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That's why most girls have sex with a guy without condom these days. Cos she feels she is the only one the guy is sleeping with and also dating. Imagine, that kind childish thought in this time and age, when 9 in every 10 guys have multiple sex partners. If you are a girl and you share similar thought or hope, sorry for you. That guy you are sleeping with without condoms/protection might have other girls he sleeps with as well without condoms. So, stoping risking your life and ur future.

What should a married woman who later finds true love after marriage with someone else, do? Should she leave her boring husband/marriage and move on with her life? Or stays in the marriage and suffer in silence? A lot of ladies aint happy in their marriage. Many of them have been turned into a baby making machine and stuck in a boring marriage and with an old schul hubby. Who doesnt care about her feelings or aspirations. These women just sit at home, and watch their dreams die since their hubby neither encourages nor motivate her to pursue her dreams. Thats why such married woman end up developing emotional attachment with any man that shows her better love and motivation. Atimes, its the men that drives their women away and into the arms of other men...

Is promiscuity hereditary? A guy and a girl madly in love decides to get married. The guy informs his parents of his decision. The guy's parents digging into the girl's background. They discovered that her grandmother, her mother and her mother's only sister all left their husband's houses because they were caught with other men. Boom! The guy's parents says over their dead body will their son marry that girl. 'The women from her mother's side don't stay in their husband's house...Like mother like daughter, like father like son! What happens to the guy with a promiscuous grandfather, father and uncle? Does he ever suffer the same fate as the girl? Does every girl take after her mother whether good or bad? And some say Ondo and Owerri women are known to be promiscuous. Don't no if this is true. They went on to say there are some Nigerian tribes, a lot of guys are afraid to marry their women cos their girls are known to be promiscuous and irresponsible even they are married.

Look at the picture very well. Is it part of the design or a mix up? Cos it looks as if the design is part of the hip of her jeans. But its not, when you look at it very well

When choosing a marriage partner, a girl usually has the final say and not her family. Some guys tend to feel that they can always get a girl through her family, by bn nice and generous to her family in order to make them accept him and also convince the girl to marry him. What if the girl doesnt like the guy or wants to marry him despite bn favoured by her parents? Then all his generosity towards her family will be for nothing. I've seen girls dislike guys favoured by her family. Most girls like choosing for themselves. They always want to be with a guy they love and cant live without. And not a guy chosen for her by her family. Her family may like you so much, but if she doesnt share the same feelings or likeness for you, then no show for you in her life...

Sometimes, its due to circumstances. Some girls are usually pressurized or manipulated by their boyfriend to move in with him on campus. Especially if the guy collects and eat the money given to her by her folks to rent/pay for an apartment in school. And sometimes some girls do such, when they are having accommodation problem in school. Moving in with a guy (boyfriend) tend to be their last option. And most guys like such things a lot. Cos it enable them to enjoy and also have the girl all to himself. Apart from the cooking, washing and cleaning she is bound to do for him while living with a guy on campus, there'd also be enough regular sex btw the two of them while she stays with him. Its usually a win win situation for most guys living with a girl on campus. But as for the girl, she has a lot to lose. Apart from tarnishing her image/dignity, she'd also lose her privacy and freedom in school. She'd be like a caged bird. Abused and constantly monitored by the guy. Some girls might not complain openly, but most girls are never happy with such arrangement in school...And they always do their best not to let their parents or any family member know they're cohabiting with a guy(boyfriend) in school. By lying or preventing any of them from visiting her in school, while giving them the impression she's staying in her own rented apartment, or sharing a room with a female student.

Due to genotype complications she can't marry her boyfriend, who is the love of her life. But due to the bond between them and the great sex they used to have, she has made up her mind not to leave him even when she gets married. Sometimes, whenever a married lady is still attached to a particular ex, it could be as a result of the sex they used to have or still indulging in.

If you've not put a ring on her finger, please dont stress over her. Dont expect any girl you are not yet married to, to be loyal or committed to you alone. If you crave so much for such, you'd end up heart broken and bitter. Just enjoy your time with her and leave the rest to fate

Most good girls tend to turn bad once they get to school, while most bad girls become worse once they are in school. Its as if school life makes them bad and irresponsible. And no matter the level of advice or counsel given to them to change/turn a new leaf, they hardly listen until when they become desperate to get married.

