₦airaland Forum

lonelydora:
So because he bought a Porsche and was tongue lashed, thats why he is pretending to be a nice man? Nothing special. We do it in our church too.

Used clothes, shoes, and jewelries from church members.



Anyways, Kudos to the man.

You spoke my mind.

They claim to be Christians but display reptilian mentality.

What are we even thinking/doing?

The poor church members are told to store their riches in heaven while their rich pastors flaunt the latest "best of the best" rides on earth.

Ok na.

Having spent time to read what our ladies like in a man, I really come to understand why a good number of them are still single.

Some of them (ladies) would make good sanitary inspectors.

cocoberry:
The wife can always fall back on the sweet dishes of the husband especially when she seeks for variety. This will help the woman eat more because a lot of women eat more when the food is prepared by someone else.

That applies only to women that can't cook delicious food.

I enjoy my own cooking the most because I visualized the outcome before even going to the market.

The wind is blowing southwards...

I like cooking and take it as creating a piece of art work to be tasted and savoured.

I had girls always wanting to come around because they are sure of good soups in the fridge.

It's fun helping my Lady in the kitchen, and have to restrain myself from taking over or being too over sabi.

...and you say he is your husband?

He is just your sex partner that paid your bride price. Your body is his, his body not yours.

MizMyColi:
Last I checked,
Security is also a basic need.

She said, and I quote


The Onus is now on Dasuki and GEJ to provide evidence on how said funds was appropriated.

Give the woman a breather please.

That's a lame reason, what of our financial security, who handles that part of discussion in the Security Council?

Most people's comments show they don't understand the implications of this letter.

If NOI seeks, gets approval and disbursed money that is "to be appropriated" makes her complicit in the looting of the treasury, arms scandal aside.

Maybe some people need to really check the meaning of "to be appropriated".

shebi America is the land of the free, where every man is entitled to his inspired opinion?

dem neva chi chum chin!

excellentmomma:
Na wah o, so much hate in the land... God help Nigeria, "so far he is not my tribe, kill him he is a rogue" I'm scared of the future of this Nation state.

*do they even know this man is born again truly**?

My dear, it's not hate, it's the pain and frustration of a nation with so much abundance yet overwhelming poverty (of the mind on the part of our leaders) in the land. That's the irony of Nigeria.

Being born again has nothing to do with this, for "they claim to know God but by their actions deny him"(Titus 1:16)

You said they are after you but would not mention names to the President, so he should go do his homework and know those after you, abi?

Nemesis is the name of those after you, for they shall surely catch up with you, for your crimes (if any) shall slow you down.

PunkyVeer:
And where do you get the manipulation part from

I don't expect you to see the manipulation... for telling the guy to return the balm and he did, shows that there is more to it than is reported.

PunkyVeer:
Very much. Seriously, guys this transparent are very rare. Majority are Pinocchios & career liars.

That's why his gf is manipulating him like a Muppet, abi?

I wonder if any of us after graduation from University has gone back to write primary 6 exams for First School Leaving Certificate or gone back to share the degree with the pupils of his/her Alma mater?

At the very best, you would sign post the the means and benefits to the pupils to obtain theirs, which Jesus did.

Waiting and hoping for Jesus to return (which I doubt) and share his Christ-hood with us smacks of the victim mentality.

Christ-hood is a degree all men should attain following the example of the Masters.

All paths that leads to and up the mountain provides a vantage point at the top for all to look at the same moon.

Things are getting better....

I thank God for leaders with the will to do the needful...

If anyone does not take care of his own relatives, especially his immediate family, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. (1 Tim 5:8 ISV)
They claim to know God, but by their actions they deny him. (Titus 1:16)

Boss13:
I think he is entitled to his opinion. However, his opinion shows why politicians continue to steal our resources. They steal these funds and oppress the public by displaying it to our faces. We even sing and clap for them to continue.

We, Nigerians, pride ourselves to be smart and intelligent. We travel abroad to rub it on the faces of our host countries, but what an Irony. I see no smartness nor intelligence if our political leaders continue to steal from us and we sit down to observe. Politicians in Kenya cannot steal and rub it off the faces their citizens, they will be stoned to death.

In the fight against corruption, we have a role to play too. Apart from whistle blowing against corrupt officials, there is the need to leave this stupid passive observation and e-fighting to an active support against corrupt public officers.

Our problem is the preoccupation with "stomach infrastructure" to the exclusion of all else even by those whose stomachs are ripping by the seams.

