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FamilyRe: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Mikester:

midnighter
Ehibiggirl
BRATISLAVA

If you have no advice left to give her, then leave. Stop causing her emotional pain with your insults and criticism.

Miss ifyjos, part of growing up is just taking what you learn from that and moving on and not taking it to heart. I appreciate your effort in confessing your deed and I hope your family genuinely forgives you soon.

Believe it or not, they're a part of your life you can't do without especially at your present situation. You need their support more than anything at the moment. You won't have a happy life if you're at war with your family. I know you understand me.

Life is like a coin, you can spend it anyway you want but you can only spend it once. You only live once.
The opportunity to truly live doesn’t wait. Either you use it or you lose it.

Your motivation should be beyond that your guy if you wish to get back stronger. Learn a skill or set a business for yourself. You do this for the future you and your little girl so that neither of you would be found in unnecessary hardship and stress.

Despite your situation, it is very possible for you to lead a better and productive life. Thus I will advise you concisely:

- Change your habits and behaviour. Negative behaviour and harmful habits are the silent killers of a healthy and good life. You're still young and have a lot to achieve.

- Never trust someone who hates your family. A healthy relationship will never require you to sacrifice your life with your family and loved ones.

- Get closer to people who can be of help to you and your children.

- Keep in touch with your family and loved ones.

Through perseverance, many people win success out of what seemed destined to be certain failure. Worry less. Listen carefully to advice. Take responsibility. Accept what you can’t change. Embrace the lessons. Live a better life onward.
RomanceRe: Now I Understand Why Niggers Are Always Poor. by Mikester: 3:49am On Feb 21, 2021
360clips:
You're very right.*thumbs up*
I edited
RomanceRe: Now I Understand Why Niggers Are Always Poor. by Mikester:
Untamed money lust, smoking, laziness and sleep, partying, gluttony, alcohol, sex?

It all boils down to one thing and that is THE LOVE OF PLEASURE

I once created a thread on that - how the uncontrolled love of pleasure makes one poor but some doubted me.

Any people, any race, country or person who loves pleasure excessively will not be rich, anyone who seeks pleasure early, who can't delay gratification, who loves relaxation and enjoyment will not be rich. He won't progress from the level he is. He will always be among mediocres and scornful men and women especially in the case of that sexual pleasure.

Take it or leave it, the fastest way for anyone to kill his/herself besides speaking anyhow is by giving his/herself to lustful sex.

A guy who gives himself to sex early and uncontrollably will be less active in crucial aspects of his life which will make him less productive, and a less productive man will later slide into depression especially when he sees his mates ahead of him. Check the life of any typical sex lover and see for yourself.

Generally, the lifestyle of a man largely depends on IQ and a higher level of intelligence leads to a healthier and more successful lifestyle. The IQ of most niggas are low, that's why they're were they are now. Some of them can't even fathom what we're discussing now. cheesy

Rich men eat less, sex less and work more but you see these poor niggas, they do the opposite. They eat more, sex more and work less that is why they can never be rich.


I no wan talk too much else page go full
RomanceRe: The Number One Reason For Heartbreak and how to prevent it. by Mikester:
Nazgul:
The truth about heart break is that it comes with signs, no matter how a partner tries to pretend, you'll definitely see the red flags. Problem is that sometimes love can make one of the parties foolish thereby making them ignore these signs and end up paying the ultimate price of a devastating heartbreak.
Most people live life in such a manner wherein they get externally affected each day yet aren’t able to overcome their desires & expectations.

Love is like the measles; we all have to go through it. Only the broken-hearted know the truth about love. The heart will break, but the broken live on.

The key is to expect more from yourself and less from others as not everyone is as dedicated as you and one sided expectations will mentally and in some cases, physically destroy you. Learn the truth about love and never give yourself excessively to those who don't do the same then and only then, you are good to go.


