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ShawttySoFyne:
Nengi didn't even waste time She has positioned herself sharply

Abi

SweetCunt97:
hot temper?

She is just toxic altogether

Tango123:
If u leave the girl because u want to, or because u are seeing bad habits and behaviour in her, that is understandable

But saying a (god of man) man of God told u really makes me wonder

How sure are u that the said god of men (man of God) is telling u the truth. Why are you mortgaging your future on what a human being like u said? Are you a man of Lucifer yourself? Why privilege the statement of a human being?

Many have been led astray by so called statements from gods of men (men of God). Many gods of men are evil, although there are a few good ones. But even those few good ones are not always right. They can make mistakes. Their past experiences and human qualities can cloud their judgments, and make them misinterprete any sign they receive, that is if they did receive any in the first place.

What you highlighted in your first paragraph is exactly my own case. She is very attached to me and would want us to marry but her character is a NO NO. Women take character for granted despite the importance attached to it by men.

Although we now stay far from each other after graduation, this my own girl is very successful and even capable of changing my life for good. But I become sad anytime I think about her character if I cement things with her. Many people have told me to never make the mistake of settling down with that kind of woman.

KossyKiss97:
Yay!!!

But Tyler, why did u make that kind of movie ACRIMONY.

After that lady suffered with her husband for many years, he now went and married another woman when he hammered. E pain me well no be small.

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She became tired and annoyed at his rejection of that deal. After she forced him to divorce her, would she have returned to him if he did not Hammer? Tell me.

Obaawonuniversi:
It's a gift to be an attractive and handsome guy that girls can't resist. Less attractive guy's may think the grass is always greener on the other side. Being handsome sometimes has it's downsides too. I'm sure a lot of guys can relate to these things.

Your appearance is intimidating: imagine a girl has a crush on a guy, it's hard enough for her to have to make the first move. But even worse, you're the cute guy that makes her nervous whenever you're around. She's simply intimidated by your appearance, which really sucks for you, just because you're attractive.

Women presume they are players: All just you're a good looking stud, you are guilty without even being tried. Women believe most handsome guys are nothing but heartbreakers at the first glance. They believe you're probably hiding a devil beneath the surface.

You are a threat to other guys: Automatically, other guys might be aggressive and resentful towards you, because they know you might be giving their girl some looks she might not resist.

Presumptions that you're empty inside: Many people, especially women might assume you're nothing but a pretty face that's Intellectually shallow, and they probably don't need a good looking idiot as their man. Some people even believe that the smart and nerdy people aren't always the handsome type.

Your looks aren't enough: Though, you might be blessed with great genetics. Your looks just aren't enough. Women prefer men with status and financial stability to a guy that's just handsome. Nothing beats a handsome and successful man.

Women want you as a Prop: Some women just want you for your looks. Though, they might not be deeply emotionally attached, but hey!,You're good-looking, and who wouldn't want a handsome stud as theirs. They just don't want you for who you really are.

People think you take too much pride in yourself: A lot of people probably have lingering speculations that you take too much pride in your looks.You can't dress too well, because you look to good and people think you spend a lot of time and efforts in making yourself look good.

You might be seen as more of a boy than a man: Some women prefer men with more manly and mature looks that are a few years older. To them, It brings a sense of Alpha-male dominance and responsibility compared to boys who might play around with them and waste their time.Don't be too surprised when you see a young lady marrying an older man.

That treatment and envy you get from guys and friends can be very annoying. They will be wishing and striving so hard to be like you in every way as if say na competition.

If you are not careful, the wicked ones may hurt you with their bitterness, they feel that people compare and see them as inferior when you are around.

They will condemn some of the things they would love to copy about you and mostly choose not to even verbally admire. You will but enjoy the friendship and company of rare free-spirited persons who are not concerned with these things and can admire you very well verbally without any intention to compare themself with you or trying to be you.

kikero:
Yes, because PDP was very corrupt and inefficent.