How do you expect hungry men to reason rationally and come out with something not connected with stomach filling?

Someone proposed firing squad for those complicit in looting our patrimony without all these publicity, and I wonder how that can be possible in a democracy without some people shouting "dictatorship" and extra judicial killing?

If on here we can't see anything wrong in what these men did while in office, we would likely do same given any opportunity.

Guy man relax, experience is not the birthright or preserve of any one person.

Those you say are experienced, where and how did they come about it?

No matter how much a lady talks about childbirth, it's only the one that has actually given birth to a child that can say she had that experience, yet every woman has the potential to give birth.

I believe and know nobody gets experience by talking about an issue but solving one.

justmenoni:
I still don't know why our leaders will only appoint party members as minister's, adviser's and commissioners.
.this woman to me is more suitable qualified and experienced than BRF and even adeosun... I'm not an IBB fan but according to what I quote from him in his recent interview is that been incompetent isn't usually the problem but been inexperienced but alot of people fail to digest that...you can't get a top(even ordinary jobs such as cleaning jobs,sales job etc)these days without experience so how is BRF,ameachi, that MJ imam qualified as minister's, I mean how is been a governor directly relevant with been a minister, how are u ever gonna do it U're gonna listen to adviser's These same adviser's are inexperienced so in the end we can't get anywhere...

This is the main problem we have now,I mean their are highly qualified and experienced Nigerian engineers, economist, scientist,professor's both home and abroad who our govt just need to test out and see the positive change we are actually looking for..what information can lie Muhammed give to our society... .osho baba couldn't do anything in edo cos he's not the right person for the job...

Imagine ppl like saraki, buruji, Dino even Murray in the Senate,, what are they going to offer Where are our lawyer's


Gbenga ashafa as been there since who knows when yet he's never tired despite that he's doing absolutely nothing...
Sharing okada, sewing machine etc ain't why they're sent their...


Same thing happening on nairaland,, we've inexperienced Mods.. Just say what they don't like and ur comments will be deleted and u will be banned... Imagine justwise banning me since 2 year's from travel section? Imagine this same justwise condemning someone on canadas travel thread despite this person using his time,money and energy to give people free information and even indirectly telling this person to go to hell, what's seen doing to that nothing!!!! Why cos he's also inexperienced cos we the user's are the first customers and without us their is no nairaland...

I guess she just got this insight of solving our power problem last month.
She was here for 2 administrations, working hand in hand with 2 Presidents yet God in his infinite wisdom denied her this insight to solve our problems till now.

Advice is easy to give but hard to take.

There is a manipulation that I think Radio Biafra was/is being used to perpetuate: Psychotronic ELF mind control.

And I also believe Boko Haram is one of such manipulation.

Why is it that the agitation for Biafra took a different tempo as soon as Nnamdi Kanu was there; coming to a climax this last year?

I know my assumption is far fetched but is not an impossibility, going by the prophecy by the Super powers that be, that the zoo Nigeria would disintegrate in 2015.

And so the testing of a Psychotronic mind control weapon on this scale, as was done in Rwanda, is a military science permissible experiment.

dualsurvey:
Forget mystical or metaphysical, on the seventh day, God perfected the work of creation and he rested. In God's dictionary, 7 means perfection. Or is mystical or metaphysical greater than the creator of heaven and earth?

Like I said it depends on the method you use.

Come to think of it, is God not a mystical being?

Or it beats your imagination that there is more than your christian indoctrination has room to accommodate.

Hahahahahahahaha

It depends on the method you use, it can be any number, but if you talk of perfection in the mystical and metaphysical sense of it, 9 is the number.

Add or multiply any series of numbers, multiply by 9,
Add the digits of the final answer,
You still get your 9


That's where we get the saying "a cat with 9 lives"

dualsurvey:
What a nice company! 7 represents perfection. To every1 born on this day, Happy birhtday to us all.

"As a Christian or pastor, you can be divorced, sued to court, slapped, ridiculed, and all you can think of, but you cannot do any of these to others."

Please relate the above quote of yours to your comments below.
Your above quote is what I argued.

That's why I said we shouldn't make excuses for anybody.
Pst Chris and Pst Anita are accomplished counselors in their own right and it's not our place to counsel them.

It only shows that no matter the volume of anointing anyone claims to carry they are still humans and subject to the laws that govern human behavior.

It's written "whoever that breaks an hedge, a serpent shall bite"(Ecclesiastes 10:8 ); they broke the hedge of marriage and are bitten by the serpent of divorce.

