₦airaland Forum

I really wonder what girl friend or boy friend mean.
Opposite of friend is enemy.And as a young person,have no enemy.And when u don't see anyone as ur enemy in ur heart,everyone is ur friend.Hence having a particular person u consider boy or girlfriend is irrelevant.
No one is ur boyfriend or girlfriend for that same person has as numerous friends as u cannever imagine.
This is 21st century,wise up and stop trying ur destiny to any one in the name of friend except the person takes u as priority in his/her life and shows it out by working to make u become useful and responsible irrespective of age barrier.
Sex is not friendship.Be wise.

certain questions reveals one's age

What a super story of a lovely babe.He forced himself on u after forcefully aborting ur 3 pregnancies without ur consent.May be u were in another world in the spirit when he was doing the abortion on u without ur consent.And u later found out while doing personal investigation on ur pregnancy that it was missing.And u set him ablaze?A guy who has mother,father and relations just like u? U killed and want to live?Do you know what it takes to raise a male child and train him to the level of at least fending for himself? Do you u know how many years it takes? Davies mother is crying for justice over a small dependent boy that can't even clean himself up after using the toilet for alleged molestation she wasn't even sure of and the internet went agog and u killed a full grown adult that has become useful at least to his parents?and u are talking?Tk ur God jungle justice did not catch up with u immediately But for the rest of ur life,u are worse than d dead,for u will always face justice.
U have no reason whatsoever to take another person's life.U are not an animal.If u don't like how a relationship is going or what someone suggests to u,u can say no or raise alarm.
Murderers cannever escape justice.

Which of them are u talking about? Is it the 3 different guys from Abuja,Lagos or Kano?od the 3 different ladies from Benue,Gombe and katsina?
its high time we examine our conscience.For an unexamined life is not worth living says Socrates the philosopher.

Its the same women that will rush to d internet to post "Don't ever touch a woman no matter what she does".
Don't ever lay ur hand on a woman
The same woman will maltreat her house help up to d level of battery.
The same woman will rush to d internet to condemn corporal punishments for corrective purpose even in schools.
Any way it's only fools that take all garbage of hypocrisy some women post on line.
Do u know that in a case like this,the husband o
if caught will also face the music?

Which president?When we are still in 2021?That's how people become distracted easily and starts talking and pursuing shadows even when they are not sure of eating today.
Leaving the present reality and living in tomorrow's euphoric uncertainty leaves one acutely shortchanged to the point of not living to see the imaginary tomorrow.

Which president?When we are still in 2021?That's how people become distracted easily and starts talking and pursuing shadows even when they are not sure of eating today.
Leaving the present reality and living in tomorrow's euphoric uncertainty leaves one acutely shortchanged to the point of not living to see tomorrow.

Aside this,it is high time govt does sth about internet porns in Nigeria since so many kids now access such immoral contents.Unfettered access to internet porn is the highest form of child abuse as it robs kids of the opportunity of enjoying childhood innocence and lead them into desires that affect them negatively psychologically,emotionally and health wise.Porn causes a terrible emotional and psychological damages to kids.Damages that are very difficult to heal
When our kids all become sexual perverts as a result of porn,do we still have future?

Apart from paedophile sexual molestations where men sleep with underage girls and women sleep with small boys/teen boys,there are no cases of rape in Nigeria.
Any woman from 18years and above can't be raped except at gunpoint.If u sense rape,what should u do?You raise ur voice and shout for help and the people around will come to your rescue.And even the potential rapist will flee once u shout.Since I was born till now,I have never heard any woman shouting "rape! rape!" somebody help either in the neighbourhood or elsewhere.The first time I heard a girl shouting at night in a nearby loney school,I flashed my torchlight and saw a guy holding a girl tightly.I approached them and asked the girl what the problem was.Guess what,she looked at me and said "nothing".I quickly left.On turning,two of them were kissing each other.And I went my way.So,there is nothing like rape only in Nigeria.

Still wandering where these monies are coming from when we are still applying for foreign loans.I plead with the federal govt to pls focus on equipping our health facilities,start paying teachers handsomely to revive education and stabilise power sector.Let govt kickoff with one of these,perfect it and see how it will win the hearts of Nigerians.

That woman u are ready to fight whoever draws close to her out of jealousy,if u knew the number of dicks that have passed through her and keep passing,u will run with ur legs touching ur back.
No wonder our forefathers said"That it's only a woman that knows who her real child's father is".

New broom they say perhaps sweeps better.

God of Elijah!!!!!

At least I have never heard that workers were owed in Anambra since Obiano became their governor.May God bless u sir.Unlike in most states where ordinary payment of salary is like climbing a mountain.

