₦airaland Forum

Bigcowhorn:
If you say so but wild horses won't be able to drag me into an argument with you again.

infogenius:
Now tell us how you want N/land to help u?
Do u want them to beg your wife to accept a second wife
or u want N/land to contribute money for a second marriage?

How exactly do u want us to help?

lefulefu:
made up story.e no even look convincing sef

Bigcowhorn:
The correct English should be ... "Are African Americans not called Black Americans."

Biingoo:
A guy you're not in a relationship with will not propose to you. It simply means you're double dating (cheating)

jaxxy:
It’s complicated and whilst I believe In openness I’m not yet sure if telling him is necessary just yet. I wud need to better understand the her and the frnd involved to decide that.

deltateam:
You still don't get it. He may accept her but will he forget? He will remind her of it for the rest of her life by his actions or words. Trust which is the ingredient for a successful relationship is broken.

EasternPrince:
You are partly the cause of all this

lovchalice:
I am a scientist ooo

jaxxy:
If she tells the bf it will ruin not only her relationship bt the bfs frndship with his frnd. If they can completely put it behind them and move on that wud be perfect for everyone. No contact or discussion.

Bt the frnd will have to stop being close to her bf and give the couple sm space. It’s just a sad coincidence. There is no way u can say it and it will turn out good cos it’s his frnd. Damn

AXYZ:
Apt

It's better she confesses to him and allow him take his decisions, instead of living every day in fear. You never can tell when his friend may want to 'deal' with you.

As it is, it's better he even leaves you, although painfully than be at the whims and caprices of his friend. Look for a way to tell him.

Lucyliz

lovchalice:
I will give you candid advice without sentiments. Act normal in front of your fiance, don't tell him anything. You did it in a vulnerable period. Don't condemn yourself. If he finds out from his friend you can then accept and apologise and still tell him that shows why it's not good to have a break in relationships

Unrated900:
Believe me he isn’t the person he posted

That guy’s pic is a local comedian in Ile-Ife years ago where I graduated 8 years ago

deltateam:
Babe I know a bad situation when I see it. I say its a bad situation. We are talking of humans especially guys that like to outdo each other with bragging rights.

The mofo fit misyarn by saying, " See this idiat I bleeped his wife". Once it gets to a third party ear na wetin our English teacher been call 'Open secret' that year.

Omoluabi16:
40 and above nko?

deltateam:
Its a bad situation. I see blackmail loading. The guy is an idiat for calling her. What for?

I think op should just end the relationship. Most men may forgive but forgetting?

Omoluabi16:
37 is a bit on the high side now.

grossintel:
I was responding to the lady I mentioned.

nero2face:
I see no reason to be afraid here, the guy is a grown up man, u should call him and talk to each other maturely, am sure he won't be comfortable with u as well, both of u should see it as a mistake and keep it a secret forever, it's not bigger than what people keep as secrets...

timosa:
I tried discussing my biz with my ex, all she could say was 'may God help you'. Many of them have nothing to actually offer.

Jhamzy:
Give me your reasons ma

Mrsabuh1:
honestly you are right about everything , what u said is painful but that is the actual truth, now my father blamed me ,he doesnt even want to listen to anything ,he said I shldnt bring my three children to him .while I was away I wasn't allowed to see my kids ,traditionally they said the kids belongs to my husband and I can only take the female child away but even at that he didnt even allow me take my daughter. he knew if he purnish me with the kids I ll come running back and he won .my father still blame me for everything and said I didn't give them enough time to investigate his family before marriage ,I was 22 and trust me I didnt really know much,I dont even know what the word RED Flag means , the signs were there and obvious but I was too dumb to notice that ..now its late and I dont know what to do ,business isnt even growing that much as the proceed from it I use in providing food .. I feel so down,wish I can turn back the hands of time

Skepticus:
Odin forbids!

I'll rather die single. No jokes

TheRedpillguy:
Hehe am sorry, you shouldnt expect alot from people, we are just humans and sometimes we act stupid. That was insensitive of me. Thanks for pointing that out

Skepticus:
I swear. They are the pure dregs of civilization.

How some men manage to wed them on Saturdays amaze me.