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Skii:
I was considering to respond or not..but thanks..you have spared me the composition of a response.

If only the OP will read your opinion.

What I will just add to this is that the cattle on a thousand hills are His. Just ask God sincerely, that out of the multitude of women out there, He should send you your own wife...and that when she comes by, you would recognise her.

God brought Eve before Adam and he recognized her as his wife. Follow the other God orchestrated examples in the Bible. Isaac, Rebecca...Ruth and Boaz. All the ones that chose wives by/for themselves also leave an example...Samson and Delilah...David who coveted Bathsheba (don't go for a lady who is already involved with someone else).

Look for maturity and show some vulnerability. See how she handles it. Also, watch out if she shows some too. Have the wisdom to handle her imperfections knowing fully well that you are equally as imperfect. Afterall, the man and woman were naked and felt no shame.

Finally, when you see her and your time truly comes (and if you have genuinely and consistently prayed)...you will just know....nobody will tell you but yourself

Exactly. You said it all. But many won't know this. Only the wise will see and uncover the deep secrets concealed in this write up.

Auxtan:
Please where is the right place? I'm honestly pleading.

It doesn't work like that. If you don't believe the power of prayers, it will be very hard for you.

If you think you can choose a life partner by your own human discretion, it will be very hard for you.

You will meet the right one not when you want it but when you less expected it. That is if only you can genuinely pray about it. God will make both of your paths to cross each other in an unexpected way that you don't even expect. That's how it works.

It will happen when you less expect it. Go and watch how Moses Bliss met his correct partner. He didn't plan for it. But he might have been praying about it.

The lady was the one that even tagged him when she made a video dancing to one of his musics, and she tagged him to the video. That's how they met.

So, if you are the type that don't believe in the power of prayers or don't believe there is someone called God that exist up there, and you rely on your own understanding to selecting a life partner, it will be difficult for you to actually select the right one or come across the right one.

So, it's up to you whether to put it in prayers or doubt the power of God like others do.

The ball is in your court.

When we tell people like ogbonti that this country is not safe, he will tell you Nigeria is the safest country on earth. He will always turn a blind eye on all these terrible news going on every day.

If we tell you that the heart of some human beings is darker than that of Satan, we ain't just saying it.

You will never see ogbonti comment on threads like these. But go to the travel section and watch how he is dragging people that are jubilating for escaping this zoo. He will drag them and lie about all his concocted good lifestyle he lives in Nigeria. How he will go to his village and live like a king.

And I always ask him, what about the rest of the masses? Are you so wicked that you can't speak about the bad things happening in Nigeria? Why do you always troll those in diaspora who have seen the difference between a sane society and that where people live like animals?

Why do you always drag people in the travel section when they give their testimonies of how things are in the western world as compare to your almighty Nigeria?

ogbonti, you are such a wicked old man.

ogbonti:
Dude stop trolling me and mentioning my name all over nairaland- please channel your grievances to your elected leaders and please japa if you can, I am not holding you back-Thanks!

I am dragging you because some of you these so called folks who claimed to have travelled abroad and know what's obtainable in the western world will still be so callous to turn a blind eye to the happenings in the country.

Are you not the one that said Nigeria is heaven on earth? Let Nigeria happen to you or someone close to you only then you will desist from painting Nigeria a heaven on earth country.

In the western world you claimed to have lived, do hospitals reject accident victims? So why will a grown up man like you can't come up and speak against the corrupt country you claim to love so much? Are you blind to the different terrible happenings going on in the country? Are you blind?

In your heart to heart, why will you come up to the open to be telling angry youths that Nigeria is doing well. Everything is working fine. Why can't you speak about the bad things happening? Why do you always think as far as non of your person is touched, you give no damn fvck about the rest of the masses that a suffering on a daily basis? ogbonti I am asking you, why are you so wicked in your heart? How wicked can someone like you be? How heartless are you?

I see you on every travel thread always dragging people who escaped this zoo. You always fight and troll them when they speak of how their lives had improved since they left the zoo.

You do every thing possible to always drag them. Can you deny that? All your footprints is on Nairaland dragging people who give their testimonies of how their lives had improved since they left the so called zoo you called country.

Now, when I draw your attention to terrible happenings in the country, you think I am dragging you. Whereas, you are the father of trolling.

It is high time you desist from glorifying Nigeria, if not what I will wish you, you won't like it.

Op, so sorry for your loss. Accept my condolences. These are some of the things we always tell people like ogbonti. If Nigeria is not a failed country, things like these can easily be avoided.