I didn't vote for APC....Nigeria 1984 is different from Nigeria today, so no way Bubu was going to perform miracle at all....all that anti-corruption story they blew back then was story. Expecting Buhari to apply 1984 magic to 2015 issue was always going to be a big ask.

Besides, Sowore has always stood for truth. I've never voted or supported him, I think he is too close to Tinubu for comfort, but back in 2010...he backed GEJ against the Yaradua cabal.

APC is a big mess. No lying. In some ways they are even more bogoted and corrupt than PDP. But they were made possible by years of corruption of PDP. If GEJ, and even Yaradua and Obj had managed this country a bit better, maybe we won't have seen Buhari in power today.

Modified....I'm not into PDP or APC. I honestly wish we had a party that was big enough to take on these two. But the thing is, most Nigerians prefer to vote for PDP and APC. Idealists like us are left out.So, I choose not to support either.

In all these, the masses (especially the youths) also play a role in letting this country never get any better. Fear and docile followership is not making anybody take action for others to follow.

Zzor:
you didn't make any sense either,most of you men do not understand the concept of consent,you don't even know when you rape a lady.Go read more on consent so as to avoid being called out later

CONSENT involves the mind and not just mere words of mouth only, and women are naturally created to do shakara and pretend. What do you have to say about manipulating the so-called CONSENT for a rape claim in that regard? And women who enjoy being forcefully taken too.

Some women have secretly confessed to enjoy rape by even robbers and unfamiliar strangers which could have even had solid claim. So let's not talk about consent because it would also lead us to talking about pretence.

classicfrank4u:
Sudanese man... Not Saudi Arabian..

Oh! Thanks.

Hahahahaha

DEADPOOL the Merc with a mouth.

I still re-watch DEADPOOL. The comic relief is top-notch.

Ryan Reynold killed that movie. Someone said he was born to play DEADPOOL. The humour never fails to burst my brain on every re-watch.

I can't wait for DEADPOOL III.

Made4naijaceo:
A Ghanaian lady was subjected to a round of flogging after being caught red-handed sleeping with a Sudanese man in Saudi Arabia.

Before being flogged, the unidentified Ghanaian lady was first kicked and beaten with belt by the Ghanaian community leaders who caught her in the act. The community leaders were heard saying that most Ghanaians who come to the country (Saudi Arabia), disgrace the name of Ghana with their promiscuous lifestyle.

The Sudanese man was also not spared as he was also assaulted.

So you disgrace and assault a a foreigner in another country because he slept with a girl from your country tarnishing the image of your country?

Shey the Ghana community in Saudi-Arabia and its leaders there soppose get level for anoda pesin land reach dat ni?

LaReinaa:
If you have a real story related to this with proof, you can share it but cooking up stories just to get the misogynistic male to bash the women isn’t acceptable..

I am not saying that women don’t do all the things you listed above. Also know that this unreasonable attitude you keep mentioning are equally exhibited by men. women don’t have monopoly to bad attitudes if you must know.

And yes! NL guys actually got huge issues with the female gender and you know it!

If I start sharing my own related experiences and the ones I have witnessed, will we leave here today?

Why do I keep mentioning women and unreasonableness? Unreasonableness is the reason why women hate themselves and can't support themselves. You will agree with me that women are born with drama. There are only very few exceptions.

The ratio of men to women on this is very very wide. You see it around you no matter how hard you try to deny it. Blame nature for it, it's just how it is. Why will NL guys not have issues with the female gender when they go through a lot from them on a daily and the unreasonableness is worsened by refusal of our females to work on these complaints but rather defend these complaints.

repogirl:
You want to go to jail rather than be humiliated? Smh!

Besides, I don't see anything humiliating in this story. The girl behaved badly, but the guy worsened the situation... I hope fear of humiliation that's not even there, will not make some people commit murder o.

Anyone can try to shame anyone. You have the power to either accept it or not... There's nothing to be ashamed of if you're not doing anything bad or illegal nah. Who ego epp sef?

Infact it is a guy who beats a girl to pulp that should be ashamed. He is an Agbaya.