Smooyis:
From my response you will clearly know that I was not in support of divorce by a Christian or pastor. I was only responding to the misrepresentation and accusations made that pastor Chris went through divorce and as such questionsting his authority as a man of God. I do not want to join issues with his wife because as a Christian and pastor she understands what the Bible says on it.

But if we must tell ourselves the truth, pastor Anita should have endured the pains while praying over her marital situation the more. Every marriage goes through though times. And tough time they say does not last but tough people do.

We all make mistakes as Christians, but when we do we must get back to our feet and look to God for direction. Not court!

Take a second look at your argument.

Is Anita not a pastor or christian?

Were they not joined and became one flesh? so Pst Anita suing for divorce is as good as Pst Chris suing.

If/when a man fails in an area of his life, there is no point making excuses for him on the basis of his being a "man of God", after all we are all "kings and priests unto onto our God".

All the same, I wish him a happy birthday.

Smooyis:
Was he the one that divorced his wife or his wife that divorced him. As a Christian or pastor, you can be divorced, sued to court, slapped, ridiculed, and all you can think of, but you cannot do any of these to others. Please let us understand the things of God more clearly rather than rushing to malign or insult the personality of men of God because of the situation they go through.

Happy birthday dear pastor.

Pull out is sinful if and only if you do it to your late brother's wife (just like Onan) else it's the way to go (not with ashawo ooo)

Wrong headline.

Here is the correction:

Re: Biafrans Expelled From Senegal Stadium For Displaying Biafra Flags

djmally:
God recognizes any marriage covenant between a man and woman (in the presence of witnesses-family and friends) as binding, legal and eternal irrespective of location (shrine,mosque,court,house or church), facilitator (imam, native priest, pastor or court registrar) and situation (dressing, time and prevailing conditions).

Hehehehehe
No marriage is eternal, as long as it is consummated on planet earth.

How can a mortal's marriage bestow immortality?

Marriage starts and ends here, in mortality, that's why they say "till death do us part".

nnahernest:
my brother,don't encourage fornication,before I say anything read Hebrew 13:4 the bible said,marriage must be holy,with the marital bed undefiled,whoremongers and adulteries God will judge,
secondly saying they only look after those who are pregnant so as to punish them and leave those who commit premarital sex you are wrong,in my church,if you have had sex with your wife to be no wedding,that is the correct standard of Christ,the bible said,if the foundation is faulty what those the righteous do,and the bible still said,the righteous has nothing to do,so therefore you can't start your marriage on a faulty foundation of fornication
3rdly,marriage in the scripture happened then before the establishment of church,and no church will tell you not to do traditional marriage, but what they avoid is pouring libation to the ancestors,which happens in almost every traditional marriage,and by the time you do that,you are connect the couples to the spirit of there forefathers,that is why most marriages experience what they don't know about,which is against the scripture in exodus 20:1_10,for more clarification add me on whatsapp, 07039476669

Jesus did not set any standard for marriage because he didn't marry, did he?

Don't drag Jesus into this, the OP is talking about the practice of some churches that is discouraging and driving people away from church.

So you think because nobody poured libations during your traditional wedding you are not connected to your ancestors?

It's not libations that connect us but our blood, libation is just a ritual.

How can it be traditional wedding without ancestral connection and recognition?

Ancestors does not always connote evil, after all Abraham, Jesus and all the ascended and departed masters are part of the ancestors.. and one day we all shall be ancestors.

Why are we splitting hair over letters when it's the spirit that gives life?

From time before memory, abbreviations, codes and numbers have been used to represent words and names (especially sacred ones).

How does writing Xmas for Christmas diminish it's significance, celebration or commemoration?

You guys think higher beings bother with the names of your holidays?

If you take a little time to google, you would discover more than you can swallow about Christmas.

Truckpusher:
Probably you grew up in a household that gave you an insight on what it is to be a human and not just a woman and at the same time gave you a fine ideology which is constantly clashing with what you see in the society and the realities of life from the economic point of view and the societal acceptance of who you are.
.But what if the reverse is the case here ? Would you even have that level of intelligence to think this way when all you've known all your life was that the next man in your life is your meal ticket for life?
What if you grew up in a household that gave you an ideology that you have to be a man's toy to be accepted as being responsible in the society ? Would you still be running with the same mentality?

When a child is talking you know from her reasoning, shallow and narrow, lacking experience and the ability to see things from a different perspective.

You do well to reply her, if only she can see things from the level you are showing her.