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There are girls who don't like using sanitary pad whenever they are having their period. While some prefer to use tissue papers, others sometimes use old pieces of clothes during their menses. Which I feel its not hygienic at all. The best thing to use is a sanitary pad. Any other thing no make sense at all...

When a girl breaks your heart, do you
1. Forget about her and move on with your life?
2. Look for ways to deal with her
3. Date and dump her sister
4. Start hating and maltreating every girl that you meet.
5. Or forget about dating entirely.

You know if you dont teach her a lesson, she will continue to hurt guys, and end up being a serial heartbreaker. But to me, the best thing to do, is to move on jeje. Better girls full everywhere.

They say most guys are usually confused when they are ready to marry/settle down. During that period you see them making enough calculations and so scared of making any mistake or marrying the wrong person among the girls thay are dating...thats the problem you face when you are dating several people at the same time.

Most guys always find it difficult to believe when the sexy lady they married start developin 'christian mother' arm and love tying wrapper most times just within a year of marrying her...that kind transformation pass APC change, sef...

You don't have to wait until when you get married before you start being faithful....Loyalty starts NOW! You know most people are always fond of saying ''I'll change when I get married.'' If you can't be loyal now, then you can't be loyal later. Being faithful to your partner is not a difficult thing to do. Some girls simply can't be faithful cos of greed. Greed for money, gifts or sex.

I keep wondering how some girls still manage to sleep and snore soundly every night despite hurting so many guys... Some girls get mind o...

At times, ladies find themselves in such predicament especially when they start having kids or after going through a procedure (surgery), they tend to start taking notice of how their body is transforming. Some usually dont mind while others do feel bad about it. Thats why you see girls hiting the gym or using cream to conceal any scar on their body. To ladies, the body is a woman selling point. Thats why they dont joke with it. And more so, its their body that gets them noticed and married. So, when they start losing shape or develop any scar on their body, it makes them feel bad. Married ladies with kids are usually the ones who go through such experience a lot. Once they get married and start having kids, they lose their sexy shape, and start feeling ashamed of their body. But naturally, every african lady is bound to be fat later (once they get married).

As a lady, is getting married your ultimate ambition in life? Is that all you crave for as a woman? Does it make one fulfilled and happy? Does getting married and having kids, supersede every other desire or achievement of a woman? Do you yearn for more, to work, go into business, further your education or just sit at home and be a full time house wife/baby making machine. while your husband work, make money, go out, hang out and catch some fun with friends? A lot of married ladies do find themselves in such situation. And unfortunately their husband don't seem to notice or care. And this is very bad. Your wife should be carried along, as you progress in life. Imagine neglecting your wife after wooing her, scattering her head, and winning her heart with so much love, care and affection prior to marrying her. You don't love a woman half way. She is not a car that you get to be with or handle with love only when you are driving it. Treat your wife as if she's you. For both of you are now one heart, one body. One love!

The One that loves you, or the one you love?

Most girls who are getting close to 30 and not married tend to be very worried and kind of desperate to get married and start having babies before they clock 30. They get so tensed up and seem to be in a race against their so called biological clock...but truth be told, there is no need to rush and as a result end up making mistakes or marrying someone that would make life a living hell for you. Don't panic,and don't let the society push you...just be calm, be patient, hopeful and keep having faith in God...to bless you with your prince charming.

Every girl knows that abstaining from illicit sex (pre-marital sex) is the only way to avoid getting pregnant, going through any abortion or having a child out of wedlock. which are all frown against and seen as a shameful thing by the society. So, why not do the right thing, and avoid going through such stress, pain or shame...

No matter your status or position in life, always show respect to your elders...Learnt due to education and their level of exposure, many of our girls hardly greet their parents the African way (see pic) these days. Some don't even greet at all...except when they need something from their mom...

Is it right for a girl to insist on getting married without even dating a guy first? Cos these days, a lot of girls are fond of saying they want a serious guy (One who is ready for marriage asap) anytime they are approached for a relationship by a guy. Some of them now claim they don't do boyfriend stuff anymore. Imagine? What do they mean by that. One can't just jump into marriage without dating and getting to know the person first. Its just like eating a meal without tasting if there is salt or enough ingredient in it. And approaching any girl to make her your girlfriend, is not a child's play either. So, how can a girl insist on getting married without dating? These days, it takes a lot to date any naija girl. Especially under this Buhari' govt, wey the economy dey harsh. So, a girl need to understand that dating and getting married is a gradual process that requires planning. Its not something to jump into. Cos the size of a guy's pocket determine the direction of the relationship.

