₦airaland Forum

blacksam01:
do not allow her go...sh is not wife to the world but wife to ur nuclear family....

women are a constant changing creature...ur family might suffer for this...do mot listen to yeye advice ppl will giv u here...just do not let her go!

U wan give the wife a well paying paramedic job in Nigeria?

OP knows he can't stop her from going even if he threatens with divorce, she will then write only their child's name as dependent excluding the husband and by the next 6 years she will be getting her British passport, the child will also get but the husband wouldn't as they would have been divorced.

casualobserver:
Basically you are now the wife and she is the husband.

She is the one who got the sponsored job, not the husband and this is not an ego contest.

samsard:
LMAO. You want a man to take care of a 5 month old baby while the mother is alive? Are you normal?

Are you unnormal?

mrblessed:
Haba, oga, madam should go with the baby na. Even white people no go disagree na. How you wan take fend for a five-year-old baby?

Who will be looking after the baby when she is at work?

Mind you a paramedic is not a 9 to 5 job.

Chingyyy878:
Bros, hustle money make you go with her oooo, if you like ignore me.

It doesn't work that way, Even with enough cash at hand, getting a 2 bedroom flat to rent is not a day's job, the paper works, getting a guarantor as new migrants etc....they may end up wasting money paying about N70K daily for Airbnb while looking for a house. She would be going to her work place while he will be looking after the baby there at the Airbnb....when will they even have time to carry a baby around looking for a house in this cold weather?

I got my cousin a single room before she arrived the UK to start work, she worked and saved, spent almost 2 months in getting a suitable 3 bedroom house, got it furnished to a reasonable extent before her husband and their 3 children came over to join her.

I can imagine the embarrassment,

mariahAngel:
If she's bored with the marriage, why not ask for a divorce?
Shameless woman.
Well, it's who she's always been, according to her.

They are both managing themselves, the man seems to have a poor choice of choosing a wife. His first marriage ended on account of his ex-wife's infidelity and the man who used to be wealthy as a basketball player is now struggling financially and the woman is riding on it.

honour7:
Let her go with the baby and marry a new wife, there is an 85 percent chance you have lost her

Let her go with the baby....is OP not the child's father and what is the big deal in a man taking care of his baby in the physical absence of the baby's mother?

IkpemhiTG:
She will be going alone (A hard and tough decision i must confess) leaving the me and my 5 months old baby till when things are soft for us to join her.

I don't know how easy or how soon it will be for her to send invite for us to join her.
How's life in the UK with a single mum?

Who have passed through this situation and how did you people pull through

She should go ALONE, you should get your female relatives or hers to assist in childcare and you should also learn the basics of childcare because you will be 100% involved with taking care of your child here in the UK.

Then after about 6 months, arrangements to join her can start.

Arriving, she should rent a furnished room in a shared house that is bills inclusive. Alongside her sponsored job, she should get a 20hrs per week part time job as allowed with that visa and after about 4 months, she should start looking for a 2 bedroom flat in preparation for the arrival of you and the baby, getting a house for a family is not a day's job.

When you and the baby come over, you will be taking care of the baby when she is at work and you can only go to work when she is off work, this means you will work with her work rota.

Increased voter apathy loading.....

EFCC and CBN may have squandered the money that was supposedly in their custody.

2. Mandating Diaspora Nigerians To Save Some % Of Their Income In Naira:

It may sound ridiculous, but this will help save the situation. America for example places tax on the earnings of it's citizens overseas. Govt should mandate Nigerians abroad to ensure that some percents of their earnings are saved back home or risk passport renewal refusal by our consulate abroad.

Why should I convert some of my Pounds to Naira to subsidize government officials wasteful spending, say who die?

Rather, suggest that public funds stolen by public office holders and their cronies should all be saved in Naira or risk not having their passports issued or renewed to travel abroad!

EKONGKING:
Amie Francis Chukwuka the law developer is suffering.

I can completely understand his frustration , imagine u being only as a part-time developer as u are a lawmen also . While his constituents are full time developers and are very rich , building huuuge mansions across South East .

You no get data to watch the video and u are here yapping!

I guess you didn't see Amie Francis Chukwuka saying American President, his Vice President and the President of France went to Osogbo for their medical check up, a proof many who have commented so far didn't watch the video and the sarcasm he was dropping,

She prefers wearing her electronic tag here in the UK, than being taken back to Nigeria.

At age, 92. May his soul rest in peace.

Biodun556:
She was killed by Israel bomb.

She and others who were kidnapped by Hamas were on Occupied Palestinian Territory. They have trespassed. Hamas acted right by abducting them for trespassing.

Israel will also be acting right.

Then in Germany, anti-Muslim racism would be intensified by German far-right groups.

Casttoy:
Na only am don dey scandal before? Mistakes happen

It is not a mistake from the lady's perspective.

FreeStuffsNG:
You're full of bile and ignorance. That University of Cambridge, ex-ExxonMobil Director, Abba Kyari you deride even in death is older than your parents and more educated than your parents, he was the Patriot PMB relied on to decide to move strongly against the fraudulent P& ID.

He died serving this great nation and it will be good to know what your own parents did to serve and die for Nigeria.

Do the undoables to win elections in Nigeria.

"Worse still, the appointment of electoral officials has also been hijacked by the ruling party as seen in the latest nomination of Resident Electoral Commissioners where card carrying members of the ruling party and aides to politicians in the APC are being appointed into INEC"......

Application alone, not the tuition fees.

Vindicated that Nigerians are living more comfortably, poverty on the decrease, out of school children on the decrease.....delusion is truly FREE.

Wike!

Solsix:
What's the essence of this post??

Publicity, which the OP is free to.

"YOU'VE ALREADY CROSSED THE RUBICON, PLEASE GET TO ROME".......

When thieves fight over sharing formula, where the goods was stolen from will be exposed.

Imploding from within.

Hustling for their pockets, loyalty per second.

Typing:
Search online. Or go to Anambra and Enugu and see for yourself.

You don't know the "names" though you believe it somewhere in your head, so keep calm as your mind needs the rest.

Typing:
Fulani wey don sack half of Anambra and Enugu Communities. You obviously don't know what's happening on the East. Most Igbo Communities were invaded by Fulani. Those Communities are Ghost Towns now..

Mention the names of the Anambra and Enugu communities that are now ghost towns because of Fulani's invasion, so I can cancel the thought that you missed taking your antipsychotic medication last night.

gift01:
It’s almost December and for the first time nobody is looking forward to Christmas 🎄

I am looking forward to it.