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pu7pl3:
Thanks

:-D relax. My own na make una no trouble people for Ucl. Na jux my own be that.

pu7pl3:
Lmaooooooooo

lol, dnt laugh. Seriously i am playing catch up. I need to meet u guys, cover the gap.

pu7pl3:
Minemrys check out this new thread title

duhh, corky winners. Am happy hating and being envious of u lots.

pu7pl3:
Hala Madrid bruh we did it again

congrats, man. But d0n't win the Ucl in the c0ming 10years. Jux dnt dare. We need to catch up. Atleast 10 against 13, lol.

Hala pu7pl3!

Lucrativress:
You don't just go ahead asking every lady you come across out,do you?
Really?
Oh I think I like her,then fiam! can we date?
Really?
Just like that without thinking of anything?
Haba
Why would a Pastor waste his time with a known Prostitute when he maybe wants a Virgin,this isn't the matter of expectations but placing value on yourself as a man.
You don't just act,you think before you act

lol, u are a very funny pers0n u kn0w that? I dnt think a resp0nsible guy goes asking every gal he meets out. There is usually an attracti0n, s0mething he likes in her b4 he approaches. And trust me, u can't say u kn0w people just by sneaking into doing studies. Cos every0ne has their own percepti0n. U have to get to meet the pers0n, and that's the 1st date. Background findings are often very wr0ng cos eyes and minds vary. Plus, u dnt judge people by what otherz say abt them. That's why people court or date.

SweetCunt97:
Then you simply should ask her to explain what she meant. If it's favorable to you, u continue. If not, you move. Life's that simple

exactly what the OP said b4 u all bashed the fella. And came up with defenses.

SweetCunt97:
You crybabies should go listen to Bill Withers song "Lean On Me" and be wise. Generation on mature responsible men is fast eroding unfortunately.

0n a 1st date? U didn't read what the OP typed, did you? U guys are basically strangerz on a 1st date. Both of u owe each other n0thing. It's a casual meet up. Same reas0n the rule, 'd0n't kiss or sex on the 1st date' is a thing. Cos u owe n0thing to him or her. It's after you've said yes to being in a relati0nship, and i'm sure naija gals dnt say yes that very day, that u can go all em0ti0nal.

Lucrativress:
A guy that has done his studies on the lady he's intending to ask out would act on his finding's
I don't think there's more to this
If he decides to act on his finding's fine,if he decides to be sentimental and jump into conclusion, I'm sorry then he is quite stupid,if you think every good lady should be programmed in one particular way,that's unwise

lol, am a very liberal pers0n, and i believe every w0man should have their own pers0nality. But ur view ir0nically has the w0man n0t being her own pers0n on a 1st date other than being the mind game playing lady cliche out there. And c0me to think of it, why would a guy have to do a study on a gal, rather than have a direct meeting with her to kn0w her? This is why relati0nships fail. Expectati0ns. And to be h0nest, this is way out of the actual topic. I d0n't even kn0w how we got to this topic. Okay, the thing is, people d0n't kn0w what the meaning of 1st date is. S0me myopically think it's a marriage interview. It's n0t. It's just a hang out with s0me0ne u are interestd in to see if both of u have chemistry to start out a relati0nship. The em0ti0nal/psychological stuff c0mes after ur minds are made up. Then, u ask questi0ns like where's this going, can u take care of me etc. 0n a 1st date, u guys are strangers. N0w, u d0n't ask people u meet if they can take care of u, can you? Nah. Cos it's n0t certain u guys are a thing or would be.

Crownstar01:
Hahaha. That's a psychological question but unfortunately you failed to realize that.

Every woman wants to be reassured that a man in their life is a man, not just a weak one. Hope you got my drift?

chief, what's a 1st date? A first date is like going to a f0otball viewing centre, meeting s0me like minded guys and building a rapport with them. A first date is meant to be casual, friendly, informal, abt chemistry. Playing mind games already would kill the vibe that instant. As in, it's being already critical of the pers0n without actually kn0wing them. Una wey dy watch telemundos, una d0n see where them work that line inside script?

