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Height is not what is important, ladies can be attracted to any height at first sight.

I think you should work on your confidence and composure. Your style, including your choice of clothing and accessories, can also attract a lady because it provides its own interpretation of who you are. The way you carry and present yourself is important as well.

In a group of guys, ladies are sometimes drawn to the cool and composed ones.

Kingcalls:
Women always think they are right ... what did u do?? Men don't show emotions when they are abused , they can't cry , so they rather will hit, its in our nature ...so y do women think they can just insult men and get away with it... as long as the world dont preach that women should also respect men and dont insult men, men will continue to hit women... they wise women will dodge confrontation to avoid violence , the foolish ones will think they can insult men and expect no reaction....

Domestic violence against women has increased since feminists started preaching that a woman should not be hit even if she abuses the man to the point where he is pushed to the wall... just look at the last 2 big brothers... look at how those women insulted those guys to the point that one of the guys started crying... women like that will easily get hit by a man cis men respond with violence when angry....its in a man's nature and women should understand it... this is y most men don't wanna even get married again...

Why do people make excuses for bad behaviour? It seems this guy is one of those violent types of guys.

A man who abuses his partner will always find a reason to justify his actions. There are women who are not troublesome at all, yet they still face violence from their partners. Some men resort to hitting their partners due to their own insecurities and jealousy, some may even become violent when their partner discovers their infidelity.

Antoeni:
No Wonder,No Proper Parental Upbringing

Ah, I sincerely empathize with rape victims. How does a lady's proper parental upbringing stop her from being raped? There are a lot of heartless people in Nigeria; why are people always blaming the victim? God save the girl child.

Exceed15:
Yet u didn't raise your daughter to dress decently

What does that have to do with rape? There are women who dress very modestly and still become victims of rape. Were two-year-olds who have been raped dressing indecently to entice their attackers?

There is absolutely no excuse for rape. Rapists will always reveal their true nature.

BoldBrainz:
This story no clear. Five times on a spot or five different occasions? Is she a rape magnet? Abi this one na lamba for sensationalism?!

It is very possible. God should continue to protect ladies.

Verbtips:
I get quantities
How about you

🙄

The miracle I shared with my friend:

In 2022, I booked my flight ticket from the UK to Nigeria through an agent who was introduced to me. Although I preferred to book my flight online, I decided to patronize her. A day before my scheduled flight, she called me and informed me that my ticket had been cancelled.

I was so worked up because I had already made arrangements for the trip, and everyone knew I was leaving tomorrow; in fact, an Uber was already booked to take me to the airport. I had already spent money buying various things, so the news came to me as a painful shock. I went online to look for cheap tickets, but I couldn't find any. So, I just knelt down and prayed to God.

I told God that if this is the last thing He does for me, He should just do it. I didn't want to tell anyone about it because it might seem to them like I was stylishly asking for funds.

The deal day eventually came, and I had no ticket. I was sitting in the car heading toward the airport, scrolling through the website of the agency I preferred to book my flight from and refreshing the page from time to time.

About an hour before my arrival at the airport, I came across a very cheap ticket. With quick fingers, I booked it instantly. I don't know why the ticket was so cheap; it is possible there were available seats on the plane, so they decided to reduce the price, or someone called to cancel their ticket. But the important thing is that it was indeed a miracle for me.

2024 seemed to be a very difficult year for many, I am not excluded; it was the kind of year that one might wish they had spent in a coma, only to wake up and find it was another year.

One of my friends experienced a significant business setback, and I, along with others, tried to console her. When she finally regained her composure, she started claiming that there was no God.

Even though I was also having a bad time, her claim didn't sit well with me. There was even one particular client who was frustrating the hell out of me at the time, to the extent that I had to refund his money and tell him that I was no longer interested in doing business with him.

One day, I approached my friend and told her that I wanted to speak with her. She replied that if I was there to give her a sermon, she wouldn't listen. I proceeded to tell her that I was also frustrated and angry with God.

I narrated my bad experiences to her, but I told her that I don't think they are enough reason for me to say there is no God. I mentioned that I still remember those times I prayed and received instant miracles. There was a particular miracle that happened to me in 2022; I had shared it with her before, but I recounted it again during this conversation and also reminded her of a specific miracle she had shared with me.

