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Hey, let me start by saying, "I'm so damn proud of you". If for anything at all, your stand and position right from the start. All those things you have noticed are signs of red flags, my sister, just JAPA! Do not make any attempt to suggest that you can manage him. Just leave this boy, in a man's body. He simply wants to sample you and once he succeeds with that, you are done with it. He will toss you away. Maintain your dignity and self-respect, a moral value so scarce these days among ladies, by walking away from his early drama. My opinion though.

Story for the gods.... Police are the same set of breed in every country. Not surprised at all.

Keep your nose out of other people's business. Let God deal with those things that are far beyond your control. Either maternal brothers or maternal whatsoever, ask God to lead you on the path to follow. Remember the reason you are living with them in the first place.
My piece of advice to you.

mexxy1:
I beg you in the name of whatever you believe in, DO NOT SELL THIS VEHICLE TO ANYONE.

IT IS A DEATH TRAP!

Thank you.

Really? Can you please, kindly enlighten me? What do you mean by "it is a death trap"? Please.

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I can not for a second be sorry or pity you. You have lost it, completely. You are an orphan yet you were grinding and having this canal knowledge of your so-called bestie, what do you think will be the outcome? Promotion or award? Anyway, this is the end product, my brother!
Welcome to fatherhood, you dare not think of what I think you might be thinking. You have committed enough sin and do not go farther than that. Just take responsibility, and admit to yourself that you are a father as it is. The earlier this sinks into your mind, the earlier you start getting your priorities right. There could not be any other way God wants to format your thinking other than this way. If you escape this, you will not learn any lesson. Welcome to fatherhood.

My brother, I'm just reading this, I can not be to feel pity and at the same time bad for you in particular. I will be quick about this.
To start with, the fact that you asked her by showing her proof of all these allegations and she denied it says a lot. Blaming economy hardship and four kids to fend for is not enough reason to go about messing herself up. The danger here is just too many to mention, aside from infecting herself with STDs, she will later rob it off you too. You also become the joke among friends, neighbors, and her friends. These are just the physical, the spiritual aspect of her atrocities outweighs the physical. A woman that indulges in such an act does not wish her husband well.
I'm an advocate of forgiveness because we are meant to forgive and draw such sinners back with love. But with this current case, my brother, seek separation, at least for now. Let her folks know about her act and atrocities for record purposes. And if you reconcile and mend this issue, give her a standing order on what you will do then move to another location, very important.
I wish you well in all of these, may God help you.

Please Romans 12 verses 1-2. The purity of our bodies as Christians can not be overemphasized. It must and should be preached to the upcoming generation the benefits and spiritual morals that are attached to it. Virginity is a thing to be proud of. That we made a youthful mistake due to ignorance and lack of Knowledge should not be the case for those coming after us. Let us therefore teach, explain and preach this very need to keep our bodies holy and acceptable to God, this is our only reasonable service.

Where are the other members of Theather Practitioners of Nigeria? Dino Maleye aka Araparegangan! He ought to be there to complete what he and the rest started. It is dancing time.

Keep whining yourself, Oga Ade!

As much as I do not want to judge or pass any form of a verdict on this very matter. They may have innocently and ignorantly committed this act, in view of their class and position here in Nigeria. Allow me to say this, our recklessness can not be condoled in some places. Our recklessness and attitude to some sensitive issues like this will not be tolerated and we can not continue to export our shenanigans on matters like this for the world to see. We will be regarded as reckless and unserious people until we begin to do the right thing.

Our system and government style of governing promotes lawlessness. This action has eroded every aspect of our being as a nation. We need to sit down and ask ourselves this question, can we continue to act like this?
May God see to their matter and answer them, accordingly. They are in God's hand now.

The long and short of whatever I might need to say is this, go for Toyota Sienna. It is safer and easy to dispose of if it is well managed.

profsomebody:
It's one thing for someone to have an affair due to them being in a long distance relationship (let's forget about if that is right or wrong for now), but it'sa whole different level when the do it PUBLICLY. That's insultive, IMO. People who know the husband would be looking at him like "eeyah, poor man". Gosh!