Why is it that most times, its only the guy/groom that takes care of all the expenses that has to do with the wedding. Most brides hardly bring anything to the table. They always expect the guy/groom to foot the bills and also take care of her wedding gown and her family expenses as well during the wedding. But in other parts of the world, its not like that. The bride do contribute at least part of her wedding expenses. They usually put their savings together with the groom's money to organize their wedding ceremony. But in Nigeria, our girls hardly do such. They always want the groom to do everything...

Some girls are fond of doing this a lot. Even when they are in a relationship or have a boyfriend, they can't stop asking other guys for recharge cards. Imagine, how would he (her boyfriend) feel if he gets to know his girlfriend begs other guys for recharge cards? Don't no why some girls do such things. Is it out of greed or are they trying to play smart?

Every girl desire to have a boyfriend she can boast about to her friends or other girls. Especially if the guy is loaded, has a nice car and a nice apartment. Sometimes you see a girl snappin pics of herself in her boyfriend's nice apartment, and showing it to her friends in school. This usually make some girls to be happy for u, while others become envious. Prompting them to also crave for similar experience wt their own boyfriends. It pains most girls when they dont have anything to boast with about their guy. Thats why a guy really need to be up and about, so that you can make your girlfriend proud always. Atleast, if u no get money, look good. If u no fine, then get money small, get nice crib dat ur girlfriend can always visit u, and also come with her friend sometimes. Guys, do your best and make ur babe proud...

According to President Robert Mugabe, whenever things seem to start going well in guy's life, the devil comes along and gives him a *girlfriend* Does having a girlfriend ruins a guy's life, in most cases?

Some guys no get chill or shame at all. How can you ask a girl to return or refund every kobo you've spent on her simply cos she decided to end the relationship. What about all the things she did for you and the sex she gave you in the course of the relationship. Each time I see a guy behaving like that after a break break, then it shows he never really loved the girl in the first place. Didnt they say love is sacrificial. If things doesnt work out, let it go and move on notwithstanding the money that went into it. Relationship of today is more like a business venture. You go into it fully aware of the risks in it. It either ends well or not. So, brace up and move on. Whats given, is gone. Asking him or her for any refund can never make you feel better

Since women naturally age faster than men, its not advisable for a guy to marry a girl his age or within his age range. Guys need to marry girls they are far older than with at least 10 years, so that when she's aging everything will still be balanced. You can still be enjoying her breast, and also admiring her full waist line for a long time to come. Compare to when you marry a girl that's only 3 or 5 years younger than you. Before you know it, she'll start looking older than you apart from adding weight anyhow after giving kids. So, let there a space of like 10 years between you and the girl you want to marry, just like fathers used to do it in the past.

Most guys are usually 'disgusted' when their wives start changing (shape or character wise) before their eyes. Especially if she start getting fatter immediately after their wedding and also when she start having kids. Guess while dating, she used to be a sweet sixteen with her lovely shape and curves. But presently looks the opposite of all that, due to having some kind of fulfillment and a peace of mind. A lot of guys find it difficult dealing with such a situation. Failing to realize that women age faster (including physically) than men. So, you shouldn't blame her. Try to motivate her to watch her weight. Cos, if na you too, you must surely add weight when you start spending lot of time in the kitchen cooking and tasting enough delicious meals all the time, getting pregnant and having kids. All these, no be child's play. So learn to deal with it. Rather than be grumbling or complaining, help her to become fitter and slimmer. Even all those young slim girls you dey eye for outside, will also get to that stage when they get married. So, guy take care of your woman/wife and help her get back to shape.

Having Sex in a relationship doesn't translate to love. Its just an obligation carried out by two people just to give a meaning to something. That's why most people tend to feel sad, hurt or used when things doesn't work out well in the end...

I know a lot of guys must have bn told by a girl how good they are, only to be dumped later by the same girl. Most girls say this, in order not to make a guy feel bad or hurt when she eventually dumps him. Imagine, why leave someone you consider to be the best guy you've ever met for someone you hardly know? Thats naija girls for you. They like blowing you breeze and biting you at the same time. In order to ease the pain a bit for you. As a guy, try and be the best for yourself and not for anybody. Cos naija girls are insatiable. They are always asking for more and more and more.

