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Alennsar:Wa alaykum salam wa rahmatullah wa barakatu I have responded. |
Surah Inshiqaq يَا أَيُّهَا الْإِنسَانُ إِنَّكَ كَادِحٌ إِلَىٰ رَبِّكَ كَدْحًا فَمُلَاقِيهِ - 84:6 O man! Verily, you are returning towards your Lord- with your deeds and actions (good or bad),- a sure returning, and you will meet (the results of your deeds which you did). From my Quran SAHIH INTERNATIONAL TRANSLATION. O mankind, indeed you are laboring toward your Lord with [great] exertion and will meet it. *surprised at the difference* |
Jazakallahu Khyran sis for this timely reminder. Also travelling with other women does not remove the need for a mahram. |
Silence won't work. I see it as immature to keep malice after an argument. Like soo because of this small argument you are keeping malice shioor. Beating ke? The marriage has pretty much ended. I trust myself to start planning my safe exist. The man will just come home one day and find the house empty. Refusing food will anger me because wth. I spent a long time in the kitchen for you to refuse to eat? Just be ready to buy food from outside because I'll take a well deserved break from the kitchen. You can't start taking me for granted. Leaving the house is something I can do if I feel the need to do, so I won't really care as long as you call me that you are alive np. Don't just get upset if I do the same. |
jattbby:My hair grew much better and became healthier when I went natural. But I've also seen people with healthy and long relaxed hair. Hair will grow at the same rate,breakage is what determines length retention. |
How does the tea work? |
Taking care of natural hair isn't really hard. Usually my hair regime is -Moisturize hair as needed *seal with shea butter and oil* - Condition once weekly - Protein treatment or hot oil or deep conditioning treatment once a month. - Sometimes I randomly trim my ends *I need hair regime for hair in cornrows. |
I know this is coming late but today is Monday and it's sunnah to fast on Monday and Thursday. |
FriendNG:Okay np. Jazakallahu Khyran. You don't have to check for me. I don't want to bother you. I just wanted to know if you knew or recommended any. |
Salam alaykum @friendng Do you know any app that I can use to back up and easily transfer contacts from an iphone to samsung? |
Nice read. I agree with him. |
@Op Describe your mood on a regular day? When did you start feeling this way? What do you see as the problem? What makes you think/feel that others think you are 'crazy'? Did they say or do anything to make you feel that way? You mentioned having suicidal thoughts.. on a scale of 0-5, (0 is least likely and 5 is most likely) how likely are you to carry out a suicide attempt? Have you ever tried that to kill yourself before? I will echo the reasonable contributions made by others which is to see a counselor or psychiatrist. Coming to NL is a sign that you want help and I hope you are able to get that. Maybe posting in this thread might help https://www.nairaland.com/3084060/burnt-out-no-where-turn |
Alennsar:*thinking about how to answer the question without making it a long story* I was a lil bit busy with preparing some things for university and I also sort of lost interest in the forum. Thanks for asking/checking up on me sis. Appreciate it. May Allah bless you |
Shirkut Taha is pretty interesting and so is shirkul kahfi
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[quote author=Alennsar post=58956311][/quote]Salam alaykum sis. I've responded to your email. |
Wearing a scarf made me realize that sometimes, changing old habits can be difficult but a lot of it has to do with ones’ self. One’s own thoughts and mindset. I am not denying that society makes it difficult to make changes, but sometimes we just need to be confident and brave enough to take those steps. After all, Allah said in the Qur’an that whoever gives up something for his sake, he would compensate him with something better. |
Honestly needed to reread this experience again. |
Feels like I haven't been updating this thread lately. Sometimes there are some things I want to share but I am not sure how to share them لَهُ مُعَقِّبَاتٌ مِّن بَيْنِ يَدَيْهِ وَمِنْ خَلْفِهِ يَحْفَظُونَهُ مِنْ أَمْرِ اللَّهِ ۗ إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يُغَيِّرُ مَا بِقَوْمٍ حَتَّىٰ يُغَيِّرُوا مَا بِأَنفُسِهِمْ ۗ وَإِذَا أَرَادَ اللَّهُ بِقَوْمٍ سُوءًا فَلَا مَرَدَّ لَهُ ۚ وَمَا لَهُم مِّن دُونِهِ مِن وَالٍ - 13:11 For each one are successive [angels] before and behind him who protect him by the decree of Allah . Indeed, Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves. And when Allah intends for a people ill, there is no repelling it. And there is not for them besides Him any patron. |
[s] AlBaqir: |
1)Outside al-Aqsa Mosque compound 2) Modified a longer video shows those "standing behind" being harassed. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q_DQ0FqLAT8 |
Q: I wear niqaab and dress Saudi style. The problem is that our situation is difficult in our country. My friends say to me: So that you will not be stared at, you should wear niqaab and dress as Moroccan women do. The difference between the Saudi style and the Moroccan style is that the Moroccan jilbab shows the shoulders and I cannot uncover the shoulders. The Saudi abayah that goes over the head is more comfortable for me but the stares in the street bother me and they look scared of me. My question is: What should I do? I only want to wear the Saudi style. Praise be to Allaah. So long as the Moroccan style is covering and wide, and covers all the body, it is better for you to wear it, so that you will be like other righteous women in your country, and you will avoid wearing clothes that single you out and attract stares and may cause you harm unnecessarily. You can wear a khimar on your head that will come down over your shoulders, and this will serve the purpose of covering the shoulders. https://islamqa.info/en/91905 |
Well there are different types of Abayas. I will use the term jilbab to describe that the shayk is talking about. I attached the pic of two of them. What the shaykh is talking about is like an open abaya/jilbab that slit in the middle and is worn from the head to cover the clothing. So a woman can wear skirt or trousers and then use the jilbab from the head. However because it's opened, one will need to be holding it if the cloth one is wearing beneath isn't covering because it exposes the clothes beneath. Abu Mussab in his lecture of proper hijab said a woman can wear a skirt, wear hijab (sown hijab) and use the open abaya/jilbab. He didn't mention needing to hold it because he said wear a plain skirt. Pic 1 is abaya- from shoulders Pic 2- Jilbab/open abaya from head. In the pic, the jilbab is being held otherwise it'll be open.
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@Empiree that is very low of you and it's cheap red herring. Stop putting words in her mouth and stop trying to twist her words. @Mariinee I doff my hat for you ma'am. You acknowledged the truth. May Allah make it easy for you to practice it. Ameen. |
[s] Empiree:[/s] |