Nice write Toks2008




ImaIma1:
We might tell our hearts not to love too deeply so that we can dust ourselves and move on quickly when the need arises. But does the heart always listen? I don't think so

While we are busy falling and loving, the heartbreak just takes us unawares. At that point, some move on quickly while some are too hurt to let go.
FamilyRe: 5 Mistakes People Make In Their 20s That Guarantee They Will Have A Hard Life. by Mikester: 12:22pm On Feb 20, 2021
I hear you man. These are useful wisdom
RomanceRe: Are Romantic Relationships Really Useful? I Find Them Useless by Mikester: 10:03am On Feb 19, 2021
Imagine meeting someone you don't know and start asking for their number just to ask them out. What they term "love" is mostly lust. That's why a relationship is just two people deceiving themselves.

The right order should be

- Friendship
- Romance
- Engagement
- Marriage

Any other way is crap
RomanceRe: This Is What Happens Between Me And My Girlfriend On Valentines Day. by Mikester:
To be in a relationship, you have to understand the person you're dealing with. You coming here to ask us how to go about your relationship just proves you're too naive to be in one.


This is why I still maintain this stance

- Friendship
- Romance
- Engagement
- Marriage

Others are just deceitful
FamilyRe: Naija Man Curses Naija Lady After DNA Test Proved Baby Pinned On Him Isn't His by Mikester:
Premarital sex is never worth it for anyone. It makes one's life complicated and highly stressful not to mention the inability it springs for one to give full focus to his/her ambition.

It is not for great people to fornicate else their greatness will become perverted. Leave fornication to those who wish to waste their youthfulness and thwart their future blessings. It is their fate.
FamilyRe: Man Sends Wife And New Born Baby Packing, Set To Marry Wife’s Sister (photos) by Mikester:
My sympathy to the wife and her unborn child. They got what they never bargained for.

That man sha seem to love problems in his life. I can bet that he will be unhappy in the future.

As for the husband snatcher, her confused and immoral lifestyle will be her doom. No much to say.
RomanceRe: She Told Me She Has Herpes by Mikester:
On this auspicious day, I logged in to nairaland, clicked family section and opened this thread just find a man devoid of understanding. A man who seems to be too ignorant to the effects of lack of self control and unsafe sex. A man who somehow feels sex is everything.

Well, I don't want to be involved anymore. I'll pass.

FamilyRe: The Day I Confirmed Witches And Wizards Do Exist. by Mikester:
Get to know why those people don't approve your relationship with her first then you'll know the way forward. Don't let your relationship separate you from your family and loved ones.

For the record, I don't approve the relationship either
RomanceRe: 11ways Of Seducing A Man And Get Him Thinking Of You All Day by Mikester: 8:38am On Feb 19, 2021
Nice and feminine
RomanceRe: Why Everyone Should Strive To Be More Attractive by Mikester(op): 3:52pm On Feb 18, 2021
Yusufisraelj:
Beautiful piece from a beautiful mind.
Thank you
RomanceWhy Everyone Should Strive To Be More Attractive by Mikester(op):
Believe it or not, attractiveness is one factor that makes people to regard you as someone important and sociable in the society. People rely on sight, sound and smell when it comes to being attracted to people and all three senses play a vital role in making people attracted to one another.

Moreover, studies suggest that people agree who is and isn’t attractive, both within and across ethnicity and culture. Researchers note that attraction is not merely in the eye of the beholder but that there are universal standards of attractiveness and that attractive people tend to lead better and productive lives than their counterparts.

I will be sharing some reasons you should boost your attractiveness and 8 benefits you get for doing so. Stay with me as I proceed.

Firstly attractiveness isn't solely physical beauty as one can attract people through some other traits like self-confidence, intelligence, social skill, humor, wealth and the like. The more attractive you are, the higher chances of attention you get.

As a person, there should be nothing more important to you than your self-image. It is everything you need to get major things in life. Figure out how people like to think of you and challenge or reinforce it to your advantage then you're likely to enjoy these following benefits of attractiveness.

Here are the benefits of being attractive :

1. Lesser chances of conviction

Attractive people are less likely to be convicted of a crime and more likely to get a shorter sentence. People judge based on looks and tend to be softer towards attractive people naturally. Even the high judges and lawyers in court don't feel so willing to mete out grievous punishments on attractive individuals.

2. Easy validation

Attractive people get more validation from people than unattractive individuals. A study has shown that college students tend to rate their teacher’s performance more on the basis of physical attractiveness than on their ability to communicate.