When one tells people like ogbonti that this country Nigeria is a failed state, he will argue with us. Imagine there are no functional hospitals to save the life of someone that was rushed over due to accident.

ogbonti will never agree with us. He will glorify Nigeria and her failed government because non of those suffering is related to him.

One will never understand how useless Nigeria is until Nigeria happens to someone that is close to you.

People like ogbonti that glorify this corrupt country will learn the hard way one day.

ogbonti, come and see your country. The country you will die for. The fellow citizens of the country you love so much are hungry. There is hardship in the land. I know you won't see all of these cuz you claim to be blind.

Please, better open your eyes and speak against this government. You're e joying yourself and claim to have over $779,000 dollars. What about the poor citizens that are facing this serious hardship? They should die ABI?

You better speak up young man. Your dear country is burning right now. People are hungry. There is chaos and hunger in the land. And you are there canvasing for Nigeria and her corrupt leaders cuz you are not facing what the common man is facing.

Shame on you ogbonti.

Lastmessenger2:
That's the country some fools defend with their life day and night

E.g ogbonti. I just tire for that man.

ogbonti come and see what your heaven on earth country Police are doing to the fellow citizens of your dear heaven on earth so called country.

When we tell young men that if you have the means to leave this so called country, leave as fast as possible, they will think we don't know what we are saying.

ogbonti, is this how a country should be? As the most patriotic Nigerian who has had his full share of the Western world and know how sane the western world is regarding things like these, what do you have to say about this evil attitude of your country Police in always harrasing their fellow citizens? What's your take on this?

Tramadol? They want to get high with tramadol. Stupid people. Thank God Government banned that drug. Young people were already abusing it as at the time it was banned. If not, alot of youths would have been rendered useless for life with the effect of tramadol.

SommzyGlobal:
Nope

Does it come with USB & HDMI ports?

NPFLADMIN:
Uncle calm down, she mentioned some great points.

How can you claim to be married when your husband hits you?

How can you claim to be married when your husband sleeps with every hole that calms her way?

How can you claim to be married when your husband can't take care of you and your children?

I don't know her real motive but she does have a point.

Do you know that most ladies marry the person that hit and abuse them due to material things? In a society where ladies are so materialistic and worship material things more than anything else, this is bound to happen.

Some group of ladies were asked if they will prefer to cry in a G-wagon or be happy in a Keke Napep, guess what was their answers, over 80% said they will rather cry in a G-wagon than be happy in a Keke. What does that tell you?

Now, what will you say about these kinds of ladies that will prefer to marry rich men that will abuse them rather than to marry someone that truly loves them?

You can see that some of those ladies that are in abusive relationship and marriage, know what they got themselves into.

Some will leave a struggling guy who truly loves and respects them to be with an abusive rich man who doesn't value them, all in the name of being materialistic and wanting the good things of life at the detriment of their peace of mind with the right man.

So you see? It's nobody faults. They got themselves into such marriages even when they see the red flag. But they believe money will give them happiness inside an abusive union.

As a lady, if you truly want to succeed and prosper in this life, never ever take advice from your same female genders. Trust me, you will never get the best advice that will benefit you from your same age bracket female folks.

If you must take advice from any female folk, meet an old woman who has advanced way in life.

A man will give you better advice than the advice you will get from your female friends. Any advice you will get from your female friends are advice that will never benefit you in life, rather, they are advice that are vindictive in nature; advice that will lead you astray.

And if you are the foolish type who doesn't use her common sense, you will listen to such bad advice and get yourself into a serious life long regret.

For instance, what this lady is saying is not in any way an advice but instead she is being vindictive in her statements and some foolish ladies will actually listen to her and enter the bandwagon of marriage is not an achievement, just so they will start living reckless lifestyle with the hope that, they are better off living their lives without a man. What a pity!

If you are progressing in life, do you think some of your so-called female friends will be happy for you? Of course not. Instead they will start deriding you, making spiteful remarks about you and your achievements. They will water down all the efforts you've made to get to where you currently are. That's what this particular lady in that post is doing.

She is making spiteful remarks about marriage because she herself is not married or if married, probably she is not doing well in her marriage. So she has nothing to lose giving bad advice to the gullible ladies out there. She is indirectly misleading young ladies into thinking that marriage is nothing and not an achievement.

She is speaking bad about marriage just so to mislead young ladies into thinking that, they are better off being single for life. If you have common sense as a lady, you should be able to detect that her statements look more like deriding and making spiteful remarks about marriage.

She is watering down the union of marriage and if you are not wise enough as a lady, you will think she is saying something reasonable.

