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Nigerian girls/women carry themselves like merchandise. They feel h.orny and want d.ick too but want to be spent on for allowing you f.uck them (when they enjoyed it too, even more perhaps).

They will say they need to be maintained (pads, make-ups etc), don't you have hands to work with as a lady? Or you are just being lazy? There is no difference between dating a Nigerian girl and patronizing a pros.titute (if you will not even be spending more on your said girlfriend sef)

Naija girls mentality ehnn....senseless and unlike their counterparts elsewhere.

The guy na mumu wey no get any sense at all. He no know how to talk talk less of leading people.

I just pity Kogites bearing the foolishness of this Governorship-miss-road. Oshiomole, Tinubu and Buhari, e no go beta for una...for returning this compound f.ool back into power upon Kogites.

Salary, he no pay. Development he no do. Everytime I see his face, I see a fo.ol who is not responsible enough to lead himself talkless of leading people.

primesoccer:
I met my girlfriend about 2yrs ago and we've been doing pretty fine. Before we met, she was in an abusive relationship and she had to quit.

In trying to understand ourselves, we've had to agree and disagree on some things, which I believe is normal. I love her and she loves me too.

I won't say I have the cash, but I'm always there to support her when she has a very pressing issue. Aside that, I take her out, we go shopping, and lots more...

She is this type of lady that if you try to correct her (in a very respectful manner) she will just get angry and may not even talk to you for even 2 days. Anger is a big part of her life. I respect her a lot and have never used abusive words on her.

When we just met, she was kind. She hardly comes to see me without buying something, even if it's N50 corn...a gesture that I appreciate so much. About a year into the relationship, her character changed. She became somewhat stingy. But I didn't take it to mean anything because I hate to even depend on anybody for anything. It didn't stop me from supporting her and doing the much I can for her.

She doesn't ever allow me touch her phone. What she does now is that whenever I'm to see and spend time with her, she turns off her data. She rejects some calls when we are together. As someone who wants peace at all times, I've sat her down to tell her my observations and ask what the matter was. But she told me nothing was the matter.

So, I decided to buy a new SIM card. I started chatting her as a stranger. She chats with me (the stranger) till even 2am. She has opened up everything about herself to the stranger. Her name, where she's from, what she does, where she lives and lots more. I'm just wondering why someone who just chatted you today is already getting to know everything about you.

Now to the reason I opened this thread: she told the stranger guy that she isn't in any relationship. Though, she added that she just met a Guy last week through her friend and they are both trying to work things out. She even sent the picture of the new guy to this stranger.

I'm still wondering why she will do a thing like that. I'm not in her life to waste her time. She is very aware of that. I told her last December that we shall go see her people this year and seal everything, but she told me that we still have time and no need for the rush.

Personally, I had no reasons to suspect her of possibly cheating, but her actions when we are together made me get a new SIM card and started chatting her up anonymously.

On my part, I'm a guy that ladies even open up to me that they like me. They also say I'm very intelligent and all that. I'm very transparent to her. I don't hide nothing from her. I can leave my phone with her without any fear because I don't have anything to hide.

I've never had anything to do with any lady since I met her. I so much believe in keeping your body and soul to just the person you are with...whether relationship or marriage. If you can't do that, why not just tell the person that you are not interested again than going your way to deny the person before another guy.

Ladies and gents, why on earth will a man or woman do this to someone who had dedicated his or her all to you?

I will gladly welcome your contributions, including bashing...

Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly

You don't know that money-loving NIGERIAN GIRLS carry themselves like merchandise. They believe they have options and see you as but just one of the people competing to win them. Engaging a Nigerian girl may change this mentality somehow but when she gets tired of you in marriage, she starts liking another man.

josen16322:
wen som women start makin cash more dan their husband dey wil be like i am now d head of d family i can provide half of d tins my children needs be4 u kno it d husband wil be talkin one d wife wil be talkin 2 no more respect 4d husband dis incident is hapenin in my compound dat is y women can neva rule dis country becos wen dey start 2 earn more dan their husband,dem go form pass shit

If as a man, you are unable to handle your woman with iron hands (especially as it concerns supremacy), you have failed as a man.

ipobarethieves:
women with their wahala/nagging.They can frustrate and make ur life upside down.Some of their upset talk do somehow propelled u to become useful in life.Imagine,u finished service,no work yet,no family of urs/no nothing.Someone will wake up one fine morning and tell u about Tolu ur neighbors doing MSC/now in UK and then tell u to go do ur own MSC as a getaway/escape from ur misfortune.If u dnt want to suffer such backlash.move away from home.If nah face to face apartment u fit rent,gather money and runz

Mehn I'm tired. It's not even up to 1yr yet.

My return back home from NYSC is the worst decision of my life.

Everyday I feel like I don't belong to the family house anymore.

