₦airaland Forum

Everything get advantage and disadvantage, whether marriage or babymama.

Don't let your parent's experience shape your view of marriage, marriage is sweet if you find the right person and you also be the right person

Secondly you seem like a stubborn person who wouldn't want to stay submissive to a man, so take whatever step that works for you.

As you get older, you will discover that this babymama thing get disadvantage, as you get older you will discover that companionship is what matters!

Honda interior na your mate?

Honda best for engine and interior design

backbencher:
It was, that's why even GEJ wanted to remove it.

Oil prices then were sky high under GEJ, so it took some of the edge off, but the amount of money wasted was too too high. To make matters worse, subsidy costs rose under GEJ, which resulted in petrol prices going down from N97 to N87, and which led us to lose money more and more

By 2014, we were taking loans to pay for worker salaries....plus by 2015, when GEJ was handing over, our forex reserves had gone down from 60 billion dollars to 32 billion dollars, and went down to 28 billion in the first 6 months of Bubu (compounded by drops in oil prices begining from 2014 april ), before he removed subsides temporarily, and reversed the decline...for a season.

Typical Buhari stooges, blame GEJ but make excuses for Buhari for same scenario. Thank God we all are suffering the effects of Buhari misrule.

Buhari that have been singing drop of oil price from $100 in 2014 to $30 in 2016 as an excuse for his failure won't say anything now o!

Oil has been selling above $60 since 2017 yet the APC keeps stealing our common wealth while blaming low oil prices.

As someone said above, what's the use of more money in the hands of thieving APC politicians?

It depends on what works for you, if leaving the country will help you make it please do. A lot o Nigerians are still doing well here and ain't thinking of leaving the country except for holidays.

@Op, be more selective next time, even in the face of no job still go for jobs that pays better and adds value to your life. It is better to remain jobless than take some demeaning jobs in this country.

We can learn to help our partner if only we have an open mind and listen to them. Lovingly found out from him reason behind his action, he may be doing that just last longer with you on the bed. Most men last longer in sex after masturbating few hours or a day before sex.
If you are not Ok with this, let him know you both can do it together, after the first round which may not last as required, help him get erection faster for the second. When there is understanding most issues in marriage can be handled without quarrels and letting an outsider know what is going on.

Good luck!

If only Ethiopia can just keep or lost this guy in their country for the remaining 15 months.

let's have good governance for once in the last 8 years.

man is a pain in the ass

How these guys dey fit confuse Oyibo with their fake accent and fake online romance dey surprise me

Oyibos live more in solitary confinement that's why dem dey run dem street like this.

For, Naija one idiot cannot fake what he is not and me go con dey talk to man wey dey form say im be girl for 2 days and I no go discover am.

Las las, oyibos are lonely and sex starved.

beautyhd:
Sexual molestation damages a child forever.

He molested her as a child and she grew up to tow that path that broke her and yet the shameless paedophile and pervert of a father won't let her be.

How some men do have sexual fantasies on their daughters do baffle me.

Who told he molested her when she was young?
Both the father and daughter are depraved and of easy virtue.

Btw, she is on a public platform selling nudes and his father is free to sign up and pay for the service.
Wasted generation.

Dankovich1:
Who come be the award winning paparazzi photographer wey come dey take photos instead of bringing out the poor child immediately

Read it again

he noticed the boy was silent, then came down discovered him under the car

The dad could have snapped the pictures himself while the lad was crawling out

So that Jangebe forest, army and policy no dey enter there?
Funny how Buhari's government knows where these terrorists resides but refuse to flush them out.
If this is happening in the East, by now the army would be combing the forests.

The North is on self destruct mode!

I see one angry player not happy with the way the robot issued red card carrying it and throwing it away.

I see hackers tampering with the decisions of the robot to favor their team.

This I have seen

While they were working we were here praying!

The Diff is clear

This one na skit or church drama...

not real

blinking001:
Confused party. Nigerians know better now. PDP is a fraudulent party that houses criminals, drug barons and theives. Never again shall the destiny of our children and those unborn be handed into the hands of corrupt individuals. Never again shall the PDP be voted into power to stair the affairs of our darling nation Nigeria. Nigerians are wiser now

Which Nigerians are you talking about? The ones APC and Buhari have made their living worse than those in Yemen and Afghanistan?

Compare living now and 2014 and you will know that your party APC is the corrupt and incompetent one here

BTW I am not a PDP loyalist.

