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Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

My sister! Tell your friend and also tell him you want to remain anonymous in the matter.

Especially Telegram..

symbolofhope:
Good day Nairalander, i held A B.eng in civil Engineering about 5years ago, did nysc in a manufacturing company, i didn't get the required site experience expected of a civil engineer during nysc, afterwards did some free lance site Engineering works, later got a contract job in a top commercial bank, now am confused, tried integrating myself into the IT WORLD, taking courses on data analytics, and the likes but finding it difficult almost a year now, I did not understand anything, please advise me

You're just a confused human and its affecting your decision making. Your types are not passionate about anything, hardly contempted and mostly not loyal. Your issue is behavioural and not weak decision making or procrastination. Even when it comes to relationships, I have no doubt that you wlil apply same method which is 'Confusion.'
Jumping from one place to the other like breeze. I doubt if you can use AutoCAD proficiently but you're there talking about Data analysis.
Even if you graduate with third class shouldn't make you to loose your balance.
Civil engineering is a professional course and a standard career. In the last five years, what sacrifice have you made toward surviving and exhaling as a civil engineer. Who are in your cliq? Your circle consist of who and who? How updated are you?
Enough of the scolding.
How long do you think it would take you to learn POP and Cement finishing , with your knowledge in graphic design couple with being a civil engineer I know the sky will be your limit.
Goto YouTube and watch videos, design stencil with your graphic design knowledge, give it to lacer cutter guys to give you a finished professional stencil and dive into the world of home finishing.
Register your company and scout for young Togolesse/Nigerians who will work for you. Discard your present cliq/circle/contact. Start packaging yourself, meet meet people and start marketing your company. Get one or two investors who will bring in contracts.
Summary:
Learn POP and Cement wall and ceiling finishing.
Learn Graphic design concurrently.
Learn painting (Stucco and other unique painting styles).
Learn terrolean.
Learn Screeding,
Learn landscaping.
Register your home finishing company.
Recruit guys who knows the job but need professional guidance to give you desired result.
After two or three excellent job.
Get one or two investors who will bring in contracts.
Market your company.
Depending on the direction of the company, learn and add swimming pool to your service.

VeryWickedMan:
Hijab+North+Buhari+expatriates+stadium.......

Hmmm
Bomb blast sure

Is that how you see hijab and Muslims now?

These are the ploy the Western countries play on their own people, with fake news, they were able to garner sentiment to perpetrate evil and atrocities around the world. If Nigeria media space adopt same, the end will be disastrous.
Muslims will never sieze to protect what they believe in.
I made a comment on an earlier post about even if a Muslim guy sag his trousesr and you insult or blaspheme against Islam,he will pull his trousers up and die there. A guy quoted me and start to insult but that's the reality.
I will advise Nigerian youths not to aid division and disintegration of law and order. If a story is fake both political or religious news, let call the story out and do justice on the publisher. By that, it will be manageable to a large extent.

Candidlady:


So you killed yourself cuz of lady anyways 72 virgins awaits you. Win win decision if you ask me.

Rather than going bout raping and causing havoc to women Ithink men should actually do this
it is in their DNA

You earn my respect
Rest in peace

Mumu talk

Felimax:
South East that don't even know what they want. Nonsense!

Go and vote for your Obi in peace please. Rubbish!

South East are very clueless about politics.

If they seek proper approval, it would never be demolished

Being an introvert doesn't mean quietness, so ask yourself why you're always quiet.
In the right clique, born introverts are very loud and talks more.
Born introvert extremely love and enjoy being alone in a very quiet environment.
Rather than watching films, they prefer to learn something new, thank to phone and Internet.
They mostly see things differently and prefer not to argue if you don't understand or see what they see.
Their mental and analytical mind is very sound which inturn make them to be more introverted because people only strike a formal discussion/conversation with them because of their sharp analytical mind. Hence, they end-up with serious friends and not extroverts who might influence their behavior atleast alittle.
Large percent and not all though.

sojiboy:
Erelu Bisi Fayemi: Celebrating Ekiti's 'Mother-General' At 59



https://thenewsnigeria.com.ng/2022/06/10/erelu-bisi-fayemi-celebrating-ekitis-mother-general-at-59/

This Eulogy no be here ooo.
It reminds me of 'Bisi Olatilo Show' those years.