I had/have plans of getting rent-money and leaving to Abuja to go stay on my own before this whole Coronavirus issue came up. Even though I don't have the money yet, I am trusting GOD

Still no reach Katsina own NYSC Mani Camp facilities. Second to none.

I remember the reaction on social media that followed the recent anal s*x side chick video. Women started posting pictures of side-c.ock vs. husband in retaliation, claiming that no be only man soppose get side-chick, that side-c.ock also de for women. What actually led to it was the comparison of side-chick vs. wife and how and why the wife stops becoming sexy after marriage.

I will side with what I saw a Nairalander opine on this cheating issue before. If you wanna cheat in marriage for whatever reason, do it but don't get caught. I have a friend who says he can't trust his wife whenever he marries especially in this generation and he can't trust himself too but let no one be caught. This foolish woman could not play her own game well. How could she have let her side-c.ock into her marriage home and thereby give high opportunity to get caught?

NextD18:
Pete Edochie my mentor A.k.a Slayer of Nigerian iddiotic feminist!

His advice "Don't kneel to propose to any woman" remains the way forward!

Happy Birthday Odogwu nwoke!

Aka jide akpu, egwu atuo ofe

I wish you long life and prosperous days ahead!

May you keep advising the youth of these days on what is needed and obtainable in a family.

It was a very big blow to the so-called feminism. Women equating themselves with men was already getting too much and annoying when those remarks from him came timely.

The so-called feminism is rebellion against God's order and just like the story of the fruit in the garden of Eden, Lucifer is coming through feminism to use the woman to challenge God again.

frosbel2:
1. Men and women who abandon their children
2. People who use the name of God to steal, rob and scam
3. Men who sleep with wives of other men and women who sleep with the husbands of other women
4. Adult children who curse and fight their parents
5. Traders who will sell you poison or fake drugs or fake products to make a profit
6. People who shed the blood of the innocent for refusing to believe in their myths
7. People who treat women like meat for 'sex' benefits
8. Employers who pay starvation wages and employers who do not pay their workers for months
9. Those who cheat the orphan and widow out of their inheritance
10. Loan sharks who charge very high interest rates for small and medium size loans
11. Those who engage in drug trafficking to destroy the youth
12. Those who engage in human trafficking. Imagine selling human beings to make plenty of money. Worthless scumbags.
13. Cultists who think that being tough is to kill and maim your fellow man. These people are usually cowards.
14. Racists who treat you differently because of skin color. Racists are a lower form of the humanoid specie.
15. Those who play politics with the destruction and misery of human life. Their future is sealed with suffering and punishment. Examples, Boko Haram, Russia and western countries starting wars all over the place for financial gain.
16. Those who invade communities and massacre women and children because of ordinary COW. These id1iots value the life of a COW more than that of a Human. They are subhuman. Horrible individuals
17. Kidnappers and ritualists who will do anything to make money even if it means sacrificing babies or their own families. Their greed will surely destroy them
18. Paedophiles who molest small children up to the age of 15. Some even target babies. These people deserve to HANG.
19. Yahoo Yahoo boys who live large on the misery of others. They have no shame. Poverty is waiting for them at the end.

I can go on writing more examples, for now this list should suffice.

Feel free to add your own.

People who use your helplessness to enslave you.

For cooperating with Bello to return him back upon Kogites, doom awaits you Oshiomole.

Kanye held hip-hop down 100, he had some of the most intelligent lines I've ever heard. Dude is one very intelligent human walking the face of the earth. Among his other very brilliant lines, his lines on MONSTER with Nikki and Jay-Z that stuns me till date:
"I'm living in the future, so the present is my past. My presence is a Present, kiss my a**

BeLookingIDIOT:
You're looking for trouble o
Now that you've reminded them,expect extra millions to be added to their furniture allowance

Hahahahahaha

TechCapon:
The criminal even had the guts to switch on the air conditioner behind him

Hahahahahahahaha
You must really hate him to have concluded that he switched on the AC

zainabicy:
I lowkey believe that many of this companies in Nigeria get away with a lot of sh*t because we Nigerians don't trust the speed and honesty of our legal suing processes.

I should have sued my bank, Nepa, DStv and even my car's AC repair man for illegal deductions and poor service.

Speaking of suing a bank, I will really love to sue Access Bank for a whooping N2k deduction which caused me a serious embarrassment.

Access Bank removed 2k from the cash sent into my account to be delivered to someone and I had no money to replace it. The thing embarrassed me greatly and I will never forgive the bank. It felt like I was lying and was the one who removed the 2k.

Mayorkun said it Geng:
"No highness wey you no try."

Set Awon Northern Female Baddo's

Oyindidi:
You no post her PEG project here but na this one sweet you to post. Post the good and your perceived bad abeg

This is how you females will be defending yourselves and making things worse. It is the reason why things will keep spoiling.

