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bukatyne:
Quinmerry just wanted to catch cruise. Madam said 'if you have decided to marry a brother.....'

It means part of your decision is that he is worthy of your submission.

Lacash:
Maybe she should call the customer care number for a lengthy talk or contact the Guinness Book of records for a new Thorn challenge 😀😀😀

Psoul:
Merciful God will never allow me to meet something like you as a wife.
Satan will only give you to a man as a wife, if Satan and God have condemned the man and choose to punish him to death.

I thank God I'm happily married and with all grown up children. And I know something like you will never cross paths with my children. God forbid.

Chimaokigwe:
All these ugly girls who are products of unhappy families and broken homes.

That's how they peddle their generational sadness about. I pity any unfortunate man who so much as greets them good morning.

dkidd:
Lol..You have said it all... A very stupid senseless post to create baseless arguments. Why marry when Ur not ready to submit? Abi which man in his right senses will marry a disrespectful unsubmissive woman in the first place?

Omoawoke:
No one is forcing you to marry madam.
Stay single until you find the person that will give you genuine love the way you fantasize it

luminouz:
Since you are online, can you at least connect to Shiloh online service?

Your miracle awaits you ...no end this year like this na. You need a man. Go get one

Psoul:
That quinmary or whatever she calls her little self is not wise at all and may not be happy in marriage unless she will marry a sidon dey look kind of man.

You are waiting for a man to show genuine love before u becomes submissive to him.
What is the same man starts waiting for you to be submissive before he shows the love.
Don't ever try bn in a relationship with the man u can not be submissive to and a man need not do anything with a woman he is not in love with.

Anny69:
Correction: Men do not deserve submission.

Edit: I had so much fun replying the emotional men-children that were in my comments. Y'all don't deserve submission, cry harder about it! 💋

GreatAchiever1:


If you're referring to classic human philosophy such as the ancient Greek, medieval philosophy, enlightenment philosophy, communism etc, then it can be changed. But when we talk about the commands of God in the bible, then No; it ought not to be interpreted from the lens of some cultural philosophy, but rather from the plain reading of the text first, because really it's not hard to understand, but due to defiance and rebellion, we tend to hold onto what our carnal nature wants and ignore the plain teaching of the Bible, take for example, this nonsense post you just created because correct me if I'm wrong but you are the commenter quinmerry in that post.

GreatAchiever1:
When I tell you say you never open bible before, you dey yarn dust. Now I'm convinced by this. Please if you want to dance to the tune of modern ideologies in marriage, feel free but don't bring this to the Christian beliefs because that is where you will face many oppositions and rebukes from those who actually knows and upholds to what the Bible teach concerning Marriage.

GreatAchiever1:
Your ignorance is starting to irritate, did you even understand the point of the initial post you uploaded. Do you even understand the marital institution and the purpose for wifely submission in marriage. Everything is misogyny to y'all.

GreatAchiever1:
Both husband and wife should follow the Bible's commands, regardless of how the other spouse treats them. The biblical[b] command[/b] reflects God’s will for husbands and wives within the marital institution. For example as you said, some might argue that if you have a good husband, submission comes naturally. However, you could just as easily flip the perspective and say that if a man has a good wife, loving her comes naturally. While this may make it easier, it is not a guarantee. There are husbands who deeply love their wives but are still treated poorly, and the same is true for wives.

Regardless of the circumstances, Christians are called to follow the Bible's teachings on how to treat their spouse. This obedience should not be transactional but should stem from reverence for the Lord and a desire to align with His will in marriage.

luminouz:
Clutch your bible and head to Shiloh...this year must not pass you oh ..ehn ehn

GreatAchiever1:
Ok Madam "I have read my bible in toto". Kindly explain what these verse of wifely submission in marriage means: Ephesians 5:22, Colossians 3:18, Titus 2:3-5, 1 Peter 3:1,5,6.

TheSnowLeopard:
Then you shouldn't have married a man you can't submit to in the first place. Submission should be an enjoyable thing. If you've a good husband, it should come naturally.

GreatAchiever1:
And that's because the bible is traditional. Smh. I can tell that you've never read the Bible before, hence using the lens of the modern cultures to assume what the bible actually says.

6ixpaq:
The world has no shortage of fools..

luminouz:
Ladies wake up to do what? Not submit? 🙂🙂🙂🙂. Women are always the greatest enemies of women. See mûmû advice oh

Such a clown you are. Shiloh starts today....I hope you are there asking for help

dkidd:
Lol..You have said it all... A very stupid senseless post to create baseless arguments. Why marry when Ur not ready to submit? Abi which man in his right senses will marry a disrespectful unsubmissive woman in the first place?

Fahvvy:
The werey is looking for someone to challenge her, as if those people have their time or even know of her existence ...

Women if you know you cannot submit, then don't marry the man, cause SUBMISSION TO YOUR HUSBAND IS AN UNCONDITIONAL REQUIREMENT ...

immortalcrown:
Then, a woman should not accept a man for marriage until he shows genuine love.

Submission in marriage is unconditional unless you are mad

malcom1X:
You said last borns this is not their first child. Don't play.

Which freezing of eggs. Do you know the country that you are in?

Saidfx:
Only and I repeat only men love unconditionally. Women should just submit and respect their husbands inrespective of their financial status..there is nothing like a woman being the bread winner..it's just a weak statement to pull men off their full potentials.

Maysdevices:
Like I said. She is foolish for starting a thread on Nairaland as a woman and the attention she was looking for, she has seen it

Anyone is foolish for starting a topic here without expecting insults from obscure idiots but as a woman? You are doubly foolish

Drive that question to your fellow men here. If only you know how many intelligent women used to be here years ago, all have fled from the bitterness of your gender who seem to hate women with scary intense passion

I left for many years myself but can’t resist coming from time to time because it is nostalgic to me, these people literally drew me in a disfigured manner and started trollling my entire family, just because of banter

With that said, Bleep Nairaland and its commenters ✌️

Maysdevices:
The attention she was looking from Nairaland guys, she has gotten it

Anyone woman that starts a topic here is foolish, me included, which is why I deleted my old account

DeeScan:
yet, I bet it didn't stop you from having waste his money getting lunch for you ..


You deserve such treatment at this point...

Saidfx:
If I marry woman and she get money nah for her pocket, because nah me suppose take care of am and give her unconditional love. All this rubbish about women considering thier financial status before marriage nah bull shiiiit. If woman wan marry make she just respect her husband and the people at large... Make she just see herself as woman and nah Nature[/color] set am like that...Men, pls women need you more than you need them. Just live according to your conscience and capacity. No forget the Equatorial Guinea[color=#990000] shit. E still dey for minds o...Men don take am as deep excuse to treaaaaat any potential woman as just lust mate. E deep well!