₦airaland Forum

taylor89:
When is Tinubu visiting Chicago

I wan check something

Bloody senile frog

Cocaine ambassador

Igbo man calling someone cacaine ambassador, what a world...

9jvirgin:
I hope Nigerians can shut down Aso Rock and demand accountability.

Of new or old government

jidowu84:
I need a lawyer

Both your whoever could be lawyer and the company will gang and frustrate you depending on when they want the case to end.

Let them think whatever., its so cool to me.
There must be a story behind that public display of joy.

Onyiiobi7735:
I can understand Hausa and Nupe to an extent,as I did my Youth Service in Nupeland in Niger state.
But preferably,I understand and read French and Spanish, and focus more on them, because of their great value internationally.

You can work anywhere..

OkukoIgbo:
Keep deluding yourself, all those bullshit you spewed up there won't save you when they turn on you for flimsy reasons, quorqn and hadith are mannual for terrorists.

But humanity was here before religion right, and humanity will be here billions of years after religion is dead. It will be humanity and her creator.

It is people like you that condemned Deborah and other innocent folks cos of a worthless religion and a pigshit prophet.

Forget about the hate or what you see around and do your own study if you're truly interested in religion.
Don't be lazy
those nonsensical bullshit words of yours will make me show you how much I've gone in studying different religions and they are all bullshit without an atom of spirituality, for starters that is my quran and bible, am not lazy like most of you here who spread your information on heresay.

Your words shows how shallow you are interms of life, humanity, nature and religion.
You know little or none about the bible and If you thing the bible is as soft as your new generation pastors are deceiving you to be on Sundays, then you're a fool.
LRA, Crusaders including US and allies, which template are they following to kill and maimed people.
You shamelessly post a copy of KJV. If I may ask, what is the meaning of version. Do a quick study of King James and his connection to the revised version of bible.
Besides, those that knows Jesus and came up with Christianity, when they discovered Africa, what did they do? They trade your fathers as slaves instead of giving them your dear Christianity and Bible. Please which religious teachings do they follow to carry out such evil act or is the teaching of Jesus.
Grow up.. there's more to faith, religion and life compared to how you little boy person would understand.

OkukoIgbo:
So these people see marriage as contract, na why I dey shout say mohammad copied the bible to give the quoran some legitimacy,
No weed give am inspiration, nobody fit convince me say the illiterate was visited by an angel, or too much mosquitoes in the Medina cave gave him cerebral malaria; same way when I was small I had malaria and saw the image of Jesus smiling and telling me stories of John the baptist. Na wetin do mohammad be that.
If not how can one justify the abomination religion he used intimidation, terrorism, murder, chaos, rape, and ruthlessness to spread, even till now his mentees still do it, eg. Shekau, osama and co.

You're very close to being a Muslim..
Stop insulting anything that has to do with religion, either your own faith or other peoples faith.
For thousands of years before You're born, their is religion and for thousands of years to come after Your death, their will be religion.
Fear your position on the day of reckoning, on the day where not your mouth will speak but other part of your body.
Fear the day you will be buried and everybody turn back including and you be left alone six feet under. Fear the punishment of the grave.
Be worry about, what if my religion is wrong and theirs is right.
If you study Quran and hadith, you'll be truly amazed. It entail and contain alot of things even as a non Muslim, you'll find them very interesting.
Forget about the hate or what you see around and do your own study if you're truly interested in religion.
Don't be lazy.

I can will same to anything that's truly making me happy..

Tob456:
I have a 7 months old daughter her mother is an orphan, she is the eldest of 7.

We broke up when she was pregnant because we had a disagreement about her siblings living arrangements.

She wanted her 4 sisters to stay with us after the wedding and I only two of them to stay with us. The problem is seeing my daughter growing in a bad environment away from me makes me feel so bad.

Whenever I visit her I feel so bad leaving her behind that I don't sleep well thinking about her all night.

I also doesn't like the idea of having kids with different mothers.

For my daughter's sake I want to get back with her mother for us to raise her together in the same house. But getting back with her means that I should also allow her 4 siblings to stay with us after the wedding.

I am doing this for my daughter's sake but I don't know if I am making a wise decision.

What do you guys think should I get back with her or forget about her and concentrate only on my daughter.

Please help

Oga! Even though they're not orphans, marrying first-born always come with very big trouble.
Rent a house for them maybe in the fourth street and assist whenever you can.
Even though my wife and her siblings are not orphans, its fvcking not interesting and exhausting having them around. A mature sibling of 22yo still want to give attitude in your own house. I change from introvert to extra-extrovert because I married a first-born.
Just be prepare to be a senior brother.
They'll not respect your marriage and they'll never respect your privacy and space. They'll see you as an outsider in your own house and you will always fight and struggle to claim your home subconsciously. The wife will concentrate more on the siblings and make you sometimes feel as if they're just using in their family.
Alot of things will crop up but just choose wisely.

