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Genevieve (feminist) turned it into a Gender War. Rape is evil and rapists deserve punishment. But it doesn't mean you should hate all men. A feminist would hate all men just because of the fragility of women. Men too are killed by women.

panafrican:
They already did the same thing before African kings centuries ago , and ended up colonizing the continent. Wake up folk!

Reason why I really want the protests and destructions ongoing to escalate and shake U.S very well. By the time it is over, Whites will learn from it and desist from racism.

DMPaulSr:
As in ehhh.
It's getting out of hand.
This is wickedness!!! Looting and Arson will not solve racism..

It will.
If you don't show how serious you are about something, you will not get desired results. That has been the reason why Racism has continued - no serious actions.

By the time Blacks shake U.S, issues of racism will die down henceforth.

This from Wizkid is like the last straw that will break the camel's back.
This government has been making frantic efforts to shut Nigerians up not to criticize Buhari, this government and its cabinet.
With the reactions from Nigerians after Wizkid's remarks, Nigerians have been finishing Buhari and his government with their mouths. E go taya this government.

BlueRayDick:
The chinese guys wey come assist Sinzu money don dey move. Spending , Jacuzzi and Sizu money will miss u.

Hahahahahahahaha
For reminding me of Lasisi this evening, e be like say God wan bless you very soon.
You forget Bullion Van ni?

VeeVeeMyLuv:
This reporter did a wonderful job. Awesome! This is a 5-star performance
He/she deserve to be awarded the medal of honor

The word-play is indeed top-notch.

Tallesty1:
What do you expect when men are becoming more and more stupid in the name of being romantic. Nah see finish dey cause all these, the lady knew she was dating a weak man and that was what gave her the guts.

I Only pity the mumu friend that joined her in this stupid act.


Women want men to be manly but this new generation men are more interested in what women want and how they feel than they're in learning to be a man. Shit is embarrassing.

I hate such men with passion.

Ladycewhy:
did you just add 2face to the list? Why not add segun arinze oh what about emeka Ike,Nice unkor? .


Once again ,you never answer my question,who suffer head epp? Name the person or persons

2Face settled with Annie who built with him. He played games yes and Annie sef too do her own too. But the koko of the matter be say 2Face wife her las las. And I know say women una like marriage wella. To marry na una major goal.

Segun, Emeka and 9ice na blend dem no fit blend with their wives as na wahala women dem marry.

Annie de enjoy her suffer head because na she get 2Face and all him money forever now with genuine love. Same with PSquare wives dem and
Simi, all with genuine.

But already rich man own no be based on genuine love and dat na very big problem. Wahala full am and e go taya anybody wey shuuk head inside am.

Ladycewhy:
lol, you better go back to the 1800s then.

Challenge his manhood ,there by making his penis become smaller abi?.

No feminism is the reason I am on the internet, feminism is the reason why I was given the opportunity to go to school, feminism is the reason I can contest an inheritance in court , feminism is the reason a widow can fight for her right and not be subjected to barbaric tradition, feminism is the reason I can work and keep my money for myself . So feminism didn't bring chaos it brought freedom for the female gender, it stopped oppression of the girl child and gave her a chance to be human and not play second class human to a dick dangling human

Lol, you seem to rather prefer Gbola with the way you referred to "small p.enis manhood."

My point is, Feminism makes women (especially Nigerian women) think they are on the same scale with men in everything, taking it into marriage and challenging men.

The Nigerian woman's idea of feminism is not just to compete with men but to climb on a man and be in charge of him and oppress him. Weak men who allow that are very rare and that is what I mean by Chaos.

Uckroot:
Women of old married for love. Men married women because it was the thing to do.

That is why most men are looking for girls like their mom but most girls don’t want nothing to do with any man like their father.

Simple equation.

Our mothers endured that painful thing because divorce was not welcomed and marriage was glorified as a crown of womanhood PLUs they already had children.
Our parents didn’t trash anything out. Our Fathers made decisions and that was final.

Whatever happened back then was men's headship playing out. Nowadays, women challenge that headship and chaos is what we are heading for like that. With "woke" women everywhere climbing on Feminism and not taking their place or approaching issues as women anymore, forgetting that the man comes for a woman in the first place and ought to have the final say. The modern women would not even agree to come to a common ground with a man.