Anyone can try to shame anyone. Women's own worse. A woman's character is a very big problem, especially the Feminist ones taking their challenge against men into everything. Only a very few women can know the boundaries and act accordingly.

How did the guy worsen the situation? Women don't want to be beaten to a pulp by a man but women know how to provoke a man to do it and even initiate the fight first sef. If you raise your hand at anyone, it means you believe in your power (male or female) and should get ready to fight. If you don't know how to control your emotion, you must learn from 1 or 2 examples.

You will find only a very few people who can take humiliation and not react. With options of various other ways to deal with a situation, a reasonable person would not even raise his/her hand at a person if he/she has seen that the person can beat him/her. But most women head nor dey think reach dat side.

The same law that makes one go to jail for maiming or murder also makes provision for self-defense. Or you want women to be allowed to be attacking men without men doing anything because she is a woman and weak ni?

Humiliation is a very serious matter for almost everybody that you will find out that the guy is even happy that people condemned him, sent him away and gave the chair to the lady in the end (no shame in that). His soul is at peace for not disappointing himself to allow another fellow human-being do him anyhow.

BuhariNaWah:
Lingard will still not score tomorrow and it's last day of season.

Jesse who do you?!!!!!
Na Bellingham you go go replace for Birmingham

Hahahaha
You go don see how Leicester goalkeeper dash am goal dis evening. Last day fa. This life ba.

LaReinaa:
That story never happened bro
We can talk about men/women unreasonable attitudes another day but the story is 100% fake

Wow! You are so sure the story did not really happen. Whereas even worse cases happen everyday. Women under the guise of equality have taken it upon themselves to shame men at every opportunity and most men are not ready to take it. Men have nothing against women. It is those unreasonable attitudes exhibited by women in line with their equality game that annoys men.

repogirl:
No, women should never resort to such brazen manners...However, if one does, kindly do not retaliate.

Even in boxing and wrestling, both fighters are evenly paired... It wouldn't be fair if a stronger one is paired with a weaker one... It's inequal and unfair.

The lady was wrong for what pouring the drink on him and I trust if the guy had not retaliated, he would have received all sympathy from everyone and the girl would have been reprimanded.

That females want to be treated equally does not mean we are no longer females... Physiologically, most men have an advantage physically over most women. When you have such advantage, use it wisely.

And the quest for equality is not of equal strength to men... It's more about opportunities. We are still females, not males.

Even if an elder kid beats up a smaller kid when the smaller one was the one who started it, who who gets all the sympathy? This is not about equality... It's about using one's sense.

And what of the humiliation involved? Do you know that in life, everyone respects himself/herself well enough to avoid humiliation, especially in public. It is very serious that an individual can even be ready to go to jail for protecting his/her ego.

Women under the guise of equality have taken it upon themselves to shame men at every opportunity and most men will not take it.

LaReinaa:
It isn’t a hidden fact that 95.5% of male NLs are misogynists..

It’s also not too difficult to realize that the strory the Op posted up there never happened.

Some female commenters here are even afraid to express their opinions because of the fear of being attacked.. this is also a very serious problem that needs to be addressed.. sometimes, I read comments here and wonder if these guys actually have sisters.

But daily experiences of female unreasonable attitudes towards men do happen. Even towards their own females too. Men don't hate women. Men are just becoming more and more annoyed at such unreasonable attitudes exhibited for Feminism purpose most times.

I will emphasize what someone already said above. Women naturally don't think deeply about consequences before acting. That differentiates them from men and accounts for women's unreasonable attitudes. THIS IS A FACT AND NOT SOME THEORY.

She pours the drink on him and became annoyed that the boy revenged and poured the drink on her too. She did not think of any revenge. And in anger she jerks the boy by his shirt for revenging the drink poured on him.

coputa:
When will Nigeria(Africa)start producing phones and other electronics gadgets.This is where we spend the bulk of our money and the money goes back to china because they were not produced here.Is it how the Africa continent will remain till eternity?