As a young girl who still have limited wisdom about life, run far from ladies like these if you truly want a happy relationship/marriage. Never ever listen to ladies like these for anything advice about relationship or marriage.

They will fill your mind with terrible advice that will make it hard for you to be in marriage, build one or be able to live a happy marriage life.

So flee from ladies like that who will lead you astray.

emmaodet:
Congratulations bro.

More pussy to your golden dick.
Please, be a good ambassador of Nigeria over there.
Hopefully, we will come to play with you over there on vacation one of these years to come.

yeye.

Ayinke93:
The eagle has finally landed. Congrats. I think it'll be nice to give details about how to move to Chile. Help us all get out of this shithole

Don't get out of Nigeria. Nigeria is an amazing country to stay. Everything is working in this country called Nigeria. What else do you people want? There is constant light, our roads are good, the government is working, standard of living is pretty good.

Poverty is not in existence. There is quality education. What about the good health care system we all enjoy in Nigeria? If you ask me, I will say stay back in Nigeria, you and every other patriotic Nigerians will make it big in this country because trust me when I say, Nigeria is heaven on earth. It's no wonder it's called the giant of Africa!

maasoap:
The funniest thing about you who appear to knodw everyone more than they know themselves is that you left Nigeria in body but stiell here in spirit. Lol. Only if you knew what I mieant
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BTW: I'm not against japa o, because I tried it in 2013 AVL, the last one Nigeria participated in and my wife was selected, together with me and our six months old daughter.
But my point is that all Nigerians can't japa, not possible.
Then, people with well paying jobs should also think deeply before japa.

First of all, where are you currently? If you are not in Nigeria, and you are typing this, may they deport you. But if you are in Nigeria, then good for you.

Does it come with a disk drive for CD?

ScamDemicEra:
.... hopefully this will reflect in the prices of food for market, whatever goes up hardly comes down for Nigeria market.

It will not last. It's just temporary. Dollar will shoot up again in the coming weeks. It's not the first time they are doing this.

They are not tackling the main issue. As a result, there will never be a permanent solution to the depreciation of the naira.

We import everything. Even crude oil. How do they expect the naira to appreciate?

Whoever thinks the naira will ever appreciate against the American dollar without them solving the issue of manufacturing and production in the country is on long thing. Until we start producing basic things in Nigeria, there is no hope for the naira.

All these they are doing are just short term measures. It won't have any long term effect to revive the naira.

nearline:
Yeah. Him. If I remember correctly I think he said in one of his videos that even he is planning on returning to Nigeria but he does not want to rush it so as to, I’ll paraphrase, “prevent Nigeria from happening to him and his family.” He is taking it step by step as far as I know. The system over there is showing even him shege as he as mentioned in many of his videos. He keeps saying that you will never be a part of the system just because you made it to the white man’s land as a black person. You are always their prey basically. And the don’t really care about you. And that is coming from someone who got there very early in his life. The fact is JAPA will work for some but it will not work well for most. “Some” here are people who went there on official employment or similar business related reasons that are well recognized by their government. But for people who just want to go there to survive — escape Nigeria, like you said, British (White man’s) shege pro max awaits a lot of them.

You that is in this Nigeria, are you part of the system? Wey all of una don use tribalism scatter una life.

Make una let those that want to travel breathe. How many of una dey eat 3 times a day in this Nigeria? Na only to dey type and blow big lies una Sabi.

maasoap:
The truth is that relocation is not a solution to all of the Nigeria's problems. Unemployment: japa advice! Insecurity: japa advice!! Poor educational system: japa advice!!! Poor health service: japa advice!!!! Lack of Infrastructures: japa advice!!!!! Is it possible for over 200 million people to japa?

And who is saying all the over 200 million people should japa? Where them won see the money? In this poverty capital of the world when they never see food eat na abroad they wan go?

All we are saying is that, let those that want to leave breathe. We are tired of all the lambas all the anti-japa folks dey cook about abroad. How Nigeria is heaven on earth. How people suffer abroad and they can't feed.

How everyone in Nigeria is living well and smiling. Come on! Enough of all those lambas is what we are clamping down on here on Nairaland.

Dennisochampa:
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Oga.... I insist..... If I have my way and money, I will prefer to stay in 9ja rather than abroad...... I no put water for mouth talk am... I no discourage anybody because no be person encourage me to come abroad....
I know of an engineer... He only stayed in the UK 2 years before he and his family decided to relocate back to 9ja....life is by choice... If you can afford it and you feel u don't want to stay in 9ja....do well for yourself to relocate.....
It's not everybody that likes to live abroad.....

