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Mcslize:
Did I not say it that you are a captain save hoe? Like I said earlier, if you are a guy, I am ashamed of you. Go and hide your shameless head. Only weak men like you fight to save hoes.

You just rubbished your masculinity as the most stúpid dumbscore.

I doubt you are a guy. No correct guy in this Nigeria still fight for hoes. Not in this generation. It's either you're Merry100 hiding under a second account or you're a spineless weak man who fvcks around from one olosho house to another.

My advice to you? Stop fvcking around with oloshos so you don't mess up your already useless life.

You might not be so lucky like others. Don't say I didn't warn you.

🤣🤣🤣See how you are making a fool of yourself.

🤣🤣🤣You think the world revolves around you, right?

janeedema:
Is marriage the goal, or is it about finding the right person to marry? Because the truth is, there are countless married women who are deeply unhappy.

While I hold marriage in high regard, I firmly believe that if a woman isn't content while she's single, she'll never find happiness in marriage. This is often the root cause of many marital problems.

Too many singles rush into marriage, expecting their spouse to fill a void within them. They put off their own happiness, only to feel even more frustrated when their partner falls short of their expectations.

Marriage isn't about completing you—it's about complementing who you already are. If you can't feel whole as a single person, that emptiness will follow you into marriage.

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Mcslize:
According to you and I quote: Virginity be money? Virginity wey no get physical gain.

This answers it all. So, better stop deceiving yourself as a lady. Run and hide your head in shame for not being a virgin and still setting rules for guys. You will old my sister.

Always know that men are the prize. You can't set standards that you don't possess.

You are not a virgin and you are setting standards for one simp to follow. Instead of working on your character as a lady and developing qualities that men want, you are there setting rules and standards for Kings that are the prize. Your eyes go soon clear.

Let me tell you for free. Gone are the days when men are carefree with the woman they settle for and going the extra length to please women who only possess yansh and breast as qualities they are bringing to the table.

If you don't have good character as a lady, you go old for house, trust me.

Many of you don't have this common sense. The only thing you can use to tie a man down if you are wise, is good character and value.

If you like, be a non virgin, of which I know you truly are, or have yansh and breast, if you don't have sense, value and good character, you go old for market.

And in the aspect of setting standards for guys after messing around with different men, it won't work for you. Why because, from your lamentation, you have been with quite a number of guys who didn't deem it fit to take you as a potential partner, and common sense couldn't tell you that there must be something wrong with either you as a person or your character.

A bad person will always think she is good and others are bad. For being unable to tie one man down even after sampling different men all throughout last year, shows that there is something wrong with your character. No one will ever tell you this but I am unapologetically telling you.

Now, have you ever sat down and ask yourself some critical questions of why you couldn't make any man stay with you till now even though you met so many? Have you?

Do you always see yourself as the only good person and all the men you meet are always the bad ones?

Madam, stop setting standards. Instead, re-evaluate yourself and character. You might discovered where your problem of not being able to be with a man is coming from.

Don't let anyone deceive you. You can never tie a man down by setting rules for them. We are kings and the prize. No sane man loves women that will set standards for them. Instead, men set the standards and women follow.

We lead and you follow. Don't be deceived by all those feminists out there. They will corrupt you to the extent that, you won't be able to keep a man in your life, cuz you will be lacking the qualities that can help you keep a potential man due to the many accumulated feminists bad attitudes you've blindly developed over the years.

Men love feminine women and not feminist women. And until you check your character properly and stop setting rules for kings, you will hardly be able to keep one as a long term partner. The cycle will keep on repeating itself trust me. You can't keep on doing the same thing every time and expect a different result. Take note of that.

So, do the needful now that you still have the time. Check yourself and character properly instead of being fixated on setting rules for men to follow. I have just unveiled to you where your problem is coming from. If you are wise, you will ponder over this post and make some drastic amends.


Shalom!

Yes, I said what I said "virginity wey no get physical gain.

Go and interview 100 virgins, I doubt that any of them would be able to mention even two physical benefits they have gained from their virginity.

Virginity is sometimes a limitation for women like myself who enjoy traveling, attending parties and events, making friends, and mingling with people. There are people we might be skeptical about associating with, and there are places we might be hesitant to go. We may even have to let go of certain opportunities.

Mcslize:
According to you and I quote: Virginity be money? Virginity wey no get physical gain.

