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pocohantas:
No. He obviously doesn't want to leave. What will anyone say here that he doesn't know already?

So, he should keep forgiving her.

You were most definitely being funny

Fuckgratulations:
tell her exactly what it means, if you fail to tell her someone else will do it for you. let it be part of her sex education, you never can tell how beneficial it could be to her.

Sex ed. at 8years old?

You have already answered even if it was just mumbling & i doubt she would ask again.
Any time my 6yr old God-daughter asks those kind of grownup questions and she does ask a lot of them, i just say you're a kid and i can't explain it in a way you will understand. Sometimes she becomes persistent & keeps asking, i then tell her not to worry, that i will tell her the meaning when she turns 7.
I believe there are now about four or five things i have promised to tell her when she turns 7, but by God she never remembers what the last question was everytime a new one comes up.

iykbethany:
Ladies pls stop sending your nude photos to men, especially if he is not your husband.

Some men � don't have sense, once you guys fight or quarrel he may want to use those nudes against you.

Remember that your lover or best friend today could be your worst enemy tomorrow.

A real boyfriend or husband will not ask you to send him nudes bc your nudes can't do us nothing. Let's say I'm in Jamaica and my wife is in Kafanchan, wetin her nude pics wan do for me if I'm horney? NOTHING.

In many cases it's even girls that willingly send nudes to different men for whatever reason.

I'm not judging anyone as we are all sinners and no one is above mistake, but pls if you are in the habit of sending nudes to men pls stop now. What if your phone is stolen or hacked?

REMEMBER, REAL MEN DON'T ASK FOR NUDES...
Shalom

So much in one post. I don't want to call bullsheet on you but heck,I'm married to the man i shared my nudes with when we were just friends. So?

Pascopele:
Honestly, our men are not doing well.... You know you will have a reason(s) why you won't marry her you still went ahead and got her
Pregnant....
I really feel for all these ladies because I can imagine what most of them are passing through emotionally and otherwise in the name of love and to satisfy their men sexually, as well protect the relationship.....

If you are a man in this group and you have done this to any lady, I urge you to go back to her and marry her before the wrath of God will befall on you. Don't think God is not interested in such cases, He will visit you one day with punishment for putting that lady in a state of roundabout. Read this message and do the necessary things about the woman you impregnated.

This must surely be a Nigerian men and women thing. Most women in contemporary societies know that the decision to get pregnant or stay pregnant lies solely with them.
My point being,a woman like me would only ever get pregnant when i want to and if I do then the nigga wants to flake on me, well that's his loss.

twerkjack:
So I met this girl Phina at my new job as a Public Relations Manager for a top night club in Lagos.

She also works there.

She dresses and talks and walks like a man. In short she’s a tomboy..

The first day I set eyes on her my heart skipped at least 3 beats.

I don’t know what it is about her that messes with my fantasies..

I find myself staring at her all day everyday..

Recently I’ve been having this dream of a lesbian romance with her.

I’m not and have never been a lesbian. The only time I’ve been close to it was during my secondary school days in a boarding school, where I had this thing (romance) with my girl friend, but that was a one time thing and once I started having d1ck I never looked back..

I like boys and I was very confident about my sexuality.
But this girl...
She makes me doubt my sexuality.

She’s nice and when she spoke to me for the first time I almost melted..

I want her I really do...

What can I do about this?

I need Help!

Ps: i don’t want any religious bs...
I don’t need anyone cussing on me..
I need advice!

Nice try boy,this ain't exactly how girls crushing on other girls talk or type on it, but nice try.

VRDroid:
The husband is insecure. The woman is not the issue. It is likely the husband is an illiterate or poor or both

Good one,although i wouldn't have put it like this.
I'm thinking the husband told her to always cover up her body in front of her cousins.

Nico4luv:
Is it normal for a married woman to be nude always before her younger cousin sister at home. When she sees her husband around, she comport herself... But
she is not ashamed to be nude before her husband when they are alone

Pls is there any hidden agender? Any advice? Thanks
NB: Only matured minds will understand..... Not for novice...

What are you suggesting,that she's trying to get down with her younger cousin?

hurthubby:
I was 100% faithful to her, for over 16 years till i discovered that she's something else, that she can't change

Bless your heart sir. If all you're reporting is true,then bless your heart sir.

pocohantas:
Forgive her.

Women are polygamous in nature.

Just focus on your children, she'll definitely get tired and come back to you. They always do...

You're being funny right?

Hi bukatyne, I hope you remember me.
About the question you asked on my thread, answer is the latter. It Happened last December.

Hmmmm interesting

Abbeybailey:
Absolutely yes. The pig supporters are trying to the narrative here because all they do is watch the racist Faux News and Right wing hate blogs. Who takes away little children from their parents except a racist and a vile sadist. I am a father of four and i dare anyone to take any of my kids away from me. The pig caved in from tremendous amount of pressure from all Americans. One thing i am certain of is that the racist pig tenure will end up on a sad note for him because America don't tolerate despotic wanna be leaders . This Lucas by the way.

Hmmmm,okay then. Been seeing a lot of conflicting stories on who exactly created the policy which Trump claims to just be enforcing. Good to know he has signed an executive order to roll back the policy.

Lol, Rudy the axe wielder.