Feminists would tell u that women are weaker gender who should always be pampered by men.And some men as soon as they marry will boycott all relationships with their brothers,sisters,father and mother claiming to have found their missing rib based on the advice of their wives.Yes,your new wife if u are not wise will make u fight ur siblings to protect her interest,and when she sees u have no family back up,she will rise against u and u will have no one to run y
to.Thats why many men now reside in beer parlours.
Our culture has it that a wife in the family belongs to all,same as a child and not one person.For those who are not yet married be wise for u are going to experience it and if not properly handled will lead to ur early grave.

The rational part of a teen's brain(frontal cortex) is not developed and cannot until the age of 25 or so says the medical scientists and experts.
Thats why when a young person is insulting an elderly,he will often look at him,nods and walk away without saying a word.Experience contributes a lot to maturity.And some gain experience indirectly through voracious reading.
That one has grown big in the body is very far from maturity .
Avoid sticking to any particular person as the love of ur life except there is a commensurate reciprocal.
For he who does not make u a special person in his/her life (not for sex,for sex is not love) does not deserve same from you
The words of our forefathers are words of wisdom.The wise hears and gets wiser.While the foolish hears and keeps arguing until he ends in the grave

I am surprised to hear people condemning the alleged proposed action of the federal govt.During the first lockdown when govt was planning on safe reopening of schools,almost every one was condemning the action on nairaland including students who claimed they were using the period to make a lot of money and that school is scam.Mothers most of who would never wear nose masks unless they sighted a taskforce group were ranting online that even if govt reopened schools that they won't realese their kids stating that it's only a mother who doesn't love her kids that would allow them start school amidst pandemic and that the lives of their kids is more important than school.
A lot of people cursed Boss Mustapha for planning to kill their kids with school resumption amidst pandemic.
Now,govt has said,obey covid 19 protocols and there is almost zero compliance.
Even if schools are reopened and there is full compliance with covid 19 rules at school,what about parents of those school kids who having thrown caution to the wind loiter up and down in markets,churches and other public gatherings with no nose mask.Wont they infect their kids (,if they contract the virus)when they are back from school?
What is difficult in everyone obeying covid 19 rules? or is it meant for schools,banks and govt agencies alone?
The same parents who don't obey covid 19 rules are saying,open schools with school compliance to covid 19 rules while they themselves don't care about the rules and at the same time claim they love their kids more than God.HYPOCRISY.
What the govt should do is this:Let there be aggressive enforcement of the rules for all with penalties using task force agents that should be set up by every village/community in Nigeria.
Schools then should be reopened based on same guideline.Even if schools remain shut,the students at home are still mingling in public places with their parents without abiding by the rules and so the rate of infection will keep multiplying.
Nigerians can only obey rules when consequences of defaulting are still strictly enforced down to the grassroot.

Transportation is not a problem in Nigeria.There is no place anyone wants to travel to in Nigeria that he/she can't travel to.No one is complaining about transportation.If Nigerian govt. wants to touch the lives of all Nigerians,it should invest the humongous money for railway projects on equipping our health facilities massively to meet the global standard.Let govt also invest on Education,Electricity to ensure 24hour electricity,Road construction and skill acquisition training for the youths.Govt can start with Education,and next health.Nigerians will really be very happy with this govt if these become govt focus and not railway which is one of the oldest means of transportation like NITEL.

And where will the money come from now that Nigeria lives on borrowed money and it's still borrowing?I suggest d vaccines are sold as other drugs in the pharmacies and hospitals at subsidised rate instead of plunging the country into another problem of indebtedness that might soon lead to owing of workers.

Looks like what bokoharam and bandits do to loot amoury .God protect ur officers.

If u see a woman that cares for a kid that is not hers as if she were hers,drop ur cap for her.Generally,it is rare for a woman to love and care for a kid that is not hers.Its only a woman who fears God that can do that.Forget women hypocrisy as u see them smile and try to play with kids that are not theirs.

Look at what a wife tells the husband over a weighty issue like infidelity:"Do your worst".So many Nigerian men are really suffering and smiling and dying silently.And the worst part is that the wife whom the husband's suffers daily to maintain will continue to do that which annoys the husband most j(even when she gains nothing from the illicit relationship)just to ensure the husband develops high bp and dies.The same woman sits at the front seat in the church to pray loudly and speak in tongues during Sunday service and kneels down to greet pastors whom they call Daddy.

Based on the scripture:aAll who are sexually immoral will not inherit the kingdom of God unless they repent.These are:Fornicators,adulterers,homosexuals,lesbians,masturbators,and those who have sex with animals.