Rwanda manufactures phones I heard.

HomerTimpson:
you have time sha,you don't know Chelsea fans thats why you talk like this...even the educated ones among them can be disappointing

Lousy and noisy they say we are but so what.

Luckydubby7:
The one that pained me most was the one that happened in lagos were a girl killed an old man
his house went and claimed that the man wanted to rape her.

Are you serious?

seanfer:
That’s a nice move. But the question is who why can’t Obaseki show his achievements in the last 3 and 1/2 years as a state Governor? Also know that Ganduje is not the one contesting in the election.
Don’t quote me if you don’t have anything to reasonable to say.

Check. There is a recent thread showing Obaseki's achievements on the frontpage.

Agba2020:
I am. Born and bred. Why aren't you sure I'm from Nigeria, if you don't mind me asking.

The best thing to do is to ignore and try to forget about it and live your life.

I have a weirder mom. She says she hears voices telling her dark things mostly. Sometimes I feel like she is a witch. Whenever she starts speaking of what she claims to have heard or seen in a dream, I excuse her.

She had once told me that she saw that I would die after finishing school. I made serious trouble over it and warned her sternly because it destabilized me. With time, I have learnt to live with her by not taking what she says serious.

Very fetish, she can start saying all sort of things sometimes. But ever since I clashed with her and warned her with threatening her life to never involve me when saying her things, she has stopped referring to me.

Klass99:
Lol , how can you even be asking this question?

So the Lord God Almighty creates you first, gives you authority over all things, has communion/fellowship with you on a daily basis, you know his heart's desires, likes and dislikes, in fact you know him better than all of creation did at the time.

Then along comes the companion he created for you, because he saw your loneliness and how bereft you were without one Somehow this second human being created after you, manages to convince you (without a gun to your head) to go against your better judgment and everything you knew about God, before her existence and arrival. She deserves a round of applause

Haba guy, make una dey learn to take full responsibility small nah! Eve didn't force Adam, she didn't seduce him with her naked body either. How she got Adam to eat that piece of fruit, is still a mystery to me. And when asked why, he had no excuse or justification, other than, it is this woman you gave to me. Till today, you all continue to blame us for everything that goes wrong in your lives.

Why she no just chop am and lock up?


Why did she give him?


Man, imperfect, had no one else around apart from her, to seek advice from. His imperfect nature and the woman's influence made him ignore God's warning.

Freestainworld:
they will gun down the first lady one day before the lifeless president will act tightly.

The impostor there can never take the issue of Aisha serious. He is just there on contract, enjoying the good life and Aisha's pu.ssy.

Which real man and president would refuse to react to people treating his wife anyhow or do nothing about serious insecurity in the state where he comes from (Katsina)?

God please bless this man for me please.

Confusedgirl869:
Hello everyone. This account is created for this .

This issue has been bothering me a lot and I am very confused on what to do.

We have been together for more than 2 years now and we hardly have issues, infact we are a perfect match or so I thought.

I am 26 while he is 35, we both working and I never disturb him for money, I take care of all my needs myself. He is very calm and peaceful, doesn't hit me and I really admire him a lot. I on the other hand is also good, hardworking, not materialistic and all that makes a good woman.

So after thinking of our relationship thoroughly some weeks ago, I realised that there is really nothing stopping us from getting married this year or next. I decided to hear what he has to say because he never talked about us being or getting married. I also noticed that whenever he sees or hears about bad marriages he felt lucky he is not in yet. This always makes me feel bad because I know myself. I also wasn't a fan of marriage before I met him because of so many bad men out there, but everything changed when I met my guy, he is what I want. The very first day we met, the first thought that came to my mind was 'this is my him' I don't know why I had that thought being our first time meeting.

Anyways, few weeks ago I decided to ask him what his plans are. Are we in on a long thing or not? I got the shock of my life when he made me understand that he doesn't want to be tied forever, he loves his space and the way nobody disturbs him. That he only wants a baby mama, he wants me to be the mother his kids but not in marriage. I was mad and I cried for days. He was even sounding like nothing is wrong with being a baby mama, maybe not but I just can't.

