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KingDash:
bros pochettino na dead coach, make e dey go make we carry zidane come.

paulolee:
lolz....am a strong barca fan u u gat no idea about valvarde pragamatic tactics...
dt man frustrate u....continue using d same tactics in each match even wen its all clear dt its exposed, e no change atall saying dt same tactics brought him to barca..
why no laliga club bid for an since he left barca n only opened to spainish jobs

Angelfrost:
2099??!... You mean Buhari will die and his ghost will take over in Aso Rock!

Lattop:
Yoruba Leaders are just too useless, too silent on Igboho matters, the likes of Obasanjo, Alaafin and many others shouldn't have been silent this much on his matter

jaxxy:
Why are they no first aid responders or emergency medics at the airport if I may ask??

Ucheamani:
Last month I slept in one new hotel in Shomolu, around 2am, the hotel manager opened my door with the master key only to see me awake and pressing my phone. She jejely locked the door and moved out. I was so scared that I couldn't sleep till I checked out around 6am. On my way out I wanted to ask her what she wanted in my room at that time of the night but she was no where to be found. I left and never came back.

GamalNasser:
it seems the recording came from Onyeamas end

Ballack1:
Fidelity go frustrate you

SuperStriker:
That is what I don't want to do. I don't want to go to another woman but I am suffering...Sometimes I feel like I will tear my shirt and start running round the street when that pressure is too much

SmartPolician:
And this is supposed to be newsworthy?

arleck:
Man f*u*c***k you!!!
If you looking for a maid or slave to get one..... The girl isn't a slave or maid, she's happy to come live with her sister, she's now a part of the family not slave.... A 15 year old girl is supposed to do all that. Go to school at 7am and get back at 5pm... As well steal your baby's milk! At some point when we growing up, we all did that. So that shouldn't be something new to you

Mylordmygod1:
they have talk to him, but he keep doing it.. They told him to buy and take it to his house and not sitting and drinking in the beer parlour, but he prefer to drink it in the beer palour.

Nwaotu10:
This fight has no ending.
One can only surrender and know perennial peace.

Nwaotu10:
Rip Dr.
I will join you soon. Amen.

Risingsun127:
Chai ...
Who have I offended bayi??
When I first noticed this was when I was asked to lead prayer during a function.. I’ve always been a bright person that people look up to .. So I’m the one that they choose to do the talking most of the time . while praying it got to a point I started blabbing .. Then my leader now asked me if there was hot yam in my mouth.. She was surprised..since then it has got worse..To pray sef I’ll finding words to use..
Please what do you advise me to do and share more light on leg of house.

InoGetJoy:
There's a natural cure to every ailment on earth, the only issue is finding that cure and the correct dose

babyfaceafrica:
Nice points

NoToPile:
The OP is not seeing it the way you and some of us are seeing it which is father in law hosted the guests EOD

He is concerned( using a mild word) that it was clear to all and sundry that the FIL did all the extra stuff's like the extra drinks extra food and all. Possibly he might have felt better there were no extra stuff's or it was not visible to all where they came from.

Not a healthy thinking at all, this line of thought will begin to grow and grow and resentment for his wife's family will set in if he's not careful. If they buy clothes for baby wahala, if they say this wahala, if wife talks too much wahala.

It's even better the bride's father spent the money on the rice and cows than giving it to the couple, if the FIL did give them the money only God knows what the OP would be thinking.

babyfaceafrica:
True, I am more concerned with after wedding than the wedding itself.

babyfaceafrica:
I would have preferred they set you with the money spent on the wedding. Wedding is just a day, why spending heavily when they know you aren't buoyant?

Tonero5200:
Okay thanks very much.

greenie77:
But we do have Pastors being paid by ministries.

bcomputer101:
Olu Jacob, the GOAT of Nollywood

VivJohn:
I'm sure you aren't married, and judging by your nairaland gender symbol, you are most likely male.
Trust me, someday and in some foreseeable future, you'd find out that being married isn't the ideal fantasyland you dreamt it would be.
Both husband and wife go through phases where a little distraction helps deal with domestic stress and trials.
These convenient distractions are not meant to destroy or weaken the fabrics of your marriage, but rather spicen and ensure the spark remains lit.

Men by their very nature are more disposed to episodes of such distractions. It's basically a coping mechanism.
Married men keeping and actively communicating with single ladies isn't necessarily for sexual benefits. Rather, as men grow older and rack up more years in matrimony, there's rekindled desire to revive youthful zest and its indulgences.
It is a perfectly normal reflex which most men will experience at some point in their lives. You inclusive.

I understand the context of this story slightly differs from my opinion piece. But all the same, I believe there's a lot to learn about marriage and external relationships.

RAFFIZY:
Good day everyone, I want to raise an issue that has been bothering me as a sibling,and also to my parents,my sister who has just finished her ssce exams has been engaged in indecent chats with various people on her phone,we were brought up under strict muslim parents,honestly they have done a good job parenting so far,for the fact that my mum knew something was fishy because she is always with her phone.
Her phone has been seized,since this happened yesterday she has refused to greet my parents or even assist in helping my mum cook and also refused to eat as well. Both parents have tried the best they can to enlighten us about social media and how to moderately use it,but my sister wouldn't care to listen,its as if she is possessed because it has happened more than once under my parents watch.
Parents on this forum, kindly suggest ways to treat this matter urgently.

Mercychen:
I'm not bitter. If you know me in real life, I'm the happiest and most peaceful person. .

It's you who sound bitter.

Mercychen:
It doesn't change the fact that most married people are not happy and have discovered ( late) that there's nothing special about marriage.

Lamenting won't change anything. Once you're in, no escape. Be you who!

Mercychen:
Nothing like dwelling on the negative here. Its a normal phenomenon and thats only one aspect I just cited there, which most married people can attest to.

I like to say things the way they are. It's not negativity but reality., Onyen " negative".

As for my being single, it's a choice. And I won't join you and your lots to go into marriage just because others are going into it or without first calculating the cost,; only to get there and start wishing I never did.

You that is married, how far?
Are you any happier?
Uchu!



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