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FahBuLous:
Na WA o.. See me see wahala o..
I say I no de womanise de thing come de freak you.

Then account for where your money is going into. If you womanise will you tell the truth that you womanise? No. You will hide it. But within your heart, you know you use all your money to carry women, pay for hotels and squander everything.

Don't tell me you don't womanise and all your money is getting varnished. Come on. Do I look like a baby to you?

If you don't womanise, money is supposed to stay in your hands. Aside handling some family expenses here and there. Tell us, how many children do you have? Let's start from there. If you don't have children yet and you don't womanise and all your money is getting used up and can't account for anything, then your issue is more spiritual than you think.

Confess let us help you. If we know your issue, we will be able to help you. If you don't carry women and you don't have children yet, what else on earth is consuming your money that is making money not to stay in your hands? It's better you speak up now before it is too late.

4right:
I feel like crying after seeing this Salary!!!!
Not crying for you but crying for myself
I earned approximately #8million every month but I blow this #8m same every month ,I can even earn as much as #12m if I work more.

Please how? what can I invest innnnnnnn

To make it worse none of my family members know I earn this much except some female friend.
Please I need business idea from you guyssssssd,am ready to work with whoever idea that will be use if I get one.

Jeeez! You make 8m and blow it up every month? This is not ordinarily. This is more spiritual than you think. Money doesn't stay in your hands. Better find quick solution.

RenaissanceGuy:
You're advising someone whose current salary is N30,000 to migrate to Australia?? With what funds??

Remember this thread was created in 2020 and he posted that in 2020. I don't believe he will still be receiving 30k from that time till now. Don't forget we are in 2024 and it's been more than 3 years now remember.

Iceberghill:
Salary- 30k

Position- Quality control


Company- Pharmaceutical


Qualification B. Sc Industrial Chemistry


Experience- 3 years

If money won't be an issue for you, with this your qualification and experience, I would have advised you to pursue Australia PR. You will have better prospects outside the country with your experience.

But Aussie visa fee alone is 3150 USD for a single person. With the current rate, that's alot. But if you can Roger it, I will advise you to go for it.

You can tailor your experience to fit the role of a chemistry technician as your degree is industrial chemistry.

Just thinking out of the box for you.

Guest911:
I don’t have a company yet. I jut invest in other businesses

What type of businesses do you invest in? Let me see if I can also put some investments into that.

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BlackhatMentor:
Just 800k dollars


Make this man no broke in attempt to Buga

Go broke ke. That's just a drop of water in an ocean if we go by his net worth of 5.7 billion USD. He won't feel it.

mbaise1000:
But they said this woman is not a muslim, why force her to live the muslim way?

You must wear o whether you belong or not. There is this Nigeria guy that got a job in one of these Arab countries. He moved there and later relocated his wife to join him.

They are not Muslims but the wife now dress like them. She said that's the law. If they catch you not covering your head as a woman, na gbese.

So, in essence it has nothing to do with whether you are a Muslim or not. As far as you are a woman, you must wear hijab and cover your head.

She doesn't dress like that when she was in Nigeria. But to obey the laws of the land and not to put her husband who is a Doctor into trouble over there, she has to follow the rules and law as a wife of an immigrant.

gmacnoms:
Ekpele Sir. It hasn’t been rosy but I’m here to tell you that

I got working, not in care, not in warehouse (with all due respect to them) in 2 weeks of arrival.

I sold my 12 pro max to ad to flight ticket, me and my wife now use 14 pros, paid in cash.

I have also being able to pay off debt of over 4m and also have a few savings.

I also have bought equipment and setup a portable home music studio ( this happened in my first 2 months ) . And I have released about 4 songs (check d minimalist) on all social media platforms.



I also wear Zara and what would have been termed luxury in Nigeria. These are a few of them. I won’t talk about the standard of living and type of living because you fit just choke.

It’s not a smooth ride, but I have no regrets and have a better standard of life, I eat better and breath better than you whole community, including your state governor.

In less than 8 months, I have achieved so much more that I can’t start typing.
Even my family and friends don receive alerts too.

My first 3 months was sweet.

It’s not a soft ride, but my brother, it’s incomparable and I can’t even list it all, in just 7 months.

Na you know the abroad wey you go
Cheers 🥂 you

Now I am happy for you. Those that will always come with negativity can now know that grace differs.

They always use their bad experience to generalise everyone. And if you check, they are mostly those that have no papers.

And according to yommitte007:

You don't have to post all this to the world sir. I have been in the UK since a long time and the world doesn't know. Be prepared for the roughness. Warehouse jobs and stupid care jobs. Be prepared for 3 months of regret sir. You will wish u hadn't come.

yommitte007 what do you have to say about this testimony? Does that not show you guys that everyone grace differs? And you can't find it easy in another man's country if you don't have papers? The reason some of you are struggling abroad might be because you don't have the right skill sets or papers. If you do, trust me, you won't be here discouraging people using your personal experience that is peculiar to you.