Its only when a guy is too soft that's when his girlfriend would start acting domineering towards him. Guys need to be in charge either in a relationship or marriage. Cos when you are too soft with your girlfriend, you'd end up washing, cleaning and cooking for her (being push around) Guys be wise.

Some girls are always fond of doing that. Imagine, pinging another guy after or before having sex with a guy or her boyfriend (like what the girl in the picture is doing). Is she booking another appointment with another guy or simply trying to conceal her shame/guilt after committing fornication?

A lot of guys tend to believe that once they are handsome or have a fine sexy body (six packs) they can get any girl they want and also make her be in love with him forever. Well, that was then, and not now. Cos most naija girls have changed and their desires have also changed. Yeah, girls love fine boys. In fact almost every girl drool over guys with six packs (either secretly & publicly). But a girl'd love a guy more when he has enough money to spoil her with. And rich guys hardly have time to have six packs. Cos they are busy working their ass off and making more money to woo and snatch girls from guys with six packs. Cos, girls love money and wont mind dumping your ass and your six packs for a guy with six cars.... So guys, wake up and make money, and add it to your six packs.

Guys, how would you feel when you discover the woman you are about getting married to (your bride) actually dumped her ex in order to marry you. Will you go ahead and marry her after finding out how she maltreated and cruelly left her ex boyfriend of many years in order to marry you because she believes you are richer and more comfortable than her ex. Most of the girls getting married these days might have dumped someone to marry another guy whom she felt was more serious and also ready to settle down immediately unlike their ex. This kind of attitude is typical of most naija girls of today. And many of them see it as a justified act. But guys need to be cautious and careful before marrying any girl who doesn't have any regret hurting or dumping a loyal boyfriend for you. Cos, you might end up being her next victim. Even if you eventually marry her, it doesn't stop her from hurting you later.

Messi is good, but Cristiano Ronaldo is 'Now' the greatest

The true great

Ronaldo can now be ranked with the true greats of the game. He has finally added success in the international arena, with a Euro 2016 win to add to his accolades and honors with Manchester United and Real Madrid.
He has won the Champions League once with Manchester United and twice with Real Madrid and victory in Paris closes a big gap in his achievements and enables him to eclipse, in one context at least, his great rival in La Liga at Barcelona, Lionel Messi.

Any girl who goes around dating and sleeping with different guys all in the name of looking for an 'husband material' will only end up being used as a material...

A lot of guys are fond of saying there are no good girls any more and yet guys are getting married every week. So, who are they getting married to? Is it not to girls. There are good girls. You just have to pray and hope to find one and marry.

If your girlfriend is always travelling every weekend to see or stay with one 'cousin, uncle or aunty', then you are with a prostituting girlfriend. If her phone is always ringing and she's always receiving calls from guys 24/7, even when you are there, then you are with a prostituting girlfriend. If she doesn't mind cheating on you or dating other guys while with you, then you are with a prostituting girlfriend. And is she doesn't care how you feel, or what you do for her, and also tend to lie alot to cover her tracks, my guy you are with a wrong girl. You better jump out of such a relationship and look for a better girl.

When you are dating a girl every guy wants, its never an easy thing or a sweet experience. Cos she's bound to be so dramatic and full of herself due to the number of advances she gets daily from men. A lot of guys might think its very easy for girls to turn down men, especially guys with enough money or wealth to spoil her sily. But truth be told, its not that easy. There are some temptations, a girl cant resist. And being hit on steady by guys is one of them.

There are guys whose girlfriend always prevent them from meeting or getting too close to any of her female friends. Should you find yourself in such a situation, please shine your eyes well well. Cos, its very possible she is doing that so that you dont find out the things she could be telling her friends about you. To her friends, you could be her cousin, an ordinary friend, a pestering toaster or one of her magas, based on what she must have told them about you. Guys try to know the girl you are dating, very well. So that you dont end up with a strange woman. Someone that is not meant for you. Imagine your girlfriend telling her friends you are not her boyfriend. Then wetin you con be naaw?

Once a guy goes to church 6 times in a week, belongs to alot of depts in the church, and is also involved in most of the activities in church, a lot of girls tend to see him as a God fearing man. And as a result many crave to have him as a life partner, forgetting its not everybody that is in the church is of God. And not a few girls have been deceived by such pretence from men. Cos ladies always believe a church going guy is a God fearing man. And a lot of girls are paying the price for making such a wrong assumption. As their so called God fearing husband has suddenly become a wife battering, unfaithful and uncaring husband. Mind you, he hasnt changed, he is only showing his true color after getting what he wanted 'YOU.' That's why girls need to be very careful and patient when choosing a life partner. Always apply wisdom.