An eye for an eye makes the world go blind! Forgiveness is key here. After all, who is without sin? Ain't we sinners ourselves? Let the world talk and complaint, it is in our nature. He must show her love and draw her back from those hungry sex predators.

premierlead:
Problem share is half solved, I believe we can be our brother's keeper here. As I share it here I am of the belief that the burden is partially shed from my chest. My chest is heavy before now and I am not the type who raise hand on women

You have not done anything wrong by sharing this anyway.
From the sound of your message, your absence may have caused this. I'm not trying to rationalize her action, it is wrong. However, give her a second chance after you must have given her a thorough warning and let your mother be aware of her misdeed just to keep an eye on her. However, caution is needed here, if your mother is the type that often do not overlook past deeds without mentioning it then I will advice you do not get her involved. But someone must be aware of her two-timing. And please, try and forgive her.

Congratulation to him on his safe arrival and to his family for the reunion. My advice, return back to your base U.S. the earlier the better.

You seriously need help, truth be told. From the tone of your message, you sound nonchalant! You are not ready to be a father yet you went on a sex romp, from your statement 2ce a week. That is at least 8 times within a month! I'm sure if you deploy the same energy in looking for a job, you won't be in this equation. What do you think the outcome will look like? Every free gift comes with a price and consequences especially when not handled with care. Imagine your sister in this situation, what would be your stand/position? My brother, you are the owner of this pregnancy, the earlier you accept this fate the better. Go and tell your parents, this will only set your senses and make you get your priorities right.

Cheerycherry:
Good evening family landers, I created this account because of this and I need advice from people that have been married for a while.

I've been married for almost 3 years now and we were in a relationship for more than 6 years before then.

Since I married my husband, I've noticed that he's an emotional cheat so to speak. One time I stumbled upon a chat with a girl saying things like if I catch you I will wound you with d ick.

When I bring it up he will tell me he was joking and even swear with his life that he will never cheat on me he's just joking.

Earlier this year, I stumbled upon his chat with a girl who I happened to know as well, a very young girl sending his shirtless pics and asking her if she knows how to ride d ick well if she can kiss and suck his whatever well.

Asides this, he sent her money up to 13,000 in the space of a week while he kept telling me he had no money and I was managing my personal money to run stuff.

He apologised and said its because I don't kiss him when we have s ex and he didn't even intend meeting the girl that it was him catching cruise.

This week again I stumbled upon his chat with another girl, he has known this girl for a while tho and I've met her too. He sent her a message saying Je ki n do e kara e bale in yoruba which means let me f uck you let your body calm down. I've been mad since I saw this one cos he apologised and afterwards said he was just joking.

I'm tired of the disrespect the whole nonsense brings to me and I'm considering leaving. I have a well paying job, I take care of my personal expenses and send money to my parents and siblings myself and we have a child together.

It's not s ex cos we have sex not less than 2-3 times a week; very satisfying s ex.

I need inputs from married people please.
We have an ongoing building project together which we are both sponsoring 50:50. I'm not an uptight person at all, I talk, I make jokes, I'm not boring!

My dear sister,
Please get a seat and listen carefully to what I'm about to say. 80% of men cheat, it is their DNA. I'm a man, I have been married for about 15 years. I travel a lot before and after I got married, all work related.It was a perfect opportunity to get laid. My boss was not helping either. He offered me this opportunity to get laid even when I'm not interested, all expense paid for. My Ex-boss was a chronic womanizer and a chief priest when it comes to women's affairs. That rubbed off on me over the period I was working with him. Undue influence. Check his circle of friends. And change some if need be. Keep an open communication with him, tell him what you might resolve to if this act of his continue. Ask him how he will feel if he found you in similar act!
If you leave him right now, it will not change a damn thing! My wife saw and noticed all these too with me, she stood by me and changed me to a better person. Because the next guy could be brutal and worse than this current guy. Rather, sit up and be determined to make your marriage work, by all means necessary crook or by the truce. Don't you walk away because there are many consequences to that action. You can win him over with love.

Nothing again comes to me as a surprise in this country. Due to this sort of judgment and pronouncement, we witness a high level of impunity and competition to outdo themselves when it comes to embezzlement by those saddle with public funds. All they get is just a slap on their wrist and a pardon to go and sin no more. For this country to be clean and sane, we must put deterrent punishments in place such as capital punishment. Until then, it will be business as usual for our public office users. This country has truly fallen!

