₦airaland Forum

PrimadonnaO:
People don't do runs to survive. They do runs because they're greedy and innately irresponsible.

You've not seen daughters of politicians prostituting?

They see it as fun. Their usual Moto is I am fun to be with.

The only girl I will fight for is my sister and mother and my future children.

Even my future wife will fight for herself.

Don't carry girls matter for head. A girl will tell you that a particular man is disturbing her. I see that as an eye service.

You will be surprised that she will be going on a date with that same guy she reported to you.

If you want to marry her, let her handle it herself. Fighting for a girl about a particular guy, or trying to protect her away from a particular guy will make her start liking the guy due to her inner most curiosity which she will want to satisfy at some point along the line.

How did the lecturer get her number? She gave it to him herself to the extent that he messaged her on WhatsApp. In essence, they have been chatting on WhatsApp.

The only reason he reported the lecturer to you is maybe because you've promised her marriage and she wants to make herself worthy of you as your future wife.

Promising a girl marriage will make her live with you with lots of pretenses just to make you see her as a good girl.

She knows how to handle things with the lecturer to stop communication without involving you.

akankemi1:
Estate land( like adrons home,revolution plus e.t.c ) is just the best. might be more expensive but usually no issues.

pray this gets resolved quickly

You meant it's way better to purchase a land in an estate? Is it true that estate land don't have issues like what the op is facing?

Mstravelindiva:
No I’m an American citizen so I have a US passport. My husband is Nigerian, and still has his Nigerian passport, however, he was able to travel to Mexico easily.

BUT, I’ll be honest, I never knew the power of a passport until my husband began traveling with me. It became VERY clear that not all passports are created equal or hold the same weight.

Exactly.

Cousiim:
Please guys, I am in a serious dilemma, I got msc offers for both cybersecurity and data science. I'm in a serious state of confusion as my brother and some close friends say cybersecurity better buh I feel like data science is. Pls advice me so that I can accept one of these offers ASAP.

cc zendmann1 : mackynaija

Go for cyber security. It pays higher and less competitive.

You see why it's good to possess a first world class passport? It gives you access to travel to many countries easily.

This is definitely not with Nigeria passport or is it?

egopersonified:
Op how can ordinary 1995 be 26 years ago?

It be like say you didn't study maths in primary school.

2021-1995 is what?

Nuelito:
Lwkmd.....I know why I said so...some matters are not handled that way

What's the gain of joining a cult? Forming super man when you know your freedom is at stake.

There are herdmen there. Why can't the cultist go and rescue us from the hands of herdsmen?

That I ask every day. That's where they will be more useful. Not constituting nuisance to innocent people on the street.

Some of them are just working corps. Why join what won't bring you money? If they are being paid millions I will understand. But signing your death warrant just to form super man to innocent people is foolishness.

When quarrel start they will start killing themselves. Some take to stealing and all form of atrocities.

Why not do better things with your life. Why join something that will shorten your lifespan?

A word is enough for the wise for those that still belong.

DEMZEE:
Only weak men use their wives has financial backup plans


Only weak men feel their wives should support the home financially

Only weak see men and women as equals

This is why it is we men that are spoiling our women.

Have you forgotten the initial reason why God created a woman for a man.

Take your mind back to the Garden of Eden. What was the initial reason why God created a woman for Adam? He saw that the man was lonely and he reasons it will be cool to make him a supporter.

What does a supporter in that context mean? You mean if you as a man has a wife who is earning very well and you are still struggling financially, you won't allow your wife to contribute to the running of the home? Easier said than done until you experience it.

If a man wants to prove headship to a woman, it is not with finance. Struggling men whom their wives are earning way better need the supports of their wives or else they will be choked with so many responsibilities. What will your wife be using her money for in this case? To be dashing it out to her sugar boy whom she may be cheating on you with why you are killing yourself shouldering all the responsibilities in the home just to prove you are the man of the home?

Every man needs his wife support financially, especially those that are still struggling. That's why it's always been advised that a man should not rush into marriage cuz we've been brainwashed to believe that only men should shoulder all the responsibilities in a home whether their wives earn better than them or not.

Don't kill yourself with responsibilities if you know your wife can still help sort out some stuffs at home. That's how marriage was made to be. To support each other not to leave all the responsibilities to the man alone.

