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BusinessCity:
Them nor dey tell person twice. Thanks Op

Ashirawealthy1:
Am a graduate, am educated, am financially independent but immediately you ask for a relationship note the following;
1 No matter how much i make per month, i will never give you more than 1k for free.
2 My burden automatically becomes yours.
3 I will never phone call you for long talk with my own airtime.
4 payment of all my bills become yours hairmaking, spa and beauty inclusive.
4 Even if you come to my house and eat, i will still later cunningly collect the money back either by hook or crook.

If your fiance or boyfriend isnt settling the bills, aunty ya being used, RECEIVE SENSE !
I dont give a bleep all u think i offer, she who have ears, let her hear!!
NOTE: modified : MY PRINCE charming is clocking 3 soon so what the fvck am i searching for.

I fvck for strictly fvck, if u wanna get entangled in a relationship joor be prepared for a lot of bill.

espn:
who is the right person. You v never heard of that was then...

1. Your best friend in the morning could be your greatest enemy before evening.

2. The person who loves you most could be your greatest hater in a twinkle of an eye.

espn:
who is the right person. You never heard of that was then...

Yusufisraelj:
And how do you know it's a rushed decision?

OP of this trend, have you spoken to the girl, or you day eye from distance?

Slimdada:
so a young man should wait until he has 100 billion dollar's before he should visit the family of a girl he loves and would want to marry

why y'all talking about going for a girl not until when a man is rich what then happens to man and woman coming together to plan together for their future and a young woman sticking with and praying for her man until he finally makes it,have you forgotten that some women brings good luck and open door's in a Mans life

Slimdada:
There's what my village people call
"Igba eriri"
A young man boldly going to a girl's house and declaring his interest in her,
That's Getting Married to her subsequently even when they are both are not ready ATM,
You Can buy a bottle of wine for the family or drop other stuff's which I have forgotten.

I think I have seen a girl who I would love to marry In the nearest future she has some xtics of my kind of woman,so
I want to go and see her mother then declare my intentions
With a Sharwamma I will make and a bottle of her chilled favourite drink
Is it a bad idea??
I need a girl by my side now so we can push forward and plan
Now I never blow
Not when I cash out loud
goldiggers will now choke everywhere,making it hard for me to find true love..

JOHNSONSOLAFUNMI:
Don’t shit him up, let him seek answers to his predicament, there was no internet, not thatwe have, he has the right to ask any question online

RisenPhoenix1:
You are right in one thing. Marriage only provides sex and children to men. All that company, love, support etc is just bogus. It might happen, it might not. But as you stated, a wife is not usually the best way of getting such things, and you don't even need marriage for that. As for kids and sex, yes, you can absolutely get them outside marriage, but when you do so, they come with attendant ills.

For example, in the case of having kids with random women; if you don't marry her, she's not exclusive to you, so you may have co-baby-daddies. Growing up in such a household could be detrimental to your child having a well balanced life. Also, considering the higher tendency that women have to fall for bad boys; your co-baby-daddies could be drug dealers, scam artists, etc. Exposing your child to these men when they come to visit their own children will teach your child crime. Also, such men are likely to be less responsible with child support for their kids, so what you pay for your kids will also be shared with the irresponsible baby daddies' kids, leaving your kids with less. She may even deny you the right to your child and there's very little you would be able to do about it.

As for sex, having multiple unofficial sex partners is not ideal. I've tried this approach and discovered that that type of sex is messy, sticky and comes with problems; from STDs to false accusations of rape and breakup issues. You may even have to battle jealous co-boyfriends, and you'll have to pray that she doesn't have a heart attack suddenly while she's with you.

I was once a player but I quickly came to the realisation that marriage is truly restful. You can have regular sex without fear, you can have well adjusted children that you can be sure are yours; and living together, you will be able to take care of them and raise them in the image you desire. You can also spend on them knowing that they are the real and sole beneficiaries of such spending.

SlimCupid:
I wish you all the best my friend, but please marry her because she's hopelessly in love with you and not the other way around. E get why.

SlimCupid:
1. You're right. I can't guarantee it but you've gotta agree that these people must have a pretty solid reason to not do what the society expects them to, long past the age at which they oughta have done it.
2. I think anyone can be a good parent without necessarily being a married parent, and still turn out great children.

SlimCupid:
Fine argument there man. Few things.
Kids can still very much turn out bad after having been brought up by good parents living together. And I think dealing with other baby daddies is still kinda better getting ruined by a woman you got married to, in the event of a divorce or separation, as she scampers off with all you've worked for all your life, after having contributed next to nothing to you. Imagine if the woman being a thorn in Dangote's flesh at the moment were his wife. Zero contribution (asides sex), but wants millions of dollars in compensation.
Finally, I think you'd agree with me that, even in marriage, there's still the possibility of partners giving each other STDs. This is because most married folks simply don't jettison extra sexual partners just because they married.

SlimCupid:
Good analysis bro, but two things.
1. I disagree that men, with time, feel unhappy with their single status. Mr. Dangote is unmarried. So is Don Jazzy etc. They don't seem like unhappy people to me. In fact, these people are living their best lives, devoid of complications and drama.

SlimCupid:
2. Feeling lonely is relative. For example, I live alone. I love my space, and I don't appreciate when someone invades it for more than a few days at a time. So long as I have the football and a circle of friends, I'd never feel lonely. I appreciate that everyone isn't like this though.
So here we are again.

cchub:
lolll, Make una dey whine unaself

Brownoctopus:
which proof u get

CalliDora1:
Must you jump on every bandwagon in the name of trending? Serves you right.
I hope your mother deals with you.

Threat my foot. You can't do nothing. Block heads.

OMOJOHN001:
I have this new female neighbour, she just moved in few days ago, she came to my apartment three days ago to knock on my door to ask of my name and what I do.

Since then she collected my number. Every night this lady will call and spend nothing less than #500 talking to me on phone, while she stays in her too which is just few steps away from my own apartment.

I won't lie, this babe make sense I have decided to smash her. but the problem now is that I don't know if she Really like me or she is just trying to be a nice lady.

She told me yesterday about how,she will start cooking for me, just because I told her I don't like cooking.

REAL GUYS IN THE BUILDING, PLS HOW CAN I MAKE THIS MOVE SO EASY. I don't want to ask her out, cuz it will serve as an hindrance to my outside work.

I can't just get over her, She has promise to come over to my room today to come and Sing, cuz I have a mini recording studio at home.

What are the things to talk about, that will give her hint of how I feel about her. please any mature guy here to help.

SarutobiEky:
Omo..this generation of men don cast.