I included that there are times when we ask our parents for things, and they give them to us instantly without stressing us. However, during those times when we ask and they refuse to give, we might show our frustrations or try to avoid speaking with them or seeing them, but we don't start denying that they are our parents or go to court to sever ties with them.

When I discovered she was reasoning with me, I proceeded to tell her that it was okay to be upset and frustrated, and that she could even vent her anger by misbehaving, acting like a prodigal child, and doing all sorts of things until she felt satisfied. But she should not claim there is no God when it is obvious to her that there is God. This is how I succeeded in reversing her decision.

nyabinghi:
yes

Wow, I didn’t know religion came with a personality manual.

Do you mean that all bad behaviour from everyone of the same faith as you is also determined by your religion?

The most annoying part is that the mother of the victim does not even understand the gravity of what her child has been through.

nyabinghi:
christian guy

What do you mean by Christian guy? Is a person's behaviour solely determined by his religion?

Kukutente23:
And the court will presume him innocent until proven guilty.
Your so-called professionalism will also be irrelevant in that regard
The video will be subjected to interrogation and of course dismissed for the duress involved
That you can't separate logic from emotions shows that you're not a professional in anything
Rubbish is calling me pedophile apologist. I'm sure you're the cleanest thing around. I hope you're not a Muslim cause all Muslims are actually pedophile apologists and I've not seen you preventing them from having access to kids.
This clown is calling me pedophile apologist in the same country where senators marry 13 year old
Swerve abeg!!

Instead of staying here and using your nose to sniff out lies, go to court and stand as his witness.

And where does religion come into this? You could have directed your insult solely at the person you are arguing with. Is it all Christians that are good? There are good and bad people in every religion.

Mcslize:
I need to be sure of what you're claiming. Don't worry, I will pay for damages if proven right.

For there to be some levels of credibility on the whole process, you need to freely make yourself. Every needed logistics will be put in place.

But if you know that you are lieing, better come out clean now that you still have the chance to avoid embarrassing yourself at the lab.

And if found that one of the holes had been tampered with, it will a national disgrace on you. I will make sure I put it in news papers, podcasts and radios.

We shall surely get to the root of this.

🤣🤣🤣 E be like say you don craze! To be sure, you go dig hand inside my body.

What are you saying? I don't get you. Make your words clearer. Are you agreeing with what I proposed or what?

Mcslize:
Why state hospital? You want to bribe them to falsify your virginity right?

It won't work that way. We need to verify the credibility of your virginity and the other hole.

Cuz we've heard cases where some self acclaimed virgins do take it from the back hole. Front one is tight while the back one is wide opened.

You can't deceive me. We must check everything and I will be the one to choose the hospital.

🤣🤣🤣 See this ritualist o, you see mumu for my forehead?

I am ready to take the virginity test in more than fifteen different hospitals in Nigeria, including state hospitals and well-known private hospitals.

I can even fund myself to go abroad to take the test just to prove that you are an idiot, but don't even think I would release myself to you like a fool just to prove a point.

Mcslize:
Taaah. That's your second account. Stop deceiving yourself. Stop hiding under Dreamhans1. Come out clean.

Who doesn't know that most of you ladies on Nairaland have male accounts you use to attack posts to make it seems like it's a fellow guy.

How long will feminists stopped hiding under male accounts to clown around?

You better stop this stupidíty in 2025 before you run out of luck.

By the way, when are you going to make yourself available for the virginity test?

Remember, all bills on me.

It is obvious you live in your own delusion and you assume the world revolves around you.

Any male who is not misogynistic is disguising himself as a male. Any virgin who is outspoken and has standards is pretending to be a virgin🤣🤣🤣

Mcslize:
Taaah. That's your second account. Stop deceiving yourself. Stop hiding under Dreamhans1. Come out clean.

Who doesn't know that most of you ladies on Nairaland have male accounts you use to attack posts to make it seems like it's a fellow guy.

How long will feminists stopped hiding under male accounts to clown around?

You better stop this stupidíty in 2025 before you run out of luck.

By the way, when are you going to make yourself available for the virginity test?

Remember, all bills on me.

I prefer a state hospital; that way, there will be no doubt. I will do my research to find out which state hospital conducts virginity tests.

If it turns out that I am a virgin, you will write a long epistle to apologize to sensible males on Nairaland and all females in general for all your projections.

Mcslize:
Did I not say it that you are a captain save hoe? Like I said earlier, if you are a guy, I am ashamed of you. Go and hide your shameless head. Only weak men like you fight to save hoes.

