₦airaland Forum

Seniorwriter:
I use alternative source of power most of the time.
Can't afford to incur loses in my online trades and dealings just because of the epileptic power supply in Nigeria thanks to our past and present clueless political class. I remember some years ago when Fash Holmes said it wasn't Rocket Science.
...i guess it became Metaphysical science whilst he was the Minister & now that his goons are in power.


@Seniorwriter

What alternative power supply do you use?

[quote author=Sanctecosma post=101193513][/quote]Lol. It's good the person is holding himself. If u can hold on. Cuz once u taste the forbidden fruit it will be hard to stay celibate. It is easier for those who haven't to be able to keep themselves.

But once u taste it, I tell u, you will keep tasting it even when u try not to taste it. So, it's definitely easier for those that haven't tasted it to be able to hold on longer than those that have tasted it.

So, I commend you if you are. Just look for one virgin marry if possible.

daveyjay:
She go well, na why she feel say she don arrive.

Ordinary pre degree o

Yansh wise or boobs wise? I am asking for a friend.

mikezuruki:
Hello Everyone.

There is this babe that I have been hanging
out with lately. She is smart and all that. Cool even.

And with time, my interest for her developed. And since I expressed it to her, she has not been taking my calls or replying my messages.

Should I have kept what I feel about her to myself? Did I mess up by telling her how I feel about her?

Please I would like to know from you guys

When asking a girl out, don't express your feelings. Just do it like a master in the act without telling her how you feel. No devaluing of your manliness.

Nothing like I love you so much. I think about you all the time. I just can't concentrate. You rush through my mind every minutes.

The babe isn't picking cuz you've placed yourself below her.

Confessing feelings to ladies make them activate their guards. Just play along. Don't put yourself in any tight corner that will make her manipulate you into fulfilling your love for her.

Cuz if you keep telling a lady how much u love her, her next move will definitely be to bill you. Cuz you've put yourself in a very tight corner with the way you asked her out.

Just ghost her for now. Don't call her if she is no longer picking. Ghost her. She will get back to you by herself.

Entayali:
My younger brother is about to register for JAMB for the second time and my mum insists he must study medicine. What's so special about medicine?

She feels that doctors are rich. I've been trying to convince her. What do I do to help my bro because he doesn't want to study medicine?

Tell her that Doctors are broke in this country. Tell her that the wealthy ones are those into business and enterpreneurs.

Tell her that she should allow your bro study what he is interested in.

Tell her, it's not worth studying medicine in this country cuz Doctors can't be multimillionaires even with a pay of 500k a month.

Tell her if it is about the money she wants your bro to study medicine, that's a failed mission already.

Tell her even consultants don't receive up to 600k a month.

Tell her, studying medicine is a personal interest by the person that wants to study it not by forcing a child to study it so as to get rich.

Those that manage to make reasonable amount of money are doctors that run their own private hospitals. Even at that, they ain't filthily wealthy.

Tell her to allow the boy to study whichever course be loves.

I got to know what sex was all about at the age of 25. Not so many men will be able to keep themselves to that age before eating the forbidden fruit. I commend myself for that. That was some handful of years ago.

Too much expectations. You ain't spreading your tentacles. Not until you've settled down as a man, it's foolish putting all your mind on just one girl. But that shouldn't be the case for ladies any way.

Spin plates. Meet different girls. If one is misbehaving, you won't even notice her shinanigan. You will never feel heart broken if you relate with different ladies.

During this period, you will know the one that truly have your good intent at heart.

Besides, I have a date with one of my ladies today. Let me be preparing. It's actually 2 dates but you know, I can't split myself na.

Stop falling in love and feeling emotional or else, you will see serious something in girls hands.

Brave up and move on. There is nothing there. It's just your emotion betraying you. Don't let yourself down cuz of one babe when there are bunches of them out there.

I feel your pain but brave up and move on.

Medicine is overrated, genuinely speaking from the true sense of it. Students just put in applications for it just for the hype of it. It's not that they are being well paid for the profession here in Nigeria.

Studying medicine in Nigeria is a pure waste of time and useful energy. Some parents are fond of forcing their children to study all these bogus courses just for the sake of the big names they posses. Let's come to it financially, they ain't doing well.

It is high time our children started diverting their attentions from all the likes of medicine and surgery and the so called Law. Going to school to study law seriously in this Nigeria context is a pure waste of time. Why not study something more tech oriented? Why must it be medicine and law? How much are lawyers getting paid here in Nigeria?

Even the so called N190,000- N200,000 they pay medical house officers is still a peanut compare to the amount of years spent studying such a herculean course.

A lot of sensitisations ought to be done to make students realize that studying medicine doesn't actually make one rich or wealthy. Except for those that studied it for the love of it, any person going into that cuz of money is doomed for depression because your work won't be highly compensated with the amount of energy you put in weeks in weeks out. It is a nightmare so to say.

Catfishing:
But I didn't force him..... I asked and he gave me. If he had said NO, I won't have bother much.

Asking a guy for money when you are just newly getting to know him is a big turn off for guys. That was how I generously assisted a lady I was playfully chatting with on WhatsApp with 1000 naira airtime not because I was a mumu but just decided to do it out if cheerfulness of heart.