This answers it all. So, better stop deceiving yourself as a lady. Run and hide your head in shame for not being a virgin and still setting rules for guys. You will old my sister.

Always know that men are the prize. You can't set standards that you don't possess.

You are not a virgin and you are setting standards for one simp to follow. Instead of working on your character as a lady and developing qualities that men want, you are there setting rules and standards for Kings that are the prize. Your eyes go soon clear.

Let me tell you for free. Gone are the days when men are carefree with the woman they settle for and going the extra length to please women who only possess yansh and breast as qualities they are bringing to the table.

If you don't have good character as a lady, you go old for house, trust me.

Many of you don't have this common sense. The only thing you can use to tie a man down if you are wise, is good character and value.

If you like, be a non virgin, of which I know you truly are, or have yansh and breast, if you don't have sense, value and good character, you go old for market.

And in the aspect of setting standards for guys after messing around with different men, it won't work for you. Why because, from your lamentation, you have been with quite a number of guys who didn't deem it fit to take you as a potential partner, and common sense couldn't tell you that there must be something wrong with either you as a person or your character.

A bad person will always think she is good and others are bad. For being unable to tie one man down even after sampling different men all throughout last year, shows that there is something wrong with your character. No one will ever tell you this but I am unapologetically telling you.

Now, have you ever sat down and ask yourself some critical questions of why you couldn't make any man stay with you till now even though you met so many? Have you?

Do you always see yourself as the only good person and all the men you meet are always the bad ones?

Madam, stop setting standards. Instead, re-evaluate yourself and character. You might discovered where your problem of not being able to be with a man is coming from.

Don't let anyone deceive you. You can never tie a man down by setting rules for them. We are kings and the prize. No sane man loves women that will set standards for them. Instead, men set the standards and women follow.

We lead and you follow. Don't be deceived by all those feminists out there. They will corrupt you to the extent that, you won't be able to keep a man in your life, cuz you will be lacking the qualities that can help you keep a potential man due to the many accumulated feminists bad attitudes you've blindly developed over the years.

Men love feminine women and not feminist women. And until you check your character properly and stop setting rules for kings, you will hardly be able to keep one as a long term partner. The cycle will keep on repeating itself trust me. You can't keep on doing the same thing every time and expect a different result. Take note of that.

So, do the needful now that you still have the time. Check yourself and character properly instead of being fixated on setting rules for men to follow. I have just unveiled to you where your problem is coming from. If you are wise, you will ponder over this post and make some drastic amends.


Shalom!

🤣🤣🤣All this tears are for what bayi?? Peppered rat.

🤣🤣🤣 No more virginity test? I thought you were bragging that a virginity test would prove me wrong.

Marriage is meant to be entered into with the intention of staying together forever, but people are rushing into marriage and then rushing out of it. Some ladies saw red flags in their men before marriage but still went ahead and married them.

I am a virgin, and I am a high value woman. I do not tolerate bad behaviour; once I start noticing it, I leave the relationship.

It is better to be unmarried and happy than to be married and unhappy.

Mcslize:
Did you say such a weak man? See this chronic womaniser. Hehehe for my post to pain you to your bone marrows, it shows that you are the type that fvck around. Olobhruku Olosho man.

This one that can't get girls by himself is calling a valuable guy a weak man. Who doesn't know that you patronise Oloshos? For you to even be so stupid to get pained by my post shows how useless you've made your life.

Your only Savoir are Oloshos. Commercial olosho patronised man like you that only patronise ashawos should hide your shameless head in shame.

See a bloody chronic móron calling a high value man a weak man. You should be ashamed of yourself if you are a guy.

Between captain save a hoe like you who is fighting for a hoe who doesn't care if you exist and a very intentional guy like me, who is weak.

So you don't know that it's only weak men like you fight for women?

If truly you be guy, you're fvcked up and I dey shame for you big time.

Such a stupíd dumbscore!

No, 'valuable' means having worth, it is 'valueless' that means having no value or being worthless.

idahme:
Someone with plethora of Exs needs vigin boy wey ahe go spoil , do you meet the spec?

