₦airaland Forum

Christmasdon:
. Have u seen a graduate who is a trillonaire before. people don't think b4 posting , still girls na dem. they do not know football. what else is it they know. ?

Shutup! You dont need to be a trillionaire before its acknowledged that you are smart or intelligent.

Intelligence doesnt automatically translate to riches and anyway, not everybody wants to earn such money.

Some people are content with a reasonable salary so stop quoting me rubbish, as if you even know anything except football and filling your useless mouth with soft eba.

Lol if you know the kind of dumb chats I have to ghost or block because the guy cant even comprehend simple writing or make interesting conversation

Some guys are so stupid and infuriating to talk to, you cant have any meaningful conversation apart from "am eating", "am just closing from d office".

Abeg all of you EmptyCoconutHead s trying to cast women are freakin mad! You are part of the problem!

franchasng:
ladies do it too, has it stopped guys from helping their girlfriends


Let's be honest, majority of Nigerian ladies are selfish, stingy, greedy and covetous in nature, only very insignificant few are exception.


Nigerian women are mostly good to their children and parents; those are the people that enjoy their selfless love and care, but to men, they are brutal and offer nothing aside sex in return for money, favor, job, help, marriage, etc

Hm Okay o, your opinion

Craig24:
50yrs? How much more years do you think such person has left to live?

I for one, I don't care what the society thinks but our families makes up the society, we grew up in it, schooled in it Worshipped in it, which we draw our norms n values from. You have no idea what stigmatization the 50year old nuclear n extended family will go through, money or no money. The society doesn't care.

If he had only had those first 2 children (bearing in mind that he was a civil servant) he would have been fine.

His age was not the problem but not planning for his future.

Older parents are sometimes stigmatised, I agree but as far as his family goes, that problem is of his own making.

mvem:
I think women not men that are marriage desperate. Most men are not marriage desperate compared to women which have obvious reasons

They do get desperate and they rush a lot. They may have more potential spouses to choose from and more time, but they still have a propensity for moving fast for the wrong reasons.

And even if not marriage, for some kind of female partner when some of them would be better off pursuing other things.

TheRedpillguy:
Yep but she is old thou. I wouldn't want to go near that ever. Except she is paying then am going to get wasted and do it under a dark room. God nooooo nope on second thought she can keep the money. No no no no no

I thought you had finally become sensible in that other post but I was expecting too much. What kind of stupid comment is this Do you think she has never been young? You, you no go old?

tejiri4:
Smartness is not about bagging first class did mark Zuckerberg earn a first class. Funny post

But bagging a first class means you must have been smart, or what is the essence of degree classifications You're just being facile.

Mark Zuckerberg ko Michael Salzberg ni. He is not the only smart person in the world and his dropping out doesnt devalue other people's qualifications so stop typing inanities here.

Suddenly when it comes to noting female achievement you decided to remember Mark Zuckerberg...did he pay you to call his name here or what

franchasng:
Nigerian women will rather die than help their boyfriends. Their mentality is always that if they help him, he will dump them.

But you cant deny that that actually happens sometimes.

EmptyCoconutHead:
dating a naija girl is the worst thing that can ever befall a man .
I thought God created ladies to be a man's helper but now it's otherwise.
useless liabilities.

"Empty Coconut Head"








Daka

TonyeBarcanista:
You are not serious!

Ideal age for a man to marry @27-35

Any way you like it is okay, sir.

Kingsley10000:
Neo-colonialism and inferiority complex has finished us in this country.See how this negro is fighting tooth and nail to defend a white man's language at the detriment of her own.

Those of you guys putting strenuous efforts to enforce excellent command of English language can't even speak,read or write in your respective local languages.

The fact one is good and proficient in a language makes you Verbal-linguistics brilliant not GENERALLY INTELLIGENT

It's not about English. If I were writing in Igbo and you spotted my mistake, I would still go back and correct it.

Because as I said, that's what an enlightened person does

Intelligent thinking accepts correction and doesn't make dumb excuses for mediocrity like you are doing right now.

Demzlent:
Davido impregnated 2 ladies,has children with them and some of his sex tapes were seen on social media.
His music promotes nudity
He was given a break to attend to his secular music life, came back to graduate.
Why wasn't he expelled? Oh! His father is a major financier of the school's church #Hypocrites

Wow..good point..

But we know that rules and religion are only for poor people...

bluefilm:
I don already search my departmental library wey be _Xvideos but na only nonsense nonsense 12 seconds videos I dey see under the searches I made with Babcock.

Abeg if you get the link, make you share am na for me sharp sharp.