Did you see any man there showing his 6packs?

Whatever good project she did will be overshadowed by this indecency shown by her. If you claim to be good, it should reflect in everything and everytime too.

I personally don't like her, many people also don't like her, because she has attitude problem which cost her the BBN victory. Most Nigerian women have attitude problem and nobody enjoys a bad attitude. It is a fact, I am not saying it because I want to hate Nigerian women.

Stop defending something bad for the society to become better.

Oyindidi:
You no post her PEG project here but na this one sweet you to post. Post the good and your perceived bad abeg

This is how you females will be defending yourselves and making things worse. It is the reason why things will keep spoiling.

Did you see any man there showing his 6packs?

Whatever good project she did will be overshadowed by this indecency shown by her. If you claim to be good, it should reflect in everything and everytime too.

crestdevelopers:
Oh God!! Which kine wahala be this one now...

She no get mirror for house ni?

Must everybody witness her stupidity publicly?

Zlatan really talk am say you no go kee person....

Nonsense and stretch mark

Very painful. No matter how one tries to avoid witnessing some things, one still witnesses it.

James289:
Technically, the man decides the sex of the baby... not the woman. You can only contribute an X since you are XX and the man's sperm contributed either an X or a Y - thus deciding the sex.
So, he wasn't able to give himself what he wanted, lol - no reason for you to feel guilty.

I disagree.

It has been proven that if a woman meets her man 3days before her ovulation and the ovulation day, she will bear a male. Anything after the ovulation day is a female.

OVA200:
Very handsome Nigeria man woo a very beautiful russian girl this is the kind of interracial marriage that make sense not the ones wey 22 years old Nigeria man will woo a midnight newspaper of Russia aged 78.

Happy married life stunning couple.

All join, Bro

As long as you secure your future and excuse our Nigerian leaders and leave this sh*thole of a country.

Shebi according to law, NYSC soppose give money to coppers wey marry each other.

Saw a billboard of him in Katsina contesting for a position, I was very surprised at the striking resemblance.

Karleb:
The man is neither denying nor confirming anything here.

Thank you my brother.
This Disclaimer is only disassociating NYSC from a message in circulation stating the amounts in arrears according to batches, saying the message is not from NYSC. I even have that message.

aminusodiq:
This is also an evidence of a failed government!!
We learnt dat arrears was paid during the last increment in GEJs tenure!!!!

This Disclaimer did not state if NYSC will not pay it or will. It is only saying that the message in circulation with a breakdown of the amounts of the arrears according to batches is not from NYSC. I saw the message.

Preshy561:
Some of you who call your fellow guys pussy think it means weakness?
Something that strong enough to pull out a human being, undergo so many pressure and still bounces, a place you came out from, is what you think means weakness? It really shows you are a representative of such weakness.

Aunty take it easy. Have you not also heard the one someone is called dic.khead as an insult too? It is not only womanliness.

You ladies always claiming discrimination.

Naira Marley is the biggest Nigerian artist there is. Even Davido has to recognise.
Like DJ Big-N would say, "when you're big you're big abeg."

The NPF has numbers to call to report excesses of Nigerian police officers to higher authorities. Whenever any officer begin overdo, get those numbers and call.

Nigerian police officers capitalize on the mumuness of Nigerians to do and undo.

Jeffmonti:
About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help!

This might turn out to be a lengthy read, please bear with me. The bashing and insults will be unnecessary as i have already told myself hurtful things a thousand times over.

So i am 29 and have a girlfriend who’s 25 we are both graduates; she’s a nurse and i am a practicing engineer and we’ve been dating for 3+ years now and preparations are underway to tie the knot this year God willing. Something happened last year, she suggested i move to a bigger apartment so that we can start buying household items and everything necessary to start a home as we are looking to get married soon which we did; i got a bigger place, met her parents she met mine. In a nutshell everything seems to be going well, we even started a business together and set to take on the future together before the devil struck (i take blames for my actions as i am not overly religious)

Around June last year, i met a girl (very fine girl) in the new area i moved to, although i have been seeing the girl around but one day as i was driving in i saw her hiding somewhere close to my compound avoiding the rain with her friends so i took them in until the rain subsided we exchanged contacts and started texting on WhatsApp a few days later. And soon after we started having sex (protected sex), prior to that time i never cheated on my girlfriend.

The sex continued, up to 2 times a week sometimes 3 as it was relatively easy as she lived very close and my girlfriend only visits on the weekend and never sleeps out (she’s from a very good and wealthy family with proper moral upbringing). Most evenings when return from work conji just do me one kind i don cross street other times she calls until we became comfortable having unprotected sex

So late October 2019, the new girl (I’ll call her Lola) texted me that’s she’s not feeling too well and i asked her to visit the hospital to run a test to know what to treat. She came back with a pregnancy test result proving she’s already 3 weeks pregnant, i was sure it was mine but i didn’t panic as she had a bf and i have my gf we were just for the sex at least that’s what we told each other.

