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IslamRe: What Have You Done To Improve Today?|Daily Reminders by Mofpearl: 6:22pm On Aug 12, 2017
Alennsar:
asalamualaykum sister pls check your mail
Wa alaykum salam wa rahmatullah wa barakatu
I have responded.
IslamRe: What Have You Done To Improve Today?|Daily Reminders by Mofpearl: 1:02pm On Aug 12, 2017
IslamRe: What Have You Done To Improve Today?|Daily Reminders by Mofpearl: 8:14am On Aug 10, 2017
Surah Inshiqaq

يَا أَيُّهَا الْإِنسَانُ إِنَّكَ كَادِحٌ إِلَىٰ رَبِّكَ كَدْحًا فَمُلَاقِيهِ - 84:6

O man! Verily, you are returning towards your Lord- with your deeds and actions (good or bad),- a sure returning, and you will meet (the results of your deeds which you did).

From my Quran

SAHIH INTERNATIONAL TRANSLATION.
O mankind, indeed you are laboring toward your Lord with [great] exertion and will meet it.

*surprised at the difference*
IslamRe: Etiquette Of Travelling For Women by Mofpearl: 7:30am On Aug 10, 2017
Jazakallahu Khyran sis for this timely reminder.

Also travelling with other women does not remove the need for a mahram.
FamilyRe: What Is The Most Annoying Punishment A Man Thinks He Can Give His Wife? by Mofpearl: 11:24am On Aug 07, 2017
Silence won't work. I see it as immature to keep malice after an argument. Like soo because of this small argument you are keeping malice shioor.

Beating ke? The marriage has pretty much ended. I trust myself to start planning my safe exist. The man will just come home one day and find the house empty.

Refusing food will anger me because wth. I spent a long time in the kitchen for you to refuse to eat? Just be ready to buy food from outside because I'll take a well deserved break from the kitchen. You can't start taking me for granted.

Leaving the house is something I can do if I feel the need to do, so I won't really care as long as you call me that you are alive np. Don't just get upset if I do the same.
FashionRe: Hair Care Regimen For Natural Hair by Mofpearl: 10:50am On Aug 07, 2017
jattbby:
thanks
by the way which grows faster
relaxed hair or natural
My hair grew much better and became healthier when I went natural. But I've also seen people with healthy and long relaxed hair.

Hair will grow at the same rate,breakage is what determines length retention.
HealthRe: Monday Weight Loss Motivation by Mofpearl: 10:49am On Aug 07, 2017
How does the tea work?
FashionRe: Hair Care Regimen For Natural Hair by Mofpearl: 10:43am On Aug 07, 2017
Taking care of natural hair isn't really hard.

Usually my hair regime is
-Moisturize hair as needed *seal with shea butter and oil*
- Condition once weekly
- Protein treatment or hot oil or deep conditioning treatment once a month.

- Sometimes I randomly trim my ends


*I need hair regime for hair in cornrows.
IslamRe: What Have You Done To Improve Today?|Daily Reminders by Mofpearl: 1:21am On Aug 07, 2017
I know this is coming late but today is Monday and it's sunnah to fast on Monday and Thursday.
IslamRe: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Mofpearl: 11:45pm On Aug 06, 2017
FriendNG:
Wa"aikumus Salam. Actually I dont know but I will check for you.
Okay np. Jazakallahu Khyran.

You don't have to check for me.

I don't want to bother you. I just wanted to know if you knew or recommended any.
IslamRe: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Mofpearl: 11:20pm On Aug 06, 2017
Salam alaykum @friendng

Do you know any app that I can use to back up and easily transfer contacts from an iphone to samsung?
IslamRe: Short Note From Mufti Menk On The Causes Of Stress by Mofpearl: 8:57pm On Aug 02, 2017
Nice read. I agree with him.
FamilyRe: Deleted by Mofpearl: 6:38pm On Aug 01, 2017
@Op

Describe your mood on a regular day?

When did you start feeling this way?

What do you see as the problem?

What makes you think/feel that others think you are 'crazy'? Did they say or do anything to make you feel that way?

You mentioned having suicidal thoughts.. on a scale of 0-5, (0 is least likely and 5 is most likely) how likely are you to carry out a suicide attempt? Have you ever tried that to kill yourself before?

I will echo the reasonable contributions made by others which is to see a counselor or psychiatrist. Coming to NL is a sign that you want help and I hope you are able to get that. Maybe posting in this thread might help
https://www.nairaland.com/3084060/burnt-out-no-where-turn
IslamRe: What Have You Done To Improve Today?|Daily Reminders by Mofpearl: 3:40pm On Aug 01, 2017
Alennsar:
wahaleikum salam sister. where have you been?
*thinking about how to answer the question without making it a long story*

I was a lil bit busy with preparing some things for university and I also sort of lost interest in the forum.

Thanks for asking/checking up on me sis.
Appreciate it. kiss
May Allah bless you
IslamRe: What Have You Done To Improve Today?|Daily Reminders by Mofpearl:
Shirkut Taha is pretty interesting and so is shirkul kahfi

IslamRe: What Have You Done To Improve Today?|Daily Reminders by Mofpearl: 1:24pm On Aug 01, 2017
[quote author=Alennsar post=58956311][/quote]Salam alaykum sis. I've responded to your email.
IslamRe: My Hijab Experience by Mofpearl: 3:55pm On Jul 23, 2017
Wearing a scarf made me realize that sometimes, changing old habits can be difficult but a lot of it has to do with ones’ self. One’s own thoughts and mindset. I am not denying that society makes it difficult to make changes, but sometimes we just need to be confident and brave enough to take those steps. After all, Allah said in the Qur’an that whoever gives up something for his sake, he would compensate him with something better.

