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With what you narrated, why is the relationship still on?

Red flags waving high.

Such arrests don't deter other drug dealers as they believe they are smarter. Next, their relatives in Nigeria would be going from one prayer house to another for his miraculous release.

Wickedness.

That was certainly not the first time, she beat the helpless child. She should be spending the rest of her life in prison.

You are both not meant for each other and best, you both have parted ways.

If she is not taking up some bills in the home, what is she spending her income on?

When the second misbehaves, you marry a third....when the third misbehaves you marry a fourth....when the fourth misbehaves you marry a fifth.....

I won't be surprised seeing the man's obituary poster....Gone too soon.

REDshouse:
But when the family of Tinubu who invested in churches and allow his wife become a pastor, you never refuse her because her husband was a Muslim,

She will take money from her husband wallet and pay tithes and offerings, you never rejected them, she uses her Muslim husband to purchase forms as pastor, you never send her away,

Religion should come last when deciding the future of our country ...

Let him go to"churches'" he "invested" in and collect his profit .

What concerns Nigerians and their future with Tinubu allowing his wife becoming a Pastor?

VEHINTOLAR:
Go and check where TENANT is boldly written in that document,that's if you have the C of O ! By the way,what is with this shameless obsession you Igbo have with Lagos ? Even Mr Nnamdi Azikiwe desperately wanted to be the Premier of the defunct Western Region as against the Eastern Region where he hailed from,what a shame ! Lagos is not yours,alaigbo is ! Please,you guys should be proud of where you actually come from and who you are for once !

No shameless obsession, just happens to be the city we settled in and I have never filled Lagos state as my state of origin though my birth certificate has Shomolu local government on it

If you can not shame Kemi Badenoch for aspiring to become UK Prime Minister, why should I be scared to have a voice in Lagos state?

Kagd10:
I always love the chest beating of 2by 2 shops.

"Don't get it twisted, love is a beautiful thing"....D'banj

adekolaelect:
I know you will find ways to defend your abnormality .. who bourn you are Obi to stage any maeningful political campaign in the East and see what IPOB Terrorists will take your eye do .But we told you when you were sponsoring and hailing IPOB when they started their Terrorists activities then but you no listen in the name of hatred and lack of forsites.

Every candidate who is running for the presidency is free to start and end his/her campaign in any part of Nigeria he/she so wishes.......know that and know peace.

By the way, if you feel Tinubu has the right to go for his medical care in other countries after transforming Lagos to a world class city, why do you have issues with anyone campaigning in Lagos?

Lagos is majority indigenes of other states, so campaigning is not solely directed to people from your village.

Kagd10:
Chest beating mental patient.
You're still crying over the ones that were demolished.

The fact is the lands belong to the indigenous people. Your lease can be revoked. Sink that into your skull. You keep forgetting the fact that Nigeria is bound by Amalgamation of Nigeria with regions.

Revoke? No worry, e go reach Supreme court and you know land cases in Nigeria takes decades to get the pronouncement of the Supreme court.....

No one has demolished my family's property and would not dare as the law protects the present ownership.

When we revert to regional government, please mention me but as of today till end of mortal life, my family are landlords in Lagos.

Kagd10:
99 years of lease is immaterial. Porthacourt and North properties abandon treatment should give you a brain. The property will be destroyed because the land belong to the indigenous people. You dey ment?

I work with "ment" people on a daily basis, that is where my paycheck comes from, so I am engaging you as if I am relating with one of our patients, so I am not taking anything personal.

Start another civil war, so you can see property to destroy or claim since your lazy self finds it difficult to achieve anything tangible with your life. Go destroy a non-indigene's property, if you won't show up in a thread on Nairaland's frontpage bare chested in handcuffs and boxer.

Lagos state government in today's Nigeria can't dare take over any individual's property just based on the fact the owner is not an indigene, case go reach Supreme court and LASG would lose hands down, abi you think say we are still in the 1960s, who you wan threaten?

You and your likes should have stopped the October 1st rally, if you had liver.

Kagd10:
Says the 2 by 2 shops chestbeating people

Meanwhile, every land belong to the indigenous people of the state. Sink that into your skull. That was why the North and Porthacourt have you abandoned property treatment. Lagos would soon give you the same treatment if you try rubbish. Yeye dey smell

Make I laugh

Even Tinubu is not indigenous to Lagos, shebi the likes of Bode George and co who are indigenes have severally asked Tinubu to point his father's compound where he was born and raised.

Lagos is doing nothing.....know this and know peace!

