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Action taken because the incident was recorded and went viral.

Sad.

Just wasted a human life!

It is certainly not the husband's obligation but he can always out of his freewill assist whenever he can or are the men in the wife's family handicapped?

omopapa:
Not as easy as it sounds Cus the behaviour of these kids can’t be compared with those in Nigeria

I can imagine, "small fear" still dey the eyes of kids in Nigeria.

And you didn't notice any of what you listed while dating?

Another bigotry inducing thread!

An avenue to misappropriate resources daily.

omopapa:
Yes

That would be a nice experience.

cococandy:
Another day. Another bucket of tears on Nigerian girls issues. Never seen people who nag and whine like some NL guys. It’s a daily dose of medication. They need to complain and disparage ladies on the daily in order to be happy.

Displacement, the softer target as their defense mechanism to cope with unresolved fixations in their own lives. So for many of them, shaming women is like attending a therapy session to make them "feel" good about themselves.

Good she will be going for assessment at the Neuropsychiatric Hospital. She will likely stand trial but hope when convicted, serve her jail term in the prison section of a psychiatric hospital if Nigeria has one.

Your kid brother is not deliberate about what you have shared, he is simply living with learning disabilities which you can read more on at https://www.webmd.com/children/guide/detecting-learning-disabilities

He is just a child with Special Educational Needs and Disabilities (SEND). Your using a belt on him is so wrong and traumatizing to the child and he will likely subconsciously attach learning to punishment thus making your efforts counterproductive.

Read up, seek professional help.

luxy44:
Very correct Pastor. Ask them their stories. They are products of deadbeat fathers or broken homes. I just sampled all my feminist friends, they are all sad unforgiving women.

Who are these deadbeat fathers? Is it not irrational to want to repeat their mother's mistake in the choosing of men to live and have children with or is it not rational to have a different rule of engagement that would make their own daughters have healthy bonds with their fathers?

Those girls you folks are always creating threads, to "yab" them under the disguise you are telling them the "truth", are they not sisters to the guys that impressions are being given that they are properly raised and got life figured out? Those Nigerian girls are not ghosts and they come from families and also do have brothers, let every Nigerian guy "counsel" his sister(s) since he is more knowledgeable about life, so that we will have less of those "Nigerian girls".

riches4me:
Pls nairalanders, I just want a general opinion on the best ways to treat a wife that has strong opinions about almost everything around the house. from the way kids should be trained to the cleaniness around the house when hers is to the level of OCD.

What made you come up with OCD?

From the little you shared, am looking at OCPD.

halogate:
..sounds like an assignment on Philosophy
"Ethics/Legality of abortion"

Covered same in my Ethics class.

omopapa:
MSc Biomedical Sciences and I’m already working with NHS

Was gonna go into teaching Cus I love teaching and I see some opportunities there for me

Teaching at the high school level?

Undilutedme:
If you engage her in a dialogue, she'll pick offense. I've tried many times. And to add too, she complains virtually about everything. She'll hardly see what you do as good.

My dad is late.

How was your relationship with her when your dad was still around?

Personally, I have adopted an open mind regarding September resumption, as I am okay with the possibility of January 2021 face to face classes as taking online classes will not work fine for me.

The OP is catching his cruise with the responses.

Exc2000:
Ok.. but the ratio is scary Kano 6 : Nigeria 4

Because of less health seeking and promotion habits in Kano thus their recording the 60% of the national death.

Femich18:
Kano state death rate is just less than Lagos with 1 death despite Lagos having more than twice of the confirmed cases. survival rate of Kano Convid 19 patients is lower then
May God help us

It is just like the case of HIV, women are more likely to acquire HIV and we have more HIV positive women than men but more men die of it than women, a FACT.

Exc2000:
I still don't get why Kano keep releasing its updates separately from NCDC

They are being state specific, for us to know that of the 10 deaths announced by NCDC that 6 were from Kano and of the 242 new cases, 64 is from Kano which is about 24%.

Netochi:
Please I need your help please. My Seven year old son behaves like someone that have inferiority complex, he get easily bullied even by little kids of 2years. It really breaks my heart to see it and even my younger daughter have started following that foot step though she is better than her elder brother. I don't know what to do to raise a stronger son who can stand up for himself. I plan to enrol him in a military school to harden him. Please I need your advice to raise my kids to be wiser, more confidence and brave

From what you shared, I perceive your kids are dealing with what in child psychology is called insecure attachment. Seek a child psychologist, therapeutic interventions will help your kids.

Yawns.

Very inappropriate.

Personalities dey for this world o!

agentzico:
I wish the relevant authorities and stakeholders can see your point. NCDC and health ministry officials need revolutionary orientation on how "Covid-19 psychology". There are steps you have to take for the public, confirmed cases and recovered patients to buy into the pandemic fight.

How would you feel when you're told..."Oga sorry o, your corona status na confirm o".

haba!

me go run.

They ignored the mental health aspect of it. I work in a psychiatric hospital, the psychologist is equally important in the treatment plan because it is not just about the psychiatrist prescribing the medication the nurses are to give the patients because patients very easily refuse medication, so the psychologist is called in and he/she gets to sit down with the patient, empathizes while exploring with the patient reasons they refused treatment and help them gain insight why it is for their good if they maintain adherence.

Before going into isolation, these people ought to be offered therapy to make them feel at ease and while in there the therapy continues over the phone or video call where available. They should be well fed and concerns not diminished.

A man is not an invalid.

It is not about women, even snakes hate the smell thus wherever they perceive garlic, snakes respect themselves and change direction.

Aprokodaughter:
That University of Chester. It is well let me face my front.

Do share your view.