Lucrativress:
This isn't a matter of respect na kinide
Kilagbe kileju
This is a simple situation of being overly blunt
With tactical reasoning,he can answer it wisely
Instead of interpreting all sort of mannerisms to it,let him first think before he answers or ask the same question na.
Ewo tu ni respect nibe nsi?

first, n0t every0ne understands an0ther's native language aside the lingua franca. Sec0nd, why ask that when even a weakling would answer Yes? H0nestly, m0st times, ladies are the reas0n for abuse in a relati0nship/ marriage. A 1st date is just a fun time. Having small gists to see if both have chemistry. It's the chemistry that'll sustain the relati0nship. Unless the gal isn't interestd in a relati0nship but a parasitic adventure or a one sided affair. You guys aren't yet a thing, and bringing up em0ti0nal baggage on that day is a big no. It's like submitting your cv and inside, u ask the employer, "can you afford me?". As in, if u d0n't think highly of that pers0n, why go on a date with him? Am n0t saying the questi0n is wr0ng, but it's wr0ng to ask that on a 1st date. To be h0nest, if u ask me that on a 1st date, i'd turn the questi0n on the gal and have her spill things abt herself she might n0t be ready to tell me in that m0ment.

blinkz4real:
"Can u take care of me" is not always what ur small mind is telling u she is thinking. She could mean can u be my support system, can I really share my thots n feelings 2 u n u won't tk me 4granted or tk advantage of me, can I confide in u, can u be a person who can advise her on d right path 2 success. How abt that?

Don't always think its ur money she is after bros, have respect 4 women pls n if others do it don't assume all of dem re like that.

Moreover u re the man are u not suppose 2 take care of ur woman? Anyway sha its for matured n responsible men 2 undstnd but pls try 2 reason things positively n u ll c women respect n adore u.

oga, there are respectful ways to put all that. Asking s0me0ne who u want to get into a relati0nship with is like saying, "i d0ubt u are my mate". As in, u guys are just abt getting to kn0w each other, dude, it's when u are into courting that she can really ask that questi0n. Read what the OP typed, he is talking abt the 1st date. Asking a questi0n like, 'can u take care of me' sounds very rude. U guys aren't c0nfirmed to be a thing yet.

THUNDAR:
Seriously guys! things are not Really what they seems on the first date, just because she asked "can you take care of me" on the first date does not mean Jack, there are smart and intelligent ladies Who would purposely say annoying things on first date to see How you react, and may turn up to be independent women. just the way you keep checklists and tick Which she fails and passes so some of them do too. But some of them (a lot actually) na Akamu they say it as they feel!

i disagree. Relati0nship is about respect. And a lady asking that questi0n 0n a first date, shows she doesn't respect you.

gypsey:
it is an african achaic mentality and White people don't give shit what hand you hand them something with? believe it or not, what kinda stupid courtesy discriminates body parts? is left hand not part of ones body? ridiculous!

See ehn, courtesy is courtesy. Respect na respect. Even whites, when they greet their boss, they n0d their head. When they greet, they either stand firm and shake hands or n0d and smile. I have watchd whites c0mplimenting and handing things out, they do it with their right. It's different if u are handicapped. The afro mentality there na, every0ne is superstitious and are quick to feel undermined when they d0n't recieve respect. S0me people if u d0n't greet them, they start thinking u are their enemy. So imagine u handing m0ney with ur left to an elder n0w, he'd feel insulted or feel u are wishing him bad. But using ur right is a mark of respect. Or why must we kn0ck b4 we enter people's r0oms? Or wear corp0rate clothes to work?

andyanders:
What of a left handed person? U've to stop the mentality of respect herein.
If u bring out $100 bill, same person or u, who claim to be seeking respect, will grab the money. Anybody can give me anything with any hand he/she likes, and I don't give a Bleep.