I take Baba God beg you.

You take baba God beg me for porn? are you really okay? Kai!

djoe21:
But I didn't say there shouldn't be limit. I only asked why those should be the perfect limits.

Okay. I've now explained the limits

Kingsley10000:
Even your English sef na cut and join

First, remove the beam
out of your own eye , and then you can see clearly to
remove the speck out of your brother's eye

I have modified it.

That is what an enlightened person does when he is corrected instead of defending his ignorance

truthsayer009:
oya, what do you want to know?

Lol are you serious? You want me to start courtship grilling you? hahaha

Ha! Somebody called bluefilm doesn't know where to find video

Meanwhile devil is recording sextape

Happy Friday

WhereIsOldRoger:
Yes all that is good, reassuring her of your love and all cause she needs it now more than ever.
But she could interpret it has, OK whenever I do something bad mum will just reassure me of her love, prepare my fav meal etc.. Why send her to counselling abroad when you can counsel her yourself,you're her mum you gotta teach her to be open with you. and of course she needs to he punished cause talking to her is not enough.
The question you should ask yourself is where did you go wrong as a parent.. And with all this your write up will you like to have a daughter like that?

Not all misbehaviours can be attributed to failed parenting. Parents can only do so much, at a point you have to learn your own lessons

She can be counselled by both her mother and a non-judgemental counsellor.

How do we even know she even gets along well with said mother to even start the counselling sef? Maybe her grandma or auntie could even help out. The whole thing can't just come down to her mother when she left her mother 3 years ago

How do you punish an adult

The worst that I can think of is to shun the person (which is what has happened to my relatives when they have messed up). As in everybody just acts like you no longer exist.

I don't think that is in her best interest

truthsayer009:
Ahn ahn, 33 to 26 is perfect na. Abi you want me to be 27?

Lol it's sounding good but as everybody has said, plenty of factors are involved and not just age

djoe21:
So what makes 33 the lower limit 'perfect age' and not 32? Or what makes 37 the upper limit and not 38?

32 is borderline to me and at 38 the man is overage.

Besides that's an illegitimate question. So why have limits for anything

There must be a limit for things na otherwise how do we define anything

BotherMleeper:
So also you can't defend why your presumptions are inverted.... he's something, you're nothing

Have a nice weekend!

truthsayer009:
You are 26.

A nugget of speculation that can be neither confirmed nor debunked so do you think our prospective age-gap suits?

Lol wow! So the nonsensical girl can beg. Mtchew

Good luck sir

joepepsy:
You see why we will remain slaves to Britain,We ridicule someone for not speaking foreign language fluently.

It's a sign of indiscipline not to be able to speak the language you were educated in for years upon years

truthsayer009:
Oh okay sorry, i didn't notice. I was carried away by the sweetness of the thread.

Lol don't take me serious, na joke oh besides you don't even know how old I am

BotherMleeper:
So Mr Perfect Speaker, how come he's governor with his poor speech and you're an internet nonentity despite your lyrical prowess?

Lol more whataboutery.

Just admit you can't defend it, because you can't.

BotherMleeper:
Hey asshole.....we had a PhD in there and he blew it. That tears to tatters your presumption that academics make the best leaders.

So why aren't University professors presidents and governors? Heck, why are our universities such citadels of shame? The current minister of education is an academic.

Stop this Nigerian mentality of thinking paper certificates are more important than vision, character and leadership abilities.

Stop doing whataboutery. Just because a PhD has failed it doesn't mean we should condone rubbish speaking errors.

Expecting a governor of state to be able to string a few sentences together is not too much to ask for Christ's sake.

He's an nce holder, Dem no dey yarn English for nce class

Oblang:
I can bet u cant speak better English than Buhari will do. Forget accent, Buhari speaks very good English.

Yeah, he does. Even better than the average (literate) Nigerian.

generationz:
Ive gone through the threads. People are saying it's uyai and it was a contractual agreement for an inheritance. They are to have a baby.


I can't believe these things have been happening on nairaland and I didn't know.

Na Tacha and mercy big brother gist dey override correct tori like this.

Lol abi, I just wish the guy went about it intelligently sha...the whole thing is looking potentially disastrous

BreconHills:
Thank you. You are very gracious..

You're welcome, honestly it was great. I wish she and her parents could somehow get to read it

WildChild00:
Why not
Is it finance name it......

Lol, they are uncountable..maybe you should go for another chick

truthsayer009:
Oh really? Oya I'm 33 oh. Biko come & let's marry

Lol lemme jor, can't you see I'm interviewing for the position already