody at times.
You're generous and kind to your loved ones, but you don't joke with money(like dashing people money).
When you don't get a reciprocated act of kindness and attention, it becomes a great turn-off to you.
You're mind readers, so it's easy for you to figure out when someone is lieing to you.
You also do not like keeping a large group of friends. Your instincts are always right, for instance, if you have a strong feeling that something is wrong somewhere, you're usually right.
You prefer being indoors cuddling a loved one and chatting away than having fun at the club or pool side.
"You prefer being indoors cuddling a loved one and chatting away than having fun at the club or pool side" This one na lie. I am in love with a cancer babe, wey no dey give hid about cuddling talk more of intimate talk. She's so after cash than love making. In fact na Igbo girl

galaxylauncher:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TY9Id8wnjjY

na wa ooo wetin person no go see for endsars

Johans1991:
fear of the unknown.
Iam in IPPIS, there nothing to fear as long as your dealings are legit. anyway buhari is equal to the task.

The FGN should as a matter of fact sit down and looked into this IPPIS role as it will favour the tertiary institution. IPPIS is just an accounting format that can be designed in Nigeria, but it was chose to be an outdated format from Kenya, where billions of dollars are paid to the soft ware designers. Let's adopt our own system and test run adequately within us.

johannu:
The fact that some public institutions are revenue generating bodies should not preclude them from being enrolled on IPPIS if the Federal Government really want them to be on the platform. Conferring a special status on 'revenue generating' bodies like the CBN is the stupid reason the CBN staff are paid far above the staff of other agencies who are contributing no less to the socio-economic development of Nigeria. I keep asking myself, is an accountant working in the CBN doing more than an accountant working in the OAGF? Or is a medical doctor in the NNPC doing more work than a medical doctor in the Federal Ministry of Health? Minimum wage aside, there is need for salary harmonization so that a computer analyst with the PTDF, for example, is at par with a computer analyst with the FCTA.

. There are specialized jobs and those jobs are paid differently. A doctor in NNPC is paid more than one in another sector. This reason is based on his special area of work.

Lordswazz:
Just as women won't tolerate a broke man, a well-to-do man should not tolerate being sex-starved by his wife. The average comfortable man is a woman magnet. If you can't use it to get as much sex as you want from willing and younger girls, and rather wait for anytime heaven touches your wife to bless your luck, you go die for konji. I am tired of men with ample means complaining of being sex-starved and having blue balls.

No wonder unmarried lovers have more sex on average than married people. Go out and get your fill my brother. The world is at the feet of any man who has means and knows how to use it. Just stay away from prostitutes sha.

How will he identify a prostitute? You think they cluster in a particular place. They are virtually everywhere especially this kind of seasons

Stay away from prostitutes. How will he identify one?

Mine does the same thing but I give God the glory because I now occupy my heart with things that makes me serve God the more. I am not a slave to sex!

This is gonna be a hard task

Just want to thank you all for your brotherly advised. God bless you all

You don't need a good job for you to have a girl. Set your first, first thing first. Arrange your priority guy

I am married for about twenty years now and we are blessed with three boys. My dad died without leaving anything for me except a family house which inhabit a lot of family members both immediate and extended members. I was saddled when my wife asked me to sale the only land I bought in other to buy a car. Though, we had three cars before, they all spoilt because of maintenance culture and now she wants the only piece of land I bought to be sold for a car. I told her, it's impossible and that the land remind for my kids. She said, a car is equally important to have as a family. Imagine the silly advise from my wife. Please I'm I on the right direction?[color=#006600][/color]

There should be a picture for the rank

naptu2:
Jubril A. Gawat @Mr_JAGs


https://twitter.com/Mr_JAGs/status/1189088034198867969

what will they used this for?

Edithfavourite:
Rights Activist, Deji Adeyanju was today Spotted at the COZA protest in Abuja, were he composed a new song for the Preacher.

Deji who looked so pained over the alleged rape, poured out his heart as he sang a "rapist" song for Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo that got people talking.

Watch the video
https://zenithnaija.com/deji-adeyanju-spotted-at-the-coza-protest-composes-a-song-for-pastor-fatoyinbo/

LET HE THAT HAS NO SIGN FIRST CAST A STONE AT HIM.

[quote author=OgogoroFreak post=79339385]Women can cheat ehn! I don fvck people wives and people girlfriends tier. [/Great Achiever of the year 2019. More grease to your tool.

Mrop:
See More of their N@ked photos => HERE


See reactions below

Are this two really Christians?

Celebrityblog:
Source: http://www..com/2019/06/eudoxie-yao-celebrates-her-birthday-in.html?m=1

This is ukwu nwanyi asaba

Nazarethnaza:
Toke Makinwa has gone all out as she called out Frank Edoho's wife, Sandra, over an alleged poor job she did in her house.

Toke Makinwa who shared photos of some furniture which got bad barely as she called out Frank Edoho's wife, also attached a screenshot of the amount she paid for the interior decoration service Sandra handled. The media personality who urged Sandra to do the right thing, added that furniture all got messed up, barely one week since she started using them.

Here is a video of Toke Makinwa's Banana Island penthouse below;


https://unclesuru.com/2019/06/01/toke-makinwa-calls-out-frank-edohos-wife-over-poor-job-in-her-house/

What else would you expect to see from a China chair?

GoTV:
As a born again Christian who is meant to speak the truth at all times, i believe this abomination will never be found amongst our Muslim brothers. I have never seen Muslim parents openly trading their childrens happiness for wealth. We Christians need to be shameful and reduce our crave for wealth and material things of these world. John 3:16 says For God so love the world that he sent his begotten son Jesus to die for our sins and those who believe in Jesus will have eternal life. This present generation of Christians have deviated from the teachings of Christ. Sometimes I'm ashamed to be a Christian

Close your fangs manh, if you got nothing to say shut up please

elshz:
What's up with university students committing suicide these days. When I was in school it was hardly heard of.

Era of social media. I bet you, these are things seen, read and practised all over our social media. They see, read and feel there is nothing worth living for

Onyekachi419:
Hahahahahahahahaha
The fear of woman is real

The fear of a woman is the beginning of an empty wallets"... Prof Okoli C.E

victorisreal02:
Upcoming Music Producer “SpiffBeat” Killed By One Chance Men In Abuja

https://9jaflaver.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/59929369_2625044337722258_7236083118443069440_n.jpg

Talented Abuja base upcoming music producer “Spiffbeat” lost his life to the cold hands of death after he was killed by one chance men who were struggling to rob him off his valuables in a disguised cab in Abuja

May his soul rest in peace

https://9jaflaver.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/Screenshot_2019-05-12-1-Iamspiff-Beats2.png

Source:- http://9jaflaver.com/upcoming-music-producer-spiffbeat-killed-by-one-chance-men-in-abuja/

One chance in ABUJA? Nna, God is our protector

Onyekachi419:

the groom was dating the daughter before. No show for her again that's why she's angry