You just rubbished your masculinity as the most stúpid dumbscore.

I doubt you are a guy. No correct guy in this Nigeria still fight for hoes. Not in this generation. It's either you're Merry100 hiding under a second account or you're a spineless weak man who fvcks around from one olosho house to another.

My advice to you? Stop fvcking around with oloshos so you don't mess up your already useless life.

You might not be so lucky like others. Don't say I didn't warn you.

🤣🤣🤣See how you are making a fool of yourself.

🤣🤣🤣You think the world revolves around you, right?

janeedema:
Is marriage the goal, or is it about finding the right person to marry? Because the truth is, there are countless married women who are deeply unhappy.

While I hold marriage in high regard, I firmly believe that if a woman isn't content while she's single, she'll never find happiness in marriage. This is often the root cause of many marital problems.

Too many singles rush into marriage, expecting their spouse to fill a void within them. They put off their own happiness, only to feel even more frustrated when their partner falls short of their expectations.

Marriage isn't about completing you—it's about complementing who you already are. If you can't feel whole as a single person, that emptiness will follow you into marriage.

❤️

Mcslize:
According to you and I quote: Virginity be money? Virginity wey no get physical gain.

This answers it all. So, better stop deceiving yourself as a lady. Run and hide your head in shame for not being a virgin and still setting rules for guys. You will old my sister.

Always know that men are the prize. You can't set standards that you don't possess.

You are not a virgin and you are setting standards for one simp to follow. Instead of working on your character as a lady and developing qualities that men want, you are there setting rules and standards for Kings that are the prize. Your eyes go soon clear.

Let me tell you for free. Gone are the days when men are carefree with the woman they settle for and going the extra length to please women who only possess yansh and breast as qualities they are bringing to the table.

If you don't have good character as a lady, you go old for house, trust me.

Many of you don't have this common sense. The only thing you can use to tie a man down if you are wise, is good character and value.

If you like, be a non virgin, of which I know you truly are, or have yansh and breast, if you don't have sense, value and good character, you go old for market.

And in the aspect of setting standards for guys after messing around with different men, it won't work for you. Why because, from your lamentation, you have been with quite a number of guys who didn't deem it fit to take you as a potential partner, and common sense couldn't tell you that there must be something wrong with either you as a person or your character.

A bad person will always think she is good and others are bad. For being unable to tie one man down even after sampling different men all throughout last year, shows that there is something wrong with your character. No one will ever tell you this but I am unapologetically telling you.

Now, have you ever sat down and ask yourself some critical questions of why you couldn't make any man stay with you till now even though you met so many? Have you?

Do you always see yourself as the only good person and all the men you meet are always the bad ones?

Madam, stop setting standards. Instead, re-evaluate yourself and character. You might discovered where your problem of not being able to be with a man is coming from.

Don't let anyone deceive you. You can never tie a man down by setting rules for them. We are kings and the prize. No sane man loves women that will set standards for them. Instead, men set the standards and women follow.

We lead and you follow. Don't be deceived by all those feminists out there. They will corrupt you to the extent that, you won't be able to keep a man in your life, cuz you will be lacking the qualities that can help you keep a potential man due to the many accumulated feminists bad attitudes you've blindly developed over the years.

Men love feminine women and not feminist women. And until you check your character properly and stop setting rules for kings, you will hardly be able to keep one as a long term partner. The cycle will keep on repeating itself trust me. You can't keep on doing the same thing every time and expect a different result. Take note of that.

So, do the needful now that you still have the time. Check yourself and character properly instead of being fixated on setting rules for men to follow. I have just unveiled to you where your problem is coming from. If you are wise, you will ponder over this post and make some drastic amends.


Shalom!

Yes, I said what I said "virginity wey no get physical gain.

Go and interview 100 virgins, I doubt that any of them would be able to mention even two physical benefits they have gained from their virginity.

Virginity is sometimes a limitation for women like myself who enjoy traveling, attending parties and events, making friends, and mingling with people. There are people we might be skeptical about associating with, and there are places we might be hesitant to go. We may even have to let go of certain opportunities.

Mcslize:
According to you and I quote: Virginity be money? Virginity wey no get physical gain.

This answers it all. So, better stop deceiving yourself as a lady. Run and hide your head in shame for not being a virgin and still setting rules for guys. You will old my sister.

