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A rich person is just a few steps away from poverty. While you don’t have to be too stingy with yourself, you also shouldn’t become too relaxed and start spending recklessly. Wait until you are truly wealthy before reaching for your wants.

There is a big difference between being wealthy and being rich. You can be rich today and broke tomorrow. Don’t let your money just sit in your account either, invest it. If you're unsure of how to invest, start by purchasing properties or items with good resale value.

The same reason men are shamelessly doing fraud.

There are men who can never be satisfied; even if they date or marry angels, they will still find faults.

Don’t you have sisters or female cousins who experience menstrual cramps? A woman endures menstrual cramps every month, and on top of that, you’re forming angry and shouting at her. Na her I blame, I no blame you. When a woman finds the right man, she doesn’t have to do too much, everything will just fall into place.

Astonmartin:
How far now? You later marry her

To avoid questions like this, people should just keep their dating lives private. I can't permit any guy to post me like this.

After launching several complaints to the bank, the money has finally entered. May God help us in this country.

JASONjnr:
Have you ever encounter her personally?

She disobeyed the senate president and she claimed she was marginalized and not allow to speak. The attitude of that woman is what no man can tolerate as a wife. She's got a terrible character.

If you are fond of playing the role of god to your wife, limit it to your home; do not expect every woman you encounter to play the role of wife to you.

The National Assembly is not a marriage institution, he should be able to treat and address her the same way he would treat and address a male senator.

CBN should kindly help businesses by instructing all banks to directly reject transactions from suspicious accounts.

After receiving a notification about a transfer of 2 million naira from a customer and supplying goods to the customer, the funds did not appear in the account. The bank claims that, due to a directive from the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN), they need to verify the funds first before making a decision. Amounts greater than 2 million naira have been successfully deposited into this same account previously, suggesting that the issue lies with the sender's account.

Since some banks do not take the initiative to decline transactions from suspicious accounts, I kindly request that the CBN instruct all banks to directly reject transactions from any account that appears suspicious, rather than sending notifications of payment and causing unnecessary distress to businesses. Businesses should not be left at a disadvantage in these situations.

Silentgroper:
I love babies too .. .. let's make a football team of them of them..

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pansophist:
You are right, and no where have I said that women who messed up do not have high status men. But the chance is slim. Its like me telling you that people are winning Betnaija daily, so you should start gambling.

But what are your chances? Will you work with probability, or on certainty? I also think such men that are with damaged have given women hope to go and spoil themselves. Afterall, one guy out there will forget her past.

I have had on Turkish exchange student that refused to date guy while she was in school, all because it will be hard for her to get married in Turkey if she loose her virginity.

Turkish men will hardly accept her and see her as unfit as a wife, and for that reason, she kept herself virtuous. If Naija men have such standards, infidelity will reduce.

It takes two to tango; advise your fellow men to stop having premarital sex as well.

The chances of non-virgins marrying a high-status man are even higher than those of virgins because many non-virgins enjoy mingling and meeting new people, while some virgins, especially Christian virgins, prefer not to mingle and instead relate mostly with those who are highly religious or Spiritual. They often spend their days at home, at work, or in Church.

How many virgins marry high-status men? Can you even name just five well-known, high-status men who are married to virgins?

High-status men do not even prioritize a woman's virginity; they prefer intelligent, talented, industrious, elegant, or supportive partners.

A lot of virgins are too rigid to socialize, attend outings, or go to parties and functions, and men don't go from house to house searching for women to marry; they mostly meet women during their outings.

Virginity is good, but ladies need to focus on attaining success rather than solely looking forward to what their partner can offer and basing their happiness solely on their partner. Virginity is not an asset and should not be viewed as such because it is unlikely to yield any significant profit, unless it is being kept for sale.

Virginity cannot even be relied upon as a tool to strengthen relationships or have a healthy marriage because after wedding, a lady's virginity becomes a thing of the past, and all that will be left is her personality and personal achievements. All ladies, including virgins, need to carefully select their partner because any woman who ends up marrying the wrong man, whether a virgin or not, will end up with regrets.

People need to stop overhyping, misinforming, or misleading virgins because it often leads the gullible ones to remain unproductive. I myself am a virgin, but I don't take it as a big deal; it is just a decision I made a long time ago.

Monitoring spirit better calm down. Some people naturally attract friends. If you date a lady like me, you for done develop hypertension.

There is nothing wrong with a lady chatting with guys; as long as she has informed them that she has a boyfriend. But chatting with an ex is a no no.