Moreover, women now marry for money. That factor alone has shifted everything. The woman is not in love with the man, she gets tired of the money or it finishes or reduces, her bad wife sides manifests. Meanwhile, the man struggles to use money to love her.

Ladycewhy:
the bolded, that is why men of today are bitter,they wish they can go back to the 1800s and maintain the status quo. .


Now this is why I will always preach women independence, women who are able to stand their ground are a threat to men and reduces the size of their penis .

Now the question I will like to ask you is what does it mean to be the head?

Equality at work/play and social life has gained significant progress but it just can't be in marriage or love affair; because THE HEAD means that the man came for you, and as such, reserves the right to have the final say on matters in your union accordingly.

Endeavour to come to a common ground and don't stubbornly stand your ground challenging his manhood as a woman. This whole Feminism and woke woman ideology will lead to chaos.

Ladycewhy:
many men are only humble because they don't have the resources to buga.


They say ,give a man money and you will know his true character. Most of our mothers built and we're later sideline for a yellow sisi that likes front seat of car.Who suffer head epp?

Na dis mentality wey modern women don twist upside down nai de cause wahala.

It is not true. You have seen Adekunle Gold, 2Face and the PSquare brothers settle with women wey build with dem.

Las las una go con become wahala as una don look money marry man wey una no love. This is how stubbornness and nagging starts. The woman would start frustrating the man because say she no love am and money sef don tire her or don reduce or don finish.

Ladycewhy:
yen yen yen. Toxic masculinity will always see women who won't take their bullshit as a threat and their penis will retract when they meet their match .

Well done Ma, challenger-of-men.

When you will realize that you are wired to take your place as a woman in things and not challenge a man, it would be too late for you to adjust, and then wahala go dey.

Of course, any woman who cannot come to terms with the man as the head and approach issues as a woman, is a threat to a man.

Ladycewhy:
bla bla bla. How many ladies and even guys here will want their daughters to marry a man like their fathers? .


That should tell you that the men are the issue ,our mothers of old covered the nasty attitudes of these men. And let me just say this ,just because a marriage lasts doesn't mean it was healthy . Many marriages stood the test of time because our mothers had to compromise,not because the men were all that .

The men and women of old married for love. The love they have for each other conquered all. They ironed issues out with it.

NOTE THIS: Nowadays, a woman becomes terrible when the money she married the man for is not there (much) again, she also becomes terrible when she is tired of the man and his wealth. And you and I know that women marry for money. Well, most women look for who is capable of taking care of them and the family financially, not love.

Since women marry for money and not for love like that, when the money is not there (much) anymore or she even becomes tired of the man and his wealth, she then becomes terrible because she don't actually love him.

mikeybrainy:
For me I wouldn't try it, I can never marry someone like my mom. If I try that I would end up in an asylum.

She is a good mother, though not perfect (nobody is).

Some of my reasons are:

Nagging (like the neigbours can narrate everything happening in our house if asked to)
Involving strangers in family issues (like she says everything)

She can't ever take the blame for anything (blames everyone for her woes, and she is never wrong)

She wants to collect back every single penny she spends in the house (which is impossible)
Incites the children against their father (never realized this until I grew up and started thinking like a man, and honestly I'm sorry for all the ways I have acted to my dad, though my own is still fair, my siblings have complete disregard for their father)

Other things too that I can't mention here (makes me feel ashamed.

I realized all these when I started looking at everything from the lens of a struggling husband and father, and I'm still contemplating if marriage is worth it after all, I might as well stay single.... (I only date and break up with girls in my mind, Lol) cos I don't think its worth all the stress. Growing up in a broken, dysfunctional home is hard (sighs).

I wouldn't put all the blame on my Mom but I have resolved not to imbibe my dad's bad habits too (I can't even drink 1% alcohol not because I can't or it's bad, but I run away from it when I think of the things dad would have achieved, if he were not addicted to it)

Sorry for the long post.

Can you marry someone like your mom/dad?

Opinions

Jesus!

This is exactly my mom.

I feel ashamed when others celebrate their mom.

My dad is weak and that also annoys me very well.

I am so tired and the only thing on my mind is independence.

Femi, I wish you and yours the luck wey be like Buhari govt in future after una leave office.

That won't do

nineone:
You make very little sense and your post is very very much unbalanced and one-sided this makes it a bullshit post. No head no tail just some exaggerated nonsense.

