₦airaland Forum

Phonefanatic:
With your thinking I see marriage as scam. If she wanted to do things by herself why get married? She could have gotten pregnant without marrying which will give her all the space to do things alone and enjoy her money.

Some guys can be very good and nice if they see they will benefit a lot from you. The lady might have been deceived into commitment. You would not know the heaven on earth that guy promised him during courtship. Might even be serving her breakfast in bed. After marriage, they assume they now own the woman and all her hustle and start forming galadima. Smart woman will not make noise but will use there God gifted sixth sense the likes of Eve and Jezebel used. I always advise my fellow guys not to try disturb the evil in a woman. If a woman decides to plan for you, guy you are finished.

khiaa:
Who makes the rules in a Nigerian home when both partners are paying the bills equally?

That kind of marriage only works if its handled as business partners or contract. I suggest to guys if they marry a feminist or self made woman...come clean and propose the course as business or contract marriage, trust me both of you will be happy. However, some men will not do that, they will rather hide in the name of am the man and drain the woman like parasites to host. If it then didnt work out the way they want, the will claim victim of bad marriage. I suspect thats the case of the OP. He could be one of those who scream I must marry a working class lady.

khiaa:
As incredibly selfish and cold hearted as this woman sounds I can understand where she's coming from. My reasons are as follows.

1. You men bring this kind of behavior onto yourselves with the society and the culture you have created that seems to always favor the man.

The house belongs to the man alone.
When you are angry with your wives you tell her to leave YOUR house just as the op told his wife. He expected her to beg him to let her stay but when she didn't beg him he was shocked. She didn't beg because she has provided a refuge for herself. Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot and you were told to get out of your matrimonial home with no compensation and nowhere to go the way a lot of you husband's do your wives simply because he wants someone else.

2. Since your culture doesn't believe in community property (All properties belonging to both husband and wife ) a smart wife would make sure that she has the security of shelter and some funds put away for herself and her children incase shyt happens, otherwise she would be left homeless and destitute.

3. I can't count how many times I have read on here about husbands throwing their wives out of HIS house with nowhere to go simply because he wants to move his girlfriend and his outside children into HIS house.

4. I give kudos to the wives who are wise enough to make her own money and provide for herself and not completely depend on her husband for everything.

5. The down side to this story is the secrecy and not doing her part in providing for the family especially when the husband was having financial difficulties.

Bitter truth...poor traditions that were made centuries ago and when you try to edit or adjust them, you will be called names.

pryncipal:
Sports 24 scrambled.

Yea...they timed it...dstv must have put a lot of pressure.

Why police men for bank dey carry den gun instead of an automatic machine gun. Now, robbers know that they can easily over power police men in the bank with simple automatic AK47. This kind of crime will increase following Owerri zenit bank and now skybank.

Make IPOB pple no go learn from russia...this one wey NK go underground.

nNEOo:
Ok straight to the question!
Will you go to war if our current president or his vice is murdered outside this country?
What will happen to nigeria that will prompt you to defend her.
Let hear your thoughts'-driven opinions

Cc: lalasticlala

I cannot go to war for Sudan, I am a Nigerian

PenisCaP:
Yea.. anybody who is against freedom
May he experince captivity in his personal life and everything he does

The problem is some pple dont know the meaning of this...they wallow in captivity and will beg. If you dont have anything to comment, why not shut up.

caesaraba:
Toh, those who faced the war and saw that there was no profit there-in have spoken. Those whose only war experience is call of duty and mortal combat are online "burning down the zoo" everyday. Just a little taste of gunshots and the Dilector is no where to be found. If you think a landlocked region can seccede without warfare, you might as well be sleeping on a bicycle.

Yea..no region can seccede without war...however, these old men should forever be grateful to Nnamdi Kanu. If not for his noise making, no one will remember them. I respect NK for some fearless attitude and attention he brought to the east. The igbos were almost forgotten in Nigeria.

TheHistorian:
Lives are irreplaceable ooh.

I expect FIFA and other related organisation take proactive security measures ahead of the World Cup.