To the average Nigerian girl, any Spiritual or God fearing man is enough 'Husband Material.' Nothing else matters. Most girls tend to assume a church going guy is a God fearing person. Which is a very big mistake. And a lot of girls can attest to this, having had their fingers burnt for making such a mistake (wrong assumption) when choosing a life partner.

Imagine after washing, cleaning and cooking for your boyfriend, he keep saying any guy that marries you would be so lucky. So, what is stopping him from being the lucky guy? A lot of naija guys are fond of saying/doing this to a girl. It shows he doesn't have any future plans with the girl. All he cares about is to use her now, dump her and look for a fresh girl to marry later. If you have a boyfriend that like saying this to you, please start re-evaluating your relationship, before he turns you into a trash for lawma

No matter how beautiful a girl is, if she's not clean or doesn't have good personal hygiene, then she's ugly. Forget about all her make-up, fine clothes, shoes and lovely hair that help to make her very sexy and attractive to guys. Cos should you decide to pay her a surprise visit her at home, you might end up disappointed seeing how dirty she is. which is common with most girls. That's why a lot of girls don't like inviting guys to their house, due to obvious reasons. If any beautiful girl is not clean, then she is not fine. Your natural body and how clean you are as a lady, its what defines your beauty. Any other thing na jara.

The internet has been on fire ever since Mr. Irvin Randle became an internet sensation after posting some of his sexy stylish pictures online. while men are so angry and jealous of pa Irvin, a lot of girls (including married women) are all going crazy over him, ready to dump their guy/husband for pa Irvin. Accusing their men of being ugly, less romantic and having pot belly. Imagine them now realizing their men are ugly simply cos they've seen another sexy looking man. Naija girls can never stop being dramatic and insatiable.

Its a nice thing for every guy to try and have a car before getting married. Cos nowadays the only thing most girls seem to understand and crave so much for is comfort and enjoyment, and many can sacrifice anything just to have it. That's why its advisable for a guy to have a car first before getting married, so that your family (wife and kids) can be using it to go to school, to the market, to church etc. Having a car makes a wife happy and fulfilled. Not having one, makes her angry and stubborn at times. And no guy would like seeing his wife or girlfriend being given a lift by another man. And some married women or girls usually use this to either taunt or make their men sit up (as in, hustle to buy a car too). Imagine seeing your married neighbor using his car to convey his family to church every Sunday while you and your wife have to walk down to the bus-stop to board either a keke (tricycle) or bus to Church every Sunday (go by public transport). Such a sight is usually an embarrassment most especially to your wife. That's why some girls usually insist their guy get a car first before doing any wedding. They have their personal reason for doing that. Every girl likes it when her boyfriend owns/drives a car. Even if the car isn't that expensive, they don't mind. All they care about is just a car to sit in, and be driven here and there by their guy. So my guys, make we no dull o. Getting married these days, no be beans o.

Finding a woman and getting married these days is just like a game of thrones. Cos that same girl (iron throne) you're eying and hoping to marry is also been sought after by a thousand and one men. Each jostling, doing all they can and using whatever they have to sit on the iron throne as well (marry her)...which is usually a battle that is fought till the end of the season and eventually won by the 'luckiest' prince... Cos every girl do have a long list of toasters and suitors, each posing to be the best and the right man for her. And if she's without wisdom, she's bound to be confused by the numerous (irresistible) offers before her. Any man she eventually chooses to marry among her suitors, at the end, should consider himself the luckiest man...

To some guys, most matured girls tend to be under a lot of pressure to get married cos of their age. And as a result, they put so much pressure on any guy they are dating, to take her to the altar as soon as possible. And most guys don't like that. That's why they prefer to date girls who are below 25. So as to take their time, enjoy themselves and also play around with other girls before making up their mind to settle down. But one good thing about older ladies is that they hardly cheat or play games unlike all these girls that are still under 25. If you check very well, those girls that cheat on their boyfriends a lot are girls who are between the ages of 20 and 23 years old. And they are like that cos they feel they are still young and have enough time to date and play around with guys before getting married.

Telling or advising a girl or a guy not to indulge in Pre-marital sex is like telling a child not to play with toys. The only thing you can do is to let her know there is time for everything. A time to sleep, and a time to wake. And also a time to marry, and start enjoying all the things that comes with being married. And more so, majority of girls hardly enjoy sex outside the bonds of marriage. Cos pre-marital sex usually takes place by sneaking around in hidden places, dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy, STIs and feelings of guilt afterwards. All these worrisome factors undermine the pleasure in pre-marital sex, most especially in girls/women.

So, why 'taste' it now, when you can enjoy it later