It's ok for a guy that has banged fifty girls to open his mouth and say he wants a virgin but it's not ok for a lady to demand a virgin. You go see guy wey get pot belly dey talk say he want girl wey get flat tummy, big ass, tiny waist blah blah blah, pesin wey dey very shapeless, nah the audacity for me. E reach girl turn now,
you people dey cry up and down on top post.

verdad00:
I see your parent's stupidity in you

😂😂Take a look at yourself, displaying exactly what I said.

budaatum:
The Bible says, or rather and unless you got a talking Bible, it is written in the Bible that "it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God". So yes, the pastors are supposed to be going to hell, though I do have suspicion that "pastors set ridiculous standards" for others but not for themselves.

Thankfully, woe!

As for you. You make pigs cower

I was just pulling your leg. The "eye of the needle" that the verse refers to is an entrance in Jerusalem. Camels can only conveniently pass through it without a load on their backs.

Many pastors are well-traveled and enlightened in several areas. Information like this should be so common so that we will not just assume that the Bible encourages poverty.

budaatum:
The Bible says, or rather and unless you got a talking Bible, it is written in the Bible that "it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God". So yes, the pastors are supposed to be going to hell, though I do have suspicion that "pastors set ridiculous standards" for others but not for themselves.

Thankfully, woe!

As for you. You make pigs cower

Ha, that same needle we use in sewing cloth. Rich people should just forget Heaven.

verdad00:
Cheap thing like your father . The way he jumps from hole to hole and gave birth to you

🤣🤣🤣I can see you're pained for you to stoop this low. I would have insulted your parents but it's actually not their fault for giving birth to a daft child.

Mcslize:
I am sexually clean than you. Do you know what it takes for a guy to stay celibate for 1 year now? I am not only clean but also carry positive energy. Just a mere contact with me and being around me alone, good things will be following you. You will be experiencing massive divine favour, divine grace, success and open doors. Your life will never remain the same. Don't joke with my sexual cleaniness. You think a guy like me that stays away from sex is a fool?

You want to tell us now that you didn't do anything with all those guys that showed you shege? Why do girls like you lie so much? We all know all the rubbish you did with those guys. Stop lieing.

Is it today that ladies start lieing about their virginity?

If them born you well, let's go for virginity test, bills on me, if your yansh won't be exposed.

Even some so called virgins do engage in other hidden sexual acts.

Your broad day light lies is just too much madam.

🤣🤣🤣You think say you be Elon Musk, abi you be visa officer? I go dey lie just to get your validation. Who you be?

Even though I no need to prove my virginity status to anyone, I fit take virginity test just to show you say you be idiot 😂😂😂

Na sexless relationship dey hard pass; sometimes I dey rethink my decision. Virginity be money? Virginity wey no get physical gain.

You know how many opportunities I don waste

Give yourself sense, I no be all those your tiny leg girls wey you dey press up and down.

9japride:
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Just say you are looking for a man to sacrifice. There are good men around, but most ladies prefer the bad guys. Those kind of guys no send you at all. They are bad guys for a reason.
Nobody is perfect, just settle for the one that will give you peace and happiness.

When you guys dey set standard, did we cry?

I guess your eyes skipped this "2025 we are not settling for less, we move!!!

dkidd:
So U now claim to be a virgin or what

Yes, I am. Is there a problem?

Mcslize:
Guys showed you shege in 2024. So, after messing around with different guys of various structural pipes sizes, it's one innocent guy whose life is intact you want to retire with.

Only God knows the amount of body counts that went down the drain with all those guys that showed you shege.

If you do the mathematical calculations and multiply it by the number of times you get down with these guys, to be frank, I doubt if that innocent guy who has not been touched can satisfy you. Reason being that all of those guys have left indelible imprints on you which this new guy can't erase. Your loyalty will also be questionable.

Sister, you better go back to one of those guys and settle with one and stop looking for an innocent guy to mess up his life.

🤣🤣🤣Non virgin guys association has spoken, do you think everybody is like you?? Just because you jump from hole to hole, you think everyone is as cheap as that nonsense dangling between your legs. With your mentality it shows that the females you surround yourself with are cheap but don't pin that shit on others.