Urheadmaster:
These one won't even get one vote on the day of election

I would make sure I'm that one vote God willing.

Goldbw122:
Right, and these people that she just pass as if there is nothing, she will meet them in the future in her life time.

Nollywood! I graduated many years ago and I don't think I have set my eyes on any of my lecturer since then.

burritto:
That woman will frustrate the sh!t outta you.

I don’t understand how you still went ahead to marry a woman like that even though you saw all the signs.

Anyways you were manipulated and you’ll spend the rest of your life regretting. Your cup of tea anyways.

Hopefully in the next ten years, you’ll become a philosopher, replying questions with philosophical answers.

You might even start speaking in parables soon (If u go to sleep with an itching anus, u are sure to wake up with smelly fingers)

Next time get sense, that’s if there’ll be any next time.

He probably enjoy uninterrupted free knacking when dating her, not knowing that its a trademark of Kaduna and Jos girls.
Kaduna girls don't really value marriage or dedicate to having family.
They don't care about divorce because it will make them more focused on their olosho trade.
Once they have a child they can call their own, you as the legal husband don't matter to them again.
No all though...

ChangetheChange:
Hell Rufai call you boys to order, this is the same jihadist fanatic that wants to be vice president.
Muslim President and Muslim Vice President candidates is Dead on arrival in 2023 election at the current state which Nigeria has found its self.

Thise images are so foolish to be redistributed. You and I know that it's fake but you keep on sharing it. Please to what gain I asked?
Grow up guys and collectively let fight the bad guys.

spiritualmubi:
mental well being, then rewrite jamb and apply for my original passion which is medicine and surgery but hmm, am already in my late twenties, so please Nairalanders help a confused soul.

Most Nigerian youths don't know what they're doing or what to do at mid twenties.
32yo is not too much for to start practicing medicine. Stop mesmerising about the past because it can't be un-done. Be optimistic, sit back and sincerely ask yourself what you're capable of doing. 90% of science student at some point in their secondary school days want to be a doctor, so that aspiration is a common phenomenon.
Photography is good, just try to be updated. Learn chroma key (Green screen), you can from there become a content creator, creating short advert videos for your nitch.
You don't need YouTube, just get a very large sized memory card, ask around and get complete course on data analyst (ranging from data gathering to visualization to presentation to everything data analysis). While doing your self study, get data entry gigs online or even from companies here in Nigeria because sometimes companies contract out data entry jobs to individuals/Freelances.
Just keep seeking and please, let your past experience be a dot you're going to later connect in your life.
Going back to Quranic school is never a mistake and stop thinking that it has anything to do with your present situation. Two year you spend in the Quranic school is not worth nagging about. What if your father is a civil servant or a military man that gets transfer every now and then?
Only an incompetent person keep complaining about something which must have happened many years ago.

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Please are you guys promoting hookup?
What is this life turning into..
No matter how you want to define it, hookup is olosho.

Joezinho:
First time she's in the news for the good reason. This woman is always in the news for bad reasons, either for being disrespectful , rude and intimidating others..

Sometimes i wonder if to be a pastor in RCCG is for the highest bidder or just a mere respect of person. Otherwise what criteria were put into consideration before this woman was ordained a pastor. She is a total abuse of the pastoral office.

You forget to write Like for Obi Share for Tinubu.

His profile will be from Secondary school straight to University straight to Masters without mental growth and prior experience.
No reasonable company would hire such a joker.
That applicant would be a careless person that would be productive only under continuous supervision.

zionmade:
Moh....amme.d is a fake ass. That prophet is a rapist, he is a paedophile . Draw that your trouser up , I will still give u the beating of ur life. One day something will push you cannibals to try this shit in the south. That day we fill a trailer with u guys wrapped in ur mats back to ur desert

Try say it to a Muslim in the south tomorrow and you see what will happen to you.

Roon9:
I abuse their religion a lot in my state to their sorry faces. Why dem no dey try this madness with me? Thunder fire you and your moronic muhammad

Faceless..
Cometh to the fore and say same thy will not liveth to see the next moon.