guy, take am easy. Me and u no get quarrell na.
why do u recieve or give a handshake with ur right? See ehn, courtesy is courtesy. Respect na respect. Even whites, when they greet their boss, they n0d their head. When they greet, they either stand firm and shake hands or n0d and smile. I have watchd whites c0mplimenting and handing things out, they do it with their right. It's different if u are handicapped. The afro mentality there na, every0ne is superstitious and are quick to feel undermined when they d0n't recieve respect. S0me people if u d0n't greet them, they start thinking u are their enemy. So imagine u handing m0ney with ur left to an elder n0w, he'd feel insulted or feel u are wishing him bad. But using ur right is a mark of respect. Or why must we kn0ck b4 we enter people's r0oms? Or wear corp0rate clothes to work?

EyezofGod120:
that means left hand is useless then

why do u recieve or give a handshake with ur right? See ehn, courtesy is courtesy. I have watchd whites c0mplimenting and handing things out, they do it with their right. It's different if u are handicapped.

EyezofGod120:
na African mentality,,, if I use left hand give u money and regect,,I go use d left hand put am back for my pocket

guy, respect is respect. Why d0n't u greet ur guys with ur left hand? Forget Afro mentality, i d0n't see the sense in handing s0me0ne s0mething with ur left when ur right is free. Even the whites d0n't do that. Have u seen a white give c0mpliments with his left? Nah. It's n0t Afro mentality. It's just courtesy.

phemmyfour:
I ve seen your level of understanding...noted

thanks for the insult.

phemmyfour:
You are just ignorance of so many things. You know little about football. When a team is dominant, it means they are constantly in your face. Barca made nothing less than 7-8 semis

The dominant era of ajax in the 90s didn't translate to many ucl

bros, u can't say a team is d0minant without winning titles. That way u can also say man city or chelsea were d0minant in the ucl. It's the team that wins that is recorded. Like madrid. How can barca be c0nstantly in man u or chelsea's face when they weren't often eliminated by barca?

TheKingIsHere:
Star girl latest episode was really good.

Now, everybody knows how is superhero and who is super villain.

But this Courtney is really annoying sha

the courtney character is developing without her changing all of a sudden. But what i find funny was the cheap writing of her discovering jordan was icicle. That's way t0o cheap abeg. People dy lift hot f0od without any fuzz. Plus, the guy na man. That writing was t0o easy. What i expectd was that after icicle lifted the plate, and after the dinner, courtney would go on to get the plate and n0tice how cold it suddenly was. Still on still, the epis0de was great. But i fear for seas0n 2 sha. Kn0wing the cw, they w0n't live up to it. That language icicle was speaking, was it n0rweigian or icelandic?

TheKingIsHere:
‘JOKER’ is reportedly the most popular movie on HBO Max.

I was expecting BVS UE to be the most popular with all the hype, but like I said, no matter how good Zack's movie is, certain factors will always hinder his shine if he doesnt adjust and play the game.

One point i always raise is timing...Joker is 2hours, BVS is about 3Hrs+, so you can see the edge in terms of re-watch-ability Joker has over BVS.

Thank goodness WB was smart enough to make ZSJL a series, so I have high hopes for its success.

Zack has what it takes to be the best and most sort for director, he just needs to know how to play the game better. The future is bright for him.

is it c0nfirmed it's a mini series? Last i heard, they haven't reached a c0nsensus.

phemmyfour:
Liverpool wasn't a weak team, they were consistent and active in cup competitions those years.

If you remove Barca domination era, Man U, Arsenal and Chelsea would have won 6 ucls together. In fact , two of them were in the final in 2008