No guy should take care of any girlfriend until after marriage. And no girl should give any guy/boyfriend sex until after marriage. When you demand and collect money from your guy always, it makes him feel he owns you and your body. And when a girl gives you sex, it makes her feel she has the right to demand and collect money from you whenever she wants. Money and sex works hand in hand in today's relationship. When you dont collect money from a guy, you can always turn down his sex demands. And no girl has any right to demand you cater for her needs when she's not yet married to you. The less committed you two are, the less painful it would be for both of you when things doesnt work out in the end...

The only time a lot of girls act foolishly is whenever they are having sex with a guy. You will see a girl doing whatever the guy ask her to do while having sex with the guy . Even if the guy decide to record their love making or her unclothedness, she'd foolishly allow him to do so at that moment, only to get home and start regretting it. Imagine, obeying every single instruction given to her by the guy, as if she's under a spell. Allowing a guy you are not sure would marry you in the end , to touch or treat your body anyhow he likes...and also make you carry out acts you'd be ashamed to talk about tomorrow...

Most girls are not always happy whenever they hear their ex boyfriend is getting married to another girl while they are still single. Its something a lot of girls can't really stomach, after what they might have gone through or done with the ex. I guess, a lot of girls usually prefer to get married before their ex, so as to rub it on his face. But whosoever gets married first shouldn't be anybody's business nor gives anyone any pain. You have your life to live same way he has his own life to live. So, should an ex be getting married before you, simply wish him or her well, and move on jeje with your life...

It happened today on a wet Saturday morning at the bread shop. Immediately I entered the shop, I noticed her from behind, looking so beautiful, with a rounded backside and a lovely smooth skin. She wore a blue t-shirt on a black knee length sexy leggings, (which brought out her slim sexy shape the more) with lovely sneakers to match. All eyes (including mine) were on her as she was paying for the bread she bought. Everything about her looked so sophisticated. Even her voice sounded so heavenly. And as she was stepping out of the shop, I stared right into her lovely blue eyes, cos I was right behind her. I wanted to chat her up and also ask for her number until I noticed the wedding ring on her finger. And that was the end of my 'infatuation.' Chei, naija girls are so beautiful...

I guess most guys find it difficult to break up with a girl cos of sex and other benefits, why girls usually find it easier to break up/end a relationship cos they have enough guys lurking around to take cover from her guy. There is no naija girl without a plan B these days. Some even have up to plan C, D and E. Whenever a guy wants to break up with a girl, it usually takes a him a while (out of guilt), so as to not to hurt the girl or make him look inconsiderate. But in the case of a girl, she'd simply start giving her guy silent treatment, and showing him some signs before sneaking silently into a new relationship with another guy. And most girls do this without ending their old relationship properly and without feeling any guilt. These days, naija girls heart don dey hardend.

A girl once told me the reason why most girls find it easy to move on or jump into a new relationship after ending a previous relationship, its because of their desire to forget their ex, get over the heartbreak and put any pain of the past behind them immediately. No wonder these days, it doesn't take a girl a long time to find another boyfriend after breaking up from her ex. You know most naija girls usually have enough guys or toasters by the side while in a relationship. So she can easily pick any of them to replace her boyfriend should the relationship crash. To me, many of them find it easy to move on, cos they are either double dating or already thinking of dumping their boyfriend for the new guy before ending the relationship. Trust najia girls and their sense.

There are girls like that, whom despite turning a guy down, wont like seeing him with other girls. Most times such girls are usually jealous whenever she sees a guy she likes with another girl or talks to her about other girls. Imagine, you don't want to date him and yet you don't want to see him with another girl?

