₦airaland Forum

majamajic:
still wondering how 2 very dark parents gave birth to 3 very fair girls

sorry I don't waste my congrats on celebraties weddings

As if you don't know what happened to the colour.

xendra:
God forbid! I reject men like you in my prayers everyday.

My sister, na so we be all o,
so beta be ready.

Na the reason why the holy-holy northerners in power wan deal with am by force. They see him as a miscreant.

Saw a video recently of him with his goons as one of them beats the shaking b.are pantless nak.ed but.ts of a girl in a club with other pant-wearing girls.

midnighter:
Nope, Nigerian women's mentality is a reaction to oppression and patriarchy that brainwashes us into thinking that our worth is defined by how far a man is willing to go for us.

If you people would give us some credit instead of messing us up at every corner we would give you some breathing space because we would find fulfillment in our own success instead of attaching it to yours.

You can't be the dominant element in a system and then complain that the person below you is pushing you to bully them unless you acknowledge that you are the originator of the initial problem by virtue of your oppression.

So are you trying to say that the reason why white people have historically oppressed black people is because black people push them to the wall Arrant nonsense.

Like the apple in the garden of eden, Lucifer has devised another means to make the Woman rebel against God's natural order. Feminism and especially the fake one by Nigerian women will get them nowhere. Why? Because there is no oppression anywhere in the first place. God's scheme of things can never be changed.

The man is and remains the head. Women equating themselves with men under the guise of liberation from whatever oppression is an experiment that will never work but lead to chaos.

Except you are an atheist, whichever faith you practice goes in line with my submission above. Christianity and Islam have no traces of Feminism even though Christians exhibit it majorly because Islam condemns it vehemently.

midnighter:
At the bolded, nobody here is suggesting that.

If you've told her to step it up and she doesn't listen then you can choose to move on.

And if a lady is stingy with money when you've already requested her assistance and contribution to the household finances then she is a selfish and inconsiderate person.

Are you okay now

Nigerian women's mentality is different from other women's and Nigerian men's mentality is TOTALLY ANATHEMA to that of men in other places so you have no point whatsoever.

The Nigerian men's mentality you think is different is actually reaction to Nigerian women's obstinate, manly and entitlement mentalities.

ngwababe:
Checking the OP's profile picture and signature, you'll just know she posted opposite of what she is. They post to gather likes, and nothing more.
Don't bother yourself sis, this is just copy and paste.

Make una dey defend bad thing make e worse.

Can you not see that the mentality of Nigerian girls/women is different from the mentality of other girls/women elsewhere?

In fact, Naija girls/women mata taya pesin, same thing with everyone of them. Before you see the very few exceptions, e go tey.

Everyone is meant to be ambitious and to be working on becoming successful. Men are automatically wired that way already. Women should be too, but sadly they are not. The very few ones that are (I mean very few) would not contribute their money to the well-being of the family.

midnighter:
You are quoting me out of context; read the post of the person who I was responding to first.

If you think she should bring more to the table then tell her what you want from her instead of rubbishing her efforts.

Cooking food alone does not make somebody useless and refusing to build on it does not invalidate the necessity or value of cooking. A serious man should appreciate it as a skill and help his partner to take it from there.

Youre being purposefully disingenuous; if the majority of men cooked their own food would we be having this discussion?

Rubbishing her efforts comes when she refuses to bring more to the table even when told to do so and she thinks the cooking and other added things are enough already. Such stubborn ones are capable of making the man die quicker because the load is all on him.

And that there is the picture of most Nigerian homes. Before you see exceptions, e go tey. Why? They've gotten used to getting things easily while single when they made every man feel that they've got options.

Worsestill, the few ones allowed to work would spend their salaries on themselves alone, leaving the burden of the family on the man as the head alone. The small brain women have is responsible for such mentality. Head here means to coordinate affairs of the family.

Nigerian girls/women have a lot of work to do on themselves. The girls/women elsewhere don't have the mentalities Nigerian girls/women operate with.

DenreleDave:
How is it use and dump? Didn't they enjoy each other while having sex, wasn't d lady shout harder harder fukc me Bleep me hard.. So which one is use and dump again

Bros na where I give up on Nigerian girls be dat o.
They tend to think that sex is a favour offered to guys/men by them...that mentality among many other mentalities they have is crazy. I no just know why Naija girls/women different.

Gordieshegz:
Yours is better bro..
I helped a young lady find her lost purse in a bus last week Thursday. And while looking into the purse, I saw her phone number written on a mini diary. So, I decided to call her to hand her stuff over to her.

She picked the call and was very happy. By the way, I stay abit far from where she lives. So, she resolved to coming for its collection in the evening time.

Lo and behold, she showed up around 5:40pm and I handed over her purse to her, bid her goodbye and turned back to be leaving. After taking about 3steps, she stopped to tell me she had no fee for her return fare and pleaded if I could reimburse her.

The very mistake I made was giving her the last #500 I had in my wallet. She must have seen some nice guy.