Money and babies

emma2018:
Hi merry100.

It is Emmanuel. God bless you for everything. I had a 63 in my finals.

Please ma. It is to do spiral bind by Monday
Please i know you have extra tried.couple this week. I have spent over 65k and some are from loan apps.

I intend to pay them on Friday when my salary comes in.

Please mq. If you cant help me. Please let me know. I do not want to spam you and i should never even bother you.

Please merry. If please you can spare me 3000 for my binding to the department and library.

I am a bit behind please.

I am owimg you about 9000 and i promise to refund fully this coming Friday please

Both the 4,000 airtime and #12,000 that I sent to you are not loans; I gifted them to you. Please manage what I have sent, I don't have any more spare at the moment. I wish you all the best.

Relationships need special days, and Valentine's Day is one of them.

Those criticizing Val's day, stop the negativity. If you don't have a Val now, you might have one tomorrow. Happy Val's Day ❤️😄

Kindly paint your face red and white, because you seem like a real clown. You should be smarter than this. Rather than being judgmental and assessing all the women you meet based on your previous encounters or the experiences of some other guys, look out for red flags and take the time to study every women you meet properly before committing to a relationship.

All human beings, including you, have positive and negative sides. Take the time to understand the temperaments and behaviours of the women you encounter, select your preferred type of woman, and learn how to relate and interact with her.

If you are looking for a partner who is introverted, calm, warm, relaxed, patient, easygoing, rational, agreeable, peaceful, not confrontational, slow-paced, unemotional, unmotivated, stubborn, and unlikely to be industrious or hardworking, your best bet is a phlegmatic type.

If you want a partner who is introverted, independent, principled, hardworking, smart, diligent, industrious, a deep thinker, observant, analytical, wise, creative, talented, a neat freak, orderly, organized, overly scheduled, a perfectionist, negative, moody, sensitive, serious, anxious, easily saddened or depressed, touchy, resentful, and vengeful, your best bet is a melancholic type.

If you want a partner who is extroverted, outgoing, energetic, cheerful, optimistic, fun-loving, expressive, entertaining, friendly, nice, kind, generous, caring, warm-hearted, volatile, easygoing, self-sacrificing, a natural people pleaser, optimistic, non-judgmental, open-minded, able to forgive and forget easily, romantic, outspoken, confident, carefree, talkative, too playful, unserious, impulsive, reckless, and lacking discipline, your best bet is a sanguine type.

If you looking for a partner who is extroverted, outgoing, energetic, independent, motivated, passionate, reasonable, self-sufficient, a doer, a natural leader, influential, competitive, often striving to lead or to achieve leadership positions, a workaholic, diligent, serious, disciplined, a visionary, practical, goal-oriented, principled, courageous, ambitious, strong-willed, determined, intelligent, a quick thinker, quick to act, fiery, domineering, direct, confrontational, controversial, fearless, loud, self-important, overconfident, rude, proud, arrogant, bossy, controlling, merciless, demanding, inflexible, manipulative, quick-tempered, struggles with patience, becomes easily upset or angry, shows a lack of sympathy, reacts quickly, is highly resentful and vengeful, uneasy to please, judgmental, toxic and, aggressive, your best bet is a choleric type.

Though people tend to exhibit majority of the traits of their primary temperament, it is rare for someone to possess 100% positive or negative traits of a single temperament because in addition to their primary temperament, most people also have one or more secondary temperaments from which they exhibit traits. Study your partner thoroughly in order to understand their behaviours and temperaments.

Bendeco02:
When i say real men, am not referring to wealthy men.

I mean alpha male

On your last paragraph, maybe you thought you're talking to someone that is a novice. Like i told you earlier, i have run things with your gender and know them to some extent.

For this our generation, many don't enter marriage for true love. The last girl i dated, few months to her wedding, she still visits me and we keep having intimacy. The man about to wed her calls and she tells him she is in her room.

Don't even mention true love again, because i know some married women having affair outside their marriage with men below their husband status.

After marrying the so called true love or choice. Tall, handsome man, you still go outside to Bleep shorter, ugly man

Whether you mean alpha men or wealthy men, it makes no difference.

One thing is certain: you haven't dated up to 0.00001% of the entire population of women in Nigeria, and the last girl you dated doesn't represent all the women in the country.

Certainly, not many women in Nigeria will still go out to bleep shorter, ugly men or even bleep any other man aside their husband.

Bendeco02:


Confindence when they are surrounded by simps that praise them for what they're not.

When they jam a real guy, they fall even if the guy is ugly.