Mrtaye:
Russia will actually pay for war crimes for causing collateral damage and going against the international rules of engagement, that Ukraine is losing men is actually the reality of way abi Russia is recloning their dead ni probably they are invincible

MrTaye! Russia is doing the same thing US would have done in this situation.
Imagine a Russian military base in Mexico border because Mexico and US are not allies.
Beside which war crime and what rules of engagement? You mean at ICC? I laugh in Swahili if you think the world still cares about unity,justice, rules of engagement. The world now know that its just a tool to control and manipulate.

Raxxye:
This is now the new trend for the jobless, drug-addicted, myopic, illiterate and fanatical Islamic youths of Northern Nigeria. Since their Northern political and religious leaders celebrate them for perpetrating the crimes, they are emboldened to commit more!
It's all good!

If the senseless pastors would keep giving family of victim scholarships and a home, and making the dead a hero, the gullible followers will continue to be a victim.
Give yourselves brain idiots. Stop listening to those business men called pastors and start using your common sense.
If you see a Muslim sagging his trousers with piercing, if you insult the Prophet or any form of blasphemy, he would draw his trousers up and die there.
So do yourselves a favour by distancing yourselves from anything blasphemy against the Muslim faith.

God1000:
Nigeria is going through a lot under buhari.

Should religious law supersede our constitution? Is Nigeria a banana republic

These zealots and fanatics will continue in their evil and murderous ways if the government fails to address the issue.

Such ugly incidents doesn't portray our country well, this is coming when we're still mourning ms Deborah and her killers are still walking

Much of this comment is expected.
After the case of Deborah, I repeatedly say that the Christians and Leaders are fooling themselves.
Instead of the pastors to speak out and condemn this new trend of blasphemy act, but no, they're giving scholarship to family of victims and making the dead a hero.
Its a simple psychology. If you don't condemn it as a leader, the follower will not desist.

Image123:
Zelensky himself said it recently that they are really dying and suffering on a daily basis.

Don't mind them let them keep grunting.
Just yesterday, one of ukrainian MP said Russia are just destroying everything at sight. Like they want to extinct ukrain.

ttoyetade:
Don't mind them. Still don't know what is the reasoning behind supporting Putin. Putin started the war by invading a neutral country and yet he is loosing heavily. Russia have never done any good to Africa, yet it is the western world that open their doors to us to live and work as if you were born there, buy houses even be a member of their parliament, give aids to Africa, give you loan or grant etc. Even if they refuse to give some people visa, must they give everyone visa. It is ingratitude.

Make i no lie, you sound so much like a toddler.
Imagine Russia planning a military base in Cuba and Mexico, please! Will U.S sit back and just watch? Never bro.

Ndibuna:
Gas or bomb explosion. We knew how the last one ended

Fvck you.. rubbish talk.
Do you know how devastating its, when unrest is everywhere.

pabocelira:
Okoooh

Check my profile for more information

Wetin concern Africans with earth pollution or not.. truly laughable.
This your advert quote get as e be..
You better go find another quote or phrase that is truly African.

DenreleDave:
I am just fed up.. How much be the salary wey I dey manage yet he fined me 10k for an assignment dt was done but only bcox I wasn't there on time. He didn't even care to listen.
I saw the handwriting but the truth is that I can't stay at home without a job.

I am really on a look out for another job...

Guys pls I need a job... I have a degree in banking and finance.. I can take up any administrative duties,.

I really respect your submission and please don't give in.
Demand for your money and pretend as if you don't understand the handwriting. Explain to your boss in writing why you're late and why the 10k is so important.
Don't forget to apologise.

02Kebreal:
Motivational speaker

Chicken Republic started with a grain of rice, now the franchise is everywhere.
Mr Biggs started with a can of tin tomato and a cube Maggie with four cup of rice, but now, Mr Biggs is bigger than its dreams..

ecolime:
Luv of his life you say?

Hin eyes go clear one day. The throlling wey British media go give am then fit make am commit suicide.

Let him continue to enjoy the queen's cover until she's gone, the British media will definitely separate Angela and Harry.

onyekaokechukwu:
When introductions start and everyone is introducing themselves as lawyers, doctors, engineers.

Then you come out to say you studied fencing and wiring.

Why wouldn't you be ashamed?

Lame..