And to respond to your nonsense, a record label should be blamed if an artist starts going down after signing them. An artist also share some blames here sometimes but most times it's the record label. If you sign an artist and do not release fund to market him/her, how can he/she sell? Now you're already concluding the record labels already done that. What if they didn't do that and that's what caused the problem?

Secondly, it's their responsibility to take good care of their artists. They must not buy them expensive gifts when the money hasn't started coming but artistes signed to your label deserve to work under comfortable and conducive conditions and atmosphere. Your post is nonsense. At least, if you want to balance the blames, you should have done that without coming out to put all blames on artistes and completely exonerating the record labels

Thank you. Do you also know that a source of trouble between an artist and his label can also be insincerity of Labels in telling the artist the truthful amounts coming in for recouping the invested money?

You think the artist will be happy to find out that the Label may have recouped its money but is lying to him that it has not been recouped?

Even the additional money meant to be shared after recoup can also not be truthfully delivered in its actual amounts by the label owner too.

lawyer:
I was reading online recently about how Cynthia Morgan claimed Jude Okoye scammed her while she was under his Record Label and May D led credence to her complaints about the Label not giving him his dues and generally cheating him off the good life he was supposed to enjoy as an Artiste. A lot of people immediately sympathized with these Artistes and rained Insults on Jude Okoye and every other record label out there for cheating Artistes. Many Artistes these days have made it a habit to always come on social media to blame the Record Label for stiffing them but is that really the truth? Let's delve into what goes on behind the Music Industry and explain why one Artiste is very rich and famous and the other one famous but broke.

A lot of people are very ignorant about how the Music Industry works. Free Music is everywhere you look today. Everyone can download music for free online from “notjustok.com. , tooxclusive.com etc”. You can listen to free music on any radio station you tune into all over Nigeria. You can watch free music videos on over 20 Music Channels. You can stream free video on YouTube, Spotify, Sound Cloud etc. If you like, you can go to music blog pages and download new music everywhere but the first question you should ask is “WHO IS PAYING FOR ALL THIS FREE MUSIC YOU ARE ENJOYING”? The answer is the Record Label. not the Artiste.

There is nothing like free music on radio or free music on Soundcity or free music in Nite clubs or free music on blog pages. Everything is paid for and subsidized by the Record label to push the Artiste. Do you know how much a Record Label would pay a radio station for you to actually like a song? Most of the songs you hum or sing to daily in your bathroom, cars, office, gym, classroom, kitchen, your couch and finally on your bed has been paid for heavily by the record label. When you tune into your favourite radio station, you hear a song at least 10/ 15 times a day for 1 full week. Automatically this song becomes a hit because you have reluctantly accepted the song in your head from day 1 and by day 7, it's one of your all-time favourite songs.


Do you think it’s by magic that a song from nowhere automatically becomes the flavour of the month and one of your favourite tracks of all time? No. Millions of Naira has been paid to that radio station to promote that song heavily for you to like it by the Record label. The Artiste only performed the song in the studio but the Record Label has to invest millions of Naira to make that song performed by the Artiste a hit so that it can recoup the money back and pay the Artiste from the profits and royalties obtained from promoting the song.


Without the Record Label, the Artiste is nothing. There is no difference between you singing in the bathroom for free and your favourite Artiste without the backing and funds invested in the Artiste. No Artiste alive who invests in himself without the backing of the Record Label has ever made money or profit except foolish fame and we all know fame alone does not pay the bills. The Record Label everyone loves to demonizes when an Artiste runs to Social media to rant and rave about is the only source of their fame, money and lifestyle. The best an Artiste can do is produce his own songs and sell the CDs in traffic. Goodluck to that Artiste turning into Wizkid in traffic or playing songs in beer parlours!!!


Coming back to May D and Cynthia Morgan. The Record Label owned by Jude Okoye gave them a contract. Everything about the survival and success of them is in that Contract. What they expected was for the Record Label to turn into their Surrogate Sugar Daddies to dash them money to buy range rovers, live in Lekki, wear exotic clothes, travel first class to every country on the planet to perform in concerts, shoot million Naira music videos in South Africa, stay in 5-star hotels, pay for their limousines, food, take care of their extended family and crew and pump millions of Naira into their account for just singing a song which they consider as a hit.