But..Why can't we live in a crime-free society where we have no violence and we all peacefully co-exist??...Why??

na watin konji cause for abraham body. This konji matter no be today, if u bring house maid wey get big nyash keep for my house, I fit make mistake ooo

ekems2017:
I strongly disagree with this research. I was pregnant with my first baby and the only thing I could drink for the whole nine mths was zobo. I was advised not to drink kunu that time so that my baby will not be too big. I drank zobo as if my life depended on it. Gave birth to a baby that weighed 3.5kg. So which one come be this one i just read?
Someone once told me that if I drink this same zobo I will go in to Labour before my baby is up to nine months but I carry am pass the date the doctor even gave me.

Abeg make i rest with this una research.

dont mind the fuxkkking fake researchers. Everybody should eat watin hungry am.

sarafa68:
am i the only one? Why cant a cooked yam stay in my stomack for up to 5hr?

no be only you...the thing na appetizer...any time i chop yam...hunger go finish me that day.

Why take down beinsports logo from website now november is around the corner?

Error...some devil wey dey woman body no dey like hear wedding. Just carry her go TB joshua or find your way from the marriage

lelvin:
I wonder how someone will blow their self to pieces. As as how? The way life is sweet like this. That means what doctors say about every human having a brain is a lie, maybe some have nothing up there, just smoke. What an intellectually disadvantaged pupulation.

I tell u...the life of a muslem no dey sweet...na why they no see anything wrong suicide mission. No drinking no partying no fuxkkking ...nothing at all. Even Aisha no dey too enjoy money. Na only igbo man sabi use money hence the envy.

proudlyYoruba:
Even hollywood support no give clinton victory not to talk of kannywood a minute faction of the Nigeria movie industry

Kannywood is just 5%

Booby88:
Atiku is the best man for the job!

In 2011, we voted for the innocent and fresh air GEJ, many think he did not perform up to expectation... In 2015, they voted for "Mr Integrity and Body odour"... His case has been a monumental failure!

It is time we go for a "known criminal" at least he might want to prove us wrong by performing excellently

Atiku got my vote come 2019

If you really want to vote for a known criminal, vote for Evans. He will attract international criminal and they will invest massively here.

Blackfyre:
How did the 'risks' benefit themselves, their families or Nigeria today? If they had succeeded, would it have benefited Nigerians today?

The youths of today are smarter though, they have realized all man for himself.

Obasanjo and Buhuari are examples of risk takers and they benefitted. Do you know how many pple they have killed and thats why they got good positions at a verry young age. However, I agree with you, there success no help us at all. Likewise those who failed, its possible there success would not have benefitted anybody.

Those men were more men that youths of these days. Those guys take great risks and dont fear death that much.

philantropiest:
Hmmm...tot we made d right and best choice by voting uncle jona n his PDP party out of power nt knwing we only played into the wrong hands[APC].
Me as a pson av cum to terms with my mistakes.so let dem kwantinue 4yrs is around d corner.

Another 4yrs and you will make another mistake. Best option is to stay back during elections find out how to generate cheap electricity or bitcoins. Trust me, you will not care who is the president of Nigeria again.

Flashh:
So many patients that came to me recently didn't get HIV through STD, but due to some other things.

No need to start sharing long story about one that came recently, which his wife who is negative dumped a new born baby of 4 month old for him and left.

Some questions were asked; which he told me he patronises those "Aboki nail cutters" a lot. There's tendency he got it from there.

People should should be extra careful these days.

I strongly disagree with your stat though.

Bro in the current Nigeria and world I know, the only way to HIV is by sex. Anyone who tells you otherwise, may not be saying the truth. People love cheap sex alot and everybody fukkk alot. There are places you will go in the night and you will agree with me. Those you even think they are saints do the worsth. I don see many things...there is no way u will convince me about any aboki. HIV dont stay long outside blood stream...people commit attrocities in hidden places.

valdes00:
She asked "What do I do for a living?
Then I replied, "I analyze and invest in highly risky business opportunities that has the possibilities of high returns, I deal with international investment of over 1.5, 2.5, 3.5, analyzing and investing in business opportunities across England, Spain, Italy, Germany, France etc."
She was excited but she neva knew I was talking about Bet9ja...