Remember that not so bright teacher you had always admired back then? Remember those people you considered giving your support to first? You did so because you were attracted to them.

3. Attractive people are viewed as more competent and healthy

Taller males are viewed as more competent and productive than their counterparts. Bearded men are considered more healthy, responsible and nicer than beardless men just as ladies with attractive bodies such as hour glass shapes are more valued by society than less attractive females.

It doesn't stop there as intelligent people are deemed more competent at various fields that the less intelligent. Advert companies and film production select people based on their attractiveness and so on.

4. Easier promotion

Physically attractive people tend to have better-paying jobs in higher-level positions than their less attractive counterparts. This preference is usually referred to as “beauty bias.”

E get the way some ogas go look their workers come reason one or two of them to be too good looking, smart, e.t.c to work at that level they were employed. Before you know it, you hear say them don promote them. E get the way some madams go dey eye their gate man, come like am and increase him salary. That's life o.

5. More attention

Attractive politicians typically receive more news coverage than less attractive politicians. Did you notice that you prefer to follow attractive politicians than their counter parts? Studies show that attractive people receive more attention from people than their counter parts.

Teachers expect more attractive children to perform well, leading to more attention, less punishment and better grades. Parents aren't left out.

6. Attractive people exude better traits

Even though both attractive and unattractive people exhibit positive behaviours and traits, studies show that attractive people exhibit more positive behaviours and traits than unattractive individuals.

Right from childhood, attractive people are given more attention which makes them to turn out better behaved than the unattractive and they usually get more ridicule when they engage in unpleasant activities.

Checkout how people lambast that attractive girl who tried to consider prostitution but somehow managed to ignore the unattractive lady who did the same. We see how teachers insulted, lacerated and afterwards try to correct good looking students who couldn't read or spell but ignore the less attractive ones.

We see how in most news, the perpetrators of most crimes are mostly unattractive individuals and mostly on the streets, most beggars and low lives are regularly the less unattractive. Lol. grin

7. Attractive people have better chances at relationships

To a child, physical attractiveness is often associated with being smarter and friendlier. That’s why when children pick their friends, they usually go for the smarter and kinder ones.

Most people choose attractive people as long term partners and tend to trust them better. Relationships involving attractive people are more likely to be healthier and blissful.

8. Atractive people lead

Due to the way the world is, attractive people are always put first in most situations all around the world.

That's why attractiveness is one of the most important traits a person should have as it has to with everything in his/her life. It is a must have trait for anyone who yearns to be someone better.

Men do regular workouts and look good. Women don't need to be told to look good. They already know that one. grin cool

Acquire more knowledge. Read more books than people's statuses. Show forth confidence and prudence. Increase your status like never before. Exhibit more positive traits and people will value you more in every area or situation you find yourself.

RomanceRe: Giveaway thread by Mikester: 1:19pm On Feb 18, 2021
SmellySperm food is ready grin
RomanceRe: Narialanders Let Be Truthful When Commenting In Threads. by Mikester: 1:11pm On Feb 18, 2021
A very bad and immature move from her if you ask me. She sure exceeded her limits but I don't blame her though, I blame the emasculated and incompetent husband she's married to.
RomanceRe: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Mikester: 8:05pm On Feb 17, 2021
HeavenlyBang:
It doesn't work, oga. You sound quite naive.
Hmm, a born judge who feels he knows a lot. Alright, I've heard you. Now let me be, I'm busy
RomanceRe: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Mikester: 5:12pm On Feb 17, 2021
Maobichek:
Don't go there! Some girls without conscience will look into your eyes 1000 times and still lie to you.

if he really love the girl, this wouldn't be an issue, he should accept the girl and show her real love cos everyone has a past OK.
I partially agree with the first paragraph.