Always know that men are the prize. You can't set standards that you don't possess.

You are not a virgin and you are setting standards for one simp to follow. Instead of working on your character as a lady and developing qualities that men want, you are there setting rules and standards for Kings that are the prize. Your eyes go soon clear.

Let me tell you for free. Gone are the days when men are carefree with the woman they settle for and going the extra length to please women who only possess yansh and breast as qualities they are bringing to the table.

If you don't have good character as a lady, you go old for house, trust me.

Many of you don't have this common sense. The only thing you can use to tie a man down if you are wise, is good character and value.

If you like, be a non virgin, of which I know you truly are, or have yansh and breast, if you don't have sense, value and good character, you go old for market.

And in the aspect of setting standards for guys after messing around with different men, it won't work for you. Why because, from your lamentation, you have been with quite a number of guys who didn't deem it fit to take you as a potential partner, and common sense couldn't tell you that there must be something wrong with either you as a person or your character.

A bad person will always think she is good and others are bad. For being unable to tie one man down even after sampling different men all throughout last year, shows that there is something wrong with your character. No one will ever tell you this but I am unapologetically telling you.

Now, have you ever sat down and ask yourself some critical questions of why you couldn't make any man stay with you till now even though you met so many? Have you?

Do you always see yourself as the only good person and all the men you meet are always the bad ones?

Madam, stop setting standards. Instead, re-evaluate yourself and character. You might discovered where your problem of not being able to be with a man is coming from.

Don't let anyone deceive you. You can never tie a man down by setting rules for them. We are kings and the prize. No sane man loves women that will set standards for them. Instead, men set the standards and women follow.

We lead and you follow. Don't be deceived by all those feminists out there. They will corrupt you to the extent that, you won't be able to keep a man in your life, cuz you will be lacking the qualities that can help you keep a potential man due to the many accumulated feminists bad attitudes you've blindly developed over the years.

Men love feminine women and not feminist women. And until you check your character properly and stop setting rules for kings, you will hardly be able to keep one as a long term partner. The cycle will keep on repeating itself trust me. You can't keep on doing the same thing every time and expect a different result. Take note of that.

So, do the needful now that you still have the time. Check yourself and character properly instead of being fixated on setting rules for men to follow. I have just unveiled to you where your problem is coming from. If you are wise, you will ponder over this post and make some drastic amends.


Shalom!

🤣🤣🤣All this tears are for what bayi?? Peppered rat.

🤣🤣🤣 No more virginity test? I thought you were bragging that a virginity test would prove me wrong.

Marriage is meant to be entered into with the intention of staying together forever, but people are rushing into marriage and then rushing out of it. Some ladies saw red flags in their men before marriage but still went ahead and married them.

I am a virgin, and I am a high value woman. I do not tolerate bad behaviour; once I start noticing it, I leave the relationship.

It is better to be unmarried and happy than to be married and unhappy.

Mcslize:
Did you say such a weak man? See this chronic womaniser. Hehehe for my post to pain you to your bone marrows, it shows that you are the type that fvck around. Olobhruku Olosho man.

This one that can't get girls by himself is calling a valuable guy a weak man. Who doesn't know that you patronise Oloshos? For you to even be so stupid to get pained by my post shows how useless you've made your life.

Your only Savoir are Oloshos. Commercial olosho patronised man like you that only patronise ashawos should hide your shameless head in shame.

See a bloody chronic móron calling a high value man a weak man. You should be ashamed of yourself if you are a guy.

Between captain save a hoe like you who is fighting for a hoe who doesn't care if you exist and a very intentional guy like me, who is weak.

So you don't know that it's only weak men like you fight for women?

If truly you be guy, you're fvcked up and I dey shame for you big time.

Such a stupíd dumbscore!

No, 'valuable' means having worth, it is 'valueless' that means having no value or being worthless.

idahme:
Someone with plethora of Exs needs vigin boy wey ahe go spoil , do you meet the spec?

It's ok for a guy that has banged fifty girls to open his mouth and say he wants a virgin but it's not ok for a lady to demand a virgin. You go see guy wey get pot belly dey talk say he want girl wey get flat tummy, big ass, tiny waist blah blah blah, pesin wey dey very shapeless, nah the audacity for me. E reach girl turn now,
you people dey cry up and down on top post.

verdad00:
I see your parent's stupidity in you

😂😂Take a look at yourself, displaying exactly what I said.

budaatum:
The Bible says, or rather and unless you got a talking Bible, it is written in the Bible that "it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God". So yes, the pastors are supposed to be going to hell, though I do have suspicion that "pastors set ridiculous standards" for others but not for themselves.