Cynthia Morgan and May D did not pay over 700 radio stations all over Nigeria to play their song. They did not pay all the Music channel VJs to play their song, they did not pay over 200 bloggers to tweet and write good reviews for their songs, they did not contribute to the cost of shooting the music video from the accommodation, plane tickets, paying video vixens, paying the music director and the crew, scouting for location and wardrobe, transportation, feeding, clubbing and shopping money for themselves, their family and crew. They did not pay for the popping of champagnes in the club to boost their image, pay Djs in Nite clubs to play artistes songs and loads of payments that Cynthia Morgan and May D did not spend a dime on to push and market the Artiste and song. The second question you should ask is “WHO IS PAYING FOR ALL THIS LIFESTYLE AND MARKETING”? Answer The Record Label.


Nobody wants to know where the money is coming from to push this glamourous lifestyle. We all want to see the Artiste driving a lovely car with beautiful women around him wearing fabulous clothes but this comes at a very heavy price. Every dime spent on the Artiste to push this song must be accounted for and recouped before Artiste is going to see a dime. The record Label is not Father Christmas and does not give a rat-ass about the Artiste. It is only interested in the profits and business part. If Record Label spends N5Million on you, it expects nothing less than N10 Million before the Artiste can start seeing some money. You don’t expect the Record Label to spend all that money on the Artiste and end up running at a loss. The Record label must recoup the money spent on Artiste from sales of Cds, concert tickets, shows, endorsements and a host of other mediums to balance their books before Artiste makes 10 kobo. If the label does not make a profit because of limited concert sales, Cds sales or poor show receipts, Label is not bound to pay Artiste a profit. Any agreement Label and Artiste has whether it's 50/50/ or 70-30 must first be offset from the initial amount Label has spent to promote the Artiste. It's not rocket science. It's not wickedness. It’s just business. That’s why it’s called show business. Why would you spend N10Million on a stranger and allow that money to disappear because you love his voice or how she looks?


That’s why the Record Label ALWAYS signs a contract with Artiste to specify all these things. 90% of musicians don’t read these contracts and if they do, they hurriedly sign it because they are already dreaming of the immediate fame coming to them and money to be advanced to them to buy a car, rent a house, shoot videos, pay for their clothes, hotels and up-keep. To them, it’s as if they have hit the lottery but unknown to them, all these money given to them is just an advance that must be deducted before they start seeing 10kobo in their account.


Have you noticed no Artiste has come out to complain about a Record Label and point to the section in the contract that the Record Label has breached? Never. They know they have no case so they come to the court of public opinion to rant to gain sympathy for their carelessness, greed, ignorance and apathy. They would never employ a music lawyer to comb over the fine details of the contract. They would never sit down to be prudent to receive small money at first to reap millions later. They want to live the Cubana high chief life now and when it goes bust, they expect the Record Label to bail them out. It would never happen.


Rather the Record Label sues them to court and ALWAYS WINS because at the end of the day the truth would always come out. If Jude Okoye was to sue Cynthia Morgan and May D, I bet my house, Jude Okoye would win over and over again because everything is in the contract which they signed. Jude Okoye owes them nothing apart from what they agreed would be the sharing formula after deducting all that was spent on them previously. The Record Label is not Sinzu Money; neither is it a Sugar daddy. It's an alternative bank. What it gives the Artiste, it takes back double. It’s just part of the business and only savvy, smart and intelligent Artistes understand this game. It's not about putting the microphone on your mouth, it's about having the brains to understand the music business.

Do you also know that a source of trouble between an artist and his label can also be insincerity of Labels in telling the artist the truthful amounts coming in for recouping the invested money?

You think the artist will be happy to find out that the Label may have recouped its money but is lying to him that it has not recouped?

Even the additional money meant to be shared after recoup can also not be truthfully delivered in its actual amounts by the label owner too.

ellapius:
all this ur long talk is as a result of dumbness go back to ur bushy village and become a dumbass villiage town crier that is what ur true nature is. did u read feminism in from my post. chicken brain maniac

Claiming women are becoming woke and challenging a man in relationship/marriage, exhibiting all sort of annoying attitudes is the Nigerian feminism which you pointed out in your post.

Our forefathers did not have it that way and efforts to make all that nonsense happen now will lead to chaos, so y'all better calm down. Only the few cool-headed wise ones among you will have things going well for them.