HeavenlyBang:
Woman never lie give this one before. grin grin
Funny grin

Tosic007:
Too much of African Magic
No it isn't

Uniquekriss:
only in zee cinema does that work, not with our Nigerian ladies, she could even cry and use swear words meanwhile she's f*cking lying.
It works with most people
RomanceRe: Reaction Stir As Pastor Who Cancelled Wedding Of Couple For Lateness Has Been Re by Mikester: 9:17am On Feb 17, 2021
Don't know how he died but I just got this to say, Control your anger and don't despise people no matter what you've achieved. You never know what comes next
RomanceRe: Why Do People Want To Mourn You Instead Of Helping You ? by Mikester:
Most people will only value you when you have something you offer them. They will only remember you for how you made them feel and your impact on them. It isn't necessarily money though but in most cases the poor is unfairly despised and abandoned by most people because they have little to nothing to offer.

When people feel good about you, when you mean a lot to them, they will eventually try to help.
RomanceRe: "He Is A Good Guy, But He Is Short And Ugly" Girl Cries Out by Mikester: 6:16am On Feb 17, 2021
She's still young, she should turn him down. There are other men to come
RomanceRe: Does My Fiancée Love Me? by Mikester:
How would we know? We're not some damn pschyic
RomanceRe: Sex: Is My Girlfriend Telling Me The Truth? by Mikester:
Tell her to look at you in the eyes steadily and testify she's telling the truth. If she can't, well you know what to do. Try that for a start


Note: I didn't say it applied to everyone
RomanceRe: Marriage, Virginity And Sex: My Experience During Youth Service by Mikester: 8:52pm On Feb 16, 2021
Most girls are just shallow and stupid. That girl and most girls like her are just shameless.


As if men need more reasons to fear marriage.

May virgins like me not have them as wives.
FamilyRe: 10 Dangers Of Premarital Sexual Relationships by Mikester(op): 4:23pm On Feb 16, 2021
There we have it
PhonesRe: Please I Need Help To Root My Infinix Note 5 (x604) by Mikester: 4:19pm On Feb 16, 2021
josephogaga:
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RomanceRe: The One Truth About Poor People by Mikester(op): 3:35pm On Feb 16, 2021
400billionman:
I somehow agree with the opening poster.

With the following points..

There are majorly two types of people, one set of people have an investment mindset while the second set of people have the consumer mindset.

We can paint a scenario to differentiate these two people characteristics.

The first person believes that once he is 25, he should get married with a lady to sleep by his side, have children, whether he has a decent job or not. They will survive, "Nah God dey give children", type of mindset.

The second person believes that I must get a decent job paying like N200k, date a lady for 3 years to understand if we have thesame aspirations in life and possibly buy a land before we settle down. Which we may start building before our first issue arrives. Among these are men who marry between 30 and 40.

What the poster is trying to put out here is DELAYED GRATIFICATION. Delay your desires for a better future.

Anything we want in life, we have ways of attracting them to ourselves, by constant planning and dwelling on them through our thoughts.
You've said it all sir. Much wisdom is found in what you wrote. Those who delay gratification especially sexual gratification turn out better in life than those who don't.

Great write
RomanceRe: The One Truth About Poor People by Mikester(op): 1:29pm On Feb 16, 2021
Yusufisraelj:
OP your write up is great I must say, but the details are pungent in a derigatory manner, hence the negative feedbacks, the "one third" line being the operative word in your consideration was silent in your write up.

All anyone who observed less could see is you calling poor people lazy, that's ambiguous, unfair and unreasonable.

So I guess the perception your write up gave was misread, but honestly speaking it's why some poor folks are where they are, I know this bkos I've been there.

But it will interest you to know that as far as the sun and moon remains, there will still be poor folks, the reason being that for every level there's a price and not everyone is willing to pay the price to be RICH, so you can as well let the sleeping dog lie, when there's a determined will, circumspect knowledge and execution to live above poverty, nature opens up and honour's that sacrifice.
Wise words as usual. I will make some modifications. Thanks.
RomanceRe: The One Truth About Poor People by Mikester(op): 11:39am On Feb 16, 2021
StacyO:
What you don't know,you don't know.







Op,I won't add,I won't remove. Thank you
You're welcome
RomanceRe: The One Truth About Poor People by Mikester(op):
Goddys:
I totally disagree with your position. Alot of factors contribute to it.

How will a man earning 15-20k monthly survive on such peanut. Blame our leadership for their failure.

Living below standard of living is the fault of the leadership. How much is the minimum wage in this country and what is the cost of living of a 5 year old in a month?
Oh really?

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