₦airaland Forum

JaphNice:
bless you too brotherly.

maleekberry:
https://dailytimesng.com/police-to-arrest-lagos-socialite-who-attempted-suicide-over-collapse-of-marriage-after-8-weeks/

Omicronvaccine:
https://igberetvnews.com/1450575/suspected-assassins-storm-edo-church-shoot-pastor-kill-wife-photos/

hisexcellency34:
Throwback picture of suspended Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) Governor, Godwin Emefiele with his wife and son.

officialwdhtv:
Nigerian man flaunts his beautiful "Oyinbo" white girlfriend ❤

#wetindeyhappentv

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CwFI09-JBTZ/?igshid=NjIwNzIyMDk2Mg==


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HvPsH11alUI

Ibrahimcoomasie:
https://amp.theguardian.com/world/2023/aug/16/niger-coup-backers-call-for-mass-mobilisation-amid-military-threat-from-regional-bloc

talented321:
The opposition party especially (lp) they are doing like they can fight the govt' some times i just wonder'' this people has taken this freedom of speech to far'' it high time they deal with them.

IconicR:
There's nothing wrong, he needs to be protected from the evil hands of obidients.

Jewessgratitud3:
*From a concerned lady*👇‼️

My husband is not the same man I fell in love with.

My husband changed totally after wedding day, in fact, it started on the wedding night and its giving me a lot of concern.

It's not that he is not talking to me or we are fighting, but he is not the cheerful happy person anymore.

After months of trying to get what the problem is, he finally opened up to me and I don't know what my fault is, I think he is overreacting.

My husband works in an insurance company and he is just a junior staff, he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad.

When we wanted to get married, my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once.

We had little issue then but he later resolved it.

He brought everything they asked for.

During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow, rent a hall and decorate it then they'll take care of other things. He said he didn't have money for a big hall and he would prefer a field ground but my dad insisted that rain could disrupt things and he has many people coming.

That almost cause issues too, I had to support him with 50k to get the hall because I know who my dad is, he won't back out.

I didn't know how he did it, he took the hall and designed it, he bought cow too.

His family brought food and everything went fine and that was it.

I don't know what was keeping him moody until he spoke up.

He said I couldn't fight for him, I was there supporting my parents and watch them extorting him, did I even know he had to collect loan to pay for those things?

I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.

He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.

After I said this, he stopped talking in the house, he comes home, eat and go to bed.

I tried talking to him but he would listen but not talk, he is cold to himself and prefer his privacy.

Have I said something wrong?

I don't like whats happening. My marriage is too young to be going through all these.

I am tired, I don't know what to do.

Advise this lady

saintbillion:
Good day my fellow nairalanders, woke up this morning and I heard the printing of NYSC call up letter is on going. I rush to the site, key in my login details, and click on call up letter. Boom what I saw silent my joy.
Na Kaduna them post me. I dey fear north. Pls any suggestions?

References1:
https://leadership.ng/police-arrest-futo-security-guard-1-other-over-rape-of-minor/?utm_source=&utm_medium=facebook&fbclid=IwAR19sQPwj-pNJ658MWv0ZeA5rA5_61zkHQZB3TGCriH2GHfcTZxMoRoVSpY

Racoon:
https://twitter.com/Topboychriss/status/1690261561217040384?t=d_ITB5vuu9pZywrcHsk1xA&s=08[/quote]stop shaking the table for vawulence abeg🙏🙏

iSense247:
Architect of the modern day Anambra

The most popular politician in Nigeria

African most accessible leader

World's most humble billionaire

Vladm:
.....abeg, before tournament finish help us check if abba kyari still dey serve.
If yes, give am better knock from us


'Good initiative tho'

ogbe88:
You are not well, if this is all u can say.

Wodu89:
The mentality of the man is that one an individual that can't manage a crisis o. Small things men crumble under pressure that's why little challenge people kill themselves rather than take the lessons, become resilientz persevere, hope and rise in faith taking step by step actions trusting the process


This thread to me exposes the sick psyche of our society. We aren't producing much healthy male species.

officialwdhtv:
Awwnnn Nigerian man proposes to his pretty oyinbo girlfriend ❤





https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Eeuq178aCE

Wodu89:
God bless you. This are the sensible comments I was expecting to see and not the whole bashing of the woman's family. I have always maintained wedding is a test of a man's ability to weather the storms. God bless you my brother. You see clearly

Wodu89:
Im surprised people are not mentioning the malice, sulking and the childish behavior he's using to start off. Only focusing on 150k. The husband isn't mature for marriage


How can one start the journey of marriage with such thick malice over such trivial matter. What if one now offends him, will this one be capable of forgiving anyone. What a nonsense. Nigeria raises very pathetic men. See his kinds supporting him all over the place turning side eyes to all his childish antics. I see no sign of maturity at all in the description of his behaviors. Let's hope the op didn't lie on the man but if the description is the husband's real attitude it's not apology he needs, he needs to be sent back to couples counseling sessions.

Ehinjuola:
My husband is not the same man I fell in love with.

My husband changed totally after wedding day, in fact, it started on the wedding night and its giving me a lot of concern.

It's not that he is not talking to me or we are fighting, but he is not the cheerful happy person anymore.

After months of trying to get what the problem is, he finally opened up to me and I don't know what my fault is, I think he is overreacting.

My husband works in an insurance company and he is just a junior staff, he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad.

When we wanted to get married, my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once.

We had little issue then but he later resolved it.

He brought everything they ask him for

During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow, rent a hall and decorate it then they'll take care of other things. He said he didn't have money for a big hall and he would prefer a field ground but my dad insisted that rain could disrupt things and he has many people coming.

That almost cause issues too, I had to support him with 50k to get the hall because I know who my dad is, he won't back out.

I didn't know how he did it, he took the hall and designed it, he bought cow too.

His family brought food and everything went fine and that was it.

I don't know what was keeping him moody until he spoke up.

He said I couldn't fight for him, I was there supporting my parents and watch them extorting him, did I even know he had to collect loan to pay for those things?

I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.

He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.

After I said this, he stopped talking in the house, he comes home, eat and go to bed.

I tried talking to him but he would listen but not talk, he is cold to himself and prefer his privacy.

Have I said something wrong?

I don't like whats happening. My marriage is too young to be going through all these.

I am tired, I don't know what to do.

IconicR:
We have our eyes on him. We expect wonders from him as a reverend father. By the way where is Obi? There's this sudden silence vibes I'm getting from him recently, has he conceded to defeat or what could he be up to?

Biodun556:
Although he gandollard, Ganduje still the best in the north in terms infrastructure

Let's be mindful of our social media posts.

Is it right for Maryam Shetty to be seeking political appointment from people she does like?
She should have rejected the offer, if truly she was sincere with her post on social media

labake1:
I have fear of height (Acrophobia), I always run away from storey buildings. In fact I always avoid a situation where someone will carry or lift me. On my wedding day, I will tell the MC to skip that part. I don't know how to overcome the fear.

What are you afraid of?
And have you conquered your fears?

obyno82:
Non......C'est n'pas la vie

cjudy:
Aragbala gi

Chironks:
Can you share one word about your partner that will make you want to renew?

cjudy:
Poverty have elude you.

cjudy:
Ehh yeah poor boy

Danisaint112:
Everyone know the druggies was and is still a criminal. Only his Agbado munching baboons think otherwise.

Watch how they would leave those guys and start blaming Igbos and IPOB for Tinubu past and present horrible lifestyle which has since gone global.