I know you struggle with comprehension, reason you couldn't interprete the 99 years lease agreement but that agreement still has 53 more years to go when you and I are probably long gone.......so no stress yourself.

Kagd10:
I have told you already. Go cause nuisances in another state that's not yours and you will be dealt with.

My family got plots of land in Lagos,way back in 1976 on a 99 years lease agreement.....we have only covered 46 years......53 more years to go!

Lagos is also MINE, deal with that reality as we go no where!

Kagd10:
You don't. There's law of amalgamation. Moreover, each state have their allocation. Sink that into your skull. The right to live anywhere is only given cos of schooling and career/business. Not going to cause nuisances in another state. Sink that into your patheticcc skull

You love showing off your ignorance.

Jostoman:
we know you people tactics because you people are also doing the same thing in Lagos.

Who are "we"?
Who are "you people"?

“It was unbelievable that when Nigerians are celebrating the emergence of Bola Tinubu/Kashim Shettima as the flag bearer and running mate of the ruling party for the 2023 presidential election, some hoodlums like Auxiliary were planning to disrupt the peaceful rally."......Guy is high on expired psychotropic medication.

Nice one.

adekolaelect:
They said charity begins at home .Tell Obi to start his campaign from his home land state .simple as ABC your home can not be in the hand of Terrorists and claiming you want to govern Nigerians out of Terrorists.

Quote the electoral law that specified the sequence of locations a candidate seeking political office should adopt for campaign.

You can as well tell Atiku not to contest because he is Fulani, going by the menace of the herdsmen, bandits and terrorists.

"I built Lagos".....is so delusional that it evokes sympathy.

Eyah

Helpout12345:
We have heard stories of blood brother sexually assaulting blood sister. If you are their parents, will you send your son to jail for it?

Based on what I know, I would.

Helpout12345:
So you will come into their family matter when the family says they are not pressing charges?

And who says their children will be better raised in foster care system? We hear several bad stories from the foster system too.

When such happens and a family says they are not pressing charges, e no concern government as it has an obligation to prosecute because defilement is a crime.

I have worked as a child protection officer and have severally dealt with cases where families do not want to take it further because the perpetrators are relatives but that has never stopped me from writing reports that got the perpetrators arrested and prosecuted......getting such people out of circulation, is for the common good.

Children are not better raised by such adults in the narration.

Helpout12345:
What about them? They are adults. They can decide what they think it's best for them and their children.

They are adults who if Nigeria has a functioning social care system, the children ought to be taken away from them and now be serving jail terms for defilement and concealment of abuse on a minor.

If I had access to the 15 year old girl, the mother will not come in contact with for some years and I am very certain the step-father will be spending this Christmas in prison as I have done such severally.

Helpout12345:
The girl should be taken for counselling. There are so many information lacking from the narration above about the girl but notwithstanding, counseling will help her to heal faster.

Agreed, the girl needs therapy. What of the mother and the step-father based on the information from the narration?

Helpout12345:
Happens in terms of what? Accommodation or what?

In the light of the abuse she suffered, the mother covering up and the step-father going scot-free?

Exponental:
This is a big lesson to every woman out there that your husband having a side chick doesn't mean he doesn't love or cherish you. He only probably wants a compliment of your deficiency.

See where the complementing has ended his family.

Helpout12345:
And to the advise on screenshots. The man misbehaved for sure. However, it's the woman involved that knows her family situation better. This is a very deep-thought family issue and go beyond what you use adrenaline, testosterone or progesterone to make a quick decision on. Seems like they have other children together as well.

Based on other children shared by both the husband and the wife, the economic condition of the woman and many other factors, the right advise might not be what the OP is expecting, "like call the police", "lock the man up", "leave the marriage" etc.

So what happens to the 15 year old defiled by the pedophilic step-father?

Helpout12345:
Hope you give this advise if the man is your brother or son or if it's a woman being maltreated in the name of "love".

Why should my brother or sister base their not getting married on the unhealthy marriage of their neighbours?

Zonefree:
Yes!

If it's just a little hit from the back and the car folded so bad, I'll avoid to buy such model of my neighbour's car.

Now you talked of a model not cars in general, so his neighbour's marriage can been regarded as a model and should be avoided.

Zonefree:
So, he shouldn't worry about a neighbor's marriage cos the Man is at the receiving end?

Not interested in your gender card. Basing not marrying because of his neighbour's marriage is the focus here! May be knowing your neighbour got involved in an accident with his car, would make you decide not to ever buy a car.