Why does it matter what people say?

People will talk regardless of what a person does! I was neither created to serve nor please people. I was created only to serve and please the one who created me.The one who sustains me, because on that day when the earth has been crushed and mountains have become like a mirage, nothing will save me except his mercy.

Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“And I (Allaah) created not the jinn and mankind except that they should worship Me (Alone)”[al-Dhaariyaat 51:56].

It was reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “No one’s deeds will ever admit him to Paradise.”
They said, “Not even you, O Messenger of Allah?” He said, “No, not even me, unless Allah showers me with His Mercy. So try to be near to perfection. And no one should wish for death; he is either doing good so he will do more of that, or he is doing wrong so he may repent.” [al-Bukhari, Muslim]
IslamRe: My Hijab Experience by Mofpearl: 3:53pm On Jul 23, 2017
Honestly needed to reread this experience again.
IslamRe: Ten Points About Jamaa’at-ul-ikhwaan Al-muslimoon – Shaikh Ahmad Bin Yahyaa An-n by Mofpearl(op): 3:51pm On Jul 23, 2017
Alennsar:
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Salam alaykum

I sent you an email yesterday just to check on you.
IslamRe: What Have You Done To Improve Today?|Daily Reminders by Mofpearl: 5:26am On Jul 23, 2017
Feels like I haven't been updating this thread lately. Sometimes there are some things I want to share but I am not sure how to share them

لَهُ مُعَقِّبَاتٌ مِّن بَيْنِ يَدَيْهِ وَمِنْ خَلْفِهِ يَحْفَظُونَهُ مِنْ أَمْرِ اللَّهِ ۗ إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يُغَيِّرُ مَا بِقَوْمٍ حَتَّىٰ يُغَيِّرُوا مَا بِأَنفُسِهِمْ ۗ وَإِذَا أَرَادَ اللَّهُ بِقَوْمٍ سُوءًا فَلَا مَرَدَّ لَهُ ۚ وَمَا لَهُم مِّن دُونِهِ مِن وَالٍ - 13:11

For each one are successive [angels] before and behind him who protect him by the decree of Allah . Indeed, Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves. And when Allah intends for a people ill, there is no repelling it. And there is not for them besides Him any patron.
IslamRe: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Mofpearl: 4:46am On Jul 23, 2017
[s]
AlBaqir:
# Truth be told. The guy must be stupid. What kind of prayer is that in such a frenzy scene. You could see others staying aback. Only he dare the Israeli crazy soldiers and got kicked.[/s]
IslamRe: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Mofpearl:
1)Outside al-Aqsa Mosque compound
2) Modified a longer video shows those "standing behind" being harassed.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q_DQ0FqLAT8
IslamRe: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Mofpearl: 7:31pm On Jul 22, 2017
IslamRe: Islam For Muslims: Side Talk Station by Mofpearl: 7:25pm On Jul 22, 2017
IslamRe: What Do The Scholars Say? by Mofpearl:
IslamRe: What Do The Scholars Say? by Mofpearl: 7:35pm On Jul 21, 2017
Q: I wear niqaab and dress Saudi style. The problem is that our situation is difficult in our country. My friends say to me: So that you will not be stared at, you should wear niqaab and dress as Moroccan women do. The difference between the Saudi style and the Moroccan style is that the Moroccan jilbab shows the shoulders and I cannot uncover the shoulders. The Saudi abayah that goes over the head is more comfortable for me but the stares in the street bother me and they look scared of me. My question is: What should I do? I only want to wear the Saudi style.

Praise be to Allaah.
So long as the Moroccan style is covering and wide, and covers all the body, it is better for you to wear it, so that you will be like other righteous women in your country, and you will avoid wearing clothes that single you out and attract stares and may cause you harm unnecessarily.

You can wear a khimar on your head that will come down over your shoulders, and this will serve the purpose of covering the shoulders.

https://islamqa.info/en/91905
IslamRe: What Do The Scholars Say? by Mofpearl:
Well there are different types of Abayas. I will use the term jilbab to describe that the shayk is talking about.

I attached the pic of two of them. What the shaykh is talking about is like an open abaya/jilbab that slit in the middle and is worn from the head to cover the clothing. So a woman can wear skirt or trousers and then use the jilbab from the head. However because it's opened, one will need to be holding it if the cloth one is wearing beneath isn't covering because it exposes the clothes beneath. Abu Mussab in his lecture of proper hijab said a woman can wear a skirt, wear hijab (sown hijab) and use the open abaya/jilbab. He didn't mention needing to hold it because he said wear a plain skirt.

Pic 1 is abaya- from shoulders
Pic 2- Jilbab/open abaya from head. In the pic, the jilbab is being held otherwise it'll be open.

IslamRe: Being A Full Hijabite Plus A Footballer, Outter The Fold Of Islam? by Mofpearl: 3:50pm On Jul 21, 2017
@Empiree that is very low of you and it's cheap red herring.

Stop putting words in her mouth and stop trying to twist her words.


@Mariinee
I doff my hat for you ma'am.
You acknowledged the truth. May Allah make it easy for you to practice it. Ameen.
IslamRe: Being A Full Hijabite Plus A Footballer, Outter The Fold Of Islam? by Mofpearl: 3:23pm On Jul 21, 2017
[s]
Empiree:
don't you think you played yourself? . Did you read before posting? . Why did you put yourself before Allah and His messanger?.

Can you provide proof from sahaba, tabi'n and ijma of scholars deeming football as Haram?.

If you can't, know that you are trying to make what has not been classified Haram. Show me ijma or be quiet
[/s]
IslamRe: Tajweed by Mofpearl: 2:19pm On Jul 21, 2017
Thought it might be beneficial to post this here.

www.houseofquran.com has a memorization program.

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