₦airaland Forum

Danny50:
Better they settle this shit now because you hide her from him forever...At the end she's gonna be a big looser.

Lose what?

Make l laugh.

ZIMDRILL:
you are reading in rush and also you are bit ignorant

1 if you read my responds, there are all focused on healing not the drug/s he mentioned

2 if you read carefully the OP sounds like a man so why would a man go see a gyno

3 All the information he is asking for, women are informed by their respective doctors, nurses,midwife etc

For him to know all that, there are few ways 1invest in reading to aquire knowledge about it 2 go with your wife during her pregnacy and after to her midwiife/doctor such information is given to her and yourself
3 Ask your wife she share the information with you

Unfortunately for most African men we dont parcitipate in going with our wives to have better knowledge and understanding, hence yoy people like OP coming here asking the general people than starting by asking his wife what she has been told by the proffessionals

It is you that reeks ignorance, who told you that men don't go with their wives (in this context) to see a gynecologist (OB/GYN) or did I advise, he alone go see one?

For him to be asking such questions online, indictes his wife is not sure or has no clue and both need to see a specialist to discuss it

Googling and reading health related issues online gives insight but should not substitute seeing a specialist when it is absolutely necessary.

ZIMDRILL:
i think we are getting lost in assumptions here

the issue is not about seeing a gyno, as the information that was asked is about healing time, information that is given to women after they give birth either midwife or doctor

Every women who has given birth would be told given information about healing times and also
tips to quickly heal etc ( under the assumption that it is a natural birth without any complications)

I believe you read where in the same post, the OP asked about prevention of pregnancy? So both resumption of sex and prevention of pregnancy are the focus, reason it is not for Google but sitting down with their gynaecologist (OB/GYN)

One thing for certain my parents drilled in us while growing up, is never be involved in separating fights.....keep walking.

ZIMDRILL:
you dont need to see a gyno to find
out the average healing time of a natural birth

Even if s/he visits te gyno, gyno will tell them
the same average healing times without any individual health conditions etc

She needs to see a gynecologist even if she had a natural birth, is it because we take so much for granted in Nigeria?

Let the gyno tell them the same thing but see one.

ZIMDRILL:
instead of googling you opened a thread

google would have gave you the answers you need instantly

than waiting for people to respond to your thread

Such issue is not what you google up but need to go see a gynecologist.

tylerboy1501:
Good day fellas, how long does it takes to have sex with your wife after delivery??


Secondly what is the best drugs to take after sex to prevent pregnancy with your wife apart from family planning.

You both should see her gynaecologist, who knows her body more than anyone on this forum.

I am surprised you both are still married to each other, going by your previous threads.

It seems the lady in the story comes from a dysfunctional family.

The guy's family do not have the right to take the son she had with their late son away from her, she should go to their State's welfare office to report the guy's family for kidnapping, they would bring back the boy to her and arrangements must be made to financially support the boy and he should never be cut off from his father's family.

Her family should inform the late guy's family of the pregnancy, all interactions must be recorded.

Your parents enabled him and still doing so.

Even the Catholic Church would end such marriage.

successmatters:
Ok, Nigerians, you have heard it. They said they shot 8 terrorists but they somehow forgot to write down their names or even take their pictures of the terrorists or their alleged seized ammunition.

You are expected to believe that the FG is fighting terrorism. If you don't believe without questioning them, they will insult you. Beware.

You clearly did not read through.

Beautiful, wishing her a happy birthday.

Can FFK even be bold enough to run for Local government chairmanship without being thrashed?

Well he is being paid for his nuisance value, loyalty for hire

"No Money Paid For Victims".

Saifullah01:
Slavery 2.0.
They are no longer forcing us across the sea to work on their plantations. They entice us through rag tag offers designed to perpetuate your slavery to their schemes

You are free to stay back in Nigeria and enjoy your "freedom"!

Beautiful.

RUDEBOYY:
Yes he is my elder brother.

Biological?

RUDEBOYY:
Please this have been giving me serious taughts and worry when ever I think about it.
I don't know if what I know as my age is really my real age.
Me elder brother was born on November and I was born on June of the following year,so from my calculations my elder brother only senior me with just 7months
Please how possible is this??

Is your elder brother, your biological brother?

prophetwis:
Still wonder why someone who can afford a comfortable life in Nigeria ,will nearly turn to a beggar all in the name of relocation.

Why should one turn a beggar because of relocating to the UK?

Look out for clearance sales in Tesco, Sainburys, Morrison etc especially in the evenings.

Olasyke:
Hope your wife is working? Hope she has a hustle that brings in tangible profit? You have four kids and this is nigeria. I wouldn't want anything happening to you and the kids would later have to turn to all sorts to survive.

Most single income households in today's Nigeria, are just a bump away from collapse. You see kids ending up being shared out as househelps, street hawkers, even to the sad extent of 12 year old girls engaging in prostitution because the breadwinner passed on or struggling with poor health..

Olu1000:
Under customary law , introduction is equal to marriage.

Is introduction, traditional marriage in Yorubaland?

Kajaard:
If it was in Nigeria the government authorities will cover the bomb back and leave the residents to their fate

Until it explodes.

Sighs....

Her location?

Exquisitely:
I stayed because I thought it's not okay to leave a relationship once you get into it. I also thought it was a temporary issue and timing. It seems I was wrong.

It is okay to leave a relationship when it is draining you, as not all relationship should end in marriage.

Eyah

Ex-husband? From the story they only had the introduction.

The woman has no right to change the child's surname unless the woman is certain and even with a DNA test, that the man's isn't the biological father of the child but the now husband though I love the man's fighting spirit and I hope for his sake, the child is biologically his

Another essay .