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LordsBattleAxe:
Omoo! Laff wan finish me here Dude, you're just 21. It'll be fair to say you haven't seen an iota of what life is.. I'm close to 30, and some of your assertions don't work. On a good note, you have a good head on your shoulders. Cheers to the next 9 years

LordsBattleAxe:
Omoo! Laff wan finish me here Dude, you're just 21. It'll be fair to say you haven't seen an iota of what life is.. I'm close to 30, and some of your assertions don't work. On a good note, you have a good head on your shoulders. Cheers to the next 9 years

lovchalice:
Jeep it up
You have an excellent spirit

Emperor5:
What do you know about life?
Just this copy and paste

MartinsD12:
The first one is what I applied successfully in my life, some people are not worth being in your life, I blacklist them.

Limassol:
This is an amazing thread op, you really poured some wisdom here only the wise can discern, however, despite the fact am 23, at your age I already know all of this principles and more(A distillation of my experiences, books, articles, anecdotes, moral stories and so on) but funny how despite my knowledge life has been a bumpy ride for me all along.

All in all, its great one live by great principles such as this but also one should keep at the back of their mind that life is full of surprises and uncertainties.

As Robert Greene said in his book "48 laws of power" , after listing and explaining in dept about all the laws and principles his last law was "Assume formlessness" - that nothing is certain and no law is fixed.

Have a great day brother.and

Icumsa45:
I m in my mid 30s(35s) and this advice can still be applicable before 40. But my advice as a big bro or uncle to you is that you should embrace discipline and consistency as you grow through your 20s because one can fall off along the line. Some babes that like forming marriage councilor back then are still unmarried. In essence what am I saying, life na jeje...

QDubz:
You forgot to add, don't allow anyone make you feel like failure is a bad thing.
You are one failure away from success!

SureDan001:
What then can you say about a naturally gentle and nice person who's living with his benefactor?

Miyachi:
Forgiveness does not mean forgetting, nor does it mean condoning or excusing offenses.

In my opinion, there is no such thing as forgiving to early. Forgiveness gives your peace of mind, having pent up resentment and hatred towards someone gives them too much control over your life -- they determine your happiness.

Forgive but don't give that opportunity to be wronged again.

BabaIbo:
That is harsh, you can oppose him without being too hard.
He is right if you think otherwise, give your reason in a responsible manner.


Back to the post, OP your opinion/view may be valid for people your age and maybe some above your age but when you get to a certain level in life, you will realize so many things.

Life has no proven written rules or principles, you can only find guide which can't guarantee 100% result.

There are people that followed rules and are still struggling, while some live life as it comes and are doing well today.

And there are people that set rules/principles to follow and they are doing well.

Every stages in life has its own challenges.

Remember the saying that Life is a mystery or a journey.


In summary, your post is not bad, it is good.
You did well in compiling that list but there is level/stage in life you will get to that some or most of them may not be applicable and again you have to put into consideration the situation/condition of the person involved.
You don't expect someone that is being fed or a privileged person to have same orientation with someone that is striving to feed himself/his loved ones i.e a person that is not privileged.

stanisbaratheon:
80% of that thread will surely be about men.

slyfoxxjoe:
You should be giving advice to teenagers. You’re not old enough to advice men in their 30’s. So much you are yet to experience at this age yourself. Have you even been in the workforce yet?

Toyade888:
My brother you go be bill gates for this life oo na why you survive all this

greatbrian:
You must be a big time problem child

DavidEsq:
Guy!! Ah ah!!!

pozehnani:
Well said.
I'm not the OP though.

emerazz:
With your acclaimed old age see how the young dude bamboozled and floored you with wisdom.. Truly age nobe sense.. Frustrated cargo..

Kudos op, you'll reach heights

mariahAngel:
If only nairaland men were this kind and understanding to women as they've been so far to this man....

Were op a woman, it would've been her fault one way or another.

The detractors aren't here yet that's why . By the way not all the guys here bash women just about 65% who are always online

MuchAdo:
Nice write up!
It made sense!!

lalasticlala:
Link to the original source or is the OP the original writer?

Dafuq22:
Women act like sex objects. I don't even need to view them as such. Haven't you guys been with women? Don't you see how they act when they are alone with you? Women are very sexual and they act it every fuçking time. Always touchy, always wanting to kiss, always wanting to "have fun" At first it can be exciting but it gets annoying for me.

Women act like sexual objects in the privacy of a guy that they are attracted to.

What else am I going to do with women? Talk about deep subjects? Lol. Most don't enjoy such topics. And the ones that do, get bored and would rather talk about relationships, celebrities, music, movies and all that superficial stuff.

Go out with them? Not interested anymore. Rather invest my money in better projects. Play games? Yes, but after playing games, whether board games or on console, they want to fuçk. Make food? Really? Watch movies? After that they still want to kiss and fuçk. Like what really can I do with women they won't lead to sex in the end?

Xenry:
#9...
Imagine having the urge to be ugly, some people are just born out of negativity.

Xenry:
#3

Dafuq22:
Look I'm not gay. I'm heterosexual and I've had sexual experiences with females. But honestly, only the first times were interesting due to the anticipation, but after that the experience didn't have that excitement anymore and the excitement decreased in proportion to more experiences.

I honestly don't see the value of women anymore. I have gotten to the point where I'm wondering why anyone even wants to have a girlfriend. Like objectively speaking, it just like adding unnecessary burden to your life.
The people that need partners are the women not the men, because unlike men the happiness of a woman depends on it. It's a deeply instinctual desire.

I've kissed so many times that the mere thought of kissing makes me feel like vomiting. I really despise female company now because I don't see any benefit in it. Not only does it take time away from other more important things I should be doing, it's not really as fun as most guys make it out to be.

Like if you are with a woman these are the things you do: Kiss, cuddle, suck breast, receive Mouth Action, finger and sex. I've done these things so many times that it's so boring now.

I see guys everyday spend money lavishly on women, some even have women as their motivation to be financially successful so they can spend on them. It's like a very unfair deal. And most guys just take it. Women get the comfort, emotional security, male company that they desperately need, sex, and financial benefits, and all I get is sex? Sex that I don't even like anymore.

I'm not speaking from a place of rejection. I'm not saying all this because I've had it bad with women or had my heart broken many times. Actually it's usually me doing the heart breaking, because I've never fallen in love with any women.
I've had lots of women declare love for me, tell me how much they are into me and all that shit and to be honest, getting girls is one of the easiest things for me. Maybe that's why I don't have interest anymore because I'm playing the game in easy mode all the time.

It's like I live in an entirely different reality from other guys. Every guy I know is hyperfocused on the female gender, while I'm just not interested anymore. It's like I can see the true nature of the male-female reality and I don't give a fuçk anymore. Yesterday I had a girl overtly seduce me. She kept walking to and fro along the range of my view and shaking her ass so I'll notice her. I just laughed and ignored her. I have multiple girls I could call right now to come over today and fuçk and they'll be eager to, because they are all into me, but I've lost interest in them and women in general.

Women don't interest me anymore.

Pegi23:
I swear I was like this op have sense oo, mature guy at the age of 21 but your number 14 make you stupid and foolish..

Derare:
But nobody is forcing you to give a lady money or even aid her ,you have the power to say NO and still move on with your fucking life.Stop making it look like you are being forced or even under duress when it was all happening.
This particular gender will ,willing give a lady money and still come online to wail.haba!!!

Iamtoyosii:
Dear Sir, wisdom, I think doesn't come with age.