That's why some men have nothing to account for, no investment, no single property to their names simply because they want to prove that they are the men of their homes why their wives are having numerous properties all around.

Don't be deceived. Anything can happen. Let your wife support you as a man in the little way she can in the running of the home. It is only men who wants to be controlling their wives that always want to kill themselves with responsibilities in the home, just so they prove that they are the men of the home. That won't still make her respect you if you don't know how to handle your wife as a man.

To make a woman respect you goes beyond just shouldering responsibilities of the home all alone as a man.

emmnprince:
You're not far from the truth!

But wait! Should we attribute their dependent mentality to our forefathers of olden days who made women house materials? And isn't not a generational thing that was transferred from mother's to daughters?

Of course, you are right. It is the culture we've developed over the years. In the olden days, it is believed that a man is always the bread winner of the house. This has made so many women feel so relaxed that they feel no need contributing to the running of the house.

The man shoulders everything. Even in this twenty first century when some women have started fighting for equal rights with men, they still don't feel the need to assist men in the running of the home financially.

That notion of only the man should run the home financially is mostly predominant here in Nigeria.

A couple of women are waking up in some other parts of the world. Women now assist men in running the home financially. But our women are still far behind in that aspect.

They don't believe in working to assist the man. Some feel so reluctant to work. They want to be full time house wives without contributing a dime to the running of the home. And the few that work, they hide their money from their husbands.

Saw a thread yesterday when a man never knew his wife had been earning fat salary for good 6 yrs they've been married and the wife had been pretending to be earning small salary leaving everything for the man to take care of.

Let's put some of the blames on our forefathers so to say.

Savage8563:
How about POF ?? I heard you will provide the amount that will cover the whole of your stay in Belgium and not just one year

Of course you will provide POF but not really the whole 3yrs. If you can provide 2yrs that's cool. Cuz u can be working while schooling to pay bill.

That's how they are running it if you follow Basalt thread that school in Germany, he is schooling and working to cater for his bills.

I was surprised when he said he only registered 1 course in his present semester just so he could have time to work.

Unlike here in Nigeria where students do 8 to 12 courses in a semester.

Sniper101:
Reno is right sha

I was wooing a Babe I met on SM today, asking her to come around for me to know her better and stuffs like that.
this lady just told me point blank, that she knows what I want but that what she she actually wants is Money.
so I asked her if she's into 'runs'
she said "not really. I just want a relationship. I need who will take care of me".
guys! can you imagine this?
is going into a relationship now a means of survival to Naija females all over

I sha asked her to come around let's talk abt it.
she came, I did what I had to do
and then dropped her off,
with a little something for part-time sustenance.


PS: Bitchés are Leeches.

That's their lifestyle. Besides what's SM?

tete7000:
You are definitely one of his foolish followers, one of those totally devoid of brain but who would rather masturbate on whatever Remo says, whether true or false. If you understand what truly love is, you wouldn't cae about how much you invest in others to show them how much you love them, without expecting anything in return. You foolishness is borne from the fact that you always think you must receive in return when you give and thus lose the essence and joy of giving,.

Forget about love my brother. No woman loves you except your mother and God. What you call love is just a woman being with you just for the benefits she get from the relationship.

Men that believe women love them do suffer alot in the hands of women. They act like fools even if the girl is stepping on them. They cry like babies, beg and crawl all the time for a girl just because of their emotional imbalanced.

Do your love for a woman count? It doesn't. If you like love a woman from now till tomorrow. Buy her all the gifts in the world my brother, if she feels nothing for you, she will just be using you for her personal selfish gratifications.

The love a woman has for you is what counts and you won't know that if you start with always spending on her. She will still go and bleep another guy that doesn't spend a dime. Be wise if you are a guy.

But I doubt. You must be a female.

emmnprince:
In summary, let the unmarried women learn and develop the habit of taking care of themselves and their bills. To achieve that, they must develop an independent mentality, learn and develop a skill(s) and earn through the skill(s).


Someone close to me just asked if prostitution is a skill. Well, I leave that question for Mosdii and Slawormiir to answer.

Exactly. Majority are so relaxed and jobless. Ask any lady what are you into at the moment, and they will tell you nothing. Seriously? Nothing and you ain't even making plans to find something to do?

If ladies can stop depending on guys for survival, relationship will be sweet. But no, they will want a guy to spend all his money on them.