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funkmrflexx:
I ended the relationship with My ex due to her bad characters. And then I later got married.
While we were dating I wanted to get my ex a place for her to stay due to d fact Dat she doesn't have anywhere to go when she graduates.
Both of her parents are divorced and remarried with kids. She can't go back to her father's house because he harrases her sexually and his wife his not welcoming. She can't go to her mother's house cus her stepfather won't agree. During d time we were dating she was staying with me for this reason but as soon as she got into school her character changed so I ended it all.
Now think of her predicament I'm thinking of getting her d house I promised so as for her not to go back to her dad's house. I have the money to do it that's not a problem.

I'm still having second thoughts though. Abi Make I just use my money package myself

Which 2nd thought, run abeg!


Why can't you just stir away from trouble? I don't seem to understand. You have said "goodnight" why are you asking what will be served as dinner?
My brother leave trouble alone, God has saved you from one trouble, do not send an invitation to another one. Give her the money to get the house and not necessarily get the house yourself then move on. Soon, she will invite you over to come and see the painting and from there other things will come up!
Go your way my brother,biko!

TheOldGods:
We have been dating for a while now. Been coming to my house and my parents knows her. Normally she visits and sleeps over and ofcourse because she is my guest ,I'll have to give her food etc.


So today I decided to be different. I told her I was hungry and if she was, ofcourse she hurried and said yes, dresses up and jumped in my lexus. I just smiled, and started the car and we drove to a restaurant.

Before we got down from the car, I told her that I don't want to spend more than 3k on the meal between the both of us, and I told her to handle it, which she said fine, and split the fees to 1500 each. She got her food and a huge chicken which everything was 1500 naira on her end, and I got swallow which was about 1050 naira on my end. And the total money was 2550 naira. Then suddenly my girlfriend told me she also wants plantain, that the money is not yet upto 3k. That it must reach 3k. I was shocked because, if we were married then she can't help me save money when I tell her let's cut down cost. I thought she would even be happy that she saved me money and now we didn't send upto that 3k. But wow.

The waiter wanted to take the food and add the plantation of 450, but I refused and told her to collect her payment as we were done ordering.

My so called girlfriend then got angry and decided to seat somewhere far away from me, and we didn't see each other till I was done eating, although she waited for me. To my surprise she didn't eat that food, she packaged it back in a takeaway bag, and kept it for me. I asked her why she didn't eat the food she ordered by herself which was already 1500, as we agreed, and she said she won't eat it, and I took the food back. I ate the food myself with the chicken.

Right now, I don't want to take this relationship serious. Did I do the wrong thing by not allowing her spend the remaining money and making it 3k? Which ofcourse was the remaining money from my own food.?

I don't know your tribe but it's not important here. However, I will suggest you touch your head and say to yourself “my head is there”! YOU NA MAN!
I stand with you. Her senses will be restored after now. My brother, go and play, abeg. �

Lawlab254:
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Svlla:
We know naw

Where we go na him self Dey follow. Who he can Dey warm? Abeg nuke, e go first reach una before us.

Continue. At the rate you’re going, it is very clear, you will make heaven. Just stay on this path, you are close to redemption road! Wonders shall never end.
So many people desire to have and own what you have yet you are toying with yours. If I were you, I will retrace my steps and return back to my normal life before issues comes up. My word of advice.

What a waste?
And I assumed their folks will be proud of these ones?!

With 1.5m here in Nigeria, that is a whole lot. However, if you will consider a few other things like peace of mind, security of lives then property and inflation, it is better you earn your 4k pounds steady and invest then stay in this country. In my own opinion, anywhere but this country. Period!

It is called "GRACE", the unmerited favor of God. Very rare yet still very much available. Let one locate me too, Lord!

9ja, na wa!
Anything wey enter una hand go just die. Dem for just leave the thing for bush make him dey waka about nau! I'm sure the poor thing died as a result of hunger, food meant for the elephant somebody for don pack am go him house. This country,chai!
But what do I know?

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Hello sir,
As much as I'm not an advocate of separation, I will suggest you go alone. The handwritings are there on the wall for you to see. If you can not on your own speak sense into her while you are here what is the assurance you will be able to handle her once you get over there? My brother, maintain your sanity, go alone. Come home for visit. When you notice signs of maturity and level-headedness then take her with you then. Some people are not just mature for certain things, forget their age. That is my own opinion. Do think for once you can tame a tiger, wait til hunger set in!