ChizzyBuna:
Some Girls Need To Flee From Themselves..

Hahahahahahahaha
If some girls see their character, dem go run.

Coborona:
I was expecting something better than this

Entitled man?

Come on... It's the other way round

I'm not disputing that there are entitled men..

But more women act entitled

Right from dating... Most Naija ladies to be specific start asking for money to fix hair, to buy phone...
Money that they can't ask their fathers
They were not there when he was hustling, just toasting a Naija babe alone. She starts feeling entitled... I need money for subscription....I want to fix this.... If you shut her down... She starts giving you attitude

I laff, is this is the best counter thread y'all can come up with? this thread is a failure at best, like shooting yourself in the leg or scoring an own goal

Dead on arrival

Spits*

I owe you one bottle of your favourite drink.

ellapius:
the biggest mistake for a Nigerian girl is to marry a guy who is not ready to marry. a Bleep boy. a jobless Bleep boy who believes his big gbola is his selling point

modified.....
I have had to face so many hateful words from guys here becos I said all this. some have called me names from prostitute to pain heartbroken lady. it so bad to see how weak men transfer their frustration on ladies out there. I have e come to realize that many guys want smart ladies for a wife but don't have the balls to live with them.

Small sense you no get (typical of a vast majority of Nigerian girls).

Like someone said above with very many likes, the biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl. Smart lady with bad character is what all of you Nigerian girls are, that is if she is even smart in the first place.

Which balls are you talking about? You think any man on earth would want to marry a fellow man in the form of a woman/wife? Nagging and climbing on the man and depriving him of peace of mind in the name of equality and feminism.

I am salivating right now.

Officialgarri:
I saw this video on the american chinese embassy official twitter handle yesterday. And it was a simple explanation of America's hypocrisy.

Only an asslicker and hypocrite will not agree with the narrative

So, Trump should make face-masks compulsory or what are you saying exactly pls? There has been reports that face-masks do not prevent the virus.

Any other leader would also not take the virus serious initially too when things were unclear. Did Buhari not refuse to ban flights when we had only the Italian case?

China has no right to mock people going through a problem they (China) started.

diplomat058:
As much as this is highly insensitive of the chinks, I dare say that Trump goofed in his pandemic response and that is almost turning America to a pitiable stock.

At the Onset, he diffused growing tensions by calling covid-19 a hoax. As a result of initial lack of political will, government containment efforts were lil and the pandemic spread exponentially. He later resorted to blaming China for alleged foul play, instead of understudying China containment strategies for possible replication to stem the trying times in America.

It is habitual of Trump to deflect criticisms by blaming opponents for almost everything, even his inability to pound his wife, Melania, ferociously would be blamed on the Democrats and their Chinese 'collaborators'

I am not a Trump fan, but any other leader would also not have taken the virus serious initially too. Nobody expected all these.

China is jealous and competing with the U.S and wishes to get ahead of the U.S; that says a lot.

China has no right to mock people suffering from a trouble they (China) started.

Baba should pay ex-coppers their arrears o We go need am o

DopeDrugDealer:
I really pity Simps, only them go through these mumu situations. Nothing beats being a sharp\jasi guy.

As in ehn...some men can be very dull and weak.

LilMissFavvy:
Welcome to Africa means what? A wife married to an uglyyy beefy Nigerian man is expected to be faithful and still find such a man attractive, yet men cannot stick to their wife. Is it a curse or something? Because I don't believe that it means Africn men have a higher libido, or special libido

Yes my sister. African men are more h.orny than their oyinbo counterparts.
So you didn't know?

ramzylipi:
After they don die finish, give people this small change on time and dont let them die. Haba, na wa o

I don't know what is wrong with them my brother.
Nobody knows when they will start paying into people's account. Everyday talk talk and the hunger intensifies.

Vikkie14:
The ability to talk doesn't make you intelligent.

Stop being tribalistic.

When those Nigerians were sent out of their houses, they didn't say only Igbos, or yorubas were sent out, but simply Nigerians and citizens of other African countries.

You have time to reply a chest-beating Igbo.

Your girl will f.uck a dude she likes for free. So, guy, look for the girl who really likes you too and is willing to allow you both knack for free, instead of wasting your money on a girl trying to keep her and let you knack even when she is enjoying the knacking too.