Even those guys that are making peanuts and still spending it on their girls all in the name of being in relationship, I sympathize with them. They don't know they are just being used by those lazy girls who don't want to work. They have all turned to runs as a means of survival.

How long will they continue in that line of life?

I respect those girls who are working hard for themselves. Very few of them. The majority are just so lazy.

They don't want to work even if you want to teach them something that will fetch them money. They won't want to learn.

All they do is rely solely on their p**sies as the only means of survival.

Others are hoping they will one day land a rich guy who will be so foolish to marry them and shoulder all their responsibilities.

daddymummy:
Exactly.

But this one you are saying, men would not hear.

Some men may even hate you for saying so.

Men are so brainwashed by the society so much so that some of them even believe that if they don't spend on a woman who may not even be his girlfriend/wife, they have failed in life.

Men are so conditioned by the society to the extent that they believe if they make a little money today,a woman must eat part of the money.

That is why you see a brick layer who just got paid for his day's work, the next thing you know,he goes to visit an ashawo.

Not because he feels like sleeping with a girl, but because he is looking for a girl to give some money.

It is how the society molds men.

Although it also has advantages because it would make a man to give out money which is good.

Giving is good.


The disadvantage is that it creates an entitlement mindset in women.

It even reaches a point that most women would not appreciate you for giving to them because they believe it is your responsibility to give to her.

Some women believe that you have not done anything because they believe you were created to serve them.

The best generosity or giving is the one you give to the needy not the one you give to girls.

Locate one orphanage home, go there and reach out to them no matter how small. That's the best way to give not giving to those entitled lazy girls out there.

Seniorwriter:
Not Entirely true....
How can you show you care without spending a little on someone you claim to love.
Howbeit that shouldn't include entitlement demand mentality from any of the two dating.
'Nough said on this.
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@Seniorwriter

A man that is in love is a foolish man. Falling in love as a man is foolishness. It makes you do what you are not supposed to do.

A man who falls in love has given his power to a woman. A woman can step over you cuz you are in love with her and nothing you can do cuz u will cry back to her when she threatens to leave you.

A Sisi type of man is the only man that falls in love. Leave falling in love to women. Your love for a woman doesn't count. Read this and let this be known to you. Your love for a woman doesn't count. It's the one she has for you that counts.

If you like love a woman to the moon and back, if she doesn't feel you, and you think spending on her is what will make her remain loyal to you, you are in a long thing.

As a man, you don't need to fall in love so you won't be reduced to nothing by any lady. Let the lady falls in love with you and let your emotions remain neutral. With that, she won't turn you to her personal puppet who can't do nothing even if she is acting disrespectful to you.

Men that cry over ladies like crying babies do that because they have given their manly power away the very moment they start catching feelings towards a girl. You will observe the moment you declare your love to a girl, you are gone. She will start acting up and showing you different attitudes. She can even go out with another man and there is nothing you can do because you are in love with her. After all you will cry back to her and begging like someone who can't live without her.

Never you fall in love. Remain emotionally neutral and you will find out that any lady you are with will be scared to lose you and not you being scared to lose her.

Your love for a woman doesn't count. Know this today and you will know peace.

Any man who disputes what Reno said is a big bloody maga who doesn't know what to do with his money.

If you want to spend money, there are many orphanage children out there. Why not locate one? Why waste your money on a girl with an incurable spirit of entitlement?

Foolish men will still be spending on those lazy ladies thinking that's love. That same bitch will still go and bleep another man despite all the money you've spent on her.

Fellow men be wise!

To make a girl visit you faster, use something called a bait. That bait will spike her curiosity and interest to put everything aside just to visit you.

I met a girl last year December. Before she visited I have already been giving her some good vibes like how I will go and get chocolates and ice scream ready before she comes as I told her I will spread the chocolates on her lips and lick them off. That boosted her curiosity and was like who is this guy? She has never met a daring guy like this. I must visit this guy.

In fact I was going to use it to set her lips blazing. She got so curious. Fortunately, she loves chocolates and she personally told me to get some ready till she comes. That if I don't see chocolate, I should get the ice scream.

The next day she came. I couldn't even go get it. I simply told her I couldn't get it cuz I couldn't go out. I just sweet mouth her again and gbam everything went down well.