Lucasbalo:
Pressure of the American people is getting to the racist pig now. He's going to sign an executive order to do away with Hitler's style of separating children from their parents. Stanech, Timbuktu and the other brainstems supporting Hitler lite, take notice. Good Americans will overcome the racist pig. It's a matter of time.

Hi Lucas, long time. I need to know if you think it was Donald Trump who started the process of separating children from their parents.

crackhaus:
Zamo had a lot to say.. you two are no different

Savage

Glad you turned out 'kay, this is what matters in retrospect.

crackhaus:
Shhhh, don't tell her...

I haven't chatted with her in a while, what a terrible friend I've been

crackhaus:
This is quite rich coming from a character who made references to me on two occasions when I was not even chatting with her
On Kanwulia's thread, you mentioned me (something about arguing too much) and I simply responded with a quote by Harlan Ellison.

That was not enough for you, you then came on a thread where I and Mindfulness were having a go at our usual banters and what did you do.. you made a reference to a clapping gif I posted then called me an idíot for clapping. I totally ignored you there just for the fact you were a coward for not typing my handle along with the comment and responding to it would only give you attention.

Now here you are preaching to the choir which is quite hilarious considering that I have never once quoted you, not to mention how you're the one constantly màsturbàting and having siezures over my comments.. Well like I noted earlier, you presuming to give me feedback which I neither asked nor cared for is rich. So rich in fact that I now feel a worthy sense of moral duty to offer you some feedback of my own, and here goes:

I do not care about you or what you stand for, I don't even try to engage you in any discussions here just for the simple reason that I find nothing worth a response anytime I read your comments. Please I suggest you do the same to me and ignore, possibly scroll past any comment you come accross that has crackhaus as its author. This is very easy I assure you.
And keep your damn opinions of me or your percieved level of my intelligence to yourself - this here is a forum, nobody cares what you think. Say what you need to say about the topic and move along.

No hard feelings...

So you're still this savage

kimjongJezebel:
My ebony self

You're so gorgeous.

nenye994:
Hi dear..pls I really need to ask you a few questions. Its quite urgent. Wud try to pm u. thank you

I can't access the mail I used to open this account, I'm sorry I didn't see this on time as I haven't logged in here in a while.

Do you mind dropping a phone number so I can reach out to you if you're still interested?

donsimo:
Better odds with ceased, but am not sure if any would even want you again, I mean this is two friends, and its like you are play both sides.

Yes they are friends but they don't talk to each other personally like that.
Yes I know it looks like I'm playing both sides, I accept that assumption.
Caeser still wants to be with me even after I told him who the boyfriend is, he says since he didn't know this before falling in love then he doesn't care.

Caveatemptor:
Why is this in the family section?
What a poorly written novel.

I'm not a trained writer

DedeNkem:
Before I give any advice, I must say that uour story could have fitted well in four paragraphs at most!

When next you tell a story on a forum, make it damn short! Go into details only when people request! You are not blogging here. If your story MUST be long, make sure it worth it!!

My take on your story;
- Sara is a player.

- She's dribbling the two guys.

- If she didn't love her one-year man, she won't call him her boyfriend. Unless she is a gold digger.

- There's absolutely nothing wrong in "rushing" to marry your love when it is clear you may lose him or her to someone else if you didn't. I'm talking about her one-year boyfriend.

- Why is she finding it hard to end a relationship with a man she claimed she has no love for?

- Her mother or anyone has no right to force her into marrying anyone she loves or not! We are in 2018 not 19018!

- Does Caeser loves her? Only Caeser can tell. But I have my reservation in my summary.

- If she loves Caeser, she should go for it. One shouldn't marry for marrying sake. Only marry someone you love and who loves you too.

My advice:
There's a big difference between having a crush on someone and actually loving someone. You can't love someone you're not already dating! Love at first sight doesn't exist.

Sara should be true to herself and stop playing games!

Thanks.

I didn't plan to make my post long sir, I wrote straight from my heart and tried to include as many details as possible so you all can get the full picture. I'm not a professional writer

freecocoa:
Its obvious you think this place is filled with stupid kids, to come up with this nonsense of an annoying story, mschew.

Smh

cassyrooy:
Sara, your problem is very a critical one, a wrong choice and an uncertain one.

My lil contribution:

1. Don't marry for the sake of pressure/pity; your mother's pressure might be strong but try to keep deflecting it.

2. Ceaser is a very uncertain choice, he might be peppering you up to feed on any mistake; he knows your desire and possible position and can manipulate it just to 'cut his share' and move on, without any regards for the consequences that you may face.

3. To the bf that wasted time before trying to get her wedded too sha has some fault, delay is dangerous. What was he thinking all year?

4. To the mom, calm down, in your era, photographs might have been used to marry and later love blossom, but these modern eras has spell more marital crisis and the trend ain't slowing down for no one. Consider and picture your daughter in the best and most happiest union that will leave you proud and happy as a mother.

Parents should just jettison this idea of having age ceilings for their children, it tend to bestow unwanted pressure on them. Marriage self no be by force na.

Lemme park here!


But the story get as e be sha!

Mum cares too much about what people will think of her only daughter, I honestly don't understand why she would be giving ultimatums

ruggedtimi:
tell caesar to go back to rome.

Lol, that's not his real name.
I don't know who might be reading hence the name changes