A big player is known based on his play stat and not no of UCL won. Ibrahimovic has never won the ucl

the liverpool of the 2005 ucl final were a weak team c0mpared to the clubs of that era, plus they were p0or. They didn't even make top 4 that seas0n. U are talking abt barca d0minance, barca only w0n back to back once, guy. So many teams were d0minant. Man u or chelsea u are saying rarely met barca bk then. They were eliminated by different clubs. Chelsea very often by a weak Liverp0ol. So what are u saying? Cos L.f.c were active in cup c0mpetiti0ns, didn't mean they w0n them. U and i kn0w Liverp0ol in stevie g time were damn weak. Else why did the name lo0serp0ol c0me up? Teams enjoyed playing us. And yes, a player is rated n0t by stats al0ne but by titles w0n. If na by stats, why people dy m0ck Okocha, or gerrard for n0t winning an epl title? Oh, why aren't they rating harry kane with his stats. Playerz say it themselves. If u win a Ucl medal, u are am0ng the elites.

marriagebyigbo:
Trump is really the main man... The boss... China go cry wennnn


Chai, this a is big blow to Ronaldo..


Ronaldo must be crying bitterly now..

Trump has finished his dream.

Trump, the number 1 Messi supporter

All his actions has always favoured Messi and Barcelona.

To. Ronaldo fans

guy, go back and read what u typed. This is the politics secti0n.

BOOOMNAIJA:
China is really flexing it's muscles in the face of d USA of recent...

Who do u think deserves to be d most powerful country on Earth today?

Like for d USA, share for China.

n0ne. Being m0st powerful spells trouble for all. N0w quit joking with s0mething n0t trivial.

chuxyfranklin:
I think Trump should thread carefully and look at the pros and cons before making decisions.

He's too rash and emotional in his decision making and it's not healthy for his re-election ambitions.

leave re electi0n bid 1st, it's n0t healthy for a world leader that need allies. Leadership is all abt charisma, getting people to do what u want without coerci0n or intimidati0n. Trump is sure making enemies for U. S. Same thing england did bk then.

Openbusiness3:
China is barking up the wrong tree. America go finish dem. They beta give dia sef correct brain.

china is a sovereign nati0n. Plus, u are a nigerian. Y u c0me dy settle dis matter?

Donniest22:
No need, Leicester city is a big team, and we don't sweat big teams
Besides Liverpool isn't really a good name, looser pool fits them very well

yea, cos they've lost the number of games ur club has. Mtcheww.

phemmyfour:
Porto was Portuguese Champion.

Leicester went as EPL champion, that squad was far better and stronger than this present team

That Liverpool team you tagged "weak" was in Carling cup final same season and defeated Juve and Chelsea on their way to UCL final

and yet said Liverpool team didn't make top 4 that seas0n. The liverpool that made it to 2 ucl finals didn't win the league, heck they lost games at the the group stage and required miracle to get through. U can't c0mpare portuguese league with others. Ur argument abt wolves or leicester no follow at all. Of all the big players that man u, arsenal or chelsea had, how many ucl did they win?

Angelfrost:
Thankfully, it's not down to your "killing" prowess!!!

Those guys can't go the distance... They should earn it by finishing top 6 yearly for a few seasons first. That's the way to go.

hope u kn0w leicester city made it into the ucl quarter final in their 1st try? Ur theory is baseless. Wolves can't go far yet m0urinho got porto to win it. Liverpo0l w0n it with a weak team against a mighty Ac milan. Ogbeni, f0otball isn't like that. If wolves keep same playerz into the ucl, they'd get to the quarter final. They're still in europa league mind you. Whereas ajax, etc are out. Watch epl f0otball, teams like sheffield and wolves would shake things. After all, so called establishd teams of urs d0n't go past quarters s0me times.

kinibigdeal:
Wolve will perform better than United at the UCL

that guy no dy watch epl. Leave am.

Angelfrost:
Truth be told.... I want England well represented in Europe next season. Hence, I want the following qualifying for UCL:

Liverpool
Man City
Chelsea and Man United (In whatever order)

Leicester and Wolverhampton have no business in UCL abeg.

c dis one. I'll kill to see wolves in the Ucl.

Donniest22:
No problems, I can assure you that palace is well prepared for,
West Ham will cause just a little trouble then,
I challenge you to win looser pool and wolves then I'll realize that you really had a better season than me

really? U want their help and u still have the guts to say looserpool? Better worry abt leicester on final day.