🤣🤣🤣 You are only confusing yourself. What is your definition of a real man? I hope you don't think that simply having money automatically makes you a real man and will attract most ladies to worship and surround you like pests. There are certain women who will admire and surround you based on wealth, but it is not the majority. In Nigeria, the percentage of wealthy men is not even up to 5%. If there were many wealthy men, you would understand that there is actually a scarcity of desperate women.

Don't rely solely on online research. Venture out into the real world and conduct thorough research, and you will discover that many women prioritize love and other values over money while selecting their partners.

Bendeco02:
But why are you angry?

I have role and observe your gender to some extense

Even the pretty ones you see out there have inferior mind/esteem inside.

Half of these pretty ones knows that the appearance they are displaying to the public is not their actual self, from hair to toe. Hence, this is part of the reason for the low self esteem. I don't even want to talk about average ones.

A lady can remove her wig and you can't recognise her again talk more of appearing without make up or fake Butt Hip.

Some of the Busty/Chubby ones, when they remove cloth you may throw up (Vommit). Forget, there's nothing speacial about women if not for the simps among men that made them feel important

As if most ladies are displaying their beauty online or finding dates online? The online world is so different; it is full of imaginations and fake information. Do most ladies even care about butts or hips? Forget the internet world; in the real world, ladies without big butts and hips are rocking themselves with great pride and confidence.

Bendeco02:
Hope you understood my point at all?

If you feel misunderstood, explain your point.

You said and I quote, "Most women have low self esteem than men. So, anyone that has the confident can approach and get them."

Bendeco02:
Don't mind that guy. All these references sometime are like myth.

Even dwarfs marry pretty women.

Most women have low self esteem than men. So, anyone that has the confident can approach and get them just that some men first downgrade themself.

But most important thing is your status as a man. That can cover all the areas you flop

There is no shortage of nonsense online. The internet is indeed a world of its own.

What do you mean by 'Most women struggle with low self-esteem, so anyone who is confident can approach and win them over'?You don't have to share misleading information to encourage someone; you can offer encouragement while still being logical.

Most women are confident. The fact that some dwarfs marry pretty women doesn’t mean that every woman on the street will agree to marry a dwarf. Most women can turn a man down, regardless of his social class. Almost all women have their own preferences when it comes to physical appearance, but many also take other factors into consideration, such as a man's vibe, composure, attitude, intelligence, talent, and more.

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Duttymotivation:
How about libra men. Are libra men good for Taurus ladies?

I'm a Libra woman, and I've dated a Taurus man. From my experience, I would say that Libra and Taurus make a great pair.

Hmm

Aaaaarghmed:
But this guy wey she marry ehn,e head dry like radiator

The peppered guy looks like dried lizard.

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It's not that serious. If you are short, just looks for ladies that prefer short guys. Complexion isn't really an issue, but when it comes to height, women often prefer both average-height and tall men. Short men might be at a disadvantage but there are women that prefer short men also.

Oloki:
Na waa for the comments up here o. you people giving him advice on how to break up without minding what the other lady had invested in the relationship.

According to him, the lady had helped him financially and get him food stuff most times because the lady belief there is something in the relationship for her.

To you OP, You are just an exploiter.

Sure, he has exploited her, but it's better for him to break up with her now; later might be too late, and he could end up hurting her deeply. Love is a matter of the heart; it can't be forced. If a woman marries a man who doesn't have feelings for her, she will end up at a loss. She deserves better. She might eventually find someone who truly loves and appreciates her.

Dizzyyish:
A woman's spec always remains her spec. It never changes, and you can know her spec from her dating (or fcking) history. If a woman says you're a sweet guy compared to her exes, just know you're in trouble.

When a woman wants to move, everything around her becomes fuel for plausible deniability, so if the outcome of the movement doesn't make sense for her she can rationalize to herself and deceive others that her intent was something else.

That's not true; a woman’s preferences can change, and a woman can even have various specs.

Stop deceiving yourself. If your ex moves on with a better guy, she might even find it difficult to recognize you if you both run into each other.

emma2018:
Dear merry i quoted u on a dead thread

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Newsmills:
Relationship is not living in bondage,because of attitudes of some nigerian pastors who extolled their wives above christ some women look at themselves in marriage as bouquet of mystic flowers that are sacred even to be corrected for wrong deeds.

Yes, relationship is not living in bondage, but I don't understand the rest of your message. What are you trying to convey?

Done

Relationship isn't meant for children; the entire concept of relationship is confusing to them.