Also, your level of negativity can as well serves as hindrance to your progress. If you're the type that is always full of negativity in your thoughts, those thoughts can influence you to doubt yourself, which will hinder your progress.

In all you do, always stay positive and thrive for the good things of life. Flee from planting spirits of negativity in people's minds. Instead, stay positive at all time.

In your post, you said nobody knows you've been living abroad. That shows you are hiding yourself from people because you don't want them to come over or ask you how you travelled to the UK. Don't allow yourself to be used as the agent of discouragement.

Do well to be positive in all your dealings, and you will find it easy with life. Do well to learn from this gmacnoms testimony. Now, you realise you can't use your experience to judge others. Everyone's destiny and grace differs. And always do the right thing. You can't be living in a place illegally and you expect things to be easy for you.

If you are still hiding from the authority, better come back, and go through the right medium so you can find living abroad easy and peasy. I hope you will take this advice to restructure your negative mindset.

cc: yommitte007

finallybusy:
Keep my comment for mind before traveling out. You go thank me one day.

I would have kept your advice in mind if you had gone to the UK through the right route that allows you to stay and work. But for the fact that, you are judging the whole process from your visitor visa that doesn't allow you to work or stay behind, I won't take your advice to mind.

You are not a permanent resident of the place you went to. You didn't go with the right visa that permits you to stay and work, definitely it will be rough for you. You simply don't have papers. That's one of the important criteria that employers use to give people jobs. They can't be giving jobs to visitors.

So, that's why I said your experience is baseless cuz the condition of your visa didn't permit you to work as a visitor. Thus, it is bad to use that your specific experience to generalize that people are suffering abroad. It's baseless.

Even in my dream country, all employers will always ask you the type of visa you are on before they will even give you a job. It's very important. Your visa type matters. Go through the proper means, if you can't find any job within a year, then your grace get as it be.

finallybusy:
Where was this opportunity when I visited the country last year? I opened threads here asking for means to work without papers. All I faced were continued deletions from the moderators and silence the few minutes the threads were visible.

You visited a country with a visitor visa and you still expected to work? You wanted to convert visitor visa to permanent stay. That's why you didn't find work. You didn't just have the right visa that will make things easy for you. It's your fault. That's not enough to speak bad of the place.

You guys should know that, you can't travel to another man's country with a visitor visa and expect any one to give you a job. You will be going against the terms and conditions of your visa.

Now, if you must travel out of Nigeria and truly want to work when you get there, don't go with a visitor visa.

And don't make the mistake of using your visitor visa experience to judge those that have papers to stay and who went through a route that allows them to work.

You didn't find it easy because you went with a visitor visa. You're completely out of the equation. Your experience is unfounded.

SuperOnyi:


Thank you sir.

You're welcome.

Yankiss:
Wow. I am a Chemical Engineer as well!!!

That's great!

SuperOnyi:



Good evening everyone!


I just found out Grey's USD account details is currently unavailable, can I submit the GBP account details to Amazon?

Of course. Use the GBP if there is no USD account number.

Yankiss:
System Operating Procedure. In a nutshell, the procedure u would use to arrive at your finished product.

That's where a Chemical Engineer comes in. We design products specifications to ensure products are of the actual standards.

fineboynl:
Your product is Picked beans. Hand picked selected beans

You don’t sound like hausa girl

Not just picked beans. This went through series of processes that yielded beans that won't go bad even after many months.

The ordinary beans will go bad within 2 months if you don't cook it. But this won't cuz it's processed and well packaged. It can stay up to 2 years or more as far you don't tear off the packaging polythene.
Let's give Kudos to op.

Wonderful! What a detailed and exciting read!

I will run for my dear life. I will see it as a setup. The Nigerian girls I know, they will rather commit suicide than to toast a man even if they like you.

The least thing you can use to track me or test me is woman. I have principles. I can never fall if it is a woman you try using to test me or track me.

It's only guys that can't control their underneath will be falling for things like these.

A random lady message you and common sense couldn't tell you that, that might be a set up. You see a beautiful random female picture, and you fell woefully.

If a random person chat me up on WhatsApp, I will first ask you where you got my number from and where you know me from. If you can't mention anything reasonable and I understand that I haven't met any lady like that at any point in time in the past, I will just ignore you. If you like go to Instagram and download random female pic and send to me.

I will never fall for that set up. Cuz I know I haven't met anybody like that. If you like lie that we met some years ago. I don't easily forget people I have met. So, there is no way anyone will just come up and trying to use a lady to set me up.

I have principles I follow. The least thing you will use to set a guy like me up is a woman. I can never fall for those cheap set ups.