For what purpose?Perhaps for sex .Know u that sex is overrated and there is nothing mysterious or special about it.However,for the immature mind who has seen little in life,sex seems to be a great thing,but after sex what next? And no amount of sex can make u feel satisfied rather u will be seeking for more options ,styles and variations which will sap all ur life energy.It really pays to start working on self control.Tell urself, there is nothing I can't survive without except God.
Even with two wives or more,as time passes,what makes ur woman attractive to u in the first place vanishes,and it's only true love and discipline that would still keep u stuck to her in terms of intimacy.So don't be surprised when u see men cheat,and same for married women.Even ur wife will be using sex denial to get back at u over a minor misunderstanding when she knows ur whole life is on sex.Dont be surprised,that couples stay for months without touching each other just b/c of a little misunderstanding.Anyway u may not understand now until u marry.For many youths think marriage is just all about sex and sex all about marriage without restriction.
The temptation to explore other bodies,the imagination and fantasy of what the experience will look like.perhaps different from that of ur spouse is always there in marriage and not only among the unmarried people.
Be wiser,life is deeper than u see it,and prevention is better than cure.The bottom line is self control and not making anything indespensable in ur life apart from God.

One thing many fail to understand is that military is a well organized body.There are hierarchies in the army.And their commanders on top do not condone abuse of civilians.If u are sure it's a case of abuse,find out the barrack they came from and with their names report to their GOC, bet me,the way the case will be handled will make u come to cherish the army chiefs.

Never Mrs madam!.If actually you want justice,u can only get it from social media.Upload more videos,for media users need more evidences before they can give you justice.Raise your voice all the more for all media users are preparing to give you and your son justice.If u leave the matter for the court,how can Deeper Life Church be made to fold? What of the main accused who is already found guilty by many on social media? I mean Rev WF Kumuyi !!!.Are u also allowing the court to judge him? Don't u ever oh! brave fighter woman the lioness.Dont listen to the police,the court,or the doctors for they know nothing oh wisest woman on earth.Quickly upload more videos about Deeper life and Rev WF Kumuyi.Bet me the brave lioness and strongest woman ever,social media will give u and ur son Davis justice over Deeper life and it's founder and ensure they pay u N100.000 000 and order Deeper life church nationwide to close down.Yes social media will do it for u and ur son.

Trump is a nice man.But let's not forget that he has been part of wwe for long .And wrestlers by the nature of their career act with rage,domination and anger both in words and action.u need to watch some of the wwe shows he was involved in to understand him better.He even performed beyond my expectation as usa president being a wrestler.Tk God he hasn't lost control and knocked some one out with wwe moves in the white house.
It's like making wwe undertaker the usa president and expecting him to be gentle and kind.
Fury and vengeance run in their blood.

What might be the reason the boy at his age would be emitting the smell of faeces? Does it mean he can't clean his anus himself?I think other private schools should learn their lessons and stop being too tolerant and accommodative.If it is in a govt school,the teachers would send a student who can't clean his anus parking once other students can't bear it.That of bed wetting might be tolerated but poo is a capital no.Public school teachers will tell the parents to go and find out the medical cause of the problem,and if not well treated,they won't allow the student back.I don't know if it's because of high fees private schools collect that they tolerate a lot both from students and parents to their own detriment.Now the poor teachers are being charged for neglect.

This calls for celebration.It is not easy to give birth to one baby let alone many at once.Chidren are blessings from Allah/God.They are our future hope who will take care of us when we are old.Thats a mega blessing of the new year 2021.Congrats madam.

What of the 100,000000 the woman said should be given to her? And the accused boys have been released to their parents? So which money will the woman be using to pursue the court case which of course will not end any time soon,as we all know full well that court case takes a lot of money as adjournment continues for a long time? Now the video posting woman must have realised that that social media where before now all the accused had been convicted and sentenced,is only a platform of saying whatever one thinks for every dick and harry who has a phone and at least 1mb of data or even zero balance with free operamini browsing.Court and it's processes of processing cases go according the stipulations of the law and not based on public comments or opinions.Again did u notice that Dr wf Kumuyi was not mentioned in court unlike how it has been trending on social media ? The court has the final say .

What of the 100,000000 the woman said should be given to her? And the accused boys have been released to their parents? So which money will the woman be using to pursue the court case which of course will not end any time soon,as we all know full well that court case takes a lot of money as adjournment continues for a long time? Now the video posting woman must have realised that that social media where before now all the accused had been convicted and sentenced,is only a platform of saying whatever one thinks for every dick and harry who has a phone and at least 1mb of data or even zero balance with free operamini browsing.Court and it's processes of processing cases go according the stipulations of the law and not based on public comments or opinions.Again did u notice that Dr wf Kumuyi was not mentioned in court unlike how it has been trending on social media?.

This will not augur well for many state workers.If state independence is to go in that direction,then states should equally be granted full autonomy economic wise,where states would now own fully all mineral resources in their lands,have their own police and army while the federal govt performs ceremonial functions for Nigeria in general.
I that way,it becomes balanced.But if it's not possible,then let the status quo continues.Independence of the states when it comes to determining workers salary structure alone is anti labour.