Thankfully, woe!

As for you. You make pigs cower

I was just pulling your leg. The "eye of the needle" that the verse refers to is an entrance in Jerusalem. Camels can only conveniently pass through it without a load on their backs.

Many pastors are well-traveled and enlightened in several areas. Information like this should be so common so that we will not just assume that the Bible encourages poverty.

budaatum:
The Bible says, or rather and unless you got a talking Bible, it is written in the Bible that "it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God". So yes, the pastors are supposed to be going to hell, though I do have suspicion that "pastors set ridiculous standards" for others but not for themselves.

Thankfully, woe!

As for you. You make pigs cower

Ha, that same needle we use in sewing cloth. Rich people should just forget Heaven.

verdad00:
Cheap thing like your father . The way he jumps from hole to hole and gave birth to you

🤣🤣🤣I can see you're pained for you to stoop this low. I would have insulted your parents but it's actually not their fault for giving birth to a daft child.

Mcslize:
I am sexually clean than you. Do you know what it takes for a guy to stay celibate for 1 year now? I am not only clean but also carry positive energy. Just a mere contact with me and being around me alone, good things will be following you. You will be experiencing massive divine favour, divine grace, success and open doors. Your life will never remain the same. Don't joke with my sexual cleaniness. You think a guy like me that stays away from sex is a fool?

You want to tell us now that you didn't do anything with all those guys that showed you shege? Why do girls like you lie so much? We all know all the rubbish you did with those guys. Stop lieing.

Is it today that ladies start lieing about their virginity?

If them born you well, let's go for virginity test, bills on me, if your yansh won't be exposed.

Even some so called virgins do engage in other hidden sexual acts.

Your broad day light lies is just too much madam.

🤣🤣🤣You think say you be Elon Musk, abi you be visa officer? I go dey lie just to get your validation. Who you be?

Even though I no need to prove my virginity status to anyone, I fit take virginity test just to show you say you be idiot 😂😂😂

Na sexless relationship dey hard pass; sometimes I dey rethink my decision. Virginity be money? Virginity wey no get physical gain.

You know how many opportunities I don waste

Give yourself sense, I no be all those your tiny leg girls wey you dey press up and down.

9japride:
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Just say you are looking for a man to sacrifice. There are good men around, but most ladies prefer the bad guys. Those kind of guys no send you at all. They are bad guys for a reason.
Nobody is perfect, just settle for the one that will give you peace and happiness.

When you guys dey set standard, did we cry?

I guess your eyes skipped this "2025 we are not settling for less, we move!!!

dkidd:
So U now claim to be a virgin or what

Yes, I am. Is there a problem?

Mcslize:
Guys showed you shege in 2024. So, after messing around with different guys of various structural pipes sizes, it's one innocent guy whose life is intact you want to retire with.

Only God knows the amount of body counts that went down the drain with all those guys that showed you shege.

If you do the mathematical calculations and multiply it by the number of times you get down with these guys, to be frank, I doubt if that innocent guy who has not been touched can satisfy you. Reason being that all of those guys have left indelible imprints on you which this new guy can't erase. Your loyalty will also be questionable.

Sister, you better go back to one of those guys and settle with one and stop looking for an innocent guy to mess up his life.

🤣🤣🤣Non virgin guys association has spoken, do you think everybody is like you?? Just because you jump from hole to hole, you think everyone is as cheap as that nonsense dangling between your legs. With your mentality it shows that the females you surround yourself with are cheap but don't pin that shit on others.

NwaliE01:
Hahaahahah. Obviously, you're attacking the wrong person.. My dear, I am an old man and can't remember when I was a virgin.
Lol

🤣😂😂Ogbeni Methuselah how dis info take concern me?? Attacking the wrong person?? U shook mouth for wetin no concern u, u collect asap.

verdad00:
So that you will use him for rituals abi
Lol you have failed

😂😂No be ur gender dey use gals for ritual. On top say u no reach wetin I dey look for, e dey pain u. Nah me say make u useless urself dey jump from hole to hole, u this cheap thing.