Would you believe should I tell you that this young lady sent me a text the following morning(5:30am) that she needed #5,000 to settle bills and annual level at school?

I called her around 7am to be sure if she knew who she sent a text and re-established her knowledge of me.
Consequently, I gave her a polite lecture that she should have recieved from home a long time ago: on content, dignity, timing and self esteem.
Asking for such from a total stranger showed how much of self respect she had.

That's how they are - small brain, or fish brain as they are referred here. Help a woman, she will remember you when another problem comes. The enough appreciation you did not get for your assistance will be completed when her head enters Gear 4 in an altercation and she tells you to your very face "what have you even done?" even if you gave her your own eyes.

DownChelsea:
your club may be mediocre, BUT because of your honesty, I like you already. If every chelsea fan was like you, maybe they won’t tag the team with touts

And who are you?

Aunty Anti-Chelsea? Had to even express it in your moniker and signature. Why do you hate Chelsea that much if I may ask pls.

Perhaps you be MAN-U fan, the two are forever enemies of each other.

midnighter:
But he still ate the food! Thats what I dont understand. Why did he continue eating it if cooking for him is the epitome of stupidity

Do people know what it means to plan and prepare a decent meal for somebody? If its not enough for you then let the lady go and cook for somebody else haba!

The reason why the matter gets worse is because people like you keep defending something wrong.

We are talking about the woman working on herself to be profitable to herself and also assist her partner, you are talking about cooking food that the man can cook by himself too.

Ginaz:
Some people will just come and be writing rubbish . That’s how you give men the right to just do anyhow things and get away free.

Which man in his right senses would watch his girlfriend grow up with him with no dreams of her own or even if the lady doesn’t have dreams, he can’t build her up? That means the guy doesn’t care anyway and he is just using the girl for sex.

Girls I would advise you to follow men who have visions, aspirations and a future cos even if you were the most dumbest girl in the whole world, their dreams would rub off on you to make you become better.

Na only empty and wicked boyfriends na fit do that . They are building their lives , they know the girl isn’t making any steps to build hers but would hang around, f***k her for years only to dump her like a trash. If she didn’t have plans, why not leave her ? Why hang around and use her and dump her? It’s very painful .

There is no excuse whatever in the planet that justifies that. It’s very painful and I sympathize with any lady facing this situation.

The man simply would have left her since she wasn’t good enough than to dump her at the last minute.

Every man is automatically bent on making it in life. It is you ladies with your annoying sense of entitlement who have refused to work for and own your own.

Even if you want to help establish them, that mentality of having things easily is sooooo permanent in their heads that they would reject anything requiring too much effort.

No be Naija here we dey again? Nigerian girls are a problem to themselves. I have seen enough. And their fake feminism and toxic attitude in addition can make a man lose interest in them almost instantly. They will try so hard to immediately make you understand that they have options.

Na their appearance be their only concern. Before you find the exceptions you will find among them, e go tey. Nigerian girls still have a very long way to go and serious work to do on themselves.

I be Chelsea fan but I'll be honest with you
Dis jersey no follow.
Looks like the YOKOHAMA in front was originally gummed on it with brighter pieces but peeled off or something.

AfonjaBoston:
WAIT MAKE COURT GIVE JUGDEMENT
WAILING WAILER

It is either you doubt reports of Bello's misrule despite his popularity, or you are one of his loyalists satisfied with what you are enjoying from him.

Anyone wey you be na you sabi

surgical:
judiciary ?

I understand what you mean.
Yes, they are in control of the judiciary.

But Bello's case is too clear. In fact, he made himself very popular all over Nigeria. There is virtually no Nigerian who don't know about Bello.

I believe that the judiciary would want to save the face of the judiciary and deliver a just judgment, no matter the pressure.

surgical:
kogi people should have stood their ground during the election but relying on very corrupt and pretentious buhari to change what he actively participated in bringing about is asking for too much,and don't even think of the judiciary to come to the rescue,currently the judiciary is in coma,we pray and hope that someday they will come out of the coma

Kogi people, tired of Bello's misrule, came all out in their numbers, they faced the guns to vote him out. Everyone knows that the result announced were lies and efforts are currently on to change that.

Bello declared war for the election. But the people were not intimidated. I was on ground and knew what happened across the state. We are optimistic that one way or another, God will help Kogites through the judiciary.

Kogi-PDP heads to court to challenge Bello.

Maybe Buhari will pity Kogites and allow power to be taken from the hands of that m.oron called Bello.

Even if not for anything, for Nigerians to praise him (Buhari) small, he should deal with Bello. Kogi ranked as the most corrupt state recently.

Workers and pensioners are getting 30% payments under Bello, they don't even get it on time. The hardship in Kogi as a salary-driven state is terrible. Yet, Tinubu, Oshiomole and Buhari allowed the m.oron to return to power despite the widespread outcry against Bello.