NwaliE01:
Hahaahahah. Obviously, you're attacking the wrong person.. My dear, I am an old man and can't remember when I was a virgin.
Lol

🤣😂😂Ogbeni Methuselah how dis info take concern me?? Attacking the wrong person?? U shook mouth for wetin no concern u, u collect asap.

verdad00:
So that you will use him for rituals abi
Lol you have failed

😂😂No be ur gender dey use gals for ritual. On top say u no reach wetin I dey look for, e dey pain u. Nah me say make u useless urself dey jump from hole to hole, u this cheap thing.

minasu190:
I no fit dey follow you drag talk.
Person like you no fit see husband,you need a submissive husband.
Where in Bible,or whatever you believe,for husband to be submissive to their wives?
Na person like you dey turn husband to mumu.
Bamboo dey work,monkey dey chop,abi how una take talk am?

I refuse to live like most Christian women; they are so gullible. Their competition is about who can endure and suffer the most. 🤣🤣🤣

Just imagine marrying as a virgin to one Brother John or Brother Amos, who happens to be a very devout Christian. You probably dated for six months to about a year. You didn't get to know each other very well, but at least you got to learn more about Jesus and about each other's spiritual lives.

By the time you start discovering that there is more to marriage than just the spiritual aspect of your partner, you may unfortunately find yourself among the unlucky Christian women because you are already married to Brother John, who happens to be pompous, uncaring, rude, and proud.

Just know that you are a goner unless you want to pop-out the marriage. You cease to exist; you are just breathing. Forget anything called potential; you are called to submission. 🤣🤣🤣 Brother John will always explain this to you and even use his pastor's preaching and irrelevant Bible verses to reinforce it the more.

When you are extremely exhausted and tired of the maltreatment you are receiving from Brother John, and you go and explain the situation to your pastor or his wife, that is when you realize that Brother John deserves even more sacrifices from you.

Your pastor or his wife will encourage you to be patient and submissive and to keep praying, believing that prayer will turn him around. They will emphasize that your husband is your lord and personal saviour and will provide you with new tips on how to please him. This will lead to even more duties and responsibilities being added to your slavery, and if you decide to do otherwise, you will be labeled as not being a good or virtuous woman.

I know several Christian women who are enduring and crying in silence. If some Christian women were to narrate what they have had to endure, even unbelievers would be shocked. 🤣🤣🤣

The simple fact is that even if a virgin is beautiful and attractive, she will face more difficulties in selecting a partner than a non-virgin who is not as physically attractive. Long dating is almost impossible unless the lady is willing to settle for less and date one of those deeply religious brothers in her Church or around her whom she is not attracted to. Those one can easily handle long dating.

Many guys I have dated within three months start talking about marriage, but thank God I am wise enough to know that not every guy who asks for marriage genuinely wants it; some are just eager to be intimate. Long-term dating is very important because it allows you to get to know each other well, but many virgins overlook this; after six months of dating, they are already settling down.

If I marry I no marry, how it take affect you? I even prefer to remain unmarried or, better still, compromise my standards than to marry just any Dick, Tom, or Harry.

minasu190:
I no fit dey follow you drag talk.
Person like you no fit see husband,you need a submissive husband.
Where in Bible,or whatever you believe,for husband to be submissive to their wives?
Na person like you dey turn husband to mumu.
Bamboo dey work,monkey dey chop,abi how una take talk am?

Why are you crying on top of my post when your pastors set ridiculous standards that have no Scriptural basis for women, you didn't cry.

Show me one place where I mentioned that the Bible or God said anything in my post. At least I did better than many of your pastors; I didn't claim the Bible said something when it did not.

You all go still learn; the Gen Zs will shock you.

Haven't you heard of ladies from a particular Church, which I don't want to name? In the past, it was extremely difficult for women attending that church to marry, even though many of them were virgins. Some of them were so rigid, some of them were so unkempt, they covered their heads 24/7. Whenever they took off their head coverings, different foul odours would be released. Some of them had to settle for anyone when they reached the age of fifty or sixty, while others remained unmarried. Meanwhile, some promiscuous women were settling down with good, responsible, loving, and caring men.

Mr. Know-It-All, marriage is not about being a good woman or being a virgin or non-virgin. I know too much about the Christian world, so don't even try to spread your false stories and lies here. God does not provide "superstories" for good women or virgins. Christian marriage counselors and virginity preachers are only spreading fantasies that don't exist. God gave us brain for a reason; apply wisdom to your daily life, and you will be fine. When people spread their cloth in the sun, why doesn't the sun ignore the cloth of evil ones and refuse to dry it? Study nature and your environment: why are some people able to exploit more than others?