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I will not stop ranting about the evil that some men put women through! No, seriously some men are simply nothing but pure evil.
How can a man be so wicked to marry a woman (church and traditional marriage kwa o!), house her, father a child or children with her and still the woman will know nothing about this so called husband.
It happened to a friend of mine. She got married to a man we could describe as a devoted and kind family man. The man is always forming busy, he comes back late from the office and sometimes even sleeps over at the office. My friend had no cause to suspect as she gets money from him very well! Besides, they occasionally had family outings (the husband always tried to make time out for the wife and children). Even his phones never had any suspicious texts as she checks constantly.
My friend had 3 children for him, 2 boys and a girl. Her husband did everything any responsible husband would do for his family. The only thing she found bothersome was that sometimes when she called him, he would say he was in Lekki and this had gone on for years. She wonders what her husband is always doing at Lekki because she knows his office is situated in Onikan. She asked him but he really didn’t give any concrete answer.
Presently my friend is pregnant for with her 4th child and she attends antenatal clinic at Lagoon Hospital in V/I. As she finished her antenatal around 2pm and was leaving the hospital, she saw her husband’s jeep, inside it was another lady who appeared pregnant. They were heading towards Lekki. My friend, action lady that she is (I don’t have dulling friends) abandoned her own jeep, took an okada and followed them reach to their destination.
Their destination was Chevron Estate. Wow! Come see house! My friend stayed at a corner and was watching them! First, her husband came out, followed by the heavily pregnant woman. Just when she thought she should start wondering about the whole scenario, two children came out of the house they shouted “Daddy welcome! Mummy welcome!”.
These children we are talking about were older than her own kids by roughly between eight and five years. Her first child is 6 year old while this woman’s first is roughly 13 or 14 year old!
To cut the story short, her husband had been living a double life! Everything was double double! House double, phones double, car double, children double! To make matters worse, she found out that she is actually the second and fake wife!
You can imagine what happened next!
For me the moral of the story is that, ” One day, monkey go go market and e no go return” or “Everyday is for the thief but one day is for the owner” or “One day wind go blow and fowl yansh go open!”and finally “Nothing is hidden under the sun”…so choose the one you like.

When a guy cheats on a girl, should she forgive him and take him back, leave him or pay him back by cheating on him also? While there are girls who would normally forgive and forget, there are also those who would pretend to forgive a cheating boyfriend, while planning or plotting secretly to pay him back later. And most naija girls fall into the later category. They don't forgive easily.

How can a wife prevent her husband from going after or abandoning her for a beautiful mistress that is more beautiful and sexy than her, her boobs are still full, standing and succulent, has sexy hips and flat tummy. And has eyes like pussy cat. Cooks continent dishes like a professional chef. And is a tigress in bed. Hitting the gym most times might not be the only solution to win over your husband's love and affection and keep him at home. You really need to do more. Cos the competition no be child's play. Omo see fine girl. Housewives do have a lot of work to do,
In order to keep their men at home, and their home intact!

I've noticed that a lot of Yoruba guys now prefer to date or marry Ibo girls these days. Well, I'm not surprised, cos Ibo girls are very beautiful, intelligent, respectful, hardworking, very loving & caring, religious, loyal, clean, know how to cook very well, and are also very good in bed , compare to girls from other tribes. And Ibo girls also make very good lovers and mothers. They know how to take care of their men and kids very well. No wonder a lot of Yoruba guys (and guys from other tribes) are abandoning their tribe girls and rushing over Ibo girls for relationship and marriage. Ibo girls, do keep up the good work. We're proud of you girls.

Nowadays...
Eight in every ten guys prefer to have sex with a girl (girlfriend) before their wedding night. Most guys don't buy into such talk (of not having sex with a girlfriend until wedding night) these days. All they want to do is to have her in his bed right away...to them every night na the same.

Most guys are usually carried away whenever they are with a new girl, who seem to be so perfect. Forgetting that most girls are very good in acting. Showing only their good side, while keeping their bad side at home or hidden. They pretend to be so loving and caring just to get into your heart. And guys due to what they usually want from girls or relationship (sex), don't bother to find out who she really is or what drove her out of her last relationship. Cos some girls are something else. When you get to know them very well, you'd end up biting your fingers. There are girls when you eventually break up with them, you feel like celebrating. Cos of the pain she must have given you all through the relationship. And any girl her ex is not making any attempt to get back with, I bet you in most cases, such a girl must have been a pain in the ass (a good riddance to bad rubbish). Know her well before committing yourself. A girl's best impression, might be a fake impression. Same thing applies to guys. A girl should also try to know a guy very well before committing herself. So much fake lover everywhere.

These days every girl thinks sex is everything. That sex is what she needs to give to get whatever she wants. Most girls use sex to have the upper hand in their relationship, seduce lecturers in school, their bosses at work, or snatch someone's else guy or husband. Some girls even plan to have sex whenever they go out. They see it as a powerful tool which they can use to achieve their goal in life. Since they no almost every man cant do without sex. Girls simply see sex as everything