The next day could you imagine she started demanding house rent of 150k from me? Like why do ladies lack conscience this much?

How can a girl be asking for house rent from a guy who she is just merely chatting with on WhatsApp? How greedy is that! That is the same thing you did to that guy that made him blocked you.

Let me tell you, guys hate it when ladies start begging for money here and there. He sent the first one, that's not enough, you went and be asking him for another. It makes him felt you've turned him to mumu that's why he blocked you so he will see where you would pass to beg him again.

You simply suffocated the innocent guy with your numerous financial demands. It means there is no single sign of shame in you people when begging guys for money. It doesn't matter to you ladies whether the person has money or not just give me, give me, give me money. Can you imagine?

I have been posting one girl since last year cuz of this give me money mentality. Only 10 minutes chat I chatted with her she started asking for me. I simply told her I will ask Dangote to see if he can lend me the money to give to her. She couldn't notice the savage reply, she was still asking when I would be giving her the money. I simply replied until Dangote borrowed me the money. What nonsense!

Ladies should learn to have some self worth and stop begging guys they are just getting to know money. I don't hesitate to delete such ladies numbers. They are simply gold diggers.

MejiLoyon:
May they rest in peace.

Guys be careful of exes. Most especially the ones you dumped. In fact if possible don't dump any lady. Never ever break any lady's heart. Let them break your heart. As in give them the satisfaction of letting them break your heart meanwhile na you break their heart. Only pros know how to do that.

That being said, never have anything to do with them. Use the Mejiloyon principle. Delete ,block and disappear. Some will say we are friends. Ogun kee friends there. Na that one dem dey use enter men. I once knew a guy wey wan chop last kpekus. Na there he die. Leave your exes. It will make your life peaceful. You go get rest,your current babe go get rest, even she go get rest. And if she no wan rest third mainland bridge no far.
I rise

I have been looking for ways for the babe I am dating right now to dump me, but till now no way.

I don't want to do it myself. I have tried every means. I don jam one chance be that. How do I handle this?

That's true. I don't like keeping naira in the bank. I rather use the money to buy crypto coins for long term holding.

Holding for my future retirement. Naira is a valueless currency.

At 50, I should have retired and travelling round the world on vacations.

There was a girl I dated last year. There is this natural instinct that I have, I can easily guess things even without telling me.

When we started dating, my instinct told me she has aborted. But I wasn't sure though but I felt that kinda conviction that she has done that in the past. I allowed my instinct to lie low and I continued the relationship.

She got so fond of me and started telling me things about her past. I asked her how many guys she had dated, she told me 6 and went as far as telling me she even dated a married man just to get back at her boyfriend. A kinda revenge something. I murmured in my mind: what a foolish way to get back at a guy!

Well, as my instinct can never lie, she openly told me she aborted for the last guy she dated twice. I murmured in my mind again that I knew it. Immediately she told me that, I knew I can't tolerate a lady that had aborted a life. Not one , two lives.

I then asked her why she aborted? She said she and her ex were trying to know if they were fertile and not impotent. Wonderful I said!

After that, my interest in her diminished along the line.

So, it is a food for thought for ladies. Living a wreckless sexual life as a lady is not good for your future , that is if you still have plans of settling down with a man in the future.

Nigeria lack constant power supply. How do you expect a tech company that will run 24/7 to establish its head quarter in a country that can't boost of 10 hours power supply a day?

Papertrails:
I am the op na, she is saying I should come Nd see her people or get her pregnant

If you are not ready, just tell her she should be patient till you are financially buoyant and well convinced to settle down.

UwaMmebii:
Nairaland really opened my eyes. Money cannot buy or win a girl's heart but some guys don't know this, if not for some advice here I for dey mumu for one little girl's hand

That's the mistake some guys make. They feel spending money on a girl, taking her out and acting all gentle man around her will make her fall in love. Those things actually do the opposite of making a girl start misbehaving especially when she detects a guy is trying all his best to please her with material things.

The girl I am dating right now, I have purposely not given her money for anything like making her hair or getting something except tfare whenever she visits. But she is still madly in love. She calls with her airtime and we talk for almost 10 to 15 minutes.

Sometimes I try reciprocating by calling her for 20 minutes straight. She hasn't asked me for money and I myself I know how it is like giving a girl money when she didn't ask for it. It will look like I am trying to use money to please her which I don't want.

Papertrails:
No be small thing o, babe want to tie me down....

That's serious. What's she telling you?

Papertrails:
Ma nigga....

I greet you.

javaRookie:
Okay, so the key is just act like the boyfriend.
Nice tip.

Exactly. Act like her boyfriend and flirt with her a couple of times here and there. Get to know her by asking petty questions about family, her interests, best foods while looking for loophole to throw some flirty gestures here and there. Before you know it, she is already getting addicted to you.

Here is an example of where I was flirting with one of my female friends.

javaRookie:
Bro seems like your A game is top notch! I have been following you and observing your comments about relationship issues. Can you be able to give boys some tutorials on how you make them fingerlings fall for you?

lol! It's not a rocket science though. It's just the way I relate with them. From the get go, I don't act all official. Thus, I playfully flirt with them, calling them sweet names. It makes them open up and come out of their shells.