AsomughaChuks05:
Prices of agricultural consumables are rising excessively primarily because fulani herdsmen no longer allow farmers safe access to their farms across the country. This is why someone like Nyesom Wike should be appointed the new minister of defence to put an end to their siege and then completely rout out Ipob terrorists while at it.

Don't mind the ignorant idiot commenter.
Instead of them to talk about the real reason, they resort to blaming the government. Even the Hauwa Indimi, if asked, you won't be able to technically states the reason.

lessonotes:
Give your life to Jesus Christ today. You won't regret it.

Jesus will give his own life to who...
Oh sorry! He's God, no geek for him to give his life to anyone.
If I'm wrong, please quote me.

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Purvan:
Fulani herdmen are sponsored by the government

90% of peeps in the army are Muslims

Southern Nigeria forefathers are very myopic.
In the north, a coater bus will park in a popular round about and who ever gets in have automatically became a personnel while their Western counterparts are busy with Education, vocation and trading.

Animegirl:
If you believe in the concept of an alpha male or superior man, it is essential to understand that treating your partner with respect and care is vital in maintaining a healthy relationship.

If you don't treat your wife well, how do you expect your wife to take care of you when old age sickness comes? Funny, how most men deceive themselves by saying "my wife is not my family" if you have such mentality you're a fool.

Similarly, subscribing to the notion that all men are naturally polygamous does not justify cheating or engaging in unfaithful behavior. Cheating on your partner can lead to severe consequences in the future, including the possibility of being abandoned when you need support the most.

Furthermore, having multiple partners and not taking responsibility for your children can result in strained relationships with your offspring as they grow older. Neglecting your parental duties may lead to your children not providing the care and attention you might need when you reach old age.

Infact I rather marry a simp, who loves me and take care of my needs than marry self proclaim Alpha and Omega with so much toxicity

Madam! Go and sit down. You people normally runaway when the going get tough. Only kids and blood family will likely stay.
You women knows this and we men are no strangers to this.

Valoromega:
Anytime I have issues with my wife, maybe it's about another girl she always says what if she does her own too how would (mind you I have never been with another woman since we got married. I might just flirt around with some other girls once in a while via chat)
She has this mentality that she's beautiful and young and she usually gets a lot of attention and I think it's getting to her head. Because most times she usually talks about doing her own too and I think she has the tendency to cheat If I do something to her like cheating.

I told her that would be the end of our marriage

Stop threatening today's ladies with "That will be the end of the marriage".
You're indirectly giving them the opportunity to cheat on under the guise that, 'he can divorce me anytime, so let me kuku try my chances just incase'.
They're very evil despite the fact that They're our wife's and mother of our children.
Compliment her once in a while and stop giving the room for those toaster/suitors stories. You need to fully take charge maturely and stop that threat of divorce.
My wife normally thinks, either marriage is full of laughter or divorce is better off, but I latter let her know that in engineering, between 0 and 1, there are too many numbers 0.00000000001,0.00000000011 etc before number 1.
There're is mix of cry, tears, quarrel, joy, happiness, laughter argument, nagging, cloud-9 sex, horse play etc in happily ever after.

Racoon:
Osunbor, Adebayo Shittu? Adebayo Shittu with NYSC certificate issues during Buhari era? Same cycle of failed politicians who couldn't better a nation.

It depends on who's at the top...
Tinubu might be able to make good use of them, better than his predecessor.

The most famous/popular road after second Niger Bridge
Lagos-Ibadan Express road, the baby girl of every government.
Even we wey no sabi the road physically, don sabi em from daily news and headlines.

No law, No crime..
If there's law, there's punishment.

Prince202020:
In the heart, we serve God

That is the contention and beginning of misconception..
Thats how Christianity allow all sort of evil beliefs to creep-in. Church of Satan, Ordaining gay Bishops etc. Things that are entirely out of Abrahamic religions.
Its absord and moronic to distort the true revelation to suit and accommodate everyone.
In Islam, its either you follow to true teachings or you keep deceiving yourself.