One random lady sent me a message sometime ago. That was last week of December 2023. I just received the message hi. I then replied greetings. Who am I unto? She said Chloe, Devine's friend. I enquired Chloe from where? Where did you know me from? She then tried to manipulate me by saying enough of this yanga from you. Person wey I not know dey tell me I dey make yanga for her. She decided to upload one female picture thinking that will lure me into getting into whatever set up she brought.

I said in my mind this girl don't know the type of guy I am. She thinks I am the type that run after everything under skirt. You jammed the wrong guy.

I just went on and deleted her messages from my WhatsApp.

So, it really baffles me when guys fall for cheap set ups like these using a female. Once they see a female picture, they won't think straight again. Just upload a female picture and send messages to some guys, they will fall woefully thinking they have catched a new booty they will smash.

Guys, don't always think with your gbola. Be disciplined when it comes to the female gender and no one can set you up using a random female.

Medlabgirl, wow! Looking at the time you made this post, it's been a whooping 14 good years since you left for Canada.

How time flies so quick. What has the experience been like so far for these 14 years since you left Nigeria? Share with us.

Next 5 years is too far for me. Next 3yrs by the grace of God, I will be in my dream country. Process already on the way. 2026 must not dawn on me in this country by his grace. I hope to shout happy new year from my dream country by Jan 1 2027.

ufotty2001:
Have been going through ur write up several times.. thanks very much.

You're welcome.

Tickles001:
Thanks a lot

You're welcome.

Hungrychicken:
True… I look older with dry and wrinkled Face💔🥺

No hope is lost. Brace yourself up. It's never too late to turn a new leave.

FahBuLous:
I don't womanise man...
Give suggestions, not everyone is like you..

When you said not everyone is like me, are you trying to say I womanise? You won't come out plane now so we can help you. I don't womanise.

But I believe within me that you do carry women. A.k.a hookup girls. I can't even remember the last time I made out with any lady. And I still stand gallant.

If you don't womanise, then I wonder where all your money is going into.

Tickles001:
I got email that my t,åx form has expired and I'm required to update it. The problem is that I lost the contact of the person that gave me details to fill.
How do I get another one or should I just resubmit the old info

Yes, resubmit the old info.

I understand your problem. It's not that you can't save. But your issue that is making you not to be able to save money could be due to womanising. That thing does put a deep hole on men's pockets. Come out plane so we can proffer you a solution.

Zxcvbnmghtr:
You are talking from a broke guy perspective. See David for example.

You don't want to agree with the OP post simply because you want to be fucking around for your own selfish fleshly gratification.

What Op posted is nothing but the truth. Stop justifying excessive womanising and uncontrollable ducking.

BigDickProblems:
So you actually made me me read this whole epistle just because you want to tell me to "avoid women".

They use sex swear for men? Avoid illicit sex not women. Do you understand now?

Uyi168:
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who is verydarkman

I just gave you his handle. Go and search for him on Facebook. Watch what he said about masturbation. The guy is always spot on with his advice.

He is also suffering from masturbation. He was bold enough to advise all guys that are still battling with the spirit of masturbation to put in efforts to stop it this new year.

A lot of men masturbate in today's world. About 70% of men masturbate. Very many of them have become so addicted to it that they find it so hard to stop.

Now, before you can stop masturbation, you must first of all admit that it is a bad addiction. If you don't come to term with the fact that it is bad, you will forever be a slave to it and won't be able to cut it off your life. You will just be deceiving yourself by consoling yourself that it is not a bad addiction.

If you are still claiming that nothing is wrong with masturbation, just know that you are not yet ready to stop it.

You must come to term with yourself that masturbation has terrible side effects and then and only then you will be able to brace yourself up to put a complete end to it.

The moment you make up your mind to stop it and put in much efforts to eradicate it , it will leave you for good. It's a very chronic addiction that can drain you and make you look quite older than your actual age. Masturbation will turn you to grandpa with dry, wrinkled face, peeled manhood, vulnerable immune system, watery sperm due to excessive ejaculation and extreme muscle fatigue

Do everything to stop masturbation if you are still into it. If Verydarkblackman can advise men to stop masturbation as one of his new year resolution, then I don't know what you are still waiting for.

Stop speaking in favour of masturbation for your own selfish interest because you don't want to stop it. Try as much as possible to stop it and you will see your life improved massively than before.

Uyi168:
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if mastubation does all of these things I wonder what the real sex will do..

Better stop now that you still have the chance. Those that don't want to stop will always find ways to claim masturbation has no side effect. I stopped that stupid thing since 2021. Since then, I have never looked back.

I am still looking for the day I will share my testimony. Cuz I battled with that for 16 good years. It was one guy that lured me into it when I was 17 years. That was in 2005 and I was able to stop it in September 2021. How I stopped it still baffles me till today. I thank God for liberating me from that demonic addiction.

Well, go to Verydarkblackman Facebook page and watch what he just posted about masturbation. Search for the video on his page and then, come back and quote me once you're done watching what he said in the video. I have something important to tell you.