But we've broken up sha cuz she was later getting too addicted and becoming nagging. I simply ghost her. The nagging aspect was a turn off.

Always use a bait if you want any lady to visit you so quick and use sweet words and mystery to increase her interest if not if it just plainly some casual talks, she will never show up.

Now another one is on my neck. I have been looking for ways to make her dislike me. But she is falling in love madly. She tried picking up quarrels with me some days ago and I was like halleluyah, this was what I have been waiting for. I changed it for her by giving her that silent mode. She called and called and called, I didn't pick. She almost blew my phone off with calls. She started texting me so you wanna leave me now?

I told her she caused it na. I just felt pity for her and picked her call the next day.

When dating any girl, remove emotions. They don't care whether you love them or not. Your love for them don't count. It is the one they have for u that counts.

So, always use a bait. For her to be telling you to still be calling her and don't even know when she will visit you, such a girl is about using u to play ball. Strategize and make up a bait to make her come. But from.all.indiciations, you've not really done much on her to see any good reason to visit you.

Get down to work. Vibe, increase her curiosity, boost her interest. Na she go carry her own legs come your house the next day irresp chive of whatever she is doing.

ohiMuk:
I want to stop teaching job and start my own vocational training center, please your advice and knowledge is needed on the way go about it. I have been teaching in private schools for 5years now and nothing to show for it. Though i have a certificate of industrial setting such as soap, cream, paint production etc

Produce and distribute side by side as you are training others. Don't just train, also produce. You won't regret going into soap and paint production to be a major distributor. It's a nice investment. You know why? Cuz people use soap every time. You can come out with your own brand.

melicent:
I'm also interested in this course sir, I got questions for you if you don't mind sir . what is the name of the university? Is age a barrier in applying to the university ? Do I need to present IELTS/TOEFL ? Since the course is taught in English ?

There are many universities, depending on your chosen course. One of the universities is Odisee university of applied sciences, Belgium.

It's not just one university. Your age doesn't matter. The fee is cheap but you must have proof of financial support. The fees is mainly made cheap for international students.

You don't need IELTS or any English test as long as you were taught in English in your sec school.

Mind you, the courses are for undergraduates. Bachelor degree courses.

Godson1988:
,what of Masters program like human Resource management or MBA,what are the requirements for admission,can I get scholarship because I had 4.33/4.50 at my undergraduate level,which cheap school can I apply to, and when is the admission closing.Thanks

They are mostly for undergraduates. Master courses are very expensive. For scholarship, you will have to research that.

Attached are some of the cheap undergraduate courses I found.

Hiploko:
see this as part of the requirement for visa......Proof of financial support during your studies, currently €666 per month OR evidence of a scholarship/bursary which would cover this amount OR a combination of the two,

Is it also allowed for one to study and work?

It's more like scholarship for international students. That's why the amount is that low. But you must have proof of financial support from either family or any means during the duration of your study.

Why not? Have you checked the Basalt thread? You can study and work.

Savage8563:
What are you saying?? No transcript??

Transcript for what? All they need is your sec school testimonial.

kalu61:
Congratulations!!!

Your wife fine. Everything just de moderate but next time grab has ass with confidence in pix 3. It's your property

He doesn't need to display such sexual act in public for the public to see. He can do that when they are in private in the other room.

datola:
Right hand drive. May be she is not based in Nigeria.

Definitely not Nigeria. They are abroad.

They are definitely not in Nigeria. The steering is on the right side of the car.

Queenslander:
oh, thankss.. , 1st question..
Can one work and school in Belgium?
2nd question?
What are the requirements for admission?

Of course. You can work and school.

No stiff requirements. Just your ID (your national ID), international passport and WAESSCE certificate which you will upload as pdf and appropriately named.

Queenslander:
wow, amazing!! I've got so many questions.. please don't be offended!!

Go on.

Gptech:
Different ways, you can go through the security app - data usage - restrict data usage.

Thanks for this.

genius43:
Open Security App scroll down and click data usage, click Restrict Data Usage, scroll down to system apps and click on it scroll to google Playstore and ensure it is ticked Green.

No wonder. You were right. I restricted data usage for Google play store app I didn't know.

I have turned it on. It's now working.

Thanks for your assistance.

Queenslander:
cool,. Is the course taught in English??

Yeah of course.