Stop the lie. Most of the people that spoke against relocating abroad here on naira 3-4 years ago have deactivated their accounts, relocated abroad and created new account just so people won't fish them out here on Nairaland about all their anti-japa posts after deceiving people not to relocate. They are now abroad.

I know that's what you will do. Let's bet it, you will deactivate this account and run abroad. Stop deceiving people. We know you guys. You don't keep to your words. Later on you will japa and deactivate this your account and create another one.

That's what you these anti-japa folks know how to do. It's people like you that will also send your children abroad to study if you have the funds without allowing them to study here in Nigeria.

If Nigeria is good enough, while will some persons like you who so much love Nigeria to be sending their children abroad for studies? Isn't that self deception?

It's high time you anti-yapa folks stopped this self deception.

online4business:
I still insist get out now why you can.

It's about to get ugly like omobaba's face .

This is the genesis feb-march will get even worse food price will sore like the eagle.

Once the rain start farm farm farm like no man's business that's how you can beat hunger.

Many people dey my dm for Facebook and 99% na people wey just be acquittance when I dey Nigeria.
It's all complain.

No be you dey post pictures on Facebook?

They will finish you with begging and urgent 2k. If you don't want people to beg you, don't even bother posting pictures on Facebook cuz they will litre your DM with bros find me something na, I never eat since morning o.

Dennisochampa:
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You're entitled to your opinion...
I said if you have a good job and you're living well in 9ja.....there's no point relocating abroad....

Because you will provide full security for the person right? Whoever that is doing well can come up with another reason to relocate not specifically because of money as most of you always base everything on money.

You turn a blind eye to the insecurity going on in the country. Have you been sprayed bullets before? Have you been doubled crossed by kidnappers before?

Just last month here, kidnappers double crossed a young guy who is an in-law to one of my brother's friend. He was driving a GLK when they accosted him in front of a popular hotel around 9pm in the evening.

They sprayed him bullets all over his laps and carried him away with injuries. They removed over 18 million from the guy's account and his family still paid an extra 1.5 million before he was released to them almost dead.

I was the one that directed them to a teaching hospital emergency ward as they were referred by another hospital to continue the operation to remove the remaining bullets. Some were very close to the lap bone called femur. So if he is walking, he gets this sharp shock that prevents him not to be able to walk and he will scream due the the pain.

Over 80 bullets were removed and other were still hanging on close to the thigh bone as shown in the scan he did. I saw the many piece of bullets surrounding his thigh bone.

Now, with all these stories and the ones some persons have witnessed one on one, there are still some of you that will always think having money in Nigeria is enough reason never to leave. You people are not even looking at the insecurity aspect of the country.

Every relocation is not about money. People are running for their dear life to saner society where one can move about without fear of being whisked away by kidnappers or being killed by them.

It is high time you guys should desist from encouraging those who have money not to leave the country even if their lives feel threatened by the insecurities ravaging the whole country. If the story of what I just told you above happens to you, and you witness a horrific experience with kidnappers, I believe only then you will have a change of mind about the importance of relocation.

Dennisochampa:
.... Long term you said.... For now, I'll pick my 9ja life over...... In 9ja... There was always light in the estate I stayed in at Arepo..... The few times the light went off.... I had both gen and solar on standby.....
Also I get to eat my favorite food for cheap in 9ja...

Here in the UK...... One fufu is one pound.......
Something that is 100 naira in 9ja....

Now I can say you are only concerned about yourself. You have constant light in your estate. What then happens to the millions of others that are suffering epileptic power supply? They should fvck off isn't it?

In essence, you're encouraging us that it's only the rich that should enjoy Nigeria while others should suffer. Am I not right?

tensazangetsu20:
I dont envy Nigerian married men at all. You guys are all very brave especially those who newly got married in the last 8 years. If i never left, I wouldnt even date talk less of getting married.

Follow this man called Dr Charles Apoki on YouTube. That man is revealing some deep wisdoms for young men both abroad and home.

Some deep things the man is revealing to young men are things no one will ever tell you on a normal day. I see alot of sense in his videos and so many reasons to follow him and watching all his videos. I just said let me share with you, especially those abroad.

Kingbuhari:
SK

Abeg, you know say we no go school. Which country is SK? You meant South Korea?

004gist:
Why will someon be anti Japa.
Can you give one reason

You guys should stop all these lies. Men are angry in this country and you are telling them that Nigeria is better to reside in. Don't you know you guys are invoking the wrath of the youths that are angry with the country called Nigeria?