I make them feel free and comfortable to discuss deeper things to the extent of discussing even things they won't ordinarily discuss with their close friends or family members. I immediately start acting like a potential boyfriend from the get go.

Yes, you don't need to ask a girl out before being your girl. From the way you relate with her, calling her pet names and flowing with her, using future projection telling her how many babies she will born for you and all those sorts of playful things make them like you and get addicted to you as a guy. When you do all of that, she is already dating you in her mind. Use chat to your advantage.

When they notice this open mindedness, they adapt instantly.

Currently, I have one that is already in love. She is already asking me mutual questions. But I am still yet to invite her over.

dingbang:
we dey here dey wait for you.

Red pill is not a course, it's a mindset. Red pill doesn't encourage you to maltreat women. It only helps put you in control and realization of your self worth as a man.

If you were screaming at your woman unnecessarily earlier, it is not as a result of the red pill. Red pill is just a knowledge and awareness regarding the opposite sex.

It doesn't encourage abuse or use of force on women. If you were doing that before, then you understood it wrongly.

Having a knowledge of the red pill doesn't mean you should be a monster. It helps you be in the right frame when relating with your woman.

BrainEya:
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After this , I'm deactivating.








You don give wahala problem be that
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SweetCunt97:
Which one is that? Doubt ive heard of it

It's called CARDANO block chain and the crypto currency or token is ADA. You can research it.

Maxymilliano:
They are not even conscious of their environment sef, see how he camera dem effortlessly in a shameless act. Gluttons

That's white for you. I think it's a micro secret camera.

Benitokrishna:
Not yet. I need more referrals to earn it.

Anything referral is a pure waste of time. I have been there.

I understand your plight. Before you said how one made one's first 50k as in 50k naira, that means the situation is really terrible. I do feel your plight but don't give up yet.

First, what thing have you tried your hands on that you failed?

Let's take it from there.

What if I show you something that can make you $150 a month even if you are lazy, will that be ok?

KennedyOkpara:
Use that 150k to buy dodgecoin and smile.

Bro, how good is that coin? When BNB was $43, I didn't buy. Now BNB is $512. I am regretting right now.

That dodgecoin, how viable is the coin? I want to buy.

Op I tried your format for one babe I was chasing in 2015. I was acting the gentle man type. Till today I still regretted it. Those were the days when I was still simping.

The babe came to my house, along the way, I even went as far as buying fried rice for her from a fast food joint. When we were going home, could you believe she handed the rice to me to hold? As the simp that I was back then, I went and actually carry the rice, something I will never do at present.

After getting to my house, she ate and lied down. I mistakenly put my hand on her tummy. She didn't remove it. But being that I was still a typical chronic simp back then, I didn't make any move on her.

Believe me or not, could you believe after the babe left, she never visited me again?

Do you know why? She actually expected something to go down but I was a big simp and couldn't have the mind to even make a move. When I look back now, I always shake my head over all of my past gentleman simping.

Not bad though cuz I learnt from my mistakes over time and won't even dare do the things I did for girls back then all in the name of being a gentle man.

Girls don't value all those procedures. In the process of doing all that, you are indirectly simping and she will look at you like a foolish guy who doesn't know what he wants.

Beautiful ladies are always dull though not all. But majority are. They can't keep a man and they are fond of being liabilities, constantly depending and feeding off on gullible men to sustain their fake lifestyles.

Another observation, a couple of beautiful girls are dirty internally. They only have outward beauty but in terms of cleanliness, they are a big mess.

Ever seen a beautiful girl with mouth odour? Haba! Come off it. Why will a girl be more concern about her outward appearance than taking good care of her private places? I don't expect a girl who is beautiful to be having a stinky smell down there. But that's the reality for some.

chronian:
I made it clear I'm not interested in sex.

With all the comments, I don't think it might work out.

He seems quite serious though.

The guy haven't built any emotional bond with you. If he has done that, you won't find it hard visiting him. That's where guys get it wrong all the time. They don't build emotion in a girl first before inviting her.

A girl won't find it hard visiting me if I have taken my time to build that irresistible love in her heart. She will be the one asking me when to visit.

He still have some works to do.

Lol I try as much as possible not to take girls to fast food joints. I rather invite u over to my place.

See when you invite a girl to your place, it is not a must you must bleep her. Haba. But don't just invite a girl to your place, invite her when she is already feeling your vibe.

I can't remember the last time I took a girl out to a fast food joint. My house alone is a fast food joint itself and the comfort she thinks she will get from the fast food joint, she will get it in100 folds in my place.

Vibe with a girl in a way that even if it is fvck u want to Bleep, make her be in the mood before inviting her. Don't be inviting a girl when you have not done any underground work on her. Haba she will turn you down.

Make a girl be hungry to spend time with you irrespective of wherever you ask her to come. She will defy all odds and bring her ass down to any location you mention.

If you want it, put her in the mood and don't force her. Both of you must not do it. It is not compulsory but make her understand that your house is the perfect place to have a comfy date with her not all those fast food joints.