Well, I made him understand that I can't be a baby mama and it will also be hard for me to move on with another person. I've bonded so well with him and all that. And I also hate jumping from one man to another. I told him to talk to people who are in successful marriages and stop looking at the bad ones. Today when we were talking I asked him about it and he is still maintaining his stand on the mama.

I don't want to give birth to kids that have 2 homes, I grew up like that(it took me lots of self discipline not to become useless) and wouldn't want that kind of life for my kids, I want them to grow with their parents in ONE house. At the same time, I don't want to lose my good man and relationship.

I need your opinions please.

Men fear marriage because they see how women don't give their husbands PEACE OF MIND.

Yeah, I had to capitalize that. PEACE OF MIND AND STABILITY is what every man needs in a marriage.

It is very important for any man. He is scared you may be pretending to be nice and when you both get tired of yourselves in marriage, you would start troubling him, driving him to an early grave.

He is seeing how it happens with married couples around and fears it would be his fate too.

Uncivilized Bush talk. I'm not surprised.

ghettokid1:
You must be a political novice, that thugs killed Dino's supporters does not mean that he is not the sponsor or that He doesn't have his own Thugs

Keep quiet and don't jump to conclusions. Bello's boys have all the guns. PDP or Dino boys were actually even in hiding.


The kind of violence Bello unleashed was unprecedented in Nigeria as a whole. I am a Kogite and was around during the election. In the buildup to the election, there was gunshot almost every minute.


Bullets from gunshots are still on people's roofs. APC and Bello bought all the boys and shared plenty guns. PDP had very little or no thugs. PDP trusted the electorates whom were also frightened with the guns too.

Swag na Iceprince legal middle name. That guy's dressing is top-notch. Not these pictures of him here.

Headquarters of cultism

rockstarB:
Women need to know the difference between rape and emotionally manipulative sex. The kind of sex you have to beg or plead to have with anyone isn't rape.
He manipulated you, you eventually consented kinda sex isnt rape please.
You can tag it whatever but it isnt rape.


My post isnt related to the OP

#saynotorape

Thank you, wise lady. If a guy tries to initiate sex and the girl as usual do shakara and she later gives in after manipulations, the girl may now later come out to say she was raped too.

I don't support rape or violence against women. But this is the wicked world we have found ourselves. I have refused to join any anti-rape or anti-violence-against-women campaign because men and women alike face problems differently in this life.

Women give men another man's semen/child, women kill their husbands to run away with a lover, women financially extort men. The list goes on and on, just as women face domestic violence, rape etc. How many campaigns against these things will we do?

But whenever it is the rape of a woman and violence against a woman, there will be too much attention. The world is overflowing with horrible things happening everyday to men and women alike done by one of the gender against the other. And none can be said to be more serious than the other.

Davash222:
As a kid, I used to believe Education is the key.

This topic of debate is a very personal one to me.

I was hell-bent on getting a degree as a first born after secondary school. I first went to acquire computer knowledge. I became very very good at computer and a hot cake (I still am).

But I seriously wanted a degree. My uncle I travelled to the city to be with condemned my journey to the city and said I could have gotten a degree first.

I went back and gained admission. Struggled to get the degree. My computer skills fetches me cash very well and helped me very well. I've served in NYSC and now hope and pray everyday to get a job.

People say there are no jobs out there and strongly advise entrepreneurship but I am optimistic that God will let me belong to the very few getting the jobs. If there are no jobs, it means I could have wisely tried and established my computer business and neglected the degree.

dignity33:
the protesters can not be peaceful anymore because they want to send a strong message to US police. for long they have being protesting peaceful and nothing has changed.

Exactly my point.
If you are not serious about something, you will not get desired results.
Let them shake U.S very well for Racism to die down henceforth. For so long, the Blacks have spoken out against Racism without any change. By the time they shake U.S very well, Whites will adjust by themselves.