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Not starting my business.

Rather than remain miserable or worse still dead. I say go for divorce and live happy and longer.

duni04: Wonder who sits down to writtee all these things

Sensible people.

Omo, see Brazilian babes with dis kind fyne body. I pity men today o.

I'm saying a simple prayer...May the wicked perpetrator be caught. May the baby be alive and may the mother not die of heart break. And may we never experience this. Amen.

Watch them? When there are lions killing Cheetahs on Nat Geo Wild? Between watching 'real' reality and wasting time on 'fake' realities, which would you prefer?

Gawd! To think I'm missing this cos of my hubby. Dat house go tire am dis week o.

dirtymoney: and upon the whole money my own state- Akwa Ibom state has been recieving as subvention, nothing close to this was organized. Just one boring out-of-concept, medivial 999 man choir display, wey d governor no allow make we hear word. Come to think of it, why did they choose 999? Inverted mark of the beast.

Eyeneka aba die. I'm in total support. That bro Goddy na proper noise maker. Imagine, recycling same event every xmas. Nothing to blow one's mind. I tire jare

I hate bad news. Lord have mercy.

Leadn: A not too venomous snake(all those green snakes) once fell on my neck,, I thought my junior bro was playing as usual until the snake moved it's head and looked at me! choi!!! I don't even know how I removed it from my neck...

I went to call my father and he was telling me "I should have kept it one place so he'll come and kill it" see as I just looked at him that day like WTF??! I should hold a dangerous animal on my neck so yu can come and kill it

I no fit shout. Ya father na real case. Did he think you had some snake charms? Keep the snake??LWKMD.

Wtf! In Nigeria here?[quote author=dl_jbd]Yep, in Nigeria here.

Too much sides to this story any which way you look at it. Who knows what he or she is thinking? No need second guessing their action. It will only become more inexplicable the more you try to analyze it.

Eseries: Failed woefully where I never thought in the past I will, where no one ever thought I will, my past teachers,friends, parents , siblings!
Was depressed for so long!
It hit me so hard maybe it is because it is My first time of experiencing "real" failure. I have been flying ever since and my mates have 2 look up 2 see me and all of a sudden...*gbam! Am on de ground!
But I have this tiny loud voice that keep saying to me;
You are built tough!
You are built smart!
You are built to stand out!
So here I am!.......come on 2013!
Can't wait to take on you!

Yea, that's me. I'll rise again.

My brother once wore his trouser with a cobra inside. Suffice it to say when the snake started crawling out, drama ensued. It was after everything that my bros realized he was standing outside buck naked in front of everyone. I never can tell how the snake didn't bite him during all the commotion. . God is good.

Classic case of man's inhumanity to man but I'm not bothered. While the Deputy Governor is so proud to discriminate today, he may likely be a victim tomorrow. As one among the useless set of politicians we have today, he may likely get the HIV virus from any of the runs babes he plays Sugar Daddy to,(CD or not). He has forgotten that the thing one fears most is what may likely kill him.

babyosisi: That one is a psychotic stalker
You are lucky
Such men usually pour acid,stab,shoot or hurt the women in terrible ways because they would destroy you if they can't have you
You need to move faraway from him,they can snap at anytime and go totally nuts.
Don't think he has forgotten you
You need to take precautions,if na here,you would be advised to report this to the police and get a restraining order to keep him miles from wherever you are because he is a clear danger to you.

My dear you are right. I had to tell my hubby about him just in case. We have taken some precautions. I've never understood his obsession and I'm always conscious of the fact that he is a danger to me.Unfortunately,I once went to report the matter to the police, the mugu officers on duty told me I should go back home, kneel down and thank God that I had a man who was so taken by me. I couldn't help abusing those officers that day. When their superior learnt of the matter, he took it up but they haven't done much by way of reprimanding or cautioning him. I'm still cautious and watching, ALERTNESS is the word here.

God! that was the most terrible time in my life. The guy I never dated was over possessive. I said no to his advances over a hundred times but he claimed I was his wife and still pestered me. He'll come to the hostel at odd hours just to find me. He never allowed me a minute rest. Will abandon his job and come to the lecture hall to sit in during lectures and harass my lecturers if they so much as looked at me. He flooded my corner with gifts I never wanted. He came to my house during the holidays to peep into my room over the fence in the middle of every night! My mum once poured hot water on him thinking he was a thief. He called my guy up in Lagos and told him to leave me that I was preggers for him and this is a guy I never slept with for even a day o. He threatened any man he saw with me, from colleagues to friends. He labeled me his woman on campus and no amount of explanation made people to believe I had nothing to do with him. The whole thing was a big nightmare. Detaching him from my life was like trying to detach a leech from your flesh without using salt. Finally I gave him the greatest showdown of all times, I called some bad boys on him but not before he ruined the relationship I had (though I don't regret it one bit). When I finally got him out of my life, he went to a babalawo to make juju for me not to marry. His friend reported the thing to me and I almost committed murder that day. Thank God I'm now married and the nonsense is behind me. Now I hear he still visits churches for pastors to pray for me to accept him. The guys was and is still loco.

PROUD-IGBO:
^^^What ere/ction? All i see is a guy that maybe is wearing boxer-shorts, instead of proper y-fronts that can reign in his stuff properly; he's just probably well endowed and stupidly commited a 'dressing' faux-pas by wearing lose fitting underwear that's all.

Your the only one that has made sense of the situation. Yet still I'm LOL at some of the comments.

Airtel all the way. I hardly use my other lines to make calls and Airtel internet speed is great.

So how and why did the rumours start?

salam001: are you a native of the igbo speaking Akwa Ibomites?

I don't think so cos it's called udara in every part of Akwa Ibom.

justsayemma: Its called udara in Akwa Ibom (d only country inside a country)

yea, that's the name mehn.

.....this too, shall come to pass... (it reminds me that everything in life is transient, so I'm never moved nor bothered by anything I see).

What a pity!!!!

So what is new here? Are we no longer in Nigeria? I've given up on petroleum marketers, they along with our corrupt politicians are the bane of this country

SlyIg: I can sense love medicine aka 'kop no mi' in this man's life.

ha ha ha. Ata kop no mi.

@OP, goes to show you don't really know what you want. Your'e asking us to advise you on what choice to make based on a girl's background? Thought marital decisions should be based on character, love, compatability and other important factors, what then is this shyte about broken and separated parents? SMH... My candid advice? Leave the poor girl alone because no matter how good she is, you will always judge any little mistake she makes based on her background. Asking this question simply means your mind is opposed to the idea already, you are just asking for support to enforce your belief.

etenyong: I don't hav english name & very much proud of my native name UBONGABASI meaning God's glory. Also my wife & chidren all bears native calabar names. Proudly naija.

Hmmm, eyen eka aba die? Efik or Ibibio?

Makes better sense than some of those hogwash penned by some writers.

There is nothing as bad as claiming to hear from God when you haven't. Its a one way ticket to total disgrace.

From my little nephew to me; Aunty, why did my daddy bring out his pee pee to fight with my mummy?