Christianity requires wisdom. Lazarus managed his life and still ended up in Abraham's bosom. Some of you are just like Lazarus; you are content with anything, even if it is not convenient, while some of us are like Abraham, we will enjoy life here on earth and still have some of you in our bosom in Heaven. 🤣🤣🤣 Or are all those pastors with private jets, while you don't even have money to buy a bicycle, going to hell? 😂😂😂

lilmax:
ya its cool....but the question is does sense exist in her brain?

can you trust her with your son to teach him quadratic equations without bringing out the dumbness in herself when you put a ring on it?

Why your body dey pepper like this?

Adesolomon2014:
Nonsense hour glass figure.
Am waiting for when u go get belle...

You be witch?

minasu190:
Guys showed you excess knacking,now you want to settle for a virgin guy.
You wan use your corrupt mind and fish head,take spoil virgin guy career...ehnn babi

If dem neva beat one musketeer the rest no go just hear word, where in my post did the decoration you call eyes see that I'm not a virgin ?? from the way you're sounding bitter it shows that you be community prick. All this used things go just dey everywhere dey shook mouth for matter wey no concern them.

osazsky:
come online when u wake up

This 2025 is for virgin guys, any rat that wants to cry should cry 🤣🤣🤣

NwaliE01:
Go mould am yourself.

🤣🤣🤣See how all these non virgins, all these used cheap guys dey cry on my post, keep ur virginity dey no go hear.

Verbtips:
all this attribute u list shey u get am

You wey dey ask you get the qualities?

eepeepook:
Person wan tear person nyash. Nairaland, o. LWKMD.

😂😂

alphaNomega:
Tiwa savage is that you?

you must be gearing up to give us a new ashewo tape. let me know if you are serious. i can link you up with sweet virgin guys for your next act

Are you a virgin? Even if you're, I'm not interested because your attitude is not giving, it's not demure and one more thing, keep your little musketeers to yourself, you know the saying, birds of the same feather flock together 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

Guys showed me shege in 2024.

2025 we are not settling for less, we move!!!

I need a very neat virgin guy that has never been touched by anyone.

Tall, dark, handsome (TDH).

Sexy voice.

Six-pack.

Very nice smile.

Caring.

Understanding.

Jovial.

Has his own company.

Respectful.

Submissive.

Animegirl:
I have a burning passion to become a wealthy and successful woman, but I'm worried that getting married and having children might force me to put my dreams on hold. I'm concerned that I won't be able to balance family life with my personal ambitions. Furthermore, the societal pressures in Nigeria, combined with the constraints of time and age, are making me feel like I'm already at a disadvantage. My desire for success is strong, but I'm fearful that having a family might mean sacrificing my dreams.

I'm really scared.

If you don't find a man who is understanding and willing to support you or allow you to use your potential, just place marriage on hold. Please don't sacrifice your dreams and potential for marriage, it could lead to regrets.

AlphaNugget:
Is that what your life is all about? A mere superstory 😐

😂It seems this one has hit is head on stone.

Yemike:
Speaking in diverse tongues doesn't just happen. It is enabled by the Holy Spirit. It is a spiritual gift that was first released after the outpouring of the Holy Spirit at Pentecost. It is a supernatural sign that involves speaking in languages that the speaker doesn't know uttering sounds that those without the gift of interpretation may not understand.
God has given this gift to speak mysteries supernaturally to God (1 Cor. 14:2), magnify God (Acts 10:45,46), edify ourselves (1 Cor. 14:4; Jude 20), help us to pray in the spirit (Rom. 8:26; Eph. 6:18), and for spiritual refreshing (Isa. 28:11,12)
Now my sister, for this gift to serve it's purpose (glorifying God and edifying the church) it should be interpreted. 1 Cor. 14:5

In your case you need the Holy Spirit to help you to take control of your gift. One thing is obvious, God wants more of you but there are some destractions that's not allowing you to get to that height that He wanted you to be.
What you need is getting more intimate with God and he will guide you through. He is your father, He will never forsake you.

Thanks for your reply. I have been praying about it, but I haven't seen any results. What confuses me the most is that, to my understanding, speaking in tongues is meant to be a form of communication with God and is not intended for public display. When I see people speaking in tongues in public, I often feel a bit awkward about it.

AlphaNugget:
Leave the marriage, allow the street to devour her......I wonder why you are feeling stressed over some bîtch leaving you 😐

Superstory

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