Yea...youth empowerment program. If she want exactly to know what you mean like some inquisitive ladies. Just tell her you are the cordinator...Youth empowerment program Fed rebublic of Nigeria and amabasador to England and other european countries like spain and germany.

The Nigerian Army needs to fight this woman with more sophisticated weapons including the alpha jets. I urge Buhari to approve 100 million dollars in order to aquire more arms and amunations from Russia.

Lomprico2:


Victory for the NA against civilians with stones and sticks.
Yay!!

Unfortunately for them, the final onslaught against the enemy using niddles, syringes and an unknown vaccine failed woefully anyway the won d battle in general. Welcome back home brave ones.

That is if this story is true sef

Yea.h....gallant soldiers weldone....though it was a tough fight bc, sticks and bottles can do wonders against tanks and Ak47. Military vs civilians 2017 civil war...victory to the Nigeria soldiers vanquish to civilians.

fitzfrankses7:
Ok... Transacting with btc is easier

in other words...6m...e cost.

sarrki:
Father Mbaka is always with the masses

Obiano will win neatly

this people just dey bribe God any how...for over 4yrs u never kneel down pray to God even when terrorists kill people for church. Now, election don reach u go bribe pastor, so that masses go follow u emotionally. After election, you go back to your empire and they go back to there creeks. God is watching.

dingbang:
you are right.. Union bank branches are becoming well presentable these days. I don't know if anyone has noticed this.

whoever the md is, he is doing a good job. I thought that bank was going to die, but they are coming out clean everyday.

BigSarah:
So there's this guy in my department looks so much like my primary school sweetheart who passed away .
Anytime I see him I get so drawn to him.. I'm a really shy person like nervous, Sweating,heartracing kinda shy, only around him though.
So I took his number off my department group chat and started sending him all sort of texts and he replied back well for the first 3days but he kept saying that I should tell him who I'm (I didn't use my number got a new line, just for that purpose). As of Yesterday He Sent me this mean text

.Mtchew.... Wtf
Sarah or whatever ur name is, dont call nor text me again
Who cares abt who u are.
Let's dis be the last time u call and text me..
To hell with u, mtchew ..

I didnt call him throughout that day, but I called today he still asked who is dis, I ignored the question then he hanged up.
What do I do now? Telling him it's me is gonna be so embarrassing to me I've poored out my heart shamelessly in those texts and it'll be horrible if he ends up not dating me after the revelation.
I don't wanna miss him please Tips

well naturally women no sabi toast the opposite. If na man na, na to call her frame up one story and ask that we meet. Use same method, call him with ur real no...tell him you got his no, from group chat, ask if he knows how to do this or that....from there u start

Homeboys going awol...eclllesiatis and proverb always coming to mind. Same thing visits all, both rich and poor, wise and foolish, young and old...death comes to them all. However, is better to be wise than foolish.

Divay22:
One can't pretend for long.
So just go along with the flow .

Thats it however, somepeople just want to repent for good due to past experiences. She might have repented and just want to be real and open. My stand is trust any woman at your own risk, I only follow my instinct.

autotrader014:
In 1976 i was not born, when i was born in 1984, i was told we are the leaders of tommorow. This is 2017, the leaders of the past are still leading us till today.
And you expect this country to move forward? Its not possible..

Pet Edochies son is contesting for Governor of Anambra state. And i watched with disdain people making stupid comments here, mocking the guy and i wondered if this generation anything good was going to come of it..
How old was buhari wen he became the petroleum minister? We need change, we need young minds, not the type of change APC promised us.

Can you compair a 1984 Mercedes-Benz with a 2017 Benz? Not comparible in any way..

Someone needs to set up a youth group or forum where all youths will have a govt like SUG and decides what happenes in this fukkking country. That someone is young does not mean he has leadership quality hence, the critics against Yul. However, we know there are some young people with good leadership quality then, the youth group will choose him instead and make sure he is installed.

We have successfully wasted four years and a generation must have gone without seeing any good from Nigeria.