Berryli:
Again I ask do the boys above look rich and do they drive exotic cars? Cos from the picture all I see are average looking boys. Need I remind you when these evil people lack 'girlfriends' to use then everyone is equally at risk. My focus is that you people do not even condemn their acts but rush to condemn only the victims. Stop being biased

Even for the ones that have not 'hammered' the signs are there. In all my responses I have condemned the activities of these yahoo boys but my point is that the ladies should shine their eyes, be more vigilant and not be taken by lust for money. Most of them that date these G-boys knows they are yahoo boys but because of love for money they become preys in their hand. A word is enough for the wise!

Berryli:
actually it is your entire family that will fall victim of ritualism. Did I applaud her for even dating a teenager? But at least I am bold enough to say the blame goes both ways. How about the five year old that got killed by her proprietor among many other non relationship related killings. Do we blame the victims too? Some of you all get a certain kind of excitement seeing news like this just to bash the victims. Are all those who are poor pure and holy? Nobody deserves to be killed in such a gruesome manner

Stop deviating oga, concentrate on the yahoo boys and slayqueens issue here

if a lady is murdered by a regular man she can be excused, but in Nigeria now, everyone knows the signature characteristics of yahoo boys.

Their behaviour, the way they dress, their preferred hairstyle, the way they spend money, driving big cars to school, etc. so any lady that falls prey to them should be blamed. if you are dating a 17 year old boy in 2 hundred level and he spends lavishly on you and your parents do you need a babalawo to tell you he is into fraud or rituals?

Nigerian girls never learn, stay away from G-boys they will not hear. same slay queen will turn down boys who are doing legit work.

A fly that will not hear word follows dead body into the grave!

Berryli:
sometimes I get neauseous reading some comments. Do they look rich to you? Why make it sound like all poor guys pure and holy? Always rushing to blame the victims. The former deputy governors daughter in the west that got killed by her poor boyfriend for ritual nko?

Getat!!!

Who is the victim here? the yahoo boys or the greedy young ladies?

Yahoo boys, whether they are already spending money or still trying to make it, young ladies should run away from them.

will you allow your young sister date a 17 year old yahoo boy? whether he has made it or still hustling one day your sister might be the next sacrificial lamb.

Not all of us in this country are without conscience!

When will all these girls learn?

Fear and run from any teenage young man in Nigeria spending money and buying benz

Girls will never learn, Nigerian girls will never learn!!!

Money is not everything!

Good for her. She get luck him no use am for ritual

A 28 year old should know that everything is not about money. Self respect is key.

As stupid as it sound it's somewhat right. Most women become toxic to their men in marriage.
For men to manage their wife's nagging and troublesome attitude, a side chick may come in handy.

Women should learn that all what a man needs in a marriage is peace of mind. Give it to him and he won't look outside.

Northerners have been terrorising this country since 1900 .

Please break this country now!

Carlyboi:
Why call him a mor.on/imbeci.le tho?don’t you think that’s kinda harsh and excessive?cos dude didn’t choose to be in that condition in his volition.

modified. apologies

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And some persons are celebrating rice pyramids in 2022?

SMH

It's not really about unforgiveness. It's about who pays the bill that wields more power in a marriage.

Most times because most women depends solely on the man for upkeep and sustenance they have less bargaining power even when the man misbehaves.

In a house where the woman makes enough money as the man, she may not take nonsense when the man misbehaves.

Aidejay:
he apologized too early.

that is admission and it can be used against him in a child custody hearing.

firstly is he sure the child is his?

The apology is about righting the wrong in cheating on his wife not in admission of owning the baby

The paternity of the baby is a different stroke entirely

May God forgive and restore him.

And we are here celebrating rice pyramids

Mehn, we tired of this shithole

Oga Sacrifice

Make you sef turn producer or Director na?

Abi you no like sex for role?

Hustle o, make you no dey collect knock on top of crumbs from a junior.

Forget money!

While other equally qualified pastors are sent to Ikorodu branch

We dey take this repentance like say God is one wicked Deity.

Somethings are better left the way they are, ask God for forgiveness and move on. Old things are passed away!

Even the pastor that advised him may have cheated before in his life time but hasn't restituted for all.

Be wise brothers in Christ.

Nigerian pastors sometimes makes being a Christian difficult, so many rules as if we are saved by works.

I doubt if God is this difficult!