Of course, everyone won't leave Nigeria, but you guys should stop all the lies of how people suffer abroad. How they clean white men buttocks and the rest.

You can't use the bad experience of one person that didn't plan well before going abroad to judge the loads of others that are doing well in that same abroad that went through a better relocation means like PR.

Will you compare a person who went to one of the best and well to do countries as a PR to someone who went through the study or visitor route? Of course, the one that goes with PR will be better off, while those that went through visitor or study routes will surely have some challenges here and there.

So, because such a person has his own personal bad experience, will you now use that to judge the majority of others that are still doing well in that same abroad? Of course not.

Some of these people that always complain about abroad are always those that didn't plan well before leaving Nigeria. Some went with visitor visas. Others went through studies. And you know such persons won't have same opportunities with those that went straight as permanent residents.

Before an employer gives you a job, they will surely ask about your status in the country. It is easy for a permanent resident to get a job faster than someone who went through a study route, because they don't have that freedom to work full time. And most jobs want a full time applicant.

I believe you went to the UK through study. That's the bad decision you took. Why go to UK, when you can secure a job right from Naija in New Zealand? There are so many jobs in New Zealand currently, that the employers are even ready to sponsor applicants from other countries. Make use of your Google and YouTube.

All I can say is that those that usually complain make bad decisions that resulted in them struggling abroad. They didn't plan well and also they went through the wrong means of relocation.

If you can make research and understand how to use Google and YouTube, you will discover a lot of opportunities even without passing through any study route that won't give you same opportunities as others.

Let's be smart in our decision making when it comes to relocating.

nairalee:
When you get educated they'll teach u not to read face value but meanings

ogbonti na dullard na. Don't mind that old man.

ogbonti:
no mind them - i am not against anyone japa - at least its good to go see for yourself the paradise on earth you think you are missing out on by living in Nigeria - and experience they say is the best teacher - but I hate it to the marrow of my bones seeing people lie here about the same abroad - USA for that matter that I have lived in almost 30 years of my life - haba

Mr man stop all these your cheap lies. Show us proofs that you have really lived in the US.

ogbonti:
you dey craze? how dare you call any human being ugly? na oyinbo no ugly? You are so st ew pid - that you have to call people born in Nigeria ugly - thunda faya ya papa yansh - ogun kee yaa mama - what kind of self hating is this na ? IF YOU WON JAPA - PLEASE GO - Leave others who cant travel the heck alone - there are people sleeping in the streets in EUROPE and USA - while there are people sleeping on bed in Nigeria- so the world is how you make it work for you - stop insulting others - THE SLAVERY WEY DEY HUNGRY YOU all in the name of JAPA- MAKE U GO ENJOY AM stop calling anyone in Nigeria UGLY - Thanks!!!!

See person wey dey claim day he dey live for U.S. Una lie too dey too much for this platform. You dey Nigeria, u dey claim day u don live for U.S for more than 10 yrs. If lie dey kill I swear u for don kpai since o.

We know all of you these anti-japa folks. If I catch u, ur own don finish. The kind konk I go give that your bar head, you will stop all these your baseless lies.

Don't let me find you this man. I am ready for all of u these anti-japa folks that will see Nigeria burning and still be glorifying it.

Lie finish you there.

ogbonti:
na lie - stop lying - yes abroad things may be better than Nigeria in most areas but stop the hype - I have lived here almost 30 years in America - lived in New York and California (Orange County) - a high brow area for more than 10 years - we had some power issues at least 7 times in those 10 years no one brought us anything to apologize - abeg stop the hype - THANKS

Linus Zumba. You no dey any abroad. Stop the lie. If not you won't sound like this to the guy that said they brought doughnut for them. Stop the broad day light lie. We know you guys. These are the anti-japa team. Stop disguising claiming to be living in the U.S.

Dyfynezz12:
True,I always feel bad that my visa application was rejected twice last year.
To travel out as a Nigerian is difficult nd will get worse in the next couple of years
The situation of the country is very disheartening, cox the future of a young guy like me keeps getting bleak due to the decisions of our old fools.Making it legitly is now hard cox every decisions our leaders take always turns out for the worse
3 days ago I was almost kidnapped by police men for having a credit alert of a particular amount if MONEY a relative in US sent to me for business
I bailed myself with 30k.
It's well

Quite a sour experience! So sorry for that. Always delete your credit alerts whenever you receive an alert.

Kingbuhari:
People like me . I japa immediately the clueless one Bubihari rob Jonathan and am not regretting it today

Interesting! Which country are you in?