So i asked her to remove the pregnancy, but got the shocker when she said she’s never going to remove the pregnancy that she’s 27 and have no desire to marry me or stay with me but she’s going to have the child. Omo my heart flipped. I begged her for like 3 weeks until she got mad and stopped taking my calls, she even moved away from her apartment. So i texted her and arranged a meeting, we sat down and discussed at length but she was still bent on keeping it, i got furious and told her i am not ready to be part of the child’s life if she’s going through with it as i see no reason why she wants to have my child when she knows we are NEVER going to be together, that was when she said she had already told her family that i am not interested in the child and they support her to keep it and let the child bear their family name. I discussed the matter with two friends a boy and a girl and the asked me to let her have the child first.

One month passed fast forward to early December, Lola called 6 times i was so shocked. I couldn’t take her calls. She texted that she’s ready to terminate the pregnancy since i am wicked and unconcerned she rained all manner of derogatory words but i was only concern with her decision to let go. I called and we agreed to meet the following day, I skipped work that day and met with her and her elder sister and elder sister’s friend. The sister and her friend were so mean but i was unmoved; i don already fuckup and ready to take anything to let it all go away because the knowledge of things will destroy my girlfriend.

So Lola entered my vehicle and we drove out, on our way to the hospital for her to terminate the pregnancy plus treatment she’ll take afterwards and for the damages i have caused her. She’s going to need 150k from me, i was furious and told her i don’t have that kind of money talk less of handing it over to her for something like this (i sure don’t know what i cost but i know it’s not up to 50k). She said if i don’t give her what she want she’s going to have the baby and that i should be thankful that she’s coming up with this that if she had listen to her friends advices she would have moved to my house with all sort of troubles (she was right) but i didn’t give in just yet. I dropped her off and ask her to have the child that am not going to give her the money as i don’t have it (I get the money sha).

So two days passed, she called again and after many arguments we agreed at 100k, made her to sign a NDA not to bother me again and all, I transferred her the 100k that night, she confirmed receipt and promised to go with it the following morning and that was the last I have heard or seen or her since then, until 3 weeks ago when another of her sister called from Canada and was asking if i am Me, that she’s been seeking my contact for a while now that Lola friend had to steal the number Lola’s phone and pass it to her as Lola has been hiding my phone number from the rest of the family and she doesn’t know the arrangement i have had with her but i should know that she’s having the child, she just thought i should know that i have a child somewhere when the baby eventually drops.

Knowing fully well that i am a shitty person to have done something terrible to myself and my girlfriend and all our future plans because of cheap sex, but I’ll be a more terribly bad person to have knowledge of a child somewhere and not be in his/her life. I called Lola but she didn’t take i texted her about her sisters call she called back to know who called and was furious, she ended the call (I guess to call her sister back) and called back again in about 20mins and asked me not to ever call her line again. I replied her text she should tell her family not call me as well. I have dodged to her apartment building a coupe times but she’s not been around for weeks as i was made to believe.

So i bought a ring to engage my girl few weeks ago but had to hold first to see how things play out, i can’t go ahead and marry my girlfriend with this kind of secret untold; that will be wickedness from the pit of hell and i still don’t know how to break it to her, it will destroy her.

I jokingly painted a similar scenery to my girlfriend; her response was: she will not marry me because if she does she will kill me in my sleep. That everybody is expecting us to get married this year, she now have high respect from her family because of me and this kind of thing happens both of us will die. Omo fear catch me.

Fellow Nairalanders, this is my predicament please advice a stupid brother. Insults are welcome as I hope to pick a thing or two from your comments. MODs please push this up biko.

If you made attempts to deny the pregnancy initially, maybe you wouldn't be in this mess now. She told you she is pregnant and you just accepted that it's yours straight-up even when you knew she has a boyfriend. If she made trouble because you denied it, you still could have schemed your way out one way or another and ultimately disconnected from her. Oh! you probably accepted it because you didn't want trouble through which your girlfriend would have known about it all. You still could have smartly done it all without her knowledge of anything.

isram:
One of the highest rigged election in the history of Nigeria conducted by the idiotic evil mr integrity brought this Fool as a governor

If the court upholds Bello's victory, then Nigeria is not just an insane country but a very anyhow one. Apart from the rigging, videos of the widespread serious violence on the election day are on Twitter for the world to see.

bmdmixer:
and her name was mary

I know........right? I saw what you did there!

Hafeexla:
somebody rape my sister and i finally have the opportunity of becoming a soldier, what do you think will happen to the person

That's a different comparison you are making.
What of the people suffering because of the revenge?