Dubetex96:
This is very commendable our people in Lagos should start relocating I know it won't be that easy but a stich in time save nine

Your people in Lagos, are they professional engineers, doctors or scientists. They are fvcking traders who enjoys Riba not Riba (gain). Their customers are lagos people and other parts of the country.
Go to kano and see your people crying because Hausa's are investing heavily in things they normally left for the igbos.
If your people leave, they will be replace immediately.
You lots need to grow up.

mushroomFarm:
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I might have made a few mistakes in the past (not sex related) but ever since I met my first and only girlfriend (we are together for two years now) all I want is to keep loving her and being a good guy to her. It's not exactly hard...when you love someone, you respect them and respect gives you so much self control because you only see the best of the world in the eyes of the woman you love.
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Yes many men as promiscuous by nature. As someone in the medical field I can argue on and on about the biology and anatomy and physiology and psychology behind this... At the same time we can chose what we want to be, we can chose to be responsible and good expecially when the right, loving woman comes along.
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I will always always be loyal to my GF. She is my world.

I hope you won't hate her as much as you claimed she's your world when the time comes..
Get prepare.. OK! OK!!

They're gradually crawling back to their senses..
I have the strong feeling that the owners of TITAN That imploded said samething with what its said about TITANIC safety before capsizing. They have indeed start realising that God is God.
Maybe they will stop forcing the stupid agenda down our throat in Africa.

GodWrites:
Believe it or not, appearance comes first irrespective of where you are in the world.

If you are ugly, sorry is your name cause you will suffer.

Not just in relationship, but in your career. That's the sad truth, cause humans are shallow.

If you're ugly, you should firstly know that you're ain't among the cute guys or ladies, your entire problem regarding inferiority complex is more than half solve.
Have a big heart and dedicate more of your time to adding value to yourself and not worrying about things that is not your fault.
Even the cute ones will admire you and definitely, you will go home with the most prettiest as wife..

tonididdy:
I'm loving the read tonight and this one cot my attention because its like a summary of most of the regrets I have read so far.

I learned at an early age that "people who do the most -wanna make everyone please" kinda thing are people who are scared of tomorrow.

My moto is let tomorrow fvckn come!...
You are iverly nice to everybody because you believe in that "ladder theory" thing of help people on your way up incase tomorrow blablabla...

Why are you scared of tomorrow?
Why do you even have to fall and even if you do? Can't you get back up on your own?
( if you have a bag of precious stones with you on your way up the ladder and you fall... You will pick up your stones and begin the climb back up BUT when you give every Tom, dick and Harry a piece of your stones on your way up, you will fall with an empty bag and start all a fresh!)

Kindness is beautiful but it's not for everyone.
It pays some and doesn't pay a lot others.

It should be more, "we rise by lifting others"!

Your head correct well-well.
I normally thing i a messiah send to this world to come and assist everyone but I'm fvcking wrong. Its all bullshit and doesn't make any sense thing about lifting others because of tomorrow.
Its all trash. One of my wife kiddo made me realised that, just act aggressive when you're supposed to and act calm/friendly when you're suppose to.

eedimo:
That family part is still on me right now.
I hope i can free my self.

My wife yet to learn..
Sometimes, I just regret marrying 1st born/1st daughter.
Its no child's play.

amadil14:
Please ur kind advice is highly needed.
Thank.

Don't mind all those wife sisters, they're so selfish and heartless.
If any sister is happily married and doing well, its a big trouble but most often time, the innocent with not be quick to note or alarmed.

Oyinbo house get as e dey be..
With that big acres of land, just 4 bedroom
If Nigerian richmen/developers lay hand on such massive land, na to build complete town with detached, semi-detached, terrace, bungalow, duplex, penthouse on that land.

Jazakallahu khair

DeltaOil:
Tinubu wan make nija 100% narcotics compliant

How and with what..

Ter

Muh247:
She is Anioma from Delta state who schooled in Ibadan and America... She doesn't feel any disdain about Buhari and SouthEast perceived misunderstanding

Funny enough Jonathan and Okonjo speaks Yoruba fluently when they converse

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You mean Jonathan understand yoruba?

Life of introverts is sometimes funny and difficult. Aside my wife and kids who understand me and I can instruct them to get busy so that I can get my privacy but any other additional outsider is a trouble for me. I wish I can send my wife sister away. I'm extremely disoriented and disorganise.
They see me getting busy doing all sort of work from going and coming from work place to doing all sort of DIY but we introvert knows that reading research and thinking and staying quietly alone is our thing and not the too much physical engagements.
@OP you have to firstly and truly eithernyour introvert or not.
Secondly, you have to choose which side you want to belong i.e introvert that mingle which are always quiet and last to talk in most gathering.
Thirdly, you have to honestly ask yourself who's fault whenever things goes south with your friend. If you're always at fault, you have to work on your bad attitude.