Aarenaija:
This man would not stop getting people more angry.......... What does he take us for in this country self?

Jubril enjoying his contract is steadily messing up the minds of Nigerians on a daily.

Kog45:
....after tolerating Kogi State election malpractices.

If he is serious, he should nullify it or give the victory to PDP.

What happened in Kogi is unprecedented.
PDP own no reach half of wetin happen.

u11ae1013:
But you will dish out 10 billion on the eve of the election

If he is serious, he should nullify Kogi's election or give the victory to PDP.

What happened in Kogi is unprecedented.
PDP own no reach half of wetin happen.

lozanni:
This is wrong. I know so many brilliant minds from the North.
The issue is that this administration has not employed the service of sound technocrats to lead the country out of the woods; the other thing the masses have against it is, the lack of respect for the rule of the law.

I need you to give me five (5) sound northerners in the corridors of power doing well.

I have stayed in the north well enough, so I know what I am saying. The mentality is different.

Which brilliant minds? Northerners (your brilliant minds inclusive) believe that Nigeria starts and end with the north.

Your brilliant minds will not say it but it is in them that Nigeria belongs to the northerners.

Jubril is not concerned with all these bulls.hit.
He is busy chopping the life of his head. And by that, I mean literally. Na great luck say God give am head wey carry face wey resemble a president called Buhari. Jubril is busy enjoying his contract. Nobody chop life pass am aswear.

If anyone is pained, it should be the cabal (northerners). The northerners may be the political owners of this country. But I can authoritatively tell you that northerners are mentally backward and mentally uncivilized and that accounts for everything Nigerians are going through in the PMB led regime (administration). You would notice it instantly when interacting with any northerner. It is not about any Major-General anywhere.

cRobo:
Goes to show that Nigerians are the beat people that can tolerate anything


Buhari for example

True.
Tolerating Buhari (Jubril) no easy sha, but we de tolerate am de go like dat. I don't think Nigerians will tolerate him till the end of the current 4yrs in progress though.

With things getting worse and the extreme poverty prediction, Nigerians will do something. Nigerians may tolerate anything but don't be so sure that it'll always be like that o

Ghana celebrities, una own de una bodi.

All the vex na because say una already know say Naija set pass. The jealousy.

Y'all knew beforehand that her presence there would not be as lively as 9ja's own. Na why una jus de vex up & down anyhow.

uzohrome:
I love this man, we just need someone like him to be the president of this country. I am sure he would transform this country within 8 years. Yahaya Bello should learn from this man and emulate his sense of reasoning and action.

Yahaya Bello is a m.oron. His actions and inactions are proof of that if you have been following. I just pity Kogites.

You knew Bello would spill blood to get reelected if given the ticket (due to his misrule and rejection by the people) and you still gave him the ticket even when you maintained that he will not get it initially.

You have imposed him on the people for another 4yrs because he greased your palms. The lives of Kogites lost during the election and lost to Bello's misrule will judge you all.

ImaIma1:
That's why I believe it's who you mingle with. My friends are either working mothers, business mothers, single career people, etc I don't have any friend that fits into the category you mention. So I can also generalize from my own perspective that our ladies are all hardworking and responsible. It depends on what side we are looking at it from.

Please show me where I insulted you. When you quoted me, you didn't know how you sounded right. It's because you thought it was one of those ladies that you just bully and belittle with those false generalizations.

I am talking about the things happening around us, you are talking about friends.

It's very clear that it's actually getting worse because the good and bad ones among you defend and make excuses for it.

Joro, so you were not satisfied just shaking this table, you went ahead to break it and use it for firewood abi

gtown:
So you want him to cancel Bello's election, as he cancelled that of Zamfara and handed it to PDP?
Ok oooh!

If he really means well, he should have cancelled it and not even made Bello get the party's ticket in the first place, especially judging from Bello's very poor performance. They themselves once said nobody should reelect any governor who does not pay salaries.

Bello's case was so glaring for every Nigerian to see. And despite cries from Kogites, he was imposed on them again. In addition to Zamfara, allowing themselves lose Kogi would have made Nigerians believe small in APC as a well-meaning party.

They could have taken only Bayelsa and dealt with Bello in Kogi even if not for anything, for people to praise them small. But no, Oshiomole desperately wanted to replace the 2 states lost in the general election to maintain his leadership of the party and Buhari agreed with it. Well, maybe in court APC will "let Bello go" as they head to court very soon with PDP, just maybe.

The earlier y'all realize that APC is bent on making Nigeria a one-party system, the better. Heard Atiku as a major PDP financier was invited by Buhari to APC. They are bent on capturing everywhere.
In other words, APC is steadily revenging PDP's 16yrs hold on power. Dino and Bello as case studies. Bello's reelection is suppose to be canceled but Buhari doesn't think so.

Alexaonfleek:
when the spirit of the Lord is upon my soul,I will dance like DAVID danced
David danced naked......hope